FabSwingers.com forum: Surprisingly difficult finding M for MMF!

By *ingfisher83 OP Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

I’ve been trying find a local guy who can accommodate me and a hot F friend for her first MMF threesome, but it seems to be far more difficult than I expected! I thought a few local guys would jump at the chance, but the response has been slow to say the least.

It also seems that 90% of guys who apparently “can accommodate” in fact cannot accommodate. And 90% of “straight” guys are in fact bi.

In my experience, however, I’ve learnt that patience is the key to this site!

Rant over!

P.S. If any straight guys in or around Southampton can accommodate a MMF threesome, please do get in touch!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

If there wife is away for a night out you have some chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the surprise that "single" guys on here can't accommodate?

Most are like you married or co-habiting.

If you really want to treat her why not shell out for a hotel?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Why the surprise that "single" guys on here can't accommodate?

Most are like you married or co-habiting.

If you really want to treat her why not shell out for a hotel?"
Good point

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've had three mmfs in the last year, all in a hotel. Book one!

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By *ingfisher83 OP Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

The surprise is more that many profiles say “can accommodate”, but after spending time writing messages to find out if they are available and interested in participating, it turns out they can’t accommodate. That’s just frustrating bit.

Happy to fork out on a hotel but the next problem is finding out that “straight” guys are clearly looking for some M to M action!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

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PM me..I might have a solution;)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you're falling foul of the offering a couple from a single profile situation.

I don't know if you have a couple's profile with the lady but I suspect you'd get a better response if you did.

It's not uncommon for men to say they have a girlfriend who wants a threesome and she suddenly falls ill on the day of the meet. That will be why you're getting contact from bi men I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a straight man who can accommodate but why would I respond to a single man’s profile which only has pics of him on it?

You might want to consider a couples profile with pics of the half of the couple I’d be looking to fuck!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I've had three mmfs in the last year, all in a hotel. Book one! "

Hotel MMF threesomes are my favourite. Always a great big bed and something so naughty about closing the bedroom door and aching for that first kiss. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The surprise is more that many profiles say “can accommodate”, but after spending time writing messages to find out if they are available and interested in participating, it turns out they can’t accommodate. That’s just frustrating bit.

Happy to fork out on a hotel but the next problem is finding out that “straight” guys are clearly looking for some M to M action!"

Now you know how frustrating it is for single Fab females to find men who tell the truth on their profile

If your female friend is on Fab ask her to post an update for who you are looking for and she will be inundated with offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had three mmfs in the last year, all in a hotel. Book one!

Hotel MMF threesomes are my favourite. Always a great big bed and something so naughty about closing the bedroom door and aching for that first kiss. Love it

And hot coffee and ice on hand for some advanced oral skills and the extra thrill of keeping quiet,

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By *ingfisher83 OP Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a straight man who can accommodate but why would I respond to a single man’s profile which only has pics of him on it?

You might want to consider a couples profile with pics of the half of the couple I’d be looking to fuck!

^^ exactly this! If you were advertising near me I wouldn’t answer to a single male profile offering a MFM proposition! I don’t think it’s that there’s necessarily a lack of willing candidates. It’s all about the marketing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're falling foul of the offering a couple from a single profile situation.

I don't know if you have a couple's profile with the lady but I suspect you'd get a better response if you did.

It's not uncommon for men to say they have a girlfriend who wants a threesome and she suddenly falls ill on the day of the meet. That will be why you're getting contact from bi men I suspect.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I've had three mmfs in the last year, all in a hotel. Book one!

Hotel MMF threesomes are my favourite. Always a great big bed and something so naughty about closing the bedroom door and aching for that first kiss. Love it

And hot coffee and ice on hand for some advanced oral skills and the extra thrill of keeping quiet,"

I remember the first time a lover gave me a coffee-fuelled blow job. Oh my

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By *ingfisher83 OP Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

Well I completely agree that setting up a couples profile is the right approach to get a better response, but that’s not going to solve the problem of guys lying about whether or not they can accommodate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well I completely agree that setting up a couples profile is the right approach to get a better response, but that’s not going to solve the problem of guys lying about whether or not they can accommodate."

