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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some women do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Some do

Some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo not me. Im Miss fussy from fussytown!

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol"

This!!

There are enough women tarring men with the same brush, don’t need the fellas to start doing it as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Some women have massive gangbangs they can’t be vetting each guy in terms of attractiveness and suitability as a partner I would imagine

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Some do, some dont. I have to have an attraction, physical and/or a personality or mental attraction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Where are your statistics to back that up hmmmmm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on the past. It’s more of I’m in the mood thing and really want sex. Luckily the older I’ve got the more selective I’ve become.

Think we’ve have all had sex with beer goggles on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Some women have massive gangbangs they can’t be vetting each guy in terms of attractiveness and suitability as a partner I would imagine "

Never had one but I guess your right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t find attractive . No thanks.

As for the women who they wouldn’t date. No chance. Try being a 5.7 guy and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Some might but i wouldn't

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol"

Likewise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol"
more the fact the guy would not date the girl. Do you ever think, ok for a fuck and nothing else?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em....

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

The rule is if you are intelligent and can make a woman laugh you're 99% there, the other 60% is down to looks, how you dress, act and speak.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Some do, some dont. I have to have an attraction, physical and/or a personality or mental attraction x"

I agree with this. And it mental attraction is important too. One of the least satisfying meetings I have had on Fab was with one of the most attractive women that I have met but we just didn’t click. Whereas the best meetings I’ve had have been with women where we have some sort of connection and a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The rule is if you are intelligent and can make a woman laugh you're 99% there, the other 60% is down to looks, how you dress, act and speak. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... "
this is a very valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The rule is if you are intelligent and can make a woman laugh you're 99% there, the other 60% is down to looks, how you dress, act and speak.

This "

Although that’s 159% but I get where you’re coming from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol more the fact the guy would not date the girl. Do you ever think, ok for a fuck and nothing else?"

But I'm not on here to date...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think it's more the way the body works. I'm drier than 10 year old sandpaper if I don't fancy someone and couldn't go through with it for the sake of it.

I can understand being turned on by a situation though, and under the right circumstances (blindfolded) things could be different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women ever look at a man's verifications and get put off by who he's shagged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. There has to be a connection like in vanilla life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would have sex with a guy I'd never date or consider a relationship with. I don't assume all the men we meet would want something long term with me or that the couples would want that with either of us.

This is fantasy land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women ever look at a man's verifications and get put off by who he's shagged."

Yup

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never have sex with someone I don't find attractive and don't fancy.. not desperate at all lol more the fact the guy would not date the girl. Do you ever think, ok for a fuck and nothing else?

But I'm not on here to date..."
very valid point

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Do women ever look at a man's verifications and get put off by who he's shagged."

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

not me no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x"
was it still enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x"

is that your choice or hubbys

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point"

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!"

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Unless it’s a disposable 20 min interaction in a club dark room, I just don’t understand why anyone would do this. Maybe my definition of ‘find attractive’ is broader than those who claim attraction isn’t necessary..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some "

Ah, but the more someone gets in my head the more attractive they become.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!"
this is true. I'd rather friends with benefits or date someone who at least likes rugby and can drink with the lads. Looks are secondary to that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some

Ah, but the more someone gets in my head the more attractive they become. "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some

Ah, but the more someone gets in my head the more attractive they become. "

I’ll remember that

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"The rule is if you are intelligent and can make a woman laugh you're 99% there, the other 60% is down to looks, how you dress, act and speak.

This

Although that’s 159% but I get where you’re coming from! "

... And I was hoping women would be more superficial too. Hmmmm.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some "

Oh I didn't say that lol, I'm very partial to a gorgeous man, but it's not where I place a persons value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do it all the time on fab meets, we both get turned on by the situation and watching each other. What the other people look like is pretty irrelevant, as long as they are in decent-ish shape and have a good personality so we can have a laugh then its all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread as given me hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I would never date those dumb young bucks with a six pack, but I might shag 'em.... this is a very valid point

It is. People think looks are the be all and end all, but newsflash, they're not!

