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Could you date a stupid person..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....if they were fit ?

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Defo not ..... its not all about looks .... people need to be able to engage a conversation

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nobody is more intelligent than me, so I suppose I'd have to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be the first to say ... they’d need to be stupid to date me! It’s a key criteria!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody is more intelligent than me, so I suppose I'd have to..."

You do a good job of hiding it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

How stupid are we talking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did..

It didn't end well

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

It depends. Only if it were a casual bit of fun. Nothing serious or long lasting though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no!

What would we talk about?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did..

It didn't end well"

Is not a regular on the forums is he ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck no!

What would we talk about?!"

NASA ?

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did..

It didn't end well

Is not a regular on the forums is he ?"

Nooo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as im normally the stupid one

Im glad i dont want a date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How stupid are we talking?"

Most general knowledge would go over there head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo! Even if they very smoking hot, would drive me mad

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

fuck once, not actually date no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well as im normally the stupid one

Im glad i dont want a date"

You’re not stupid, just anti smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I gag them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I gag them? "

Can I gag you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just no.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Id rather a kind dummy than an intelligent miser.

Saying that, the sterotype dumb pretty girls are usually intelligent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as im normally the stupid one

Im glad i dont want a date

You’re not stupid, just anti smart "

Im not a girl tho

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nobody is more intelligent than me, so I suppose I'd have to...

You do a good job of hiding it."

Cheers dude, that's what intelligence is all about innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I gag them?

Can I gag you?"

Bite me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I gag them?

Can I gag you?

Bite me. "

Okay

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By *esus H ChristMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Actually Date...... No, Nay Never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I gag them?

Can I gag you?

Bite me.

Okay"

Can I watch, I’ll be no bother ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

never mind dated... i moved in with one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intellectual intelligence isn't the be all and end all for me. Emotional and spiritual intelligence makes up for a lot.

But I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where my voice was too dominant. I want a bit of push and pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! I couldn't fuck a stupid person so dating is a huge no!

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Thankfully Her will

Hmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, intrigue my mind before anything!

Mrs S xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had good banter and great personality and other traits it would be no problem because their is more to a person intelligence is only one thing and stupid people can still have normal conversations too depending on how stupid they were and sometimes they can be really funny which is a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I gag them?

Can I gag you?

Bite me.

Okay

Can I watch, I’ll be no bother ?"

Of course, you can film. And if you behave, maybe join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were caring, considerate, empathetic, sensual and other endearing qualities.

If they were the stupid that walked out in front of traffic or were duped by scammers I'd be inclined to run their life for them though.

I'm too old to have children so no worries about having stupid children.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How many dates are we talking? It sometimes takes a while to find out. Where are they taking me on these dates? If it's Wetherspoons, no. If it's Rome for the weekend I could wear headphones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me"."

Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could only date them for as long as it took me to realise they were stupid. Does that answer your question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".

Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't "

In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could only date them for as long as it took me to realise they were stupid. Does that answer your question? "

That could be a long time if you were as stupid as them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".

Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't

In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain."

I think I just got to the point where my head was so full some of it fell out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".

Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't

In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain."

Some of the brightest people have zero common sense, I’ve worked with people on building sites who had degrees and some of the shit theyve done you wouldn’t believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

The intellectual person recognised their stupidity but the dumb person thinks that’s normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".

Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't

In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain.

Some of the brightest people have zero common sense, I’ve worked with people on building sites who had degrees and some of the shit theyve done you wouldn’t believe. "

Like hanging over a parapet with no safety harness.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"....if they were fit ?"

Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have a friend who has stupid moments. I wouldn't describe her as stupid but sometimes I look at her like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that "

Couldn't you have learned Spanish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?

Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala? "

I thought it a rather intriguing question myself.

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By *haron7540Woman
over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall


"....if they were fit ?

Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala? "

In answer to the question, no I couldn’t date them

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"....if they were fit ?

Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala?

I thought it a rather intriguing question myself."

