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Playing hard to get.. or not!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On one hand - is anyone who isn’t prepared to work for your affection and who gives up after the first knockback worthy of you anyway? I mean they can’t be THAT into you can they if they give up that easily?

On the other hand, NO means NO, and if you’ve said no once, for fucks sake why don’t they just fuck off and leave you alone!? Can’t they get the message!?

So which is it ladies!? Help us out here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle. I might put up a bit of resistance without it being an outright no. The games and the teasing are all part of the fun no?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I get hard to play

I think that’s different

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"On one hand - is anyone who isn’t prepared to work for your affection and who gives up after the first knockback worthy of you anyway? I mean they can’t be THAT into you can they if they give up that easily?

On the other hand, NO means NO, and if you’ve said no once, for fucks sake why don’t they just fuck off and leave you alone!? Can’t they get the message!?

So which is it ladies!? Help us out here! "

As a famous lady once said we don’t know what we want and we want it now .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id agree with the second part. If ive said no its because i mean no. But if im chatting to someone then im interested and i expect them to put as much work into it as me otherwise im not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On one hand - is anyone who isn’t prepared to work for your affection and who gives up after the first knockback worthy of you anyway? I mean they can’t be THAT into you can they if they give up that easily?

On the other hand, NO means NO, and if you’ve said no once, for fucks sake why don’t they just fuck off and leave you alone!? Can’t they get the message!?

So which is it ladies!? Help us out here!

As a famous lady once said we don’t know what we want and we want it now . "

Love that ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God im too old for games. If I say no it’s no thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I say no, I mean no. I'm not into game playing and I'm not trying to win anybody's affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play hard

But no is no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go hard or go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go hard or go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go hard or go home "

Cum hard then go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On one hand - is anyone who isn’t prepared to work for your affection and who gives up after the first knockback worthy of you anyway? I mean they can’t be THAT into you can they if they give up that easily?

On the other hand, NO means NO, and if you’ve said no once, for fucks sake why don’t they just fuck off and leave you alone!? Can’t they get the message!?

So which is it ladies!? Help us out here!

As a famous lady once said we don’t know what we want and we want it now . "

Excellent!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I say no then I mean no. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go hard or go home

Cum hard then go home "
my place or yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends if i like you or not..

I have been known to be hard work but I know I am worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go hard or go home

Cum hard then go home my place or yours? "

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go get or i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go hard or go home

Cum hard then go home my place or yours?

Neither "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no. Don't matter how many times or often one may ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just sit back as they come to u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady says no, that's it! I'll take her at her word. If she really meant yes but ask another dozen times... Bugger that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just sit back as they come to u"

Not my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of hard to get

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Good one lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Oh, ok, go on then but make it quick, my dinners in the oven!

Was I too easy?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just sit back as they come to u

Not my style "
feisty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean "

great answer!

Exactly, to me no means no, a cue like “ha, you’re going to need to do better than that!” suggests maybe that door isn’t totally shut if I up my game a bit!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean

great answer!

Exactly, to me no means no, a cue like “ha, you’re going to need to do better than that!” suggests maybe that door isn’t totally shut if I up my game a bit! "

Why don’t you practice on me and l let you know

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean "

I think that's how I see it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean

great answer!

Exactly, to me no means no, a cue like “ha, you’re going to need to do better than that!” suggests maybe that door isn’t totally shut if I up my game a bit!

Why don’t you practice on me and l let you know "

No! (Ha. See what I did there!? )

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If I’m non-committal then I’m open to chatting and see where it goes if both parties put in equal effort but if I say ‘no’ then that’s what I mean

great answer!

Exactly, to me no means no, a cue like “ha, you’re going to need to do better than that!” suggests maybe that door isn’t totally shut if I up my game a bit!

Why don’t you practice on me and l let you know

No! (Ha. See what I did there!? )"

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

If I play hard to get, it works too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I play hard to get, it works too well. "

Haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't play games, just be honest, direct, though thoughtful of others.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like to say no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just sit back as they come to u

Not my style "

Its mine

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