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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It usually looks better than a scrotum so there’s some good news

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol.."

So it doesnt stop you playing with said odd looking penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is to put it somewhere wet and warm so you don't have to look at it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Even though I’m straight there are some cock I think ‘ew put that away’. Whereas others I can appreciate are aesthetically pleasing to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

"
I do however mine is stunning

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Seen one, seen them all pretty much.

Imagine how a male gynecologist must feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this. I'm more turned off by cum shots though.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol..

So it doesnt stop you playing with said odd looking penis? "

I only play with my own cock.... lol..

Just saying you can't get away from it site is full of cock pics..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message"
they're so hairy and wrinkly they look like grandpa sleeping upside down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even though I’m straight there are some cock I think ‘ew put that away’. Whereas others I can appreciate are aesthetically pleasing to look at. "

Indeed ,exactly what im trying to say .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message"

This is what im saying.

Some just put me rite off .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol..

So it doesnt stop you playing with said odd looking penis?

I only play with my own cock.... lol..

Just saying you can't get away from it site is full of cock pics..x"

I wasnt asking to get away from them . I love cocks just not some cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message

This is what im saying.

Some just put me rite off . "

Don't respond then..

You don't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message

This is what im saying.

Some just put me rite off .

Don't respond then..

You don't have to"
oh yes you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message

This is what im saying.

Some just put me rite off .

Don't respond then..

You don't have tooh yes you do"

Bugger off you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol.."

Oh im used to it allrite .

Im not scared of them , its not a rat its a penis i dont like the look of and my vajayjay instantly sealed itself and hibernated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

"

I always get put off by pics of penises unless it's my own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some cocks look like they need putting to sleep..

If i don't like the look of it i won't even respond to the message

This is what im saying.

Some just put me rite off .

Don't respond then..

You don't have to"

I dont respond , i just posted about the look of some cocks and if they turn you off not whether you respond or not

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"Sorry to say your going to have to get use to it.....

I was shocked when i 1st joined..now just see past them..

but there are cocks everywhere... lol..

Oh im used to it allrite .

Im not scared of them , its not a rat its a penis i dont like the look of and my vajayjay instantly sealed itself and hibernated."

... lol... welcome too forums have fun....x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

I always get put off by pics of penises unless it's my own"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I’m straight there are some cock I think ‘ew put that away’. Whereas others I can appreciate are aesthetically pleasing to look at. "

I agree with this from a straight female perspective

It also depends on what they are doing with it in the pic, and the angle etc

I don't mind a pic of a very nice one tho, not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even though I’m straight there are some cock I think ‘ew put that away’. Whereas others I can appreciate are aesthetically pleasing to look at.

I agree with this from a straight female perspective

It also depends on what they are doing with it in the pic, and the angle etc

I don't mind a pic of a very nice one tho, not at all "

Oh me too , its allways a pleasure to view and keep peeping at nice cocks , very nice indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks "

Oh "vitilligo"? Theres a new word for me , what is this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as mine works im not fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I agree about flaccid cocks too, not erotic in the slightest

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I met a guy once, not on fab, his penis was shaped like a pyramid with a ball on top, no kidding, reminded me of garden sculptures. Compared to that, most on here look pretty normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks

Oh "vitilligo"? Theres a new word for me , what is this ? "

Think I've spelt it wrong but it's basically discolouration of the skin so brown patches on fair skin people. White patches on darker skin people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine looks like Barry Manillow if I put some sun glasses on it lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Ooh a nice penis shaming thread,you need to do a badly wrapped kebab shaming thread as well to even it out.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks "

This exactly. Saw one on here the other day with warts on Some photos people post are just vile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what’s being said and fabs awash with cock shots and I’m not one to flash mine all over ( unless requested ha )but that said I think it’s a little harsh I mean not all pussys are pretty. And I guess most guys want to follow what you lovely ladies do with your profile and pictures . What would you like to see as an alternative profile filler photo from a man ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine looks like Barry Manillow if I put some sun glasses on it lol"

Pictures or you're fibbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine looks like Barry Manillow if I put some sun glasses on it lol"

Oh mandyyyyy you came and you gave without takingggg .. sorry i often burst into song at inappropriate times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks "
a have to ask ..... define a pretty cock ? Please

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Have to say I don’t like these kind of posts at all. I find them to be demeaning and body shaming. We all have our opinions of what we like and what we don’t like but I do feel if it was some guy writing a post saying I tell you what kind of pussy I don’t like. One that’s this colour only etc etc, he’d be jumped on.

