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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds too mills and boon for me..

If its fab its fucking

If its dating its dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But is there cake though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex? "

First meet if only social that is fine but waiting to 3rd unless there are solid reasons not to try each other would make me wonder if the guy was sexually competent - plenty of guys on here who are only up to chatting and wanking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario"

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "

I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "

You won't get that on here

Its a swingers/sex site..

Unless you go home after the first social that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First meet if only social that is fine but waiting to 3rd unless there are solid reasons not to try each other would make me wonder if the guy was sexually competent - plenty of guys on here who are only up to chatting and wanking."

To my mind it would be mutual... for erotic effect... to tease out the anticipation longer... make it almost painful before you throw off the reigns and go wild. Denial followed by indulgence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "

That's what messaging and telephone calls before a meet are all about so that when you do meet you can decide on the first date if you want to try them out or not. If you aren't excited to meet them then you should try someone else.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m not looking for a relationship. I’m happy to have a social but if I’m meeting someone for a second time I would want it to involve sex.

More often than not the first meet would also involve the option for sex too.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had some where it's been more than 3 meets due to one reason or another. Never had any complaints when it finally did happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ready and willing but depends on the build up

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I was dating your OP might sound like a real life scenario. On here, for me, a first social is enough for me to know whether I want to take it further or not. So a second meet would be for sex, simple as that really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing "

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was dating your OP might sound like a real life scenario. On here, for me, a first social is enough for me to know whether I want to take it further or not. So a second meet would be for sex, simple as that really! "

There's definitely a place on Fab for meeting, feeling a surge of chemistry, and just going with it and fucking... all in one date. But I do think Fab is missing out on something if there isn't a laid back culture about maybe meeting several times and just teasing each other before you have sex. As you said, the op closely echoes an experience I had earlier in the year when dating... and it was soooo sexy. I just find it odd that there isn't the awareness on here that sometimes it's the teasing and the increasing magnetism that really takes the sex to the next level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Meets for sex or dates for a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever."

Best rule ......... what’s the 2nd rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole. "

I am amazed that you give your home address to a stranger for him to pick you up? I always arrange a first meet in a public place and not just round the corner to where I live.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever.

Best rule ......... what’s the 2nd rule "

There are no other rules

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"If I was dating your OP might sound like a real life scenario. On here, for me, a first social is enough for me to know whether I want to take it further or not. So a second meet would be for sex, simple as that really!

There's definitely a place on Fab for meeting, feeling a surge of chemistry, and just going with it and fucking... all in one date. But I do think Fab is missing out on something if there isn't a laid back culture about maybe meeting several times and just teasing each other before you have sex. As you said, the op closely echoes an experience I had earlier in the year when dating... and it was soooo sexy. I just find it odd that there isn't the awareness on here that sometimes it's the teasing and the increasing magnetism that really takes the sex to the next level "

On here I'd find that a bit frustrating and assume the bloke was 'all talk'. All that teasing stuff can happen between meets, assuming you wanted to meet up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever.

Best rule ......... what’s the 2nd rule

There are no other rules "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I’m hungry then I’ll meeg for cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole.

I am amazed that you give your home address to a stranger for him to pick you up? I always arrange a first meet in a public place and not just round the corner to where I live."

I actually met him in a pub car park, I left my car there and got in his, we were supposed to go to Starbucks but he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house so we then drove to my house.

Been here a long time, know that I'm so messed up and clingy that guys would run 200 miles in the opposite direction from me than want to actually turn up at my house unannounced, after so many meets they grab crucifixes and try and protect themselves from me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No one comes to my house ever....learned that the hard way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh if I’m meeting I just want ma hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met anyone from fab but had two fwb.I always suggest a social first and let the lady pick somewhere that she feels comfortable to meet.I also stress that there's no expectation of play on a first meet, it's just to see if we click and both want to go further. That said, the first was a coffee social that lead to some serious snogging and fumbling that undoubtedly would have turned more serious given the opportunity. Thereafter we always met at her house, by her choice to fuck each other silly. The second invited me to her house on the first meet, and we were all over each other in pretty short order. In both cases we had spent some time chatting beforehand so were quite confident that we would click on meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole. "

Don’t you think though, he had forethought that he was going to ask to come in for a cuppa knowing full well he’d most likely get sex? That’s why I never meet anywhere near where I live. I don’t want to feel pressured in any way, not that I’m saying you were, but the possibility is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "

News to me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv played with 4 maybe 5 on first go but totally depends how strong the chemestry is

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck

News to me ..."

