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Is just a case of having the right approach and expectations, to go with a decent profile etc etc | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chat" They do,but many stay safe and meet regulars. As always. Go to clubs,socials,use the forums,go on chat and just be more accessible to a wider crowd.  | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month " Ah feck, I only chat on a Wednesday!  | |||
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"I get more conversation off Alexa than here" Honestly. Do you want advice on your profile? | |||
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"Advice would that be please" Try putting a few full stops in your profile. | |||
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"Advice would that be please" No pictires of your bod. Not much is written on your profile. Doesn't really say what you can offer any potentiobl meet. Says little about the person you are. Says you won't go to clubs is it. And pribaly the biggest hurdle,that you've not met anyone from your verifications for four years. That's a long time. | |||
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"That definitely makes all the difference of all stops doesn't it" Won't to some but will to most. Grammar to most is a big red flag on here mate. Trust me | |||
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"Advice would that be please" Do you seriously want advice off us eejits? | |||
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"That definitely makes all the difference of all stops doesn't it" Their point was that some users (us included) are put off by poorly written profiles, and you have no punctuation in yours. Happy Fabbing! | |||
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"You would be happy just to chat?? " Oh that too. Sounds like a ploy to me. But if that's all you want then why the thread?. Just chat to folk in the chat rooms? | |||
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"Well I do have body pictures and I do have I do have body pictures but when you request one I'm here to chat with somebody first " But you need to get them interested first mate. You're trying to do it the wrong way around. Plus you're a single guy. We are 1000s strong and only the fittest survive. Not physically mind you ha | |||
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"Well I do have body pictures and I do have I do have body pictures but when you request one I'm here to chat with somebody first But you need to get them interested first mate. You're trying to do it the wrong way around. Plus you're a single guy. We are 1000s strong and only the fittest survive. Not physically mind you ha" | |||
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"Don't worry just go back to sleep you know you're not on the same bandwagon as what I'm actually trying to say" Okay..sorry for trying to help. I guess my bandwagon will just keep rolling on with my stupid advice that gets me meets. Happy dmfabbing mate and good luck OP | |||
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"Well I do have body pictures and I do have I do have body pictures but when you request one I'm here to chat with somebody first But you need to get them interested first mate. You're trying to do it the wrong way around. Plus you're a single guy. We are 1000s strong and only the fittest survive. Not physically mind you ha "I tried  | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chat" I know it's a bloody nightmare...... Tell me about it | |||
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"I ran out of breath reading your profile OP - the point about punctuation being it helps separate out what you're actually trying to say. As others have said though your profile doesn't really tell people a great deal about you other than you're looking to chat and see how it goes - your pics are honestly not very enticing or imaginative and frankly you just come across as being the same as thousands of other single guy profiles on here - you need to make yourself stand out from the crowd - show some personality - get involved in the forums or chat, get yourself along to organised socials etc - all of which are a great way of getting to know people and getting known "You don't know what you're talking about haha. Well it's what he said to me anyway lol. Well said and sounds familiar  | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chatI know it's a bloody nightmare...... Tell me about it " Hope that was sarcasm? | |||
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"Don't worry just go back to sleep you know you're not on the same bandwagon as what I'm actually trying to say" Being rude to people that are trying to help is not going to help your cause | |||
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"That definitely makes all the difference of all stops doesn't it" It would to me. | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month " I was always told first Thursday? | |||
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"Don't worry just go back to sleep you know you're not on the same bandwagon as what I'm actually trying to say Being rude to people that are trying to help is not going to help your cause" No. It's fine. Maybe he's done it to get a reaction and doesn't actually want any help. I wouldn't bite hun | |||
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"I get more conversation off Alexa than here" It's because your pics are all of your dick. Try putting one of your face/body. | |||
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"My gosh there's always one that has to be better than anybody else on here " I'm not better than nobody on here. I just know what works and doesn't for me and most in general. You asked for advice..we've given you some but you want to have a go instead of taking it on board. There's a reason why we don't get meets and if you're not willing to change then nothing will change | |||
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"I get more conversation off Alexa than here It's because your pics are all of your dick. Try putting one of your face/body. " | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month I was always told first Thursday? " Is that why I’ve been missing you? Damnit | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chatI know it's a bloody nightmare...... Tell me about it Hope that was sarcasm? "What's sarcasm? | |||
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"I'm not here to prove myself not here to go about and upset people all I want is a genuine chat with somebody go from there and I will tell her more about me but I don't need somebody else to tell me that" Actually. We are all here to prove ourselves initially. Prove your worthy of others giving you their time. It's the same for all until we establish ourselves on here. That's fine that once you get talking. But how you get talking is what we're trying to help you overcome | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month I was always told first Thursday? Is that why I’ve been missing you? Damnit" Guys. The OP maybe serious and need a help. Stop trying to derail the thread | |||
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"Again, are you going to be ok with only ever chatting? Also, I didn't get to read your profile as I only saw your dick in your pics... This possibly would apply to a fair few ladies on here, just so ya know "And most couples too | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chatI know it's a bloody nightmare...... Tell me about it Hope that was sarcasm? What's sarcasm? "That's okay then . As you were | |||
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"I tried "So have I on many occasions, not always successfully though | |||
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"Again, are you going to be ok with only ever chatting? Also, I didn't get to read your profile as I only saw your dick in your pics... This possibly would apply to a fair few ladies on here, just so ya know
And most couples too "They include ladies   | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month I was always told first Thursday? Is that why I’ve been missing you? Damnit" Bloody must be! | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month I was always told first Thursday? Is that why I’ve been missing you? Damnit Bloody must be! " | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chat" Maybe they see your name and think you might be hard work.. Just a thought | |||
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"I'm not here to prove myself not here to go about and upset people all I want is a genuine chat with somebody go from there and I will tell her more about me but I don't need somebody else to tell me that" Try using the reply and quote button it will help people know who you're responding to. Being absolutely honest with you - you asked a question which people answered honestly - you then asked for advice, which was again given honestly, yet you seem to be bridling against it rather than taking it on board. Not sure why, when the advice has been given freely from people who have had meets, have got the "genuine chats" you seek - if it was me I'd be lapping the advice up rather than seeing it as some kind of slight. The fact of the matter is saying you'll tell someone more about you once you have got chatting is entering a vicious circle - most people won't want to start chatting until they know a little about you from your profile. Either way, your call, you either take the advice on board and at least improve your chances of getting to talk to people (albeit with no guarantees) or you ignore it and carry on as you are. No skin of our nose either way | |||
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"Yes but only on the third Tuesday of each month I was always told first Thursday? Is that why I’ve been missing you? Damnit Guys. The OP maybe serious and need a help. Stop trying to derail the thread "Sorry op. Yeah, people chat and meet but as previously mentioned, single guys outweigh ladies on here by a vast majority, so you have to work for it I’m affraid. Best of luck | |||
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"Does anyone meet from this site I'm guessing so but but feels like a mission and a half just to get a chatI know it's a bloody nightmare...... Tell me about it Hope that was sarcasm? What's sarcasm?
That's okay then . As you were"Ha....... Have you helped him yet, cmon it's your good deed for the day to get this guy a date | |||
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