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Regaining body confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i know there has been a hundred threads like this

My body confidence took a bit of a kicking so how do i get it back i used to love my body

I want to get back to that me not the one i am

You lot seem a friendly bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well looking at your pics you look ok to me, but obviously you don’t think so. What caused you to lose confidence, was it a throwaway comment by someone or something that happened. It can make a difference in how you deal with it x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

You look ok to me.

But it’s your opinion that counts. You’re a relatively young guy, you can still do things to help improve your body (diet and exercise) or you can just learn to accept it as it is and stuff what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had an op and now have a scar and comments

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ohhh scars.

They each tell a tale of survival, and that's pretty fucking awesome.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Mate I’m covered in scars they are talking points.

Used to hate wearing shorts but there comes a time when you will embrace it. Now I wear them most of the year.

Get back on the horse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Silly thing iv been told it so small it cant be seen but i know it's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to love yourself to begin with. Your body is part of you and is what it is. Your personality and sociability are other parts of you.

What you'll find is that people will often look beyond the obvious and be attracted by other aspects of you.

From the few pics you have you seem fine to me. And you've had meets too. Just do moderate exercise, eat healthily and enjoy being you ... then everyone else will enjoy you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly thing iv been told it so small it cant be seen but i know it's there

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I have a scar on my cheek. I was embarassed of it at first, but it seems like quite a few women actually like it. Now I wish I had more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have scars, they’re a sign of survival. Try some bio oil on it and it will fade a lot and be less noticeable. But if someone is put off by it, then it’s their issue and not yours. No ones body is perfect, I’ve lots of scars some more noticeable than others and it’s never been a problem x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think your right she didnt see it till i pointed it out

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I think your right she didnt see it till i pointed it out "

Its the internal scars you can't see that cause issues. Embrace the fact whatever happened didn't kill ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im dealing with those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby has 2 scars that are quite big. I love them. Like someone said-the marks of a survivor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand "

Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand

Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x"

I have this habit of telling the person before i take my top off about it as im paranoid theyll hate it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand

Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x

I have this habit of telling the person before i take my top off about it as im paranoid theyll hate it haha"

Some find scars sexy to be fair. Not sure stretch marks have the same effect though! I wouldn’t worry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now i like stretch marks

With me as some one said its in my head

Its barely visible but i know its their so in my head its being stared at

It also dont help when exs kick every ounce of confidence out of you

But on the plus side i had someone checking me out as i walked out of the petrol station today massive ego trip for me as it wasnt the store detective

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

A scar is a badge of existence.. would you rather no scar and not here at all

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