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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im sure we have all had a fair share of the fake profile members who make contact. I usually just humour them which makes light entertainment, this particular fake member.. A male of fake couple had messaged me, been the whole charmer after chatting for several days.. Yes I asked about his partner (the female) and its answers sounder genuine.. The chat move over to whatsapp. Which in fairness probably lasted half dozen messages think I was getting bored

After not hearing from this guy for a couple weeks.i deleted history of chat on my phone

So it was very strange to then received a fab message from said profile asking if I heard from male lately. I explain Ed I hadn't

To cut a long story short I then got a phone xall from female partner asking if I had spoken chatted with male... Followed by countless messages on here basically accusing me of stealing her partner as she had T seen him for weeks.

I find the whole ordeal rather worrying and even more weary of any couple.

Im on here as most others are for fun and life experiences

So please dont abuse this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im sure we have all had a fair share of the fake profile members who make contact. I usually just humour them which makes light entertainment, this particular fake member.. A male of fake couple had messaged me, been the whole charmer after chatting for several days.. Yes I asked about his partner (the female) and its answers sounder genuine.. The chat move over to whatsapp. Which in fairness probably lasted half dozen messages think I was getting bored

After not hearing from this guy for a couple weeks.i deleted history of chat on my phone

So it was very strange to then received a fab message from said profile asking if I heard from male lately. I explain Ed I hadn't

To cut a long story short I then got a phone xall from female partner asking if I had spoken chatted with male... Followed by countless messages on here basically accusing me of stealing her partner as she had T seen him for weeks.

I find the whole ordeal rather worrying and even more weary of any couple.

Im on here as most others are for fun and life experiences

So please dont abuse this site

"

My God dam predictive text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when you say cut the long story short

The cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x"

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house? "

Knock the door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x"

A mistake I wont make again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door."

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again "

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door."

But I didnt make contact. He did then weeks later she did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x"

Whos blaming who

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it when you say cut the long story short

The cheek! "

Why so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door."

What if you only have the postcode?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x"

True.. you can’t fix stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode? "

I'd get the number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode?

I'd get the number."

Smart man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who"

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode?

I'd get the number.

Smart man "

I'm not going to play the postcode lottery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode?

I'd get the number.

Smart man

I'm not going to play the postcode lottery."

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode? "

What if I got concerned about whole thing and been joked at

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x"

I mentioned no blame at all did i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i"

Ermm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode?

I'd get the number.

Smart man

I'm not going to play the postcode lottery.

Why not? "

Because I'm a smart man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i"

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

So how do you contact them when you are outside their house?

Knock the door.

What if you only have the postcode?

I'd get the number.

Smart man

I'm not going to play the postcode lottery.

Why not?

Because I'm a smart man."

What if you played and won

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x"

Exactly I said making a mistake this is not blame.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x"

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience "

Yes the side trackers really do need to calm down and leave a bit of room for others to have more meaningful conversations don’t they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it a bit ago where apparently the guy had said to his wife that he had been meeting me behind her back on this certain day and confessed. I hadn't met this guy at all. Luckily I was shopping at said time of meet and had receipts to prove it.

He then said that it was one of my friends who rang the wife and said it definitely wasn't her either. I was thinking the wife was a little crazy where as my friend was thinking it was more than likely the husband was meeting men and using fab woman as a cover up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully I’ve given out my number a couple of times when arranging a meet and it’s never came back to bite me on the arse. Not everyone turns out to be a total weirdo.

Pretty rubbish this has happened to you OP, can be some strange folk on here

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Burner phone all the way until your sure that the person isn’t a creepo or bunny boiler..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

In fairness I've given my number to every person I've met over the past three years and never had an issue with it. Then again I've never given it to one half of a couple so maybe avoid doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience "

Yeah I was blunt. Trying to give her a bit of advice and get a bit of savvy about her rather than aww hun this happened to me too and not give her phone number out Willy nilly

Sorry OP if I offended you in any way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to read that this happened to you. I find it frightening when things have broken down so badly within a couple as I have no way of guessing how far things will escalate, what lies have been told about you to excuse their behaviour and how far you will get dragged into their drama.

Stick with couples where the woman does all the comms and arranging. You know she’s happy with everything then, up for play and not jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience "

Thanks foe that Hun. The point I failed to out across which you did so very well xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moral of the story. Don't give out your phone number x

A mistake I wont make again

You really can't blame others for your own stupidity x

Whos blaming who

You blamed yourself and I agreed x

I mentioned no blame at all did i

Yeah you said you wouldn't make the same mistake again x

You really do like to side track threads and point fingers don’t you, the op is just making aware of what can happen here, blame is nothing to do with the thread, maybe comment on the thread itself next time instead of looking for arguments and btw, when you inevitably reply to my post with abuse or arguments I will happily ignore and not be dragged into your attention seeking

Op I know what you mean about fakes, I’ve had a few, recently an ex partner has been up to her old tricks and making up fake profiles, I think her tally so far is 3/4 of them, it’s a waste of time when people do it, what do they expect would happen if it actually came down to a meet is what I can’t understand, oh well, each to their own I suppose, don’t let it bother you and chalk it up to experience

Yeah I was blunt. Trying to give her a bit of advice and get a bit of savvy about her rather than aww hun this happened to me too and not give her phone number out Willy nilly

Sorry OP if I offended you in any way x"

No you didn't offend me.

I explained an issue that happened that I have never been accustomed too in the time I've been using fab and unfortunately some people were quite ok with either been Leary,sarcastic or emplying something other meaning which really wasn't nice at all

Although there are some great people beit couples or not that I've met and friends with there are also sone rude and inconsiderate thoughtless people on here too

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Had another today 2 messages in can we do what's app and email address . Then friends invite . They and i use that term loosely wanted a friends invite . Nope not happening . Suggested they do a cam chat and suddenly they go very quite .

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