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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If the person you loved changed sex, not through choice or by undergoing surgery, it just happened naturally by a quirk of nature would you "turn gay" for them?

This is mostly aimed at straight people but I guess there are implications for bisexuals too.

Lets assume it happened slowly and was a gradual change. Could you adapt? Bearing in mind they are the love of your life.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Sure.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

I’d just still love and care as I always had. Labels mean nothing.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

It would not bother me as he would still be the same person.

I would probably look for guys to play instead of ladies though

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!! "

Hi there

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if he still has muscles a penis and a hairy chest

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

no I wouldn't even try to adapt it for a second forget the rest of my life

so a big fat no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I think most people would adapt, or at least try too.

I think if you’re not bothering to try, you haven’t been in love (just my opinion don’t get mad)

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

I would stuggle to stop loving anyone i was in love with to be honest .... unless they were cruel or evil .

to be in love and be loved is the ultimate gift but I'm a little too old school perhaps

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I've just started... started mind...to read this out to Mr and he literally jumped away from me that's a no then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My initial response that I'm not attracted sexually to men or the male form,so it would hard to complete a full relationship?

But if you've known that person as the sex you were attracted to, and despite them changing, would you still correlate them to still being that?

Crikey I dint think I can answer it without it happening but right now I dint fancy sucking my girlfriend's cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say no for me. My close mates are more like brothers to me, I love them but don't want to sleep with them. So the same would apply for me if someone I loved changed sex. The love would still be there but the relationship would have changed.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they would be family

Only ones i love

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As open minded as I like to think I am I really don't think I could. If he's paying though I've no problem going for a pint....

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!! "

Me too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!! "

I used to be a lesbian, but BananaMan cured me because I want to lick his nipples

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If the person you loved changed sex, not through choice or by undergoing surgery, it just happened naturally by a quirk of nature would you "turn gay" for them?

This is mostly aimed at straight people but I guess there are implications for bisexuals too.

Lets assume it happened slowly and was a gradual change. Could you adapt? Bearing in mind they are the love of your life. "

Can’t answer honey because it seems a fairy tale. I deal in logic....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

I used to be a lesbian, but BananaMan cured me because I want to lick his nipples "

OMG just literally fell off the chair splitting my sides....you’re quite a guy....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ohhh maybe if I was the 1 changing but then I'd cry if the old man just kinda dropped off but owww I'd probably love my fanny being licked. God damn it I'm going to be thinking about this all night now. Disions disions

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

If he still had his penis i'd be fine with it. I'm shallow though and pretty sure if he lost that i'd be gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

I used to be a lesbian, but BananaMan cured me because I want to lick his nipples "

Haha.. dude you can look but don’t touch please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not for me, bearded ladies just arn’t my thing. Maybe we could just become drinking buddies instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if your gorgeous wife slowly turned into a man would you turn gay?

Surely you’re either gay, bisexual or straight. I don’t think people choose to be one. You might still love them but you would surely have to have those tendencies in the first place to be sexually attracted to them.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

Hi there "

Oh....hello you! Are your boobs a bit bigger or is it just me?

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

Hi there

Oh....hello you! Are your boobs a bit bigger or is it just me? "

They keep growing. I hope you don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if your gorgeous wife slowly turned into a man would you turn gay?

Surely you’re either gay, bisexual or straight. I don’t think people choose to be one. You might still love them but you would surely have to have those tendencies in the first place to be sexually attracted to them. "

I agree with this.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, I am straight and only attracted to masculine men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh maybe if I was the 1 changing but then I'd cry if the old man just kinda dropped off but owww I'd probably love my fanny being licked. God damn it I'm going to be thinking about this all night now. Disions disions "

Would it drop off one day do you reckon or just slowly shrink. What would be worse

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I've always wanted to be a lesbian so it would work for me!!

Hi there

Oh....hello you! Are your boobs a bit bigger or is it just me?

They keep growing. I hope you don't mind "

I doubt anyone would mind on here! X

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ohhh maybe if I was the 1 changing but then I'd cry if the old man just kinda dropped off but owww I'd probably love my fanny being licked. God damn it I'm going to be thinking about this all night now. Disions disions

Would it drop off one day do you reckon or just slowly shrink. What would be worse "

Ohhh gowd I'd not thought of that. Jesus drop off or shrivel up to nothing I don't know what sounds worse

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