FabSwingers.com forum: Apparently im not a swinger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only smarties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Who cares if you're a swinger or not? I don't.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

"Im only here to find men to have sex with"

Ditto. Oops, I meant women!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

Ditto (well that's why I initially joined)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t class myself as a swinger. Not everyone will like you. Some will complain but others will tickle your fancy. That’s all that matters

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

According to some definitions I have read on here, I am an antiswinger as I do not like couples and only play with men I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like jazz

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't see singles are being swingers,but what do I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m a swinger, but I’m frequently told I can’t be unless I’m one half of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm food for thought i didnt think it was a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's many definitions of what a swinger is. You fit some of the definitions OP.

Some elitist Swingers look down on non-swingers and see them as bad or lesser beings.

Some swingers are lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t feel like a swinger as a single, it’s very different to playing as a swinging couple. It’s just casual one on one sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a swinger cause it puts me off my stroke being watched by the husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm food for thought i didnt think it was a bad thing"

UB40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel like a swinger as a single, it’s very different to playing as a swinging couple. It’s just casual one on one sex."

But not all singles on the site just have one to one sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why not just do what you like regardless of what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

Beth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it really matters does it? So long as everyone is enjoying themselves?

I think the term came originally from the US to describe 'wife