You learn something new every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever."
I could have wrote this myself, we learn from our mistakes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck

News to me ...

You learn something new every day "

Yep!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever. I could have wrote this myself, we learn from our mistakes though "

Absolutely...regretted it ever since but much better things have happened from it so onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever. I could have wrote this myself, we learn from our mistakes though

Absolutely...regretted it ever since but much better things have happened from it so onwards and upwards "

Same here and it did put me off meeting,but onwards and upwards from now

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever. I could have wrote this myself, we learn from our mistakes though

Absolutely...regretted it ever since but much better things have happened from it so onwards and upwards

Same here and it did put me off meeting,but onwards and upwards from now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly all my first meets are socials........ you just don’t know...... some don’t make it past the first outing

I've broken that rule once...never again, biggest mistake ever. I could have wrote this myself, we learn from our mistakes though

Absolutely...regretted it ever since but much better things have happened from it so onwards and upwards

Same here and it did put me off meeting,but onwards and upwards from now

"

I’m glad it didn’t xx

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It sounds more like dating to me, it's not what I'm on Fab for.

And if you want to build up the anticipation there are other ways to do it between a social and a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the fuck a stranger format works at clubs and possibly some meets. It really doesn't matter what their personality is if you're attracted to them physically. You can imagine they're a nice desirable person, fuck them, and then wander off in search of the jaffa cakes.

I think the social followed by a fuck can work if there's great chemistry or if your main impulse is still physical but you like to know the person you're fucking at least meets some minimum personality requirements i.e not being a total twat.

But when you're really much more driven by people's personalities, when it's the person you want to fuck and not just the pussy or cock, it would be nicer to have a little more interaction first to figure out if you want to have sex with them. This could be a first date followed by an arrangement to meet for a second time to fuck. Or it could involve a slightly more circuitous adventure of flirtation.

I worry that on Fab people take it as a "no thanks" if you don't jump on them on a first date. Either that or they expect great chemistry straight up and are intolerant if that doesn't happen. It feels a bit pressured and judgemental to me. I'd prefer to take my time and weave an intoxicating story out between us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "

I seem to rush on dating apps and do exactly what you wrote when meeting on here. Funny but I’ve quite enjoyed building up the tension on here over a few dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone suggested this to me as a challenge, I'd take it (in my former fab days)

From my point of view it actually sounds very exciting.

To be fair you'd both have to live pretty close together to just do the 'tease' thing. I can't imagine anyone from up north travelling to the south just so they could tease eachother.

In theory yes, but circumstances would have to be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole.

I am amazed that you give your home address to a stranger for him to pick you up? I always arrange a first meet in a public place and not just round the corner to where I live."

I’ve done that many times. I do get to know someone over a long period of time so not just someone I chatted to that day/week. I also live with 5 guys so feel pretty safe then coming over to mine for drinks or dinner. It’s them that usually feels intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the fuck a stranger format works at clubs and possibly some meets. It really doesn't matter what their personality is if you're attracted to them physically. You can imagine they're a nice desirable person, fuck them, and then wander off in search of the jaffa cakes.

I think the social followed by a fuck can work if there's great chemistry or if your main impulse is still physical but you like to know the person you're fucking at least meets some minimum personality requirements i.e not being a total twat.

But when you're really much more driven by people's personalities, when it's the person you want to fuck and not just the pussy or cock, it would be nicer to have a little more interaction first to figure out if you want to have sex with them. This could be a first date followed by an arrangement to meet for a second time to fuck. Or it could involve a slightly more circuitous adventure of flirtation.

