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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am often asked to send a pic before the lady shows hers. I do and then I'm blocked. Does this often happen? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s common unfortunately. It’s not personal (well, it is a bit) but it generally means you aren’t for them and instead of them saying it and then receiving either the “why??” Message or a barrage of abuse (which you likely won’t do but many can’t help themselves) they just nip it in the bud.

Don’t take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s common unfortunately. It’s not personal (well, it is a bit) but it generally means you aren’t for them and instead of them saying it and then receiving either the “why??” Message or a barrage of abuse (which you likely won’t do but many can’t help themselves) they just nip it in the bud.

Don’t take it to heart "

This

Plus it happens to women too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems one sided, especially as it is usually profiles with no public photos of their own for the male to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

As Probably101 said... it's a lady's prerogative... don't worry about it.

Go outside and take a deep breath of fresh, clean air. Now doesn't that feel GOOD!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

They don't like it when I send them my hairy arse pic!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Yes, it’s frustrating but if there’s not spark then she’s saving your time by not leading you on.

I prefer a thanks but no thanks response but either way move on.

Also check your opening message, don’t be crude.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Right. Spelling it out for all the disheartened men.

If she initiates a conversation, it is reasonable to ask her to send a photo first.

If you initiate a conversation, you will be asked for a photo.

Simple, really. Whether the other party has a public photo is beyond discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seems very heavily weighted towards women. No wonder men get fed up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it’s frustrating but if there’s not spark then she’s saving your time by not leading you on.

I prefer a thanks but no thanks response but either way move on.

Also check your opening message, don’t be crude. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm never crude

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

I dont sent them pics anymore i do not ask any more for pics of theirs either as its a waste of time simple reasons 1 you dont know who you talking to weather is a man or women 2 there are so meny picture collectors simply i use my profile to book my self into the clubs then what happened in the clubs stays in the clubs and meet people i met before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am often asked to send a pic before the lady shows hers. I do and then I'm blocked. Does this often happen? xx"

Yes, she didn't like yoir picture, so what's the point in sending hers, or she has got her wank material and is really a guy.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Start sending pics of celebs then when she thinks you're funny then hit her with the selfie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seems very heavily weighted towards women. No wonder men get fed up here"

Do you think they should be forced to have sex with at least one in 10 applicants or something,

Of course it's biased towards women, it's called supply and demand.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"or she has got her wank material and is really a guy. "

Lol, true!

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