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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be both.

Or curvy but not a BBW.

Or a BBW but not curvy.

I tend to see BBW as about size. Curvy as about shape.

It’s your profile. You describe yourself how you see fit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Dan said though id say that your curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not do this

Don’t give a fuck what anyone says and define yourself the way you’re comfortable with

You know you’re not the ‘ definition ‘ of a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

Tell them to piss off. Put what you like.

You're not at all fat so I wouldn't call you a BBW (I hate that label)

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Everyone's definition of BBW is different. I guarantee if you categorised your pics as bbw you'll get messages telling you you're not. So do whatever pleases yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you're curvy too, but it's really not up to anyone else to dictate what descriptor you should use.

You can be curvy and bbw but not curvy and slim

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By *haron7540Woman
over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall

Perhaps these people would like to help us define curvy or BBW.

It’s entirely your choice, it’s not like you’re lying and putting slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not do this

Don’t give a fuck what anyone says and define yourself the way you’re comfortable with

You know you’re not the ‘ definition ‘ of a bbw "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes definitely curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wondered what makes someone a bbw to be fair. Is it a dress size thing? Height? Weight? What?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I always wondered what makes someone a bbw to be fair. Is it a dress size thing? Height? Weight? What?"

Nobody knows!

A reasonable selection of pictures means I don’t care

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guy and gals. I guess I was a little taken back but ye are right. Who cares what they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a rats ass about defining some thing label are for clothes not people

I cant see anything wrong with the pics iv seen you look stunning and anyone that says otherwise is a fool

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

#gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it's all part and parcel of being on fab. I don't understand half the stuff people put in message. Like sup as an opening. What is that?

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By *rTall89Man
over a year ago

ipswich

You put on your profile whatever the hell you want.

From your photos.. I'd say you're curvy in my opinion.

But I'm not going to inflict my opinion and demand you change your profile to suit any narrow minded need to control someone else that these two people had.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I'm a bbw and I would say your curvy, ignore the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women are curvy!..that's why we're attracted to them!

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By *arold_n_maudeCouple
over a year ago

preston

From memory it's when the ball hits the pad first and would be going on to hit the stumps. But it's got to be in line if playing a shot. Important point that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From memory it's when the ball hits the pad first and would be going on to hit the stumps. But it's got to be in line if playing a shot. Important point that."

You lost me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no here we go again !

I'll pull up a comfy chair and grab the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

Lol, presumably somebody you said no to. Having. Wen to some bbw events I'm afraid you aren't even close. There are more women on here thst call themselves bbw that aren't than the other way round inu opinion. Maybe to, save themselves from a use or maybe that's how they really see themselves, some of them I wouldn't even class as igger than average, like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From memory it's when the ball hits the pad first and would be going on to hit the stumps. But it's got to be in line if playing a shot. Important point that."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wondered this about myself I think I'm curvey but then what's fabulous or defines a bbw I was told once I was cuddly now where do you put that !! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way are you a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wondered this about myself I think I'm curvey but then what's fabulous or defines a bbw I was told once I was cuddly now where do you put that !! Haha "

Again, not even close, don't think you'd even qualify for chubby, lol.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks guy and gals. I guess I was a little taken back but ye are right. Who cares what they think."

You care because you’ve started a thread about it. What they think is rubbish. BBW is not a nice label, why call a woman ‘big’. You are gorgeous honey so ignore the twonks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From memory it's when the ball hits the pad first and would be going on to hit the stumps. But it's got to be in line if playing a shot. Important point that.... "

Still confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wondered this about myself I think I'm curvey but then what's fabulous or defines a bbw I was told once I was cuddly now where do you put that !! Haha

Again, not even close, don't think you'd even qualify for chubby, lol. "
thank you that's good camera angles for you

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By *arold_n_maudeCouple
over a year ago

preston

This might clear it up. If youre not playing a shot you can be outside the line of the stumps and given out,unless it pitches outside leg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might clear it up. If youre not playing a shot you can be outside the line of the stumps and given out,unless it pitches outside leg."

Might be funnier if the term was lbw of course.

