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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So do you need to be

1, black

2, a love island contestant type

3, dripping with muscles

4, so big it hurts

?????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do you need to be

1, black

2, a love island contestant type

3, dripping with muscles

4, so big it hurts

?????????"
yes abs oh and a beard and over 9" age range 32 to 45 sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do you need to be

1, black

2, a love island contestant type

3, dripping with muscles

4, so big it hurts

?????????"

To be a success at badminton?

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So do you need to be

1, black

2, a love island contestant type

3, dripping with muscles

4, so big it hurts

?????????"

To be successful at cricket?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

With women/ couples on here, OP? Err, no.

Considerate, respectful, patient, what the person/ people are looking for, have a good profile and public output, and send personal messages that take into account what they want as stated on their profile. A good reputation (verifications or otherwise through clubs or socials) plus luck also help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you totally do.

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Pretty much...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *layfuleeMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Been here about a month, I worked out early there a lot of men posing as women and lots here to waste time, I’ve been chatting away to a few people but still waiting to confirm any kind of meet to date.

I did however go to my first club on Friday, and my second on Saturday and I would say to be any kind of success here then you have to consider that as a serious option, the floodgates have suddenly opened for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, black - Not me

2, a love island contestant type - very much in the dad bod category

3, dripping with muscles - see above

4, so big it hurts - no

And I manage ok along with many other blokes like me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now, you have met people. Are you any of those?

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Quick your privilege is showing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

In fab, for a single male -

Here for the right reasons

Have huge levels of tenacity

A thick skin

Willingness to learn and adapt, as you get experience - including no success

Friendly

Flexible for who you will meet

A smile goes a long way, so do it in your pics. Most people are average looks, so there's a huge pool of people to appreciate you and you to find others. Build, hair, cock, muscles etc - if you are similar to most, that's fine. Sell yourself on your strong points and more unique personality - as we want to know and be attracted to the person, not a slab of meat, in most instances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line. You need to be what the person is looking. We all won't appeal to all. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key to at least initiating conversations on here?

Talk total and utter bobbins but ditch the seedy sex talk (that can come later ...)

Cakes. Holidays. Have you seen the price of Freddo’s these days!?

But shhh, it’s our little secret!!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"The key to at least initiating conversations on here?

Talk total and utter bobbins but ditch the seedy sex talk (that can come later ...)

Cakes. Holidays. Have you seen the price of Freddo’s these days!?

But shhh, it’s our little secret!! "

Mmmmm cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you define as success on Fab?

Meeting people in clubs and socials are easy... All you have to do is be prepared to spend money......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you define as success on Fab?

Meeting people in clubs and socials are easy... All you have to do is be prepared to spend money......"

Having fun and meeting like minded people you can also hang out with and not just about the sex. Lexi

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Top and bottom of it is ...if you have the skills to meet people in real life you will probably be successful here.

If you don't, you probably won't. This isn't a guaranteed shag site, although some folks seem disappointed when they discover it isn't.

And finally if you really are super successful in the real world but not in here, then why sit moaning about it, get back out there where the talent is apparently throwing itself at you!

Good luck.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Top and bottom of it is ...if you have the skills to meet people in real life you will probably be successful here.

If you don't, you probably won't. This isn't a guaranteed shag site, although some folks seem disappointed when they discover it isn't.

And finally if you really are super successful in the real world but not in here, then why sit moaning about it, get back out there where the talent is apparently throwing itself at you!

Good luck."

Indeed; play to your strengths

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Patience..and keep smiling and be amusing and try to entertain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucessful people stay grinding in all aspects of life!

Make a mental note, stop being insecure and believe in youself!

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Even if you don’t meet anyone, the entertainment value on the forums is worth the entrance fee alone. Some of the subjects i’ve seen people discussing on here have been laugh out loud funny. I can’t think of anywhere else i would have seen it outside of a subreddit. There are some really witty and cool people on here. That bloke called Dan something or other springs to mind with his poetic skills and clever use of comedic photography....

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I'm none of those things OP but have had a lot of fun on here and made some friends along the way and I'm no oil painting so if an old timer like me can still manage to enjoy himself you can also and just need to be patient and more positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What for?"
sex sex and more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Look at Michael Jackson. He was black then became white and is the biggest selling artist ever (I think). Wasn't muscly or I'm guessing, well hung.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Nah. Look at Michael Jackson. He was black then became white and is the biggest selling artist ever (I think). Wasn't muscly or I'm guessing, well hung."

Dripping with Bubbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah. Look at Michael Jackson. He was black then became white and is the biggest selling artist ever (I think). Wasn't muscly or I'm guessing, well hung.

Dripping with Bubbles"

That's what he gets for blowing them, allegedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah. Look at Michael Jackson. He was black then became white and is the biggest selling artist ever (I think). Wasn't muscly or I'm guessing, well hung."
exactly absolutely no sex appeal but he had money and that's very attractive to some

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