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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to loose hope and taking a huge comfidance hit here. I never seem to be anyone's type. Is it just me or do you other guys struggle..

Could do with a boost if any kind lady's are reading this. Xx.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

What are your expectations from this site mate?

Plenty of guys struggle on here. Get yourself out there into the real world and make some connections. Socials and clubs open a lot of doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because you have not found yourself knee deep in clunge OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because you have not found yourself knee deep in clunge OP?"
I thought that was part of being a member. #noclungeforme

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

He'd settle for ankle deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few knock backs on the tinternet knock your confidence.

If I did in the real world then I’d start to worry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe change your profile picture to a picture of you not an egg, at first glance we would pass profile by due to that. Also get to some clubs and into the real world talk to people in person always helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got a veri in 3 months. You are someone's type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positivity breeds positivity. Think about how you portray yourself to others. People are much more attracted to smiling faces and friendly usernames and profiles.

I personally would be put off by anyone complaining on here instead of being proactive.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Starting to loose hope and taking a huge comfidance hit here. I never seem to be anyone's type. Is it just me or do you other guys struggle..

Could do with a boost if any kind lady's are reading this. Xx."

Physically, you're above average as single men go on here, but I suspect what might be putting people off is the blank avatar and that you look miserable in your pics.

Put a smiling avatar out there and watch the offers flood in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I though I had a profile pic on. No idea what happend there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see. The profile pic I did have has been reported for some reason so it says rejected. Ilk change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Positivity breeds positivity. Think about how you portray yourself to others. People are much more attracted to smiling faces and friendly usernames and profiles.

I personally would be put off by anyone complaining on here instead of being proactive. "

Exactly this. This website takes a lot of time and effort OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see. The profile pic I did have has been reported for some reason so it says rejected. Ilk change it"

The offers will come flying in now mate

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

It's definitely the orange pants...

On a more serious note your pics don't show any personality. They are all a bit deadpan. A smile can go a long way.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I can be a bit funny about usernames and I’d perceive yours as quite negative.

The pic of you with the dog with the dog’s face obscured made me laugh though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few knock backs on the tinternet knock your confidence.

If I did in the real world then I’d start to worry lol "

You've been gone a long time old friend. Wonder if we can finally be mates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few knock backs on the tinternet knock your confidence.

If I did in the real world then I’d start to worry lol

You've been gone a long time old friend. Wonder if we can finally be mates! "

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few knock backs on the tinternet knock your confidence.

If I did in the real world then I’d start to worry lol

You've been gone a long time old friend. Wonder if we can finally be mates!

Of course "

You sure, do you remember who I am?

ClamClub, BeefDripping, Athena, SeaWitch, TeaBag, Fag&Slippers, MissWilkes, The Empress, GoochSniffer, MissAquaVac.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few knock backs on the tinternet knock your confidence.

If I did in the real world then I’d start to worry lol

You've been gone a long time old friend. Wonder if we can finally be mates!

Of course

You sure, do you remember who I am?

ClamClub, BeefDripping, Athena, SeaWitch, TeaBag, Fag&Slippers, MissWilkes, The Empress, GoochSniffer, MissAquaVac.

"

I could never forget you’re pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can be a bit funny about usernames and I’d perceive yours as quite negative.

The pic of you with the dog with the dog’s face obscured made me laugh though "

That was supposed to be funny

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