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins "

That’s colourful language

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

How about don't define BBW? It's all very subjective any way.

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language "

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we "

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across "

Lots of women like the label though.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"From memory it's when the ball hits the pad first and would be going on to hit the stumps. But it's got to be in line if playing a shot. Important point that....

Still confused."

They were describing a cricket term - lbw (leg before wicket).

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across

Lots of women like the label though.

"

Maybe they do but to just message a woman telling her she is one could cause offence as not all like it, I certainly don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across

Lots of women like the label though.

Maybe they do but to just message a woman telling her she is one could cause offence as not all like it, I certainly don’t like it. "

Ya I know that. I was just making the point that not everyone thinks it's a bad label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is bbw anyway ? Big busty woman or big beautiful woman ?

Id say u r curvy youre def not big !

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across

Lots of women like the label though.

Maybe they do but to just message a woman telling her she is one could cause offence as not all like it, I certainly don’t like it.

Ya I know that. I was just making the point that not everyone thinks it's a bad label."

I don’t think anyone should be labelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both you and Nancy in this thread are fucking sexy!

Whoever said that to you tell em to cunt off and re classify themselves as thundercunts or wank puffins

That’s colourful language

Apologies for making you blush! It just irritates me when people don’t think before saying things to others about their bodies! I mean we are all different aren’t we

It’s fine and I get it. We are all different and BBW is a bad label. I mean buses are big, not women! These idiots who message a woman to insult her physique are playground bullies. I had it when I posted a full body pic, I soon removed it as I was made to feel I didn’t belong here. You don’t need to swear to get your point across

Lots of women like the label though.

Maybe they do but to just message a woman telling her she is one could cause offence as not all like it, I certainly don’t like it.

Ya I know that. I was just making the point that not everyone thinks it's a bad label.

I don’t think anyone should be labelled "

I don't like the word skinny. All you can do is avoid the people who use words/terms you don't like.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Wonder why my inbox is full from this thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it's all part and parcel of being on fab. I don't understand half the stuff people put in message. Like sup as an opening. What is that?"

Is a very stupid way of saying what's up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbw means more to like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

For some people how they describe you will change.

Some will message you saying you are a sexy curvy woman. Some may message and say you are a sexy BBW.

Say no meeting to them and suddenly you go from being a sexy curvy woman to a fat slut who they didn't want to meet anyway lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having seen neither. N I class myself as curvy. Isn't up to us how we class ourselves.. Not anyone else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different. "

I kinda agree, I think bbw is a politically correct way of saying size 18+.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I kinda agree, I think bbw is a politically correct way of saying size 18+. "

I agree. I think the beautiful bit of BBW is a way of softening the fact you are saying they are big which let's be honest is another way of saying fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I kinda agree, I think bbw is a politically correct way of saying size 18+. "

OK I'm sorry. I know bigger women who say they curvy.. Who the hell has the right to define you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not to big. You just don't have the equipment or the mentality to handle us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I kinda agree, I think bbw is a politically correct way of saying size 18+.

I agree. I think the beautiful bit of BBW is a way of softening the fact you are saying they are big which let's be honest is another way of saying fat. "

Not true! I know many woman who are ‘fat’ and including myself according to BMI that are beautiful, just because you have access weight don’t make you unattractive or ugly. In fact I know lots of really slim woman whom are facially not attractive and dress awful and have no class. But hey they are slim so that’s fine

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Put whatever you want... curvy suggests to me that you go in in places as well as out hence producing your curves...love your profile btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a politically correct terms for fat birds #everyonesthinking

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s a politically correct terms for fat birds #everyonesthinking "

‘Birds’ is a 1970s down the pub with the lads kind of comment as in ‘eeh lad look at that bird over theeer’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fab! Be what you wanna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fact I know lots of really slim woman whom are facially not attractive and dress awful and have no class. But hey they are slim so that’s fine "

Actually, that's true.

Many of the females on here who send me vile messages tend to match the description above, hence proving the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bizarre why two people would message you that OP, you look great. This is like when does a heap become a pile, there’s no clear line, but surely it doesn’t matter if you’re curvy or a BBW, you look hot from your photos so it’s an irrelevance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wonder why my inbox is full from this thread.... "

Mine too

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i hope you told them to put i am a knobhead in their descriptions

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different. "

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy."

