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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Any ideas how to get the couples n ladies intrested as lost my touch it seems lol . Bald is not beautiful im feeling

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Out of some age ranges now I'm afraid.

Also, think about the impression your pics give as to what to expect from a meet.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Out of some age ranges now I'm afraid.

Also, think about the impression your pics give as to what to expect from a meet."

Havnt really got classy ones tbh ....im just an ugly duckling lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think peachy hit the nail on the head hun

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Out of some age ranges now I'm afraid.

Also, think about the impression your pics give as to what to expect from a meet.

Havnt really got classy ones tbh ....im just an ugly duckling lol x"

No, what I'm trying to say is, looking at your pics I instantly (rightly or wrongly) think you'd want me to rim you if we met, because there are various different running pics.

For those that enjoy it then superb, for others that don't it may put them off. It may not be a deal breaker for you, but having multiple pics of the same act kinda puts emphasis on it, and that it's important to you.

Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age and looks are everything on here as long your not over 40 loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of some age ranges now I'm afraid.

Also, think about the impression your pics give as to what to expect from a meet.

Havnt really got classy ones tbh ....im just an ugly duckling lol x

No, what I'm trying to say is, looking at your pics I instantly (rightly or wrongly) think you'd want me to rim you if we met, because there are various different running pics.

For those that enjoy it then superb, for others that don't it may put them off. It may not be a deal breaker for you, but having multiple pics of the same act kinda puts emphasis on it, and that it's important to you.

Hope that makes sense."

I agree.

The photos are pretty graphic.

I’m someone who enjoys rimming both ways but the photos you have up now OP would put me off to be honest.

You’re not an ugly duckling and I’m are a few photos of just you, clothed or not would go down well on here.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Tbh they was only up for a few minutes . So iv removed it again lol x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"age and looks are everything on here as long your not over 40 loll"

Exactly lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I'm not sure where paid came from! A lady not paid lady!!! Apologies

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?"

Yup shes a f.buddy and cool with it . Its a swinging site so having sex photos on fabs is quite normal ya know lol

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Middle aged my preference nowadays though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d recommend putting the action shots in your friends gallery and doing a few up to date versions of your last pic and some semi naked body shots.

It is a sex site but seeing your ladies arse as the first thing on your gallery is just a bit tmi over my late night cheese and crackers.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?

Yup shes a f.buddy and cool with it . Its a swinging site so having sex photos on fabs is quite normal ya know lol "

But if you were to send me a message, I wouldn't know that. I find male profiles whose pictures are mostly women off putting, to the point where it might be the reason I delete a message.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?

Yup shes a f.buddy and cool with it . Its a swinging site so having sex photos on fabs is quite normal ya know lol "

We only have your word for that.

I'd rather see more of you.

Yes I appreciate it's a swinging site, doesn't mean I want to see action pics featuring anyone other than the profile holder.

Even swingers like a little discretion.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?

Yup shes a f.buddy and cool with it . Its a swinging site so having sex photos on fabs is quite normal ya know lol

But if you were to send me a message, I wouldn't know that. I find male profiles whose pictures are mostly women off putting, to the point where it might be the reason I delete a message. "

Intresting to know . But couples like to see an experienced guy via photos so iv been told . So everyone different on that note

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Any interest we might have would be wiped out by the fact you have paid lady in your pics yet it's a single male profile. Sorry, does she know she's the star of your profile pics?

Yup shes a f.buddy and cool with it . Its a swinging site so having sex photos on fabs is quite normal ya know lol

But if you were to send me a message, I wouldn't know that. I find male profiles whose pictures are mostly women off putting, to the point where it might be the reason I delete a message.

Intresting to know . But couples like to see an experienced guy via photos so iv been told . So everyone different on that note "

Maybe keep them private and share them once you have established a connection?

As I said, even swingers like some discretion.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Yea iv done that before . Unless your a david beckham lookalike it dont get you very far i think

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes I prefer to see just the guy personally or just one action shot,I don't really want to see who you last had sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the pics. Everyone knows what sex looks like on a picture, we dont know what you look like though.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Changed ...anybetter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed ...anybetter "

Pics still aren’t my cup of tea at all. However, if you feel that they best represent you, keep them up. You won’t please everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed ...anybetter

Pics still aren’t my cup of tea at all. However, if you feel that they best represent you, keep them up. You won’t please everyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed ...anybetter

Pics still aren’t my cup of tea at all. However, if you feel that they best represent you, keep them up. You won’t please everyone. "

I was about to say much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed ...anybetter

Pics still aren’t my cup of tea at all. However, if you feel that they best represent you, keep them up. You won’t please everyone.

I was about to say much better "

I didn’t see them before

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like bald men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of some age ranges now I'm afraid.

Also, think about the impression your pics give as to what to expect from a meet."

yep

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I like bald men "

I like you !-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I prefer to see just the guy personally or just one action shot,I don't really want to see who you last had sex with. "

Yup, this.

I would also suggest putting a recent solo pic up, so that's the first pic that is seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing balls and pussy as the first pic would put me right off tbh.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Seeing balls and pussy as the first pic would put me right off tbh. "

So if i rem9ve that will that get me a little visit to you in south east london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ideas how to get the couples n ladies intrested as lost my touch it seems lol . Bald is not beautiful im feeling "

Just remember OP,that taking advice from people only works if that's the type of people you want to meet. We will never appeal or please all. If you want to meet people who like rimming then that's your targeted audience . Lexi

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Yup im a big rimming fan ....but il keep that discreet now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's listed in your interests anyway

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"It's listed in your interests anyway"

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's listed in your interests anyway

Exactly x"

Me personally would keep the rimming pictures or picture to friends and pp only. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be well over the hill then.

There are lots of men over 40 who do extremely well here. Maybe look for those of a similar age.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I must be well over the hill then.

There are lots of men over 40 who do extremely well here. Maybe look for those of a similar age. "

I do

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The other thing is OP - your newest pic is well over a year old - maybe add some new ones? A lot can change in a year.

Whilst age will be a factor - there are plenty that *do* look for people over 40 or in my case over 50 (!!) - you just have to make your profile as appealing as possible and keep it fresh

You can get some great results with a phone camera in timer mode too - just need a little creativity and imagination or failing that look around at other guys profiles for inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think your ugly ...bald men are attractive in my eyes .

You know if you ask for an opinion on here you ll get it so listen to the advice given ,good luck x

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"...just need a little creativity and imagination or failing that look around at other guys profiles for inspiration."

My advice would be to rip a t shirt or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How small is your house if you can't fit 3 people in?

That might put people off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...just need a little creativity and imagination or failing that look around at other guys profiles for inspiration.

My advice would be to rip a t shirt or two "

I have a tshirt you can rip

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"How small is your house if you can't fit 3 people in?

That might put people off..."

Yea i know ... just how it is tbh

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"...just need a little creativity and imagination or failing that look around at other guys profiles for inspiration.

My advice would be to rip a t shirt or two

I have a tshirt you can rip "

You do?

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Nope still no messages from a hot lady ...il keep waiting  x

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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