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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?

Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have them blocked so they cant message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have them blocked so they cant message me "

Likewise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some messages of new people are so lacking confidence i feel like replying telling them but, its something that they have to find out feel for themselves

like when you get asked can i improve on my profile only the person knows that not a stranger

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few messages from newbies..

If I get a message that was perhaps okayish but profile was naf.. then I will point out a few things.

I also sometimes advise guys that send me.. "I am new here, and would like to fuck you" type messages.. I point out that they are going to remain swinging virgins forever with messages like that.

cali. x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We all started somewhere and sometimes if they're asking for advice ill give it,but that depends on what they're asking really,but I won't get too drawn into the chat,they need to be able to use their initiative and work it out for themselves too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they wink or send an uninvited friends request, i will ignore

if they take the trouble to message me, i will respond, even if it is just a polite 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were all newbies at some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they sound and look very nice, then i might just feel sorry for them enough to invite them round.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ill also sometimes pm from a forum thread if it looks like they're getting a hard time after asking a simple question on here

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Ill also sometimes pm from a forum thread if it looks like they're getting a hard time after asking a simple question on here"

Ooooh must make a note to alter my strategy.

I remember when i was new, i noticed a poster offer help on a thread. So i messaged, politely i think, seeking some advice/help for myself.

The reply was something like "you don't need any ****ing help". happy days.

That said, a number of doctors, specialists, disagree.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't. Simple as.

What's the point in offering any female advice, newbie or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Ill also sometimes pm from a forum thread if it looks like they're getting a hard time after asking a simple question on here

Ooooh must make a note to alter my strategy.

I remember when i was new, i noticed a poster offer help on a thread. So i messaged, politely i think, seeking some advice/help for myself.

The reply was something like "you don't need any ****ing help". happy days.

That said, a number of doctors, specialists, disagree. "

You did'nt though! you were joining in making people laugh and it was like you had been here ages

help indeed!

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?

Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?"
we r on the process of blocking them as they r starting to annoy us.One min they r chattin n asking advice the next min they r no longer here.Vanished without trace..........Get experince sumwhere n then wink or inbox us 4 a meet. i know we are mean

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Newbies are the life blood of this site.

Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Newbies are the life blood of this site.

Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd."

Ever thought there'd be more room for newbies IF those who we're leaving actually got on and did it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Newbies are the life blood of this site.

Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd.

Ever thought there'd be more room for newbies IF those who we're leaving actually got on and did it "

Shut it Mushy!!!

I'm leaving! It's just taking more time than I had thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newbies are the life blood of this site.

Being a sexual predator, newbies are my main prey. I pounce and take from them what I will before they are tainted by the crowd."

Do you work as a salesman for them old biddy chariots??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long does someone stay a newbie for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh meat, erm, I mean newbies are great for the scene.

Who wants to bang the same hole every meet?

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By the way, it's my attempt at a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By the way, it's my attempt at a joke "

Seek help Jack...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah it is tough for newbies to break into it and good on them for their endeavours... it pays off for many.

wish them all well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good question but it is hard for "newbies" to get into it on here though

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By *ettuceslugCouple
over a year ago

Driffield

Unless they're abusive I try to offer advice and guide them in the right direction the main reason being we all have to start somewhere, we were all there once and... there are so many moans and complaints on here about messages being wrong, badly worded, short and abrupt that really we should let people know our expectations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does someone stay a newbie for?"

Are you a newbie until you are verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could always tell them to open up with a joke :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were all newbies at some time "

Be kind to newbies! Minority rights!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?

Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?"

I don't think I take much notice of how long someone has been on the site when I look at their message.

If someone asks for advice in a message, I will more than likely answer their questions. But I am unlikely to start preaching at them just because they don't do things the way I like.... that's what the forum is for

If you give people pointers it is important to remember they are only your preferences, the next person they message might like things done a different way..... after all, "fancy a shag" messages do work with someone people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"...Be them single men, women or couples, do you feel sorry for them when they message you?

Do you give them a few pointers and guidence or is it a case of trample the weak and hurdle the dead?

I don't think I take much notice of how long someone has been on the site when I look at their message.

If someone asks for advice in a message, I will more than likely answer their questions. But I am unlikely to start preaching at them just because they don't do things the way I like.... that's what the forum is for

If you give people pointers it is important to remember they are only your preferences, the next person they message might like things done a different way..... after all, "fancy a shag" messages do work with someone people."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had spells, on & off, where I've blocked newbies, as I've found them to be mainly fantasists/timewasters. {Usually unblocked when one has caught my eye! Lol}

I've met some, given advice to some, blocked a lot more. Had one only the other day. 2 days on site, Gold member, returned a couple of messages, realised he was a dick, told him & blocked. 'User no longer on site' an hour later! One thing I have noticed though, is despite the number I block, my 'block list' doesn't seem to get any longer, as many are the same people returning to the site under another name.

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