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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult. | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" Sometimes i wonder | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to Sometimes i wonder " | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult." So I thought it would be fun to join up again as I had enjoyed myself on here a lot in the past but tbh it’s just been really hard work this time. Maybe there’s more men on here and it’s all got a bit feral and competitive but I just don’t see the friendliness and humour as much as I remembered and there seems to be a lot of elitism too. It’s a bit disheartening | |||
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"I’m here for KinkyBird1, it’s definitely a long game I’m playing but I will meet my beau one day xx " | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" Meeting women/couples with the same sexual appetites as myself, making new friends and too enjoy life as much as I can while time permits | |||
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"I’m here for KinkyBird1, it’s definitely a long game I’m playing but I will meet my beau one day xx " Ha sorry, I read that back again and that sounded WAY more wrong than I intended! So apologies if I offended, that wasn’t the intention x Serious answer OP is totally NSA irregular fun, once in a while. Absolutely no strings. Just a bit of a change from the norm. I can quite easily go months without a meet (and sometimes even by choice!) and it doesn’t really worry me. It’s just an occasional sideline! | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" We’re here for sex but we like to meet people several times, even regularly, so that we build friendship and improve the sex... | |||
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"I don't have time or want a full time relationship, I still have needs that FAB help to fulfil." This | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult." Yes - lots of quickie guys but somebody who wants a drink etc is very hard to find. | |||
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"I’m here for KinkyBird1, it’s definitely a long game I’m playing but I will meet my beau one day xx " Does she know | |||
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"I honestley have no idea appart from my own entertainment no idea what i want to get out of it just want to have fun finding out " Haha yep this is me too I think | |||
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"Fun and friendship with like-minded perverts (present company excepted, of course)" Don't forget the cake ! Someone's always got cake | |||
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"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me. I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes. I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that. Alex " Love this. Best answer | |||
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"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me. I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes. I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that. Alex Love this. Best answer " That chimes with me too | |||
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else." My guttering still needs looking at | |||
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else. My guttering still needs looking at " Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it | |||
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"My guttering still needs looking at " It's still leaking?? I thought I'd done a proper job on it! | |||
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else. My guttering still needs looking at Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it " You could read the Oxford dictionary or the telephone directory to me and it would still sound sexy | |||
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"kinky sex is why im here" Call me | |||
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"Carnal satisfaction. I'm not yet fully satisfied hence I'm still here. " I can't get no coz I tried and I tried and I tried I can't get no | |||
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"I'm also here for the tips on how to flash and seduce repair men. I find I can't get them anywhere else. My guttering still needs looking at Hahahahaha that sounded soooooo sexy didn’t it You could read the Oxford dictionary or the telephone directory to me and it would still sound sexy " Awww | |||
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"Good question OP! This is my second time on Fab. I deleted my account the first time round as I found myself spending too much time on here and not really getting much back. This time has been better although it still takes a lot of time! I often come on to chat although not many want more than the odd word or two. I've had a couple of play meets and might have some more if I'm lucky! Generally I've found those I've spoken to to be pleasant and my meets have been great fun. I'm not looking for romance or a partner. But I do like to get to know the people I meet as I think it makes the whole experience much better. I'll shut up now!" More or less our experience, though finding people who want repeat meets is proving hard this time round. | |||
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"I honestley have no idea appart from my own entertainment no idea what i want to get out of it just want to have fun finding out Haha yep this is me too I think " Phew im not alone yaaaaaaaay | |||
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"My guttering still needs looking at It's still leaking?? I thought I'd done a proper job on it!" Can't get the staff nowadays! | |||
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"Ideally to find good sex with sexual libertines who believe in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and open relationships. Alas that's largely not been the case " Damn I wish I still lived in Hackney | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" It doesn't feel the same as many of the old crew if you like have either gone,do their own thing or just can't be arsed. Loads of fakes using blatantly misleading pictures of celebs etc. Which gets people down and therefore less people can be bothered with it. We,myself and Lexi come to get the low down on parties and clubs. Very rarely do private meets,so fab keeps us nicely in the loop of all things naughty | |||
