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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yay or nay?

Pros and cons?

Asking for a friend

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Yay...

Pro-you get laid

Con-two people now want your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yay...

Pro-you get laid

Con-two people now want your attention "

Haha, I’d agree with this

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, it's my go to solution I'm afraid!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Yay...

Pro-you get laid

Con-two people now want your attention

Haha, I’d agree with this"

perfect

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Pro-you get even

Con-gets used against you at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends why you're doing it.

For yourself - Yay

For revenge or out of spite - Nay

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, it's not revenge...

Pro - you feel better and forget the schmuck, yay!!!

Con - choose the recipient wisely to avoid later regrets lol!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Depends why you're doing it.

For yourself - Yay

For revenge or out of spite - Nay"

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Sure. Sex is well known for creating happy chemicals within us. Feeing good is always going to help your state of mind. Sex is a great way to get over a hump so to speak. Just make sure the person you’re having the rebound with isn’t pally with the last one. We don’t need it to be a catalyst for more angst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if the sex isn’t as good as the person you’ve just finished with? Couldn’t that cause second thoughts?

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"But what if the sex isn’t as good as the person you’ve just finished with? Couldn’t that cause second thoughts?"

Rinse and repeat with new victim

I mean meet

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It was just what the doctor ordered after I split from my ex wife. It boosted my confidence and reminded me that I am desirable and made me feel good about my self again. Helped me to move forward and see an exciting life ahead after my ex. Today I have a great sex life and met the most amazing woman. I consider the rebound sex on that d*unken Christmas night out the very first step of my bounce back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, it's not revenge...

Pro - you feel better and forget the schmuck, yay!!!

Con - choose the recipient wisely to avoid later regrets lol!"

I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, it's my go to solution I'm afraid!

Sadly me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But what if the sex isn’t as good as the person you’ve just finished with? Couldn’t that cause second thoughts?"

Sex with the ex used to be amazing but fizzled out of late...several reasons I won't go into...but "second thoughts" aren't really an option...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But what if the sex isn’t as good as the person you’ve just finished with? Couldn’t that cause second thoughts?

Rinse and repeat with new victim

I mean meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for me!

I’ve had no strings rebound sex before and it was amazing. Gives you something to block out all the shit from the crap relationship bullshit you’re dealing with!

And an orgasm (or two) is just the best thing releasing all those endorphins which boost your mood!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It was just what the doctor ordered after I split from my ex wife. It boosted my confidence and reminded me that I am desirable and made me feel good about my self again. Helped me to move forward and see an exciting life ahead after my ex. Today I have a great sex life and met the most amazing woman. I consider the rebound sex on that d*unken Christmas night out the very first step of my bounce back."

Thanks for your input...yeah, I hear you....and I think it's time to let my hair down

watch this space lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Works for me!

I’ve had no strings rebound sex before and it was amazing. Gives you something to block out all the shit from the crap relationship bullshit you’re dealing with!

And an orgasm (or two) is just the best thing releasing all those endorphins which boost your mood! "

Ride on sister x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than chocolate!...though all might not agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, it would make me feel worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always say nay as it would just make me feel worthless. Much rather wait and have sex with someone who makes me feel amazing

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Pros-you get to have sex while thinking "haha look at me getting laid, sucker"

Cons-it's usually shit sex and you feel shit either during or after.

Been there, done that.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Can't do that

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone new lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal choice would be to have the rebound sex, at the very least it'll take your mind off the ex. And as a few have already pointed out, it'll boost your endorphins and put you in a much better mood with the added benefit of an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros - can be a slight distraction

Cons - Makes a bigger mess of everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redemptive,

and I'm happy to offer my services to anyone wanting to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it twice.

1st Time - I wasn’t expecting that.

2nd time - wasn’t really - but only takes one match.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Pro - orgasms

Con - adding to that body count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends why you're doing it.

For yourself - Yay

For revenge or out of spite - Nay"

Agreed.

What if it works out and years later the other person finds out they were actually rebound sex!!!!!

. Not a nice way to start a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what if after coming out of a long marriage and you were rebounding from the hurt and decided All you wanted was a bit of fun and found someone in the same position but you both fell in love... sometimes shit like that happens!

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

If it was years later how can you be bothered you was a rebound ?

Is it a rebound if it ends up a relationship ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had rebound sex. I just go celibate for a while, until I'm ready to move on.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've done it before after breakups, only drama is when the person you've had rebound sex with starts getting clingy afterwards which is the last thing you want when you've just come out of a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had rebound sex. I just go celibate for a while, until I'm ready to move on. "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends why you're doing it.

For yourself - Yay

For revenge or out of spite - Nay

Agreed.

What if it works out and years later the other person finds out they were actually rebound sex!!!!!

. Not a nice way to start a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup its a fantastic idea

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Yay...

Pro-you get laid

Con-two people now want your attention "

Never thought of this but that’s made me smile and totally changed my opinion all at the same time!

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