I worry that on Fab people take it as a "no thanks" if you don't jump on them on a first date. Either that or they expect great chemistry straight up and are intolerant if that doesn't happen. It feels a bit pressured and judgemental to me. I'd prefer to take my time and weave an intoxicating story out between us xx"

You should write a book

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Always ready and willing but depends on the build up"

Ay. That's my line haha

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"But is there cake though? "

Nah. This isn't a cake thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I love this place. Looking through I go from this and your sweet romantic mills and boon stuff to “Looking for worn knickers to sniff and wank with”. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds too mills and boon for me..

If its fab its fucking

If its dating its dating "

Exactly

Done the dating when we met.

We aren't here to date others

We are here to have sexual fun with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole.

Don’t you think though, he had forethought that he was going to ask to come in for a cuppa knowing full well he’d most likely get sex? That’s why I never meet anywhere near where I live. I don’t want to feel pressured in any way, not that I’m saying you were, but the possibility is there. "

Oh yeah most definitely. He even said to me there and then that he wanted to fuck me. Said that he only suggested Starbucks so he could make a quick getaway if I wasn't the person in my pictures. As soon as I got in his car he said let's sack off Starbucks and have a cuppa tea in your house instead.

I wasn't prepared for sex there and then so we did some mutual genital and arse hole sucking and the next day he was off to the Middle East for 17 days.

Did fuck him within 12 hours of him landing back on uk soil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the fuck a stranger format works at clubs and possibly some meets. It really doesn't matter what their personality is if you're attracted to them physically. You can imagine they're a nice desirable person, fuck them, and then wander off in search of the jaffa cakes.

I think the social followed by a fuck can work if there's great chemistry or if your main impulse is still physical but you like to know the person you're fucking at least meets some minimum personality requirements i.e not being a total twat.

But when you're really much more driven by people's personalities, when it's the person you want to fuck and not just the pussy or cock, it would be nicer to have a little more interaction first to figure out if you want to have sex with them. This could be a first date followed by an arrangement to meet for a second time to fuck. Or it could involve a slightly more circuitous adventure of flirtation.

I worry that on Fab people take it as a "no thanks" if you don't jump on them on a first date. Either that or they expect great chemistry straight up and are intolerant if that doesn't happen. It feels a bit pressured and judgemental to me. I'd prefer to take my time and weave an intoxicating story out between us xx"

You are sweet. You want all the heaving bosoms and chasing about in a twisty maze by moonlight first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are sweet. You want all the heaving bosoms and chasing about in a twisty maze by moonlight first. "

Oh that sounds great! Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meanwhile in a world beyond Wuthering Heights.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is why I love this place. Looking through I go from this and your sweet romantic mills and boon stuff to “Looking for worn knickers to sniff and wank with”. Haha. "

It's nice for a change every now and then isn't it. A bit of enchanting kissing and chasing amongst the undie munchers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex? "

I absolutely love the idea of this, it’s all about the tease and the build up. There’s equally a time and place for a quick fuck but the long sensual encounter wins for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I absolutely love the idea of this, it’s all about the tease and the build up. There’s equally a time and place for a quick fuck but the long sensual encounter wins for me "

Yes yes! It's not just mills and boon is it. It's more like a form of teasing. Almost like cuckolding but of course very different. I just mean in the sense that part of the buzz is in not being allowed... just yet

In a similar way I love silent sex when you're worried someone else might hear you. The fact that you have to withhold yourself to some extent makes it even more naughty xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning to fuck "
thats because its swingers sie and people are here to have sex. A date is completly different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I absolutely love the idea of this, it’s all about the tease and the build up. There’s equally a time and place for a quick fuck but the long sensual encounter wins for me

Yes yes! It's not just mills and boon is it. It's more like a form of teasing. Almost like cuckolding but of course very different. I just mean in the sense that part of the buzz is in not being allowed... just yet

In a similar way I love silent sex when you're worried someone else might hear you. The fact that you have to withhold yourself to some extent makes it even more naughty xx"

Tease and denial make some seriously hot sex when the time comes, when you’re so ready just a look is enough to almost tip you over the edge

Silent sex is another fabulous tease, maintaining eye contact, sucking fingers to muffle the moans .. dammit that’s hot !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting someone it's because I want to fuck them. No other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds more like dating to me, it's not what I'm on Fab for.