Tried to look at your profile but couldn't.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy.

Tried to look at your profile but couldn't."

I've hidden it for the weekend

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By *kydiver555Man
over a year ago

Basing


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

To be honest you are either, in my eyes your are slim, judging by the pics on your profile.

Its in the eye of the beholder as the saying goes. Describe yourself what you feel.

Finally you can't convince a lady if she thinks her bum very big!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy.

Tried to look at your profile but couldn't.

I've hidden it for the weekend "

Didn't know you could hide it.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy.

Tried to look at your profile but couldn't.

I've hidden it for the weekend

Didn't know you could hide it."

Yes, if you go to account, then privacy settings, click on the second option (I think it's hide my profile - it talks about taking a break from the site) and say "hide it". It means that you don't pop up on a local search, but can still use things like the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I'm a size 8. I have an hour glass figure, medium sized boobs, a rounded tummy and a medium sized bum. I would say I'm curvy.

Tried to look at your profile but couldn't.

I've hidden it for the weekend

Didn't know you could hide it.

Yes, if you go to account, then privacy settings, click on the second option (I think it's hide my profile - it talks about taking a break from the site) and say "hide it". It means that you don't pop up on a local search, but can still use things like the forums."

Good to know. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about the labels- your fucking ‘HOT’

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

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By *emo169Man
over a year ago

Crawley / Pattaya, Thailand

Just block them, or report them for being insulting...you are who you are you look gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Does it really matter ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fact I know lots of really slim woman whom are facially not attractive and dress awful and have no class. But hey they are slim so that’s fine

Actually, that's true.

Many of the females on here who send me vile messages tend to match the description above, hence proving the point "

Women on fab send you random vile messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent. "

I've received 3 that stand out so far. Two were afrer I said I had no interest. One was a guy who mailed to say that my description on my profile was misleading and I should perhaps change it to bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a politically correct terms for fat birds #everyonesthinking

‘Birds’ is a 1970s down the pub with the lads kind of comment as in ‘eeh lad look at that bird over theeer’.

"

Still going strong in 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent. "

So cynical.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"In fact I know lots of really slim woman whom are facially not attractive and dress awful and have no class. But hey they are slim so that’s fine

Actually, that's true.

Many of the females on here who send me vile messages tend to match the description above, hence proving the point "

Blimy! what do you do to people to make them react like that?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You're nowhere near a BBW, it's just sour grapes from frustrated men who you've turned down (or someone else has).

I had one who's been chasing me for months round on me this morning ...the funny thing was he went from drooling to suddenly insulting me for being a loose woman...haha, on a swingers site, yeah right!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

"

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings "

Haha that’s so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile.

I would say curvy is size 12 - 18. I would say BBW is size 18+

Everboies opinion of what a BBW is will be different.

I kinda agree, I think bbw is a politically correct way of saying size 18+.

I agree. I think the beautiful bit of BBW is a way of softening the fact you are saying they are big which let's be honest is another way of saying fat. "

No softening needed here.

I know I’m big/fat/overweight or whatever else people call it, but if I put my username as FatChanelle I ca almost guarantee I’d get messages from guys saying “You’re not fat you’re beautiful” as if me saying I’m fat is negative.

BBW is a label I like and it means guys know what I am when they see my username, if they don’t like BBWs it saves them looking at my profile. I would also agree that a BBW is size 18+.

OP you are not a BBW at all and I’d class you as curvy! Those guys who sent those messages are probably bitter because they know they wouldn’t be able to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on the term BBW Chantelle... I have no problems with being called that or fat,curvy,milf,gilf whatever label you want. .. doesn't really matter to me xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

Haha that’s so funny "

But a grape though..... No pasty ever did my like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings "

I really shouldn't laugh but that was kind of funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

I really shouldn't laugh but that was kind of funny

"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

I really shouldn't laugh but that was kind of funny

"

Luckily it was the seam on the calf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

I really shouldn't laugh but that was kind of funny

Luckily it was the seam on the calf "

No it wasn’t

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

I really shouldn't laugh but that was kind of funny

Luckily it was the seam on the calf

No it wasn’t "

It was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for posting this! I wondered it myself for me

Mrs S xx

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

Quite simply I would have told that person to politely jog on.