Needs to be equalling intelligent levels as it could be quite challenging if not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that

Couldn't you have learned Spanish?"

El podria, pero el no lo hizo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would make a change... Any offers? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that

Couldn't you have learned Spanish?"

Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived with a guy who had no common sense or logic and he drove me insane.

He was great when it came to facts and had an outstanding general knowledge but his inability to tackle anything at all practical or problem solve without making issues so much worse caused a fair few arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is not particularly to do with intellectual ability but I don't understand how some people manage to make it to adulthood without knowing some things, it baffles me. Emotional intelligence and common sense are needed too or I can't even hack a conversation sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that

Couldn't you have learned Spanish?

Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs "

You made the right decision in running away.

How fast did you run exactly?

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

What way stupid? Like just no common sense or anti vaxxer stupid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lived with a guy who had no common sense or logic and he drove me insane.

He was great when it came to facts and had an outstanding general knowledge but his inability to tackle anything at all practical or problem solve without making issues so much worse caused a fair few arguments. "

That would make him incapable I think, not stupid.

Some of us have practical abilities, some are thinkers.

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

Nope! Had to be a connection. If they say ‘should of’ I’m out !

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Yeah they provide the best anecdotes when out with friends

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have...not for long!

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

No. There has to be a meeting of minds as well as bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many dates are we talking? It sometimes takes a while to find out. Where are they taking me on these dates? If it's Wetherspoons, no. If it's Rome for the weekend I could wear headphones."

I like your thinking..

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same."

...like Gaston from "Beauty and the Beast"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same.

...like Gaston from "Beauty and the Beast"? "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather a kind dummy than an intelligent miser.

Saying that, the sterotype dumb pretty girls are usually intelligent."

Why does it have to be those two options?

What about a kind "dummy" or a kind intellectual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope! Had to be a connection. If they say ‘should of’ I’m out !"

I’m like if she says;

‘Fact’ ‘

End of’

‘Simples’

‘Jog on’

They’re all deal breakers and I’m out of there. Also if her ‘jam’ is ‘Shape of you’ by Ed Sheeran.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I'll shag her, but how can you be fit without common sense. You need to be somewhat intelligent to actually stay fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?

Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala? "

I think it's a legitimate topic for a thread

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By *agariWoman
over a year ago

South Lincs

No way, and judging by the messages I get this site is more stupid than hot anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that

Couldn't you have learned Spanish?

Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs

You made the right decision in running away.

How fast did you run exactly?"

Let's just say afterwards Usain Bolt decided to give up and try his hand at football instead

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fuck yes

Date no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I like someone on a similar level to me when it comes to dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... I need to be interested in their conversation

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope "

Could Swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. It didn't work. Some of the things that came out of his mouth used to frustrate me. After one particular annoying time I did end up saying are you stupid what arnt you understanding . And I'm usually a patient person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once.

I won’t again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

Or was i stupid for dating her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Could Swing?"

You’re not my type Dan. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a really fit ex boyfriend

.....wait does that mean..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Could Swing?

You’re not my type Dan. Sorry "

and I’ve been fapping to your arse for weeks!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Like Essex stupid?!

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Nope. It just doesn't cut it for me. I'm not exactly an intellect but there has to be some form of knowledge or at least thirst for knowledge going on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is as stupid does

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

No because i wouldnt like their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I look at one in the mirror everyday so why not.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re both stupid how do you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders out of man cave

Scratches hairy chin

Stupid

Not another hurdle to overcome

It's taken me all this time to grow opposable thumbs...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re both stupid how do you know? "

I’m guessing they will just cancel each other out, If theyre both happy, guess it doesn’t matter.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ve dated people far more intelligent than me and far less.

I’m still single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" "

Inspirational

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"....if they were fit ?"

My ex girlfriend did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Oh the profound silence. The gaping chasm between linguistic content and meaning in a post information age. To make a markless mark upon the hem of history. To be so gagged by beard hairs in the name of hipsterdom so as to fall mute. To be a man's man and simply stab a fox and eat its foot whilst sitting silently upon the chiselled stump of a once mighty tree.