And if you want to build up the anticipation there are other ways to do it between a social and a first meet.

"

I agree. I manage to do it without the social bit. Works fantastically well with the type of guy I meet.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex? "

Blimey Barbara Cartland is alive and well and living in Bournemouth....who knew!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

Blimey Barbara Cartland is alive and well and living in Bournemouth....who knew!"

I'm getting my perm and blue rinse next week

Do you think I should spray my poodles purple to match my velvet bed curtains?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I’m not looking for a relationship. I’m happy to have a social but if I’m meeting someone for a second time I would want it to involve sex.

More often than not the first meet would also involve the option for sex too.

"

I hear you, sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of sadistic woman doesnt fuck within first 30 secs of a meet? Pffft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I must be a rarity op because I love the sound of that! Denying what you know you can have is so erotic The flirting, teasing taking you both to a breathless need then stopping....oh my! Obviously not for every meet but if the other party enjoys a build up, why not!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that, I'm a pretty impatient little peach

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I must be a rarity op because I love the sound of that! Denying what you know you can have is so erotic The flirting, teasing taking you both to a breathless need then stopping....oh my! Obviously not for every meet but if the other party enjoys a build up, why not!

Peach x"

Ahh there's always one... thank goodness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saying that, I'm a pretty impatient little peach

Peach x"

When waiting feels this good it's not really waiting is it... it's wonderful tingly anticipation xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the build up of sexual tension and chemistry happens through emails, phone calls and texts. The best meets I've had on here have been after a protracted period of cyber flirting. The first meets have then been fecking fantastic.

And yes, I would like to date as well as fuck, but am realistic about the sort of men I might meet here... Hope springs eternal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But is there cake though? "

If there's cake, I'm in

Fb

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

I have done both ,

Meet for social first and then second time for sex

Or just fancied the arse off them so much just gone for the sex option straight off...

Either works for me ...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I vary the social pause before sex, depending on the other person and my needs. No fixed rules, could wait ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a swinging mwety, no, we meet for sex.

If it was a new relationship, then as long as necessary.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"For me, the build up of sexual tension and chemistry happens through emails, phone calls and texts. The best meets I've had on here have been after a protracted period of cyber flirting. The first meets have then been fecking fantastic.

And yes, I would like to date as well as fuck, but am realistic about the sort of men I might meet here... Hope springs eternal! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets just cut the shit and fuck like bunnys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this with someone from fab. Ended up in a 3 year relationship

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

First meets for me are usually to see if the chemistry you both think is going to be there actually is...then it's all out teasing and tempting until the second meet when you fuck...for me it's as much about personality and a connection of minds as anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this with someone from fab. Ended up in a 3 year relationship "

We took longer that 3 meets, before we had sex, too

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I absolutely love the idea of this, it’s all about the tease and the build up. There’s equally a time and place for a quick fuck but the long sensual encounter wins for me

Yes yes! It's not just mills and boon is it. It's more like a form of teasing. Almost like cuckolding but of course very different. I just mean in the sense that part of the buzz is in not being allowed... just yet

In a similar way I love silent sex when you're worried someone else might hear you. The fact that you have to withhold yourself to some extent makes it even more naughty xx"

Have you considered writing a romantic novel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that dating?

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Would be gutted if the sex was shit after all that lol

Tbh I don’t usually ever fuck someone on the first date / meeting

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I was on here as a single woman, I'd be looking for sex. Possibly, on the first meet but definitely on the second.

If the guy wasn't, I would be looking elsewhere.

This is not a dating site...

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If I was on here as a single woman, I'd be looking for sex. Possibly, on the first meet but definitely on the second.

If the guy wasn't, I would be looking elsewhere.

This is not a dating site...

Nita"

Though to be quite honest...if was wanting sex as a single woman, I would go to a club or a willing male friend.