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"kinky sex is why im here Call me " ok i will | |||
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"To find a regular fwb, it's like finding a needle in a haystack! So sometimes, like others, I am wondering what I'm doing here atm to " I really don’t see how! You should have your pick! You’ve long since been on our hotlist Aj | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high st" did you try Oxford Street | |||
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"Ideally to find good sex with sexual libertines who believe in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and open relationships. Alas that's largely not been the case " You took the words right out of my mouth. | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street " Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing " Can you get it on amazon? | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult." ^^^ exactly this, still haven’t found in all the years I have been here. So I am currently on a self imposed celibacy run for over 16 months as I can’t find someone I want to have sexual fun with | |||
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"To have sex with sexy strangers, fulfill my fantasies and chat with like minded people, I went on a proper date last week, told him about Fab, scared the shit out of him, I’ll stick to Fab meets in future, everyone’s in the same page, so much easier x" he is crazy, if i went on a date and the lady was on fab or soemething like it id be in heaven | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing Can you get it on amazon?" I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" Sex | |||
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"We jouned Fab to find a single female to join us for a threesome. We stayed because we love the extra sauciness Fab brings to our lives Jo.Xx" *Joined | |||
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"I can be what I want on here and also say the things I want with nobody tutting behind me. I love being Alex, makes me feel confident and alive plus I get to meet and interact with really nice people and nobody gives a toss that I am basically a male in female clothes. Thanks x I should add that I lead a positive life which is enjoyable. Being on here has given me a new dimension which has added to that. Alex Love this. Best answer " | |||
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"because I suck at relationships, but still need lots of sex " Until the right one comes along | |||
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"because I suck at relationships, but still need lots of sex Until the right one comes along " I’ve stopped looking for the right one | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing Can you get it on amazon? I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing " Ah you’ll be one of those ladies who like fingering the goods before you buy eh? You’ll end up with a bruised peach if you carry on like that! | |||
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"Because I can’t find what I’m looking for on the high stdid you try Oxford Street Maybe I should widen the net, my local shops are all closing Can you get it on amazon? I prefer to feel the quality of the goods before purchasing Ah you’ll be one of those ladies who like fingering the goods before you buy eh? You’ll end up with a bruised peach if you carry on like that! " I have a very light touch | |||
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"To find a regular fwb, it's like finding a needle in a haystack! So sometimes, like others, I am wondering what I'm doing here atm to " I know what you mean, except I wouldn't want to find a needle in a haystack as that doesn't seem like much fun at all | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to I have always used Fab to find a f/b and it used to be easy, even though I am very fussy. However I have found it very hard over the last year. Easy to find fuck and go single men - even when you are not looking, but to find a guy for more who is fun to be with, intelligent and highly sexually skilled is very difficult. Yes - lots of quickie guys but somebody who wants a drink etc is very hard to find." Yup they're around, they're just swamped by the 1 and done guys who im sure get more out funny enough. Otherwise im ture everyone would try harder | |||
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"I'm on here because it allows me to express myself in an anonymous way. I do not expect to have sex as I'm an ugly fucker." Aww | |||
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"To find regular fwb, but it's been much harder this time " Ditto x | |||
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"Here for sex, sex and more sex. And coffee, don't forget the coffee. Maybe the occasional Earl Grey. So far it's all going to plan.... " Even the Earl Grey? | |||
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"Here for sex, sex and more sex. And coffee, don't forget the coffee. Maybe the occasional Earl Grey. So far it's all going to plan.... Even the Earl Grey? " Especially the Earl Grey... | |||
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"Here for sex, sex and more sex. And coffee, don't forget the coffee. Maybe the occasional Earl Grey. So far it's all going to plan.... Even the Earl Grey? " The earl grey is the easy part | |||
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"Before you all start I just wanted to get a broad overview of what brings you here and how it does or doesn’t fulfil you....feel free to speak your minds....I am just trying to gauge why fab doesn’t feel to me quite like it used to" My plan was to find a mid-long term FWB Due to the nature of this site, theres seems to a sense of elitism that kinda categorize single men as the chaff. Understandable, its user inflicted. Just worsens eveything for the good ones. This year has been more about jumping through hoops than actually really building chemistry With very few exceptions | |||
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