No it won't but there's not much you can do about that. We get it all the time. Sometimes though they will offer you the back of their van or the luxury of a mattress with coats on it in an empty flat

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Tell me about it lol

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

If only we did not have the small matter of THE WHOLE IF THE COUNTRY between us! I would have this sorted for you in a jiffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

If she’s got a profile on here and she’s really looking for a threesome, it would be a simple matter for her to post on this thread stating so

Are you finding this difficult or making it difficult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Same

U got one volunteer

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Same

I’m up for it.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

If only we did not have the small matter of THE WHOLE IF THE COUNTRY between us! I would have this sorted for you in a jiffy

Just a small matter then. 1 or 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

I’m happy to either number 1 or number 2!!!

If only we did not have the small matter of THE WHOLE IF THE COUNTRY between us! I would have this sorted for you in a jiffy

Just a small matter then. 1 or 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

If only we did not have the small matter of THE WHOLE IF THE COUNTRY between us! I would have this sorted for you in a jiffy

Just a small matter then. 1 or 2?

I struggle to imagine there aren’t many volunteers!

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By *lymcouple92Couple
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Well I would be in

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

I'm in. 50% of the problem solved!

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over a year ago

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

You can't change that, you can only change your response to it. Why not arrange to meet at a club or book a hotel, neither option need be expensive.

And yes, as others have said, trying to arrange an mfm for your friend from a single guys profile seems shady to lots of people. It comes over that either she doesn't exist or she's your wife/girlfriend who doesn't know about your plans.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

If only we did not have the small matter of THE WHOLE IF THE COUNTRY between us! I would have this sorted for you in a jiffy

Just a small matter then. 1 or 2?

Two men but just one jiffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to fork out on a hotel but the next problem is finding out that “straight” guys are clearly looking for some M to M action!

Now you know how frustrating it is for single Fab females to find men who tell the truth on their profile

If your female friend is on Fab ask her to post an update for who you are looking for and she will be inundated with offers."

Plenty of other genders lie in their profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is trivially easy to set up.

In a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, genuine bi male here looking for couple with bi male.

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

wilts

Bi guy here

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I just want to find a man that I am attracted to

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

If you think that's difficult OP, wait 'till you try organising a mff threesome!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

Pick dates you're available,

Both of you post meets including each others names, so folks can check out both profiles.

Not hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there wife is away for a night out you have some chance

Or thrir boyfriend is away

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

Pick dates you're available,

Both of you post meets including each others names, so folks can check out both profiles.

Not hard

I bet she gets all the messages though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Me too, it's about impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Me too, it's about impossible. "

It’s not that hard surely !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm up for accomodating any time

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

Pick dates you're available,

Both of you post meets including each others names, so folks can check out both profiles.

Not hard

I bet she gets all the messages though

Probably but the end result is still the same.. Finding the extra M

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

I'm single guy and I've got my own studio flat.couples ,single females,if you want to play feel free to come to my place .ill accommodate let's have a wonderful time together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Me too, it's about impossible.

It’s not that hard surely !

That's a typical male attitude. Finding 2 men who I fancy and who fancy me, who I have chemistry with, who are then willing to share me, who are compatible with each other, then our diaries need to sync, yes, it's a doddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Me too, it's about impossible.

It’s not that hard surely !

You can do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to find two men for an MFM ... But I live in hope

Me too, it's about impossible.

It’s not that hard surely !

You can do it"

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I often read ladies have loads of choice they're in a sweet shop .. just because guys are in the majority doesn't equate quantity of guys to its easy to get a guy.. Even more at the click of the fingers.

There are lots of hurdles to organising a threesome of whatever makeup.. it's a totally different situation and dynamic to a one on one.(and that's hard enough). there's a third party so if and it's a big if the guys don't get along and yeah meeting strangers is a big deal for a guy its not gonna be enjoyable same if the lady don't like one of the guys..