What more can be said?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone has some levels of stupid about themselves, so it would depend how compatible we are. If they were significantly less able to function in the world than me, it's probably likely that we'd not be a good match, from my perspective.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nooooooo way, I dont suffer fools and I would be afraid they would get on my nerves

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If you’re both stupid how do you know? "

One of you gets a tshirt with a finger pointing to the other one with “I’m with stupid” on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re both stupid how do you know?

One of you gets a tshirt with a finger pointing to the other one with “I’m with stupid” on it "

Both could get them

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Only if they're loaded, a fool and there money.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I divorced him

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If you’re both stupid how do you know?

One of you gets a tshirt with a finger pointing to the other one with “I’m with stupid” on it

Both could get them "

It could get complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re both stupid how do you know?

I’m guessing they will just cancel each other out, If theyre both happy, guess it doesn’t matter."

Who makes sure the children stay alive though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it, it's OK for a short time, so long as you are fucking and not talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is as stupid does..

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Stupid is as stupid does.. "

Thank you Forrest’s Mum

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

I married one, On our first date, I said ''would you like to get in the back seat'', she said ''No, I want to stay in the front with you''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?"

Depends how stupid. Like average or slightly low IQ and normal social ability yes, retarded or a complete embarrassment no. Not even if they were really fit. I would have to meet them at home for sex but never be out with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?

Depends how stupid. Like average or slightly low IQ and normal social ability yes, retarded or a complete embarrassment no. Not even if they were really fit. I would have to meet them at home for sex but never be out with them. "

Having said that, I would rather date somebody less intelligent than ugly, so there is a switch point somewhere, thank god I'm unlikely to need to find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by stupid OP? Personally I like a bit of conversation and attraction. Humour and a sense of fun too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"....if they were fit ?"

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, stupid people annoy the fucking life out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting. "

That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date...absolutely not, I find intelligent people far more scintillating company than the not so bright.

But...Sex...Ooo I do like a fitty

MrsK x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"....if they were fit ?

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.

That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes. "

The question was "date".

Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick fuck only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you get the answer you were hoping for op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....if they were fit ?

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.

That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.

The question was "date".

Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting. "

I'm aware what the question was, I was just putting into context for the, site we're on.

If you want a more literal answer, it isn't the slightest bit off putting. If I can afford it and she can't I have no issue at all. Nobody I have ever dated, in its purest sense OR swinging sense has ever paid a penny towards anything at any point of my life. And nor will that ever change. If it became expected then I wouldn't like it, but as a principle I'm afraid I'm not even slightly into equality over stuff like that.

Don't care what other people do at all, but its what I do.

I don't date people for money, I date them because I'm planning on building a relationship and a life with them, and what I want out of that is a lot, but money doesn't feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Nope.

Been there, tried that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how could they be stupid if they were fit ? drrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

C

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"....if they were fit ?

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.

That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.

The question was "date".

Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting. "

If it was actual "dating", I wouldn't give a shit about that, I'm not materialistic.

I would, on the other hand always expect a fabs date to go halves.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Nope

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god no, a little intellect and a nice cock go hand in hand. I need white matter, or is it grey matter and a fit bod.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"....if they were fit ?

No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.

That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.

The question was "date".

Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting.

I'm aware what the question was, I was just putting into context for the, site we're on.

If you want a more literal answer, it isn't the slightest bit off putting. If I can afford it and she can't I have no issue at all. Nobody I have ever dated, in its purest sense OR swinging sense has ever paid a penny towards anything at any point of my life. And nor will that ever change. If it became expected then I wouldn't like it, but as a principle I'm afraid I'm not even slightly into equality over stuff like that.

Don't care what other people do at all, but its what I do.

I don't date people for money, I date them because I'm planning on building a relationship and a life with them, and what I want out of that is a lot, but money doesn't feature. "

Aw that's very true!

Mrs

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