I would be unlikely to use somewhere like Fab to get sex.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be gutted if the sex was shit after all that lol

Tbh I don’t usually ever fuck someone on the first date / meeting "

This is the doubt I would have! I think I see it more as a type of role play/fantasy almost dominant over each other, like an Argentinian tango if you like! But I don't know how long I could keep it up! I know that I don't like to be the first to give in!

I'm waffling...

Peach x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Isn't that dating?"

Seems that way to me...or the cynical side of me sees it as a way of sugar coating NSA, pretend you're "dating" without any actual emotional investment....whatever floats your boat I guess.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I’m not looking for a relationship. I’m happy to have a social but if I’m meeting someone for a second time I would want it to involve sex.

More often than not the first meet would also involve the option for sex too.

"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex? "

I love that when it occurs spontaneously, when you meet but cannot get anywhere private and you fall into shop doorways in the dark like teenagers in a passionate kissing frenzy.......

....but only had it on dating sites, though it has been offered by one or two real gentlemen on here. I usually meet for a social first time on here and won't meet again if I don't feel the chemistry. But if I do...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Isn't that dating?

Seems that way to me...or the cynical side of me sees it as a way of sugar coating NSA, pretend you're "dating" without any actual emotional investment....whatever floats your boat I guess."

Yeah that gets dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I absolutely love the idea of this, it’s all about the tease and the build up. There’s equally a time and place for a quick fuck but the long sensual encounter wins for me

Yes yes! It's not just mills and boon is it. It's more like a form of teasing. Almost like cuckolding but of course very different. I just mean in the sense that part of the buzz is in not being allowed... just yet

In a similar way I love silent sex when you're worried someone else might hear you. The fact that you have to withhold yourself to some extent makes it even more naughty xx

Have you considered writing a romantic novel? "

Yes... But I'm determined to make it my autobiography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be gutted if the sex was shit after all that lol

Tbh I don’t usually ever fuck someone on the first date / meeting

This is the doubt I would have! I think I see it more as a type of role play/fantasy almost dominant over each other, like an Argentinian tango if you like! But I don't know how long I could keep it up! I know that I don't like to be the first to give in!

I'm waffling...

Peach x"

I give in too easily, one fast spin and bend me over backwards, Im yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love that when it occurs spontaneously, when you meet but cannot get anywhere private and you fall into shop doorways in the dark like teenagers in a passionate kissing frenzy.......

....but only had it on dating sites, though it has been offered by one or two real gentlemen on here. I usually meet for a social first time on here and won't meet again if I don't feel the chemistry. But if I do... "

Yes Frisky So exhilarating and sexy when that happens isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be gutted if the sex was shit after all that lol

Tbh I don’t usually ever fuck someone on the first date / meeting

This is the doubt I would have! I think I see it more as a type of role play/fantasy almost dominant over each other, like an Argentinian tango if you like! But I don't know how long I could keep it up! I know that I don't like to be the first to give in!

I'm waffling...

Peach x

I give in too easily, one fast spin and bend me over backwards, Im yours "

That could work too

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Rare as hen's teeth on here. Most are in a massive hurry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever fucked one guy on a first meet and that was because i was quite taken with how sexy his arse looked in the trousers he had on.

That was the day i realised that men with big (firm) buttocks really do it for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I love that when it occurs spontaneously, when you meet but cannot get anywhere private and you fall into shop doorways in the dark like teenagers in a passionate kissing frenzy.......

....but only had it on dating sites, though it has been offered by one or two real gentlemen on here. I usually meet for a social first time on here and won't meet again if I don't feel the chemistry. But if I do...

Yes Frisky So exhilarating and sexy when that happens isn't it "

I've had that kind of chemistry and passion at the end of a social, just never met again without some privacy on here lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't that dating?

Seems that way to me...or the cynical side of me sees it as a way of sugar coating NSA, pretend you're "dating" without any actual emotional investment....whatever floats your boat I guess."

Awww don't be cynical. Peach has got it. It's more like an Argentinian tango where you both know you want each other but you both just lead each other right to the edge and let the anticipation send you crazy.

