FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Advice

By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

99% of those that ask for advice never act upon it..I think that automatically shows the kind of people they are personality wise and imagination wise too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, how can I improve my profile?

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"Attention? "

Possibly so, but why not just take some of the positive advice that many people give, then just have a laugh on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, how can I improve my profile?"

David Attenborough is old news. Rewrite it Brian Blessed style!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

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you're getting on a bit too many veris and the pics omg I'm going to have nightmares

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"So, how can I improve my profile?"

Make me a cup of tea and I'll tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, how can I improve my profile?

David Attenborough is old news. Rewrite it Brian Blessed style! "

David Attenborough will never be old news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, how can I improve my profile?

Make me a cup of tea and I'll tell you

I'll pop the kettle on

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"So, how can I improve my profile?

David Attenborough is old news. Rewrite it Brian Blessed style! "

THERE WILL BE NO SHOUTING ON THIS THREAD!!!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"So, how can I improve my profile?

Make me a cup of tea and I'll tell you

I'll pop the kettle on"

Excellent, I'll pop round in a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

99% of those that ask for advice never act upon it..I think that automatically shows the kind of people they are personality wise and imagination wise too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy.

Bored.

Lazy.

Attention.

But while we are on the subject can I get some advice on mine please?

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"Lazy.

Bored.

Lazy.

Attention.

But while we are on the subject can I get some advice on mine please?

Yeah it looks fine to me, but just cut the foreplay bit out, then the job's a good'un

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why is it always men that ask

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

like a few just want advice from like only women then gives abuse to anyone that gives them advice which is very childish

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"And why is it always men that ask

because quite a few men on here think they are entitled and are insecure

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice"

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"And why is it always men that ask

It's not always men.. mainly men yep.. I've seen threads from couple's.. and I'd guess there'd be single ladies periodically asking as well.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored. "

A lot is humiliating the person asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

A lot is humiliating the person asking"

Well it's hard to educate Stupid.

Perhaps we should slap it out of them instead?

*disclaimer- I am not promoting physical violence- it's called sarcasm.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

What about like backwards comments like “Oh don’t you look a odd mix or weird”

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

A lot is humiliating the person asking

Well it's hard to educate Stupid.

Perhaps we should slap it out of them instead?

*disclaimer- I am not promoting physical violence- it's called sarcasm."

Sarcasm should be listed as a preference then

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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"What about like backwards comments like “Oh don’t you look a odd mix or weird”"

I think you're missing the point here, I was on about people who ask for advice, and then after receiving positive feedback choose to ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they want to be successful

naively, many believe the solution lies with us not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

Who’d have thought it, members asking for advice on a forum. How very dare they

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice "

" Well it's hard to educate Stupid. "

A little bit unfair..

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"What about like backwards comments like “Oh don’t you look a odd mix or weird”

I think you're missing the point here, I was on about people who ask for advice, and then after receiving positive feedback choose to ignore it

Sorry yeah

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

A lot is humiliating the person asking

Well it's hard to educate Stupid.

Case proved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get fed up of people who ask about it, mostly the OP totally ignores any good tips, or goes unlos not too long later.

Why do they bother

*deletes "profile advice" thread and continues with lonely existence*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#youknowwhoyouare"
who me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#youknowwhoyouare who me? "

Can you take it in the ass while listening to Celine Dion?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think without being warned, no one knows how difficult Fab can be. For men, not getting a reply. For women, working out how to wade through it all.

I imagine that the average guy doesn't have to work anywhere near this hard on most sites, and the average woman gets more attention on Fab in a day than in a year elsewhere. For the former, it's probably bewildering. For the latter, sometimes it's hard to come up for air (and you get attention at first no matter what you do).

I think there are a subset of people here who expect to exist and have offers of sex coming out of their ears. Others are disheartened by the advice given. Those may not take the advice, or they might leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#youknowwhoyouare who me?

Can you take it in the ass while listening to Celine Dion?"
Celine Dion is a bit of a stretch!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

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#youknowwhoyouare who me? "

No, I think he has a thing going on with Mr Impala

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

A lot is humiliating the person asking

Well it's hard to educate Stupid.

Case proved

Taken out of context.

Tut Tut Rugby!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It's basically the same as someone walking up to you in town and asking directions to somewhere, then they walk off in the opposite direction

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"They don't have to take the advice, they might decide it is rubbish advice

Yeah, but most of the time it's generally good advice, I have tried to help many people on their "Will fill in later" profiles, only for every positive comment to be totally ignored.

A lot is humiliating the person asking

Well it's hard to educate Stupid.

Case proved

Taken out of context.

Tut Tut Rugby!

I am not sure how, it was what you wrote

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"It's basically the same as someone walking up to you in town and asking directions to somewhere, then they walk off in the opposite direction

So a question, why do you think advice has to be taken if someone didn't agree with the advice or thought it was wrong? Who decides the advice is right and why is a person not allowed to ignore it if they don't like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's basically the same as someone walking up to you in town and asking directions to somewhere, then they walk off in the opposite direction

I do agree.

Advice is just that, you’re advsing someone on how you *think* they could better their profile. It doesn’t actually mean they have to take you up on it.

There are a lot of guys on here who ask for advice on their profiles and equally a lot who don’t take any of the advice on. But they know best, and they can use this site as they see fit!

I don’t mind giving people advice, whether they take it or not is their choice & it doesn’t bother me either way as that same advice may help someone else.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I agree

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