FabSwingers.com forum: How to make a lady squirt

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always try my best to finger a lady but can neva get her to gush. Any1 knw how to. My gf says she dont knw how to. And wen I finger her har she say to me to stop cuz it feels like shes guna wee and it hurts x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Wickes DIY do a special kit I believe...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Kitchen sink, hot water, a few dishes and cutlery.

Oh and Fairy Liquid.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Gushing is not important to enjoying sex. Respond to her body movements. If she shows she likes something keep doing it.

Don't make gushing the focus. Make her, you and enjoying what does happen the focus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol u taking the piss beautiful x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Gushing is not important to enjoying sex. Respond to her body movements. If she shows she likes something keep doing it.

Don't make gushing the focus. Make her, you and enjoying what does happen the focus. "

Oi!!!....you have taken that straight from the Wickes manual...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea I know we have amazing sex. But its just my fantasy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is an art to it lol. sam loves to squirt and has did 6 and 7 times in the one night with me keeping her happy with my fingers. and then the main 1 to keep her very happy.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

diamonds,although eventually you may find,she's not squirting.

she's just pissing down your leg.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

1. Place a hot water bottle, part full of cool water on the bed.

2. Slowly lay your woman down on the bed. The ten-pin bowling bowl grip is optional.

3. Stand back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol how have I x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

it will happen or it wont fella..

if you try and force it you may put her under pressure to 'perform'..

she may be self conscious about letting go..

takes some women years, other less..

patience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite me round and i will give you a lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never gushed or squirted until my present GF got her mitts on me. It happened unexpectedly. I felt like I was going to wet myself too, but I didn't, although I did make a bit of a mess. The key for me was to be very, very relaxed AND turned on. I felt comfortable enough to 'let go' and it was pretty amazing. It was never planned, it just happened. As for the precise technique, I can't say.

Not sure if that is of any help, but the main thing is that you don't set out with an agenda. I _iew it as a super addition to already great sex. It's not the be all and end all.

Hippo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

squirted, or rather gushed, for the first time only once with my ex about 20 back I would say but did not know what it was at the time and was a little embarrassed.

More recently, experimented on my own and found out how to make myself gush. Does not happen very often with others but can always make it happen myself if I wish.

You do need to be fully relaxed and that's maybe why it tends to happen when I am playing about.

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By *ay78Man
over a year ago

manchester

I can do it most times with my fingers on women. needs a bit of practice tho. There is a great video on youtube, just search for squirting orgasms and enjoy!.....

be prepared for a very wet bed, lol

I cant believe how far it squirts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it will happen or it wont fella..

if you try and force it you may put her under pressure to 'perform'..

she may be self conscious about letting go..

takes some women years, other less..

patience.."

bloody timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its possible..... (my tongue has never been more firmly in my cheek)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fb is great at it! Maybe he can give u a lesson! But saying that it's don't happen all the time!

U have to go with the need to pee feeling, just after, it cums! Lol, no pun intended!

! If I am thirsty, I can't do it so much though, drinking plenty of water before a meet has helped, relax and go with the flow I would say! Whoops there I go again xx

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By *teborahCouple
over a year ago

warrington

Fetch her round here! it's a piece of piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all about relaxing and enjoying sex with no pressure. i can gush but only with certain meets others cant hit the spot.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

get her to drink 2 pints of water

squeeze her tummy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get her to drink 2 pints of water

squeeze her tummy....

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i have been known on (rare) occasions to gush.

but i do get very fed up with messages in my inbox TELLING me that they'll make me squirt. if it happens it happens, there are so many fun things we could get up to on a meet instead of feeling like i'm at the gynacologists getting the plumbing checked!

why are some men so fixated on this, to the exclusion of everything else??

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Don't try and copy how they do it in the porn you watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get her to drink 2 pints of water

squeeze her tummy....

PMSL!!!.... ooooohhhhhh! I've just squirted for the very first time and we haven't even met.

Thanks View, you are a very skilled man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fisting make me gush like a river .

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"fisting make me gush like a river .

love fisting but it takes sooooo long to get there

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

" why are some men so fixated on this, to the exclusion of everything else?? "

insecurity maybe?

it seems to have become for some the new 'money shot' and a link has been made to squirting = satisfaction = i am a good lover..

or the denigration of women in general as shown by the porn industry, whereby some males think that sex is just about squirting?

..think i may be talking bollocks again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men do seem to be fixated on this.

If a man messages me telling me he will make me squirt I would delete his message with no response.

If a man tries to push down on the outside of my pubic area whilst fingering vigorously, thereby pressing down on the bladder, then I stop him.

I have no wish to gush, squirt or take part in any watersports whatsoever. Gushing /squirting is not an orgasm, so why men think that this is a great achievement I will never know.

A man who makes me orgasm - great. A man who presses down on my bladder - go and brush up on your sex skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make myself squirt all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men do seem to be fixated on this.

If a man messages me telling me he will make me squirt I would delete his message with no response.

If a man tries to push down on the outside of my pubic area whilst fingering vigorously, thereby pressing down on the bladder, then I stop him.

I have no wish to gush, squirt or take part in any watersports whatsoever. Gushing /squirting is not an orgasm, so why men think that this is a great achievement I will never know.

A man who makes me orgasm - great. A man who presses down on my bladder - go and brush up on your sex skills

That's summed it up for me

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By *ess von teaseWoman
over a year ago

perth

there cant be a vid for this on you tube:O they wouldnt have anything liek that on there:Ox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fisting make me gush like a river .

Me toooooooo! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are some things which guys get a bit 'hung up' on, and gushing/squirting does seem to be 1/2 of them.

Personally, if in the course of events a lady makes known that she enjoys it, then I'll do my best to further her enjoyment, but I don't see it as being a big deal.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

its great but i would rather have an orgasm any day

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Taking a sharp razor blade to the carotid artery will make absolutely any woman gush... and then collapse.

Is that what we're talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why are some men so fixated on this, to the exclusion of everything else??

insecurity maybe?

it seems to have become for some the new 'money shot' and a link has been made to squirting = satisfaction = i am a good lover..

or the denigration of women in general as shown by the porn industry, whereby some males think that sex is just about squirting?

..think i may be talking bollocks again lol"

nowt wrong with that, we should talk more bollox instead of always talking about womens body parts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can do it most times with my fingers on women. needs a bit of practice tho. There is a great video on youtube, just search for squirting orgasms and enjoy!.....

be prepared for a very wet bed, lol

I cant believe how far it squirts! "

well on the few occasions when I have gushed it has been no more than an eggcupfull or so.

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