FabSwingers.com forum: Stress and sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. De-stresses me!!!

‘Tis why I’m so bloody stressed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stress levels don't really affect my sex drive these days, I seem to be permanently on rampant. But sex definitely helps relieve stress for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex definitely helps de-stress me. But stress doesn’t affect my sex drive anymore x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Hmmm, I'm unsure. I think stress has a negative impact on my mojo, but I also think it depends on the source of the stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stress does not affect my sex drive..however anxiety does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex helps me de-stress

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not sure. Sometimes i want it sometimes i dont. But i do want sex when im upset

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I'm really stressed the last thing on my mind is sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that really affects my sexdrive is illness. I like to be left alone when poorly.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Stress and sex = no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex definitely de-stresses without a doubt!

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By *exybum_30Woman
over a year ago

Sex definitely de stresses me... i seem to want it more & more. Just physical contact makes everything feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm really stressed the last thing on my mind is sex."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting any can be frustrating.

Stress is a build up of pressure. Sex can make you feel better... So where the fuck is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Stress 24/7 as for sex it does not exist for me since its been that long since any type of action

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed? "

Depends on the reason but generally sex de-stresses me and I want it more when I'm stressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed?

Depends on the reason but generally sex de-stresses me and I want it more when I'm stressed. "

Totally agree, Frisky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is the last thing I can think about when I’m stressed. I just need to be left alone.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I can’t say I’ve ever been stressed enough to turn down sex so I don’t think it’s something that stops me from being in the mood.

Now. Angry sex. That’s something that really helps make a bad situation better. I’ve had lots of fantastic shouty, raging, you’re an absolute bellend sex. A reason my marriage lasted so long perhaps?

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Sometimes when I’m stressed I’m really want to have sex. Same if I’m upset. I find it clears the mind

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I tend to find sex is not available when I’m stressed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How fascinating that people are so divided on this. It shows it really is an issue. I found it quite frustrating being with someone who withheld sex when life was a bit stressful. But I know she found it odd that I suggested it at these times. I guess it's yet another possible point of tension in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed? "

Depends who the sex is with , If someone knows me well they will know just how to distract me and relax me .

So yes and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stress does not affect my sex drive..however anxiety does

Anxiety is a fucker like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is the last thing I can think about when I’m stressed. I just need to be left alone. "

This for me too.

Stress is a mojo killer - I have to be relaxed and happy to enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a painkiller and sweet relief. But one has to be able to switch from the preoccupation with the stressors and allow oneself to enjoy the moment, otherwise it can be yet another goal.

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