I've long noticed that on Fab the only pedal is the accelerator. Whilst in eroticism in general the brake pedal can be just as rewarding. It's something very few on Fab get. But those who do are real treasures imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rare as hen's teeth on here. Most are in a massive hurry "

That's exactly my feeling too. Not from some of the lovely women I connect with via the forums. But with non forum people. I just get the sense that they're only willing to give me one evening and if I don't fulfil my purpose of fucking them good and proper they'll put me down as a time waster. And if I do fuck em they'll probably move on anyway. Just too hurried imo

No sense of the wider erotic possibilities of bubbling up something pulse racingly intimate and clothes rippingly desired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had full sex with two men on here. First was after six months of talking and it was maybe the fifth meet. Second was after nine months of talking and it was our first meet as everything felt so right.

For me it depends on the person and the chemistry. But everyone I've met, whether it's been a social or full sex, have been quite happy with their time with me (that I know of) and that's all that matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't fuck on a first meet, purely because I only do bareback and there's gotta be prep for that. I've got to be taking the pill for at least 7 days before sex. I don't stay on it constantly cos I'm an ex smoker and see no point if I'm not having regular sex. The other is sexual health, I'm all clean and up to date since I last had sex in January but the guy would need a clean bill too.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Do you really believe this or are you just trying to make yourself look appealing?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Rare as hen's teeth on here. Most are in a massive hurry

That's exactly my feeling too. Not from some of the lovely women I connect with via the forums. But with non forum people. I just get the sense that they're only willing to give me one evening and if I don't fulfil my purpose of fucking them good and proper they'll put me down as a time waster. And if I do fuck em they'll probably move on anyway. Just too hurried imo

No sense of the wider erotic possibilities of bubbling up something pulse racingly intimate and clothes rippingly desired "

Erotic. Now there's a word I like very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you really believe this or are you just trying to make yourself look appealing?"

If you're asking me... Yes I do actually mean it. Earlier in the year I had some quite erotic experiences dating and part of the charm of it was that nothing was arranged, expected, forced, or contrived. It just bubbled up naturally over several dates. In comparison, like another poster, I feel people on Fab are a bit impatient and rushed. Luckily there are some women on Fab who get where I'm coming from. So this thread has been a nice way to connect with like minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you really believe this or are you just trying to make yourself look appealing?

If you're asking me... Yes I do actually mean it. Earlier in the year I had some quite erotic experiences dating and part of the charm of it was that nothing was arranged, expected, forced, or contrived. It just bubbled up naturally over several dates. In comparison, like another poster, I feel people on Fab are a bit impatient and rushed. Luckily there are some women on Fab who get where I'm coming from. So this thread has been a nice way to connect with like minds "
I don't think it's impatience but if I was wanting what your suggesting I would look on a dating site. I rarely meet people for sex twice let alone build it up . I am very much an in the moment type of girl and suspect many on here are looking in the moment.

There is obviously room on here for everyone and how they want to meet and if that's what you want I am sure there are people on here that would enjoy that.

I rarely if ever even do a social and as when I'm meeting only meet in clubs it does tend to be quite fast paced.

Just now I am meeting socially only as not really sure what I want but I do admire you for putting it out there.. and glad you have found some like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you really believe this or are you just trying to make yourself look appealing?

If you're asking me... Yes I do actually mean it. Earlier in the year I had some quite erotic experiences dating and part of the charm of it was that nothing was arranged, expected, forced, or contrived. It just bubbled up naturally over several dates. In comparison, like another poster, I feel people on Fab are a bit impatient and rushed. Luckily there are some women on Fab who get where I'm coming from. So this thread has been a nice way to connect with like minds "

I definitely get you and I’ve had some wonderful dates from here with likeminded people. The most recent one was over 2 weekends. It’s been nice to hang out with someone and not rush. He knows I want to explore the club scene more but he’s not sure. Can’t get that so easily on a dating app. I want romance and filth. Poetry and orgies.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex? "

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want romance and filth. Poetry and orgies. "

I wouldn't mind a bit of kinkiness. I'm not completely vanilla haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's."

