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Wink Button. Pointless ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *rmskirk360Woman
over a year ago

Wigan

For me, yes, but there are plenty that use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i see it as the equivalent as a hi. But us men get piss bored of sending messages to people that just delete. With make it good. Suprise me. Bollox lol.

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By *rmskirk360Woman
over a year ago

Wigan


"Well i see it as the equivalent as a hi. But us men get piss bored of sending messages to people that just delete. With make it good. Suprise me. Bollox lol."

I also see it as a Hi, and don't acknowledge people that wink at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So. Pointless then

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I will acknowledge people who wink at me if they catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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, yeah! I think women doesntn know whats mean to get a Wink. If women were in my country they get a lot of winks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Idiots.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Look at it from a woman's perspective. My inbox could be a full time job if I let it become one. I try to put in most thought and effort to those who put most into me. No, that doesn't always mean I'll reply to even well written well considered messages (because rejecting someone opens me up to abuse). But if I don't have time for the copy paste messages or the one liners, I have even less time for someone who's just clicked a button.

Some people use them. I think it's better when people use them to wink at men, because they're usually not drowning. But I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for us. Most of the time we wink we see some action from the receiver one way or the other.

We review winks too and if interested - respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely respond to winks

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We don't usually respond to winks, used to wink back but seemed pointless. Always reply to polite messages tho

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

I always respond to , a wink , or someone just saying "hi" , I treat it like if someone says "hello" to me as we pass on the street , , however I do appreciate that if I was one of the lady's (or gents or couples on here) being inundated with winks it could be difficult and time consuming , in which case I would probably put the message "thanks for your winks" as my update ,,, having said that it is very unusual for me to send a wink , would rather send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Idiots. "

Wow, Mr Angry

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We don't often respond to winks simply because at least 9 out of 10 have obviously not read (or chose to ignore) our profile.

However we nearly always take a look at the profile of who has sent it and if we think there is a realistic chance of us meeting then we will respond.

However because of our location, which is clearly spelled out in our profile, these are very few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never respond to, it even check my winks. I sometimes wink at guys (very rarely though) if I like the look but maybe think I don’t fit his criteria, giving him the opportunity to read my profile and decide for himself. I never expect a response ever!

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By *esley_CTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If I like the look of the person who has winked at me, I'll wink back - then leave it to them! The trouble is, very often it's from a profile with no pics and very little filled in - so there's nothing to wink back to! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree a wink is a hi.!! I message women send a face picture. They don't read and if they do they don't bother to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respond but as a single male my inbox is not inundated.

Coupled and females picking up 200 emails a day won't have the time.

I suspect 90% of the profiles on here are single males, (or couples accounts where the only poster is a male).

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