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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

For anyone thinking of meeting someone from here, whether it be a Social or sexy meet what safety tips would you give them?

This is not for my personal reasons, I’m just putting it out there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and meet away from my house. I don't give away personal details often. Safe sex always

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

dont think with just your genitals....if it sounds weird it probably is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tell a trusted friend where you're going.

Go on your gut instincts, if something isn't right, walk away.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Speak to them on the phone first.

There is no better tip.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont arrange meets when your horny

Keep your eyes and ears open

Never go against your gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t met many people but never without telling my friend where I am

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I was single I would meet socially first then meet in a club if I wanted to take it further. I wouldn't give out my full name, place of work, phone number or address. I wouldn't accept lifts and I would remain sober throughout. I would check at intervals that the condom remained in place and be sure a friend knew where I was.

Over the top? I read the forums

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Actually if I was single I wouldn't meet.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If I was single I would meet socially first then meet in a club if I wanted to take it further. I wouldn't give out my full name, place of work, phone number or address. I wouldn't accept lifts and I would remain sober throughout. I would check at intervals that the condom remained in place and be sure a friend knew where I was.

Over the top? I read the forums "

This is exactly what I do. A social is always in a public place such as a coffee shop. I also keep all messaging on fab and don't use any messenger apps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think if they seem too good to be true they probably are ..

Steer clear

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Speak to them on the phone first.

There is no better tip."

you could be pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet somewhere public(even though some need to be discreet! ),daytime and sober,and ladies you make the decisions!.and if a red flag appears(no matter how insignificant),walk away,a decent gentleman will never pressurise you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For anyone thinking of meeting someone from here, whether it be a Social or sexy meet what safety tips would you give them?

This is not for my personal reasons, I’m just putting it out there...

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take an automatic weapon, pepper spray, tell the local police where you've gone, meet in pret et manger it's cheaper and call a friend

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Chat for a while so you get a feel for them. Thankfully I never had any problems when I met and didn't have any safety things in place,all good guy's really.

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Chat first, can be for some time, then if feel happy to meet for a social somewhere public with no guarantee of play, when it come to a play meet safe sex is a must

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social first, in public, no exceptions. Somewhere you're OK forfeiting if it all goes to pot. Not too close to home.

Let a friend know what you're doing and with who (I have a Fab friend I always tell these things). Get them to check in on you.

Have a good long chat, look them in the eye. Listen to and trust your gut.

Multiple meet verifications are often a good guide to character, but no guarantees.

Have an escape plan ready.

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any more useful tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more useful tips? "
asparagus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speak to them on the phone first.

There is no better tip."

I agree.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Always tell a trusted friend where you're going.

Go on your gut instincts, if something isn't right, walk away."

Definitely this, and tell whoever you're meeting you need to text your friend now and then to let them know you're OK. If that's a problem, we ain't meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get in someone’s car without having proof of their id and send that and the plate number to a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I’m tracked by my fab safety friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never get in someone’s car without having proof of their id and send that and the plate number to a friend."
you don't get in guys cars I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never get in someone’s car without having proof of their id and send that and the plate number to a friend.you don't get in guys cars I hope"

Christ I wouldn’t!

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never get in someone’s car without having proof of their id and send that and the plate number to a friend."

Should one take a photo of their ID then and forward it on? Is that allowed with GDPR regulations?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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There are many things you should do but the one I rely on most is my instincts. Trust what your instincts say. If you have a niggling doubt, it’s there for a reason so don’t disregard it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If your going to someone's house for the first time.....

If they lock the door when you're in clock where they put the key.

Take note of where the knife rack is

Keep your bag with you (I left mine downstairs and when I went to leave my purse had been taken out!!)

Generally....

Don't give out your phone no before you've met them.

Tell a trusted friend where you're going.

Be careful with personal info.

I'm putting myself off here!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your going to someone's house for the first time.....

If they lock the door when you're in clock where they put the key.

Take note of where the knife rack is

Keep your bag with you (I left mine downstairs and when I went to leave my purse had been taken out!!)

Generally....

Don't give out your phone no before you've met them.

Tell a trusted friend where you're going.

Be careful with personal info.

I'm putting myself off here!!!! "

I won’t ever meet anyone without a number but then again, I usually chat via WhatsApp for ages before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never get in someone’s car without having proof of their id and send that and the plate number to a friend.you don't get in guys cars I hope"

Occasionally people I know give me a lift somewhere, but I have had much more anonymous offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat for a while so you get a feel for them. Thankfully I never had any problems when I met and didn't have any safety things in place,all good guy's really."

This. Just talk,talk and more talk.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"If your going to someone's house for the first time.....

If they lock the door when you're in clock where they put the key.

Take note of where the knife rack is

Keep your bag with you (I left mine downstairs and when I went to leave my purse had been taken out!!)

Generally....

Don't give out your phone no before you've met them.

Tell a trusted friend where you're going.

Be careful with personal info.

I'm putting myself off here!!!!

I won’t ever meet anyone without a number but then again, I usually chat via WhatsApp for ages before meeting. "

I won't give my no out again after receiving scary messages 2+ years after meeting someone for a coffee!!! Kik for me all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For anyone thinking of meeting someone from here, whether it be a Social or sexy meet what safety tips would you give them?

This is not for my personal reasons, I’m just putting it out there...

"

Meet at a club, safe as you can get and why we do 95% of the time.

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