If it’s something you don’t like just move on.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get what’s being said and fabs awash with cock shots and I’m not one to flash mine all over ( unless requested ha )but that said I think it’s a little harsh I mean not all pussys are pretty. And I guess most guys want to follow what you lovely ladies do with your profile and pictures . What would you like to see as an alternative profile filler photo from a man ?? "

Its not harsh its a fact. Some cocks are not aesthetically pleasing.

My post is about penisses though not vaginas, maybe make a similar post about vaginas if they offend your eyes sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks a have to ask ..... define a pretty cock ? Please "

There are a few pretty cocks on here. So generally a foreskin that doesn't look like a shrivelled balloon. Firm looking cock. Just attractive to look at. Nice colour. Looks powerful . I could name 3 forumites off the top of my head that have nice looking cocks but I don't want them to think I'm trying to get into their pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

"

Yep

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I get what’s being said and fabs awash with cock shots and I’m not one to flash mine all over ( unless requested ha )but that said I think it’s a little harsh I mean not all pussys are pretty. And I guess most guys want to follow what you lovely ladies do with your profile and pictures . What would you like to see as an alternative profile filler photo from a man ??

Its not harsh its a fact. Some cocks are not aesthetically pleasing.

My post is about penisses though not vaginas, maybe make a similar post about vaginas if they offend your eyes sir "

Why don't you make your pic's visible so we can all have a say on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to say I don’t like these kind of posts at all. I find them to be demeaning and body shaming. We all have our opinions of what we like and what we don’t like but I do feel if it was some guy writing a post saying I tell you what kind of pussy I don’t like. One that’s this colour only etc etc, he’d be jumped on.

If it’s something you don’t like just move on.

Lex"

Its not body shaming at all as ive not mentioned any names .

Ive merely asked if i was alone in bieng put of by different looks.

And the majority of replies agree that some are not aesthetically pleasing . And do halt play.

If you dislike the post there is no need to respond with your personal views on a completly different subject .

Trolling is not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get what’s being said and fabs awash with cock shots and I’m not one to flash mine all over ( unless requested ha )but that said I think it’s a little harsh I mean not all pussys are pretty. And I guess most guys want to follow what you lovely ladies do with your profile and pictures . What would you like to see as an alternative profile filler photo from a man ??

Its not harsh its a fact. Some cocks are not aesthetically pleasing.

My post is about penisses though not vaginas, maybe make a similar post about vaginas if they offend your eyes sir

Why don't you make your pic's visible so we can all have a say on them."

If i had a penis i would

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Have to say I don’t like these kind of posts at all. I find them to be demeaning and body shaming. We all have our opinions of what we like and what we don’t like but I do feel if it was some guy writing a post saying I tell you what kind of pussy I don’t like. One that’s this colour only etc etc, he’d be jumped on.

If it’s something you don’t like just move on.

Lex"

I'm in complete agree,it's not nice is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

"
I don't have any cock pics on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get what’s being said and fabs awash with cock shots and I’m not one to flash mine all over ( unless requested ha )but that said I think it’s a little harsh I mean not all pussys are pretty. And I guess most guys want to follow what you lovely ladies do with your profile and pictures . What would you like to see as an alternative profile filler photo from a man ??

Its not harsh its a fact. Some cocks are not aesthetically pleasing.

My post is about penisses though not vaginas, maybe make a similar post about vaginas if they offend your eyes sir "
I didn’t say i personally was offended maybe I’m just more tolerant than you

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’m not a troll and that’s a bit of a low blow to pull from someone who comes along saying don’t you think a lot of these pics are disgusting. You don’t need to mention names to body shame. It’s not about anyone in particular. It’s about the culture in saying this is not a good look and people should conform to a particular standard. That is something that leads to a whole raft of issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why some guy's have pics of flaccid Penises on their profile. There is nothing attractive about it at all. Or some with lumps and bumps on or looking sore- instant turn off keep it hid. One guy on here Had vitiligo on his cock all very well but it looks bloody horrible on photos keep them to friends only. And don't get me wrong I'll happily look at pretty cocks a have to ask ..... define a pretty cock ? Please Hahahaha that’s some check list I’ll scrutinise mine later ... wish me luck !