Put up what YOU want it's your profile Op.

Ss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with Big Beautiful Women, or indeed little beautiful women. They are all beautiful in their own special ways. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with Big Beautiful Women, or indeed little beautiful women. They are all beautiful in their own special ways. x"

How about fat ugly blokes?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent. "

Sometimes you just need the ability to see what's really going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizarre why two people would message you that OP, you look great. This is like when does a heap become a pile, there’s no clear line, but surely it doesn’t matter if you’re curvy or a BBW, you look hot from your photos so it’s an irrelevance. "

Well she had me fooled, suckered in.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nothing wrong with Big Beautiful Women, or indeed little beautiful women. They are all beautiful in their own special ways. x

How about fat ugly blokes? "

Yep I get lots of messages from them.....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

Sometimes you just need the ability to see what's really going on "

Yes it takes a particular eye to see what's happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

I've received 3 that stand out so far. Two were afrer I said I had no interest. One was a guy who mailed to say that my description on my profile was misleading and I should perhaps change it to bbw"

Who cares. Once it's you in the pics it's not misleading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

Sometimes you just need the ability to see what's really going on

Yes it takes a particular eye to see what's happening "

A tin one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

I would definitely say curvy after checking out your profile...but as some here said already, you describe yourself how you see fit

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

Sometimes you just need the ability to see what's really going on

Yes it takes a particular eye to see what's happening

A tin one ?"

Or you could try getting Googly eyed - works well in reverse too

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent.

Sometimes you just need the ability to see what's really going on

Yes it takes a particular eye to see what's happening

A tin one ?

Or you could try getting Googly eyed - works well in reverse too"

How do you know they aren't her pictures? They could just be up on both sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

Your far from being a bbw

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "

Come on now: you're old enough to not let others define you. I wouldn’t go searching for two fucks to give some nonentity for their unsolicited opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since putting the latest pic on display I've gotten two messags saying that my description of myself is wrong. I'm not curvy. I should have bbw on my profile. "
il say the same to you as i do my kids you can be whatever you want to be

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"These threads always seem like look at me but dressed up as something else. I doubt those messages were actually sent. "

An opinion I share.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

You can be whatever you want but not Who ever you want. Me thinks that could even be a tad illegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be whatever you want but not Who ever you want. Me thinks that could even be a tad illegal "

That username seems like a great definition

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Big beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all boxed into what people think is right or wrong... all the media hype over the plus size models .. it always goes against the grain as we are SOLD by TV, Social Media etc that models can only be size 8 and no more... I find it very sad society where we are judged… we are all unique in pour own way and this should be embraced.... The OP is definately a sexy lady and shouldn't be told otherwise.... maybe put just fabulous as your profile description.... cover all areas lol xxxx

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

You're you. Just a normal regular woman. Other people need to learn to deal with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference how you classify yourself on here because unfortunately you can't filter searches that way anyhow.

A picture paints a thousand words...

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nothing like a bbw. Bbw to me is size 18 plus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the info. Although hamd d stuff went over my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too don’t think the OP is as it seems , tin thingy as you say is invaluable and reading writing styles of men woman etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bum in the world says it all sexycatsbaby mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey well looky here, there’s already a thread called ‘Define BBW’. No need to comment on the other one.

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over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hey well looky here, there’s already a thread called ‘Define BBW’. No need to comment on the other one."

Yeah but where's the fun in that for him.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings "

But what was a grape doing in Greggs!!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

But what was a grape doing in Greggs!! "

Grape pie?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Hey well looky here, there’s already a thread called ‘Define BBW’. No need to comment on the other one."

Yeah but which is the real one and which is the fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple :

BBW : gets stuck in the doorway at Greggs !

Never happened yet.... Although I did slip on a grape in my local gregs and split the seam on my jeggings

But what was a grape doing in Greggs!! "

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