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Do you tell your kids?

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

What are your opinions on telling your kids you like the kinkier side of life? Obviously I'm talking about when kids are older/ grown-up. I saw a documentary a while ago and the couple held sex parties in their house and their older children helped out, which I thought was pretty cool but wondered how many of us are that open in reality??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG why would they need or want to know ?

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"OMG why would they need or want to know ? "

They could be old enough to be on here bud not everyone's as young as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the helping out with sex parties bit a little odd.

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop "

I am with mine but I can't see myself offering the info but I'm not sure how I'd react to a direct question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would not want to know and more importantly, we would not want to tell them..this is our private lifes not theirs

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I find the helping out with sex parties bit a little odd."

Haha I could have explained better, they were helping make the beds and sort the food out beforehand... they were long gone by the time guests arrived I think but they knew what the party was. They were uni age.

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"OMG why would they need or want to know ?

They could be old enough to be on here bud not everyone's as young as you "

imagine seeing your kids here

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop "

Ermmm.... think that ship has left the harbour my dear . Unless he thinks he came into the world by magic

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop

Ermmm.... think that ship has left the harbour my dear . Unless he thinks he came into the world by magic "

She only did it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's none of their business. Any more than their sex life is mine if they are of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want to know. And due to that, I’d not tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er, no. My daughter squirms at the thought of me kissing someone, nevermind anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you imagin your own mother asking you. do you mind handing a few drinks and condoms around at the gangbang on friday son? Ill do roast for you sunday

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Uhm no? Why would they need to know??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop

Ermmm.... think that ship has left the harbour my dear . Unless he thinks he came into the world by magic

She only did it once "

. He was delivered by stork

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop

Ermmm.... think that ship has left the harbour my dear . Unless he thinks he came into the world by magic

She only did it once

. He was delivered by stork "

I wish I'd gone for that option, no morning sickness and pain free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our sex life is none of our childrens business,nor theirs ours.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

I can't imagine discussing my vanilla sex life with my child when they're older, never mind tis side of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel the need to discuss my sex life with anyone other than those involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't picture anything worse than telling my kids about my sex life. Thats why I like to make videos so I won't have to

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I couldn't picture anything worse than telling my kids about my sex life. Thats why I like to make videos so I won't have to"

So they find them when clearing out your loft????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't picture anything worse than telling my kids about my sex life. Thats why I like to make videos so I won't have to

So they find them when clearing out your loft???? "

Exactly, no awkward conversion for this Daddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it’s our sex life not there’s at all

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't discuss our sex life full stop

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I couldn't picture anything worse than telling my kids about my sex life. Thats why I like to make videos so I won't have to

So they find them when clearing out your loft????

Exactly, no awkward conversion for this Daddy!"

Father of the year

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I find the helping out with sex parties bit a little odd."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do lots of people discuss their sex lives with their kids then . Def not the kinkier side of it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No. I wouldn’t tell them about my sex life full stop, no matter what I was into. I used to think my parents didn’t have sex after I was born and I was happy with that thought. No need to discuss it

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've not told ours - but they've both worked it out. They're both over 21 & have been in our bedroom. We don't hide anything from them, but we don't make it too obvious either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we don't tell our kids. In my opinion our marriage and sex life is nothing to do with our kids it's a separate thing from our relationship with them and the same applies the other way with one exception. We don't hide from them, we have whips, paddles and floggers hanging on our bedroom door and a bookcase with erotic books but we don't share details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your opinions on telling your kids you like the kinkier side of life? Obviously I'm talking about when kids are older/ grown-up. I saw a documentary a while ago and the couple held sex parties in their house and their older children helped out, which I thought was pretty cool but wondered how many of us are that open in reality??"

Not a chance I would volunteer. But if she asked or found out I would discuss it at a level I was comfortable with. Which would mean everything except sexual details

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We've not told ours - but they've both worked it out. They're both over 21 & have been in our bedroom. We don't hide anything from them, but we don't make it too obvious either."

I think this will be the sort of scenario in our family

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By *ove3fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"What are your opinions on telling your kids you like the kinkier side of life? Obviously I'm talking about when kids are older/ grown-up. I saw a documentary a while ago and the couple held sex parties in their house and their older children helped out, which I thought was pretty cool but wondered how many of us are that open in reality??

Not a chance I would volunteer. But if she asked or found out I would discuss it at a level I was comfortable with. Which would mean everything except sexual details

"

Lol yeh definitely no details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Just go help John and Jane with the sex swing would you dear”

Nah...can’t see that being a thing. Different folks I suppose.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"No chance, I'm open with my son, but I don't want him knowing that I have sex full stop

Ermmm.... think that ship has left the harbour my dear . Unless he thinks he came into the world by magic "

Or came out from below a hen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this program it was the radletts swinging party wasn’t it! I thought it was a bit strange to involve them!!

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