Not too sure if this is an invitation. But I'm guessing, as you've blocked me, it probably isn't haha No worries. Just poking fun. I think it's lovely that you'd be open to this. I hope you find it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/hWDQthSdfHg

Will tell u all you need to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/hWDQthSdfHg

Will tell u all you need to know "

Au contraire. I think you'll find this much more explanative

https://youtu.be/4IeqHQ87-RU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t realise this was a rare scenario

I think it is on here. It's one of the differences between Fab and dating. Everyone always seems in such a hurry on Fab. I quite fancy the idea of getting to know someone over several dates and really teasing up a big yearning

Completely agree with you there... too much flaming hurry "

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's.

Not too sure if this is an invitation. But I'm guessing, as you've blocked me, it probably isn't haha No worries. Just poking fun. I think it's lovely that you'd be open to this. I hope you find it xx"

I only blocked you after an exchange we had via pm about the cause of jet planes to take off (still think I'm right). I meant to take it off again at some point but forgot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's.

Not too sure if this is an invitation. But I'm guessing, as you've blocked me, it probably isn't haha No worries. Just poking fun. I think it's lovely that you'd be open to this. I hope you find it xx

I only blocked you after an exchange we had via pm about the cause of jet planes to take off (still think I'm right). I meant to take it off again at some point but forgot! "

Haha oh that was you. I'm so sorry if I got at you. I was only trying to explain the puzzle. Sorry if I came across as dogmatic I shall gracefully concede to you (and yet it moves ) xx

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's.

Not too sure if this is an invitation. But I'm guessing, as you've blocked me, it probably isn't haha No worries. Just poking fun. I think it's lovely that you'd be open to this. I hope you find it xx

I only blocked you after an exchange we had via pm about the cause of jet planes to take off (still think I'm right). I meant to take it off again at some point but forgot!

Haha oh that was you. I'm so sorry if I got at you. I was only trying to explain the puzzle. Sorry if I came across as dogmatic I shall gracefully concede to you (and yet it moves ) xx"

It would rip it's wheels off

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Do you really believe this or are you just trying to make yourself look appealing?

If you're asking me... Yes I do actually mean it. Earlier in the year I had some quite erotic experiences dating and part of the charm of it was that nothing was arranged, expected, forced, or contrived. It just bubbled up naturally over several dates. In comparison, like another poster, I feel people on Fab are a bit impatient and rushed. "

I know just what you mean. I have a confession - I feel like this sometimes for different reasons. If I meet someone who's young and hot and gorgeous, it might be very easy for me to decide 'Yup, I want!' after 5 mins in their company.

When I meet someone who is older and a bit more craggy and maybe not so fit anymore, I rarely get the same instant chemistry and visceral reaction.

Sometimes it might happen suddenly half way through dinner....sometimes not at all on the first meet.

If I was dating and we liked each other, I might meet them again to see if something slow burn starting smoldering away or a burning passion for them suddenly hit me (which it can do)...but on fab I often have to decide 'sex or not' on that first meet, and often the answer is 'Sorry, not'.

That's fine - if the gent is in a hurry to find someone who really wants him on sight then we are not a match anyway. But some are missing out through lack of patience and I am sure that is true for other ladies sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You meet for a first date and there's a delicious chemistry in the air. You descend into a delicious whirl of flirting, then little touches, before finally succumbing to desirous kisses and passionate grasps. But you agree to leave it at that for this date. After, you write thrilling confessions to each other and talk of yearnings to feel each other more fully.

You meet for a second date at a restaurant and the sparks are flying off you both. All you want to do is fuck. But there's a delicious eroticism in holding back. As you say goodbye in the car park a desire overtakes you both and soon you are in your car grappling clumsily under clothing, kissing intensely, fingers wandering, tongues exploring and tasting. You agree that you really need to fuck. So decide to meet the next day somewhere more cosy.

There, behind closed curtains, on the third date, you finally undress each other in more ways than one, plunging deep into each other and fucking wildly, your desires finally unleashed and running free like a wild rapid gushing over you.