Good to know that looks don’t matter for some

Ah, but the more someone gets in my head the more attractive they become. "

Nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading this thread as given me hope "
you seem a funny and decent guy. Sure you would do fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Most men, glad I’m not one of them. I’ve never got how you can you get intimate with someone you don’t find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"
one of my best meets I had no clue who any of the guys were. And so there was no attraction as I couldn't see them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"
I wouldn't where do you get that theory from

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Not for me has to be some attraction and chemistry there and some ladies do like my elephant mans stunt double look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, glad I’m not one of them. I’ve never got how you can you get intimate with someone you don’t find attractive"

Very easily, its the situation everytime for us but I guess as a couple its a slightly different dynamic. We often say if we were single neither of us would be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, glad I’m not one of them. I’ve never got how you can you get intimate with someone you don’t find attractive

Very easily, its the situation everytime for us but I guess as a couple its a slightly different dynamic. We often say if we were single neither of us would be on fab."
if agree with it sometimes being the situation. I've had group play with guys I wouldn't meet in a more intimate situation but enjoyed it as it's the situation and experience that is the turn on. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, glad I’m not one of them. I’ve never got how you can you get intimate with someone you don’t find attractive

Very easily, its the situation everytime for us but I guess as a couple its a slightly different dynamic. We often say if we were single neither of us would be on fab.if agree with it sometimes being the situation. I've had group play with guys I wouldn't meet in a more intimate situation but enjoyed it as it's the situation and experience that is the turn on. X"
sometimes really hot people are crap in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, glad I’m not one of them. I’ve never got how you can you get intimate with someone you don’t find attractive

Very easily, its the situation everytime for us but I guess as a couple its a slightly different dynamic. We often say if we were single neither of us would be on fab.if agree with it sometimes being the situation. I've had group play with guys I wouldn't meet in a more intimate situation but enjoyed it as it's the situation and experience that is the turn on. X sometimes really hot people are crap in bed."
thats where teaching skills come in anyone had it in them if there willing to learn and put the work in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

Most men, I think you men a small minority of desperate men. Most blokes would rather just have a wank than have sex with a woman they’re not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, I think you men a small minority of desperate men. Most blokes would rather just have a wank than have sex with a woman they’re not attracted to."
to be fair as a woman I am very aware that not all men on here that say they think im sexy mean it. And to some they just think I'm a good bet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, I think you men a small minority of desperate men. Most blokes would rather just have a wank than have sex with a woman they’re not attracted to.to be fair as a woman I am very aware that not all men on here that say they think im sexy mean it. And to some they just think I'm a good bet x "
il have a £5er on the strumpet in the 330

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

From a mans perspective personally need some sort of attraction , connection or it ain’t rising to the occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x was it still enjoyable"

Yes they were great meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

is that your choice or hubbys "

Mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My knob wouldn't work if I didn't fancy them

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

There are billions of blokes on this planet.

What do you mean most. How exactly did you ask? 3

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky


"Do women ever look at a man's verifications and get put off by who he's shagged."

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mainly a man thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't disagree that it's a man thing... but we are all different... I am a fussy fussy person and need an definitely attraction and connection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't sleep with someone I didn't find attractive.

I did have a FWB I could never date, we were very different people and would clash so much but our physical chemistry was incredible.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Its not something i'd do and would be mortified if i qualified as it .

I like playmates to be friends too,people i'd hang out with away from fab,if you know what I mean and there has to be attraction.Even if they aren't conventially attractive,as long as they are to me thats cool.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x"

Exactly the same as us! We’ve had 3 somes with guys with zero attraction but the situation is such a turn on. We both choose who we meet and Mr certainly wouldnt block me from meeting anyone but I only fancy my hubby everyone else is just a fuck no matter what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i dont fancy them then i aint gonna sleep with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

Exactly the same as us! We’ve had 3 somes with guys with zero attraction but the situation is such a turn on. We both choose who we meet and Mr certainly wouldnt block me from meeting anyone but I only fancy my hubby everyone else is just a fuck no matter what they look like."

So you wouldn’t meet someone you find attractive. What time she’ll I come round

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?"

I think saying most is a bit excessive as it implies far more than half and I don't believe thats the case. Granted some get horny on here and lower standards its probably the same for women but I really think/hope someone would only play with someone they find attractive or attracted to in some way to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

Exactly the same as us! We’ve had 3 somes with guys with zero attraction but the situation is such a turn on. We both choose who we meet and Mr certainly wouldnt block me from meeting anyone but I only fancy my hubby everyone else is just a fuck no matter what they look like.

So you wouldn’t meet someone you find attractive. What time she’ll I come round "

Attractiveness has nothing to do with it, its the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

Exactly the same as us! We’ve had 3 somes with guys with zero attraction but the situation is such a turn on. We both choose who we meet and Mr certainly wouldnt block me from meeting anyone but I only fancy my hubby everyone else is just a fuck no matter what they look like.

So you wouldn’t meet someone you find attractive. What time she’ll I come round

Attractiveness has nothing to do with it, its the situation "

It obviously works for you. All I can say is any other couples or single females on here who think the same inbox me face pictures. You never know I might find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never fancied anyone we've met for 3 somes. All lovely guys but not fancied any of them. I don't think I could kiss a woman that I didn't fancy a little tho x

Exactly the same as us! We’ve had 3 somes with guys with zero attraction but the situation is such a turn on. We both choose who we meet and Mr certainly wouldnt block me from meeting anyone but I only fancy my hubby everyone else is just a fuck no matter what they look like.