How many guys or ladies have met someone and thought nah..not for me well multiply that by 3 ..

My advice op, lower your expectations..

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've partaken in a couple recently. I guess you just have to persevere and the right guy(s) will pop up eventually

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Just because I'm a single man who can accommodate doesn't automatically mean I want to do so for everyone. Not that it matters in this case as although I'm probably close enough I am also clearly far too bi for this guy, despite him asking for a guy for MMF rather than MFM.

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

"Ive been trying to sort an mfm out for about ayear now with absolutely no luck whosoever.

Im falling at the first hurdle to find a guy for fb but one who is exclusive then together we tick all our boxes..

3sums, clubs whatever really.

Find guy two

Me happily x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I would give you her profile name and send you some pictures of her (with her permission) if I was able to message you!

Pick dates you're available,

Both of you post meets including each others names, so folks can check out both profiles.

Not hard

I bet she gets all the messages though

Probably but the end result is still the same.. Finding the extra M"

And it wouldn't hurt to try, would it OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because I'm a single man who can accommodate doesn't automatically mean I want to do so for everyone. Not that it matters in this case as although I'm probably close enough I am also clearly far too bi for this guy, despite him asking for a guy for MMF rather than MFM."
is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An mmf with dp is something I have wanted for some time. Unfortunately I still have kids, some grown up, living at home. So I don’t invite anyon here, full stop. But could not even imagine what I would say if they found out I was having a threesome with a couple in the room I used to share with their mum.

Therein lies the problem, so many couples I’ve spoken to think I’m lying and that I still live with my ex!!

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same"

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)"

I think we should try and keep semantics out of this. If there are two guys and one gal then it’s mmf or mfm, I don’t think the way the letters are arranged means anything else.

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)"

Is this true? Been getting it wrong since I joined if that’s the case!

Off to edit my profile

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

"I’ve been trying find a local guy who can accommodate me and a hot F friend for her first MMF threesome, but it seems to be far more difficult than I expected! I thought a few local guys would jump at the chance, but the response has been slow to say the least.

It also seems that 90% of guys who apparently “can accommodate” in fact cannot accommodate. And 90% of “straight” guys are in fact bi.

In my experience, however, I’ve learnt that patience is the key to this site!

Rant over!

P.S. If any straight guys in or around Southampton can accommodate a MMF threesome, please do get in touch!"

What's wrong with bi guys as long as you make it clear no touching or sucking you cock. Don't be fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess its because the female involved would need to see a picture of the said guy !and vice versa!

easiest way is to book a hotel room, preferably a bar in the hotel for pre drinks ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)

Is this true? Been getting it wrong since I joined if that’s the case!

Off to edit my profile "

I've been getting it wrong too then

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

Join fab guys and read the verifications before contacting them. I used to have a couple came to me regularly but they’ve left the site now but proves its not impossible on here

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)"

Never heard this before

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"I think we should try and keep semantics out of this. If there are two guys and one gal then it’s mmf or mfm, I don’t think the way the letters are arranged means anything else."

The same boards would also suggest being very cautious over the use of lower case or capitalised as the former suggest things that rightfully are verboten here.

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)

Is this true? Been getting it wrong since I joined if that’s the case!

Off to edit my profile

I've been getting it wrong too then

Everyone thinks you want two guys who fuck each other and that I wanna fuck women AND their other half.

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By *ingfisher83 OP Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

"is MMF different to MFM? I thought they were the same

There is some convention on the names, at least on things like alt.stories type message boards.

MMF or FFM implies the 2 guys or the 2 girls do gay stuff with each other as well as the third person

MFM and FMF mean the guys just fuck the girl (or the two girls just fuck the guy)

Is this true? Been getting it wrong since I joined if that’s the case!

Off to edit my profile "

First I’ve heard of this too!

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