Sound like something you'd like to try? Or too many meets and effort without enough sex?

I would.

But then I've never really dated in real life and what I'm looking for isn't the norm either. I wouldn't necessarily want to have sex every time I met up with someone - that's why I'm looking for fwb's rather than fb's.

Not too sure if this is an invitation. But I'm guessing, as you've blocked me, it probably isn't haha No worries. Just poking fun. I think it's lovely that you'd be open to this. I hope you find it xx

I only blocked you after an exchange we had via pm about the cause of jet planes to take off (still think I'm right). I meant to take it off again at some point but forgot!

Haha oh that was you. I'm so sorry if I got at you. I was only trying to explain the puzzle. Sorry if I came across as dogmatic I shall gracefully concede to you (and yet it moves ) xx

It would rip it's wheels off "

If you keep on at it I'll be ripping something else off Nothing like hot sex after a heated argument eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is deliciously torturous.

If after the 1st meet, the connection was there, then my expectation would be that the 2nd meet would not be a social.

The conversation would have to be leading in the tease direction otherwise I'd think he was all talk.

Have been challenged to this before & yeah, I failed BUT the excitement of the tease & chase still made that a very memorable experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I meet someone who is older and a bit more craggy and maybe not so fit anymore, I rarely get the same instant chemistry and visceral reaction."

Thats the real reason I need more time... to help people to look past the long term effects of jaffa cake eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/hWDQthSdfHg

Will tell u all you need to know

Au contraire. I think you'll find this much more explanative

https://youtu.be/4IeqHQ87-RU

"

Lovelly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is deliciously torturous.

If after the 1st meet, the connection was there, then my expectation would be that the 2nd meet would not be a social.

The conversation would have to be leading in the tease direction otherwise I'd think he was all talk.

Have been challenged to this before & yeah, I failed BUT the excitement of the tease & chase still made that a very memorable experience."

I think we could do it... just as long as you didn't say a single word

But seriously... this is a game for adults. Who cares if you fail to make it through the second or even first date without fucking. It's not like failing doesn't have its own perks You hold out until you can't hold out any longer and you just explode xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/hWDQthSdfHg

Will tell u all you need to know

Au contraire. I think you'll find this much more explanative

https://youtu.be/4IeqHQ87-RU

Lovelly"

Thanks dude. Your ones make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is deliciously torturous.

If after the 1st meet, the connection was there, then my expectation would be that the 2nd meet would not be a social.

The conversation would have to be leading in the tease direction otherwise I'd think he was all talk.

Have been challenged to this before & yeah, I failed BUT the excitement of the tease & chase still made that a very memorable experience.

I think we could do it... just as long as you didn't say a single word

But seriously... this is a game for adults. Who cares if you fail to make it through the second or even first date without fucking. It's not like failing doesn't have its own perks You hold out until you can't hold out any longer and you just explode xx"

I couldn't not give you what I know you really want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was looking to date someone from the real world I wouldn't give up the sex on the first date.

I have on here even though every time I've had a social I specifically say it's a social only and no funny business. I've met over 400 guys socially over 8 years and only wanted to have sex with 5 of those men so I always stare it's a social only.

That being said, the last guy I met in November last year was only supposed to be a coffee social in Starbucks. When he picked me up he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house,he was absolutely stunning, kissing as soon as we got inside, he pulled my tracksuit bottoms off (yes I wore tracksuit bottoms to a first meet) and was on his knees between my legs eating my cunt and arse hole.

I am amazed that you give your home address to a stranger for him to pick you up? I always arrange a first meet in a public place and not just round the corner to where I live.

I actually met him in a pub car park, I left my car there and got in his, we were supposed to go to Starbucks but he said shall we just have a cuppa in your house so we then drove to my house.

Been here a long time, know that I'm so messed up and clingy that guys would run 200 miles in the opposite direction from me than want to actually turn up at my house unannounced, after so many meets they grab crucifixes and try and protect themselves from me. "

That was even more dangerous as you got in his car, took him home and if it had turned bad you didn't even have your car outside to get in and drive away for safety.

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