So you wouldn’t meet someone you find attractive. What time she’ll I come round

Attractiveness has nothing to do with it, its the situation "

This! The extra guy (in the nicest possible way) is somewhat irrelevant. I draw the line at a guy who's boring tho. That I couldn't do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree 100%. Not attraction then what's the point??

Learnt this lesson the hard way. Slept with a girl who was into me a lot more than I was into her & ended up getting the flop halfway through because it just wasn't enjoyable for me. Then she cried because it obviously knocked her self confidence to shit & I just felt fucking awful about the whole thing!

Never again.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm not most men then,I absolutely have to fancy someone and actually like them before I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's more the way the body works. I'm drier than 10 year old sandpaper if I don't fancy someone and couldn't go through with it for the sake of it.

I can understand being turned on by a situation though, and under the right circumstances (blindfolded) things could be different."

10 year old sandpaper!! Well I do like it rough, but that may be pushing it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo not something I'd do, if the chemistry isn't there then it's not going to happen for me, bloke though I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree 100%. Not attraction then what's the point??

Learnt this lesson the hard way. Slept with a girl who was into me a lot more than I was into her & ended up getting the flop halfway through because it just wasn't enjoyable for me. Then she cried because it obviously knocked her self confidence to shit & I just felt fucking awful about the whole thing!

Never again."

OMG I think id cry too lol. Poor girl probably never had sex again haha. All your fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mainly a man thing!"
I wouldn't....... Where does that thought come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree 100%. Not attraction then what's the point??

Learnt this lesson the hard way. Slept with a girl who was into me a lot more than I was into her & ended up getting the flop halfway through because it just wasn't enjoyable for me. Then she cried because it obviously knocked her self confidence to shit & I just felt fucking awful about the whole thing!

Never again.

OMG I think id cry too lol. Poor girl probably never had sex again haha. All your fault! "

Cheers! That makes me feel so much better about the whole situation haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men certainly, but I'm not convinced it's most. If I don't find a woman attractive, and her personality can kill that even if she's stunning, then I won't be turned on by her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree 100%. Not attraction then what's the point??

Learnt this lesson the hard way. Slept with a girl who was into me a lot more than I was into her & ended up getting the flop halfway through because it just wasn't enjoyable for me. Then she cried because it obviously knocked her self confidence to shit & I just felt fucking awful about the whole thing!

Never again.

OMG I think id cry too lol. Poor girl probably never had sex again haha. All your fault!

Cheers! That makes me feel so much better about the whole situation haha!"

Haha probably was a bit harsh in hindsight. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree 100%. Not attraction then what's the point??

Learnt this lesson the hard way. Slept with a girl who was into me a lot more than I was into her & ended up getting the flop halfway through because it just wasn't enjoyable for me. Then she cried because it obviously knocked her self confidence to shit & I just felt fucking awful about the whole thing!

Never again.

OMG I think id cry too lol. Poor girl probably never had sex again haha. All your fault!

Cheers! That makes me feel so much better about the whole situation haha!

Haha probably was a bit harsh in hindsight. Sorry "

Well she's now got a new fella & life is good, so she's doing a hell of a lot better than me ??

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Most men would have sex with a woman that they would never date or find attractive. Is it a man thing? Or do women also do this?

Most men, I think you men a small minority of desperate men. Most blokes would rather just have a wank than have sex with a woman they’re not attracted to."

Not in my experience, from observing over the years. Either that or a lot of women with limbs and a pulse are attractive to them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another group I don't belong to.

But then why would I want to.

Can't decide if this is a little judgemental a windup or the personal prejudice of the OP.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couldn't do it. My mind needs stimulated first before anything physical happens.

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By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I have to find them attractive or something about them attractive.

Just because I like the way someone looks I might not date them. Different opinions or interests outside of the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s a man/woman thing it’s how you separate out the sex bit. In clubs I’ve played with guys I know I wouldn’t date but I found physically attractive. Meeting one to one away from clubs I need a mental attraction more because establishing something like a friendship builds trust as well as attraction over time as I prefer to repeat meet.

I have also had a couple of incredible club encounters where I’ve not even seen their face

I guess what I’m saying is it’s complicated!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I love kissing and I wouldn’t kiss anyone I didn’t fancy, so no kissing, no sex, no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing and I wouldn’t kiss anyone I didn’t fancy, so no kissing, no sex, no thank you "

same here

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