There are a few pretty cocks on here. So generally a foreskin that doesn't look like a shrivelled balloon. Firm looking cock. Just attractive to look at. Nice colour. Looks powerful . I could name 3 forumites off the top of my head that have nice looking cocks but I don't want them to think I'm trying to get into their pants "

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Have to say I don’t like these kind of posts at all. I find them to be demeaning and body shaming. We all have our opinions of what we like and what we don’t like but I do feel if it was some guy writing a post saying I tell you what kind of pussy I don’t like. One that’s this colour only etc etc, he’d be jumped on.

If it’s something you don’t like just move on.

Lex

I'm in complete agree,it's not nice is it."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh a nice penis shaming thread,you need to do a badly wrapped kebab shaming thread as well to even it out."

I was thinking the same but you worded it better (mrs)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Hello this is my 1st post so go easy on me

After reading some messages i then proceed to view the profile and photos .

Even if the profile is a turn on and what im looking for the photo of the cock puts me rite off.

Not because its massive or even tiny but because of its look

Ie massive helmet or

Blue helmet or

Thin with a massive helmet

Skin colour ie red /blue/greyish

Does anyone else get turned off by the look of a penis?

"

Yes, thats why imo, cock pics are a must have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some look so sore and inflamed. Grim.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not a troll and that’s a bit of a low blow to pull from someone who comes along saying don’t you think a lot of these pics are disgusting. You don’t need to mention names to body shame. It’s not about anyone in particular. It’s about the culture in saying this is not a good look and people should conform to a particular standard. That is something that leads to a whole raft of issues."

It was 1 photo from a message i recieved ..

No one is asking anyone to conform to any standards at all.

My post is very simple and has been recieved well.

Granted a few are trying to de rail my post which is unfair and as you point out could lead to all kinds of issues which I am NOT condoning in any shape or form nor will i feel bullied into feeling ashamed for my own personal view on MY POST

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Some look so sore and inflamed. Grim."

That's an "erection" silly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not a troll and that’s a bit of a low blow to pull from someone who comes along saying don’t you think a lot of these pics are disgusting. You don’t need to mention names to body shame. It’s not about anyone in particular. It’s about the culture in saying this is not a good look and people should conform to a particular standard. That is something that leads to a whole raft of issues."

Lets get my wording correct

I did not mention "disgusting" once ..

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"Have to say I don’t like these kind of posts at all. I find them to be demeaning and body shaming. We all have our opinions of what we like and what we don’t like but I do feel if it was some guy writing a post saying I tell you what kind of pussy I don’t like. One that’s this colour only etc etc, he’d be jumped on.

If it’s something you don’t like just move on.

Lex

I'm in complete agree,it's not nice is it.

Thank you"
..

I agree..x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Could i respectfully suggest to the OP that in future you bring up subjects that effect people who actually swing in "swingers chat"? The lounge is the mainstay of the non-swinger, here looking for fwb or a fb or even just using the forum to chat. They won't care what a cock looks like, as for them it's all about the personality. And rightly so (for them).

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I’m not a troll and that’s a bit of a low blow to pull from someone who comes along saying don’t you think a lot of these pics are disgusting. You don’t need to mention names to body shame. It’s not about anyone in particular. It’s about the culture in saying this is not a good look and people should conform to a particular standard. That is something that leads to a whole raft of issues.

It was 1 photo from a message i recieved ..

No one is asking anyone to conform to any standards at all.

My post is very simple and has been recieved well.

Granted a few are trying to de rail my post which is unfair and as you point out could lead to all kinds of issues which I am NOT condoning in any shape or form nor will i feel bullied into feeling ashamed for my own personal view on MY POST

"

Feeling ashamed seriously? Look there's loads of photo's on here I don't like,but I don't start a thread about them as it would just be my opinion which means fuck all,the next person may love it.

Not everyone is going to agree with what you say,or more importantly the way you say it. There's a saying isn't there...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"I’m not a troll and that’s a bit of a low blow to pull from someone who comes along saying don’t you think a lot of these pics are disgusting. You don’t need to mention names to body shame. It’s not about anyone in particular. It’s about the culture in saying this is not a good look and people should conform to a particular standard. That is something that leads to a whole raft of issues.

It was 1 photo from a message i recieved ..

"

So, 1 photo, from 1 message looked like all of those things.

Impressive photography skills

I apologise for my use of the word disgusting I was summing up your whole post there really.

I have work to do now and don’t really have anything else to say. My opinion is if you don’t like it move along. But don’t make posts about how bad peoples cocks look. Particularly when it’s about something they can’t change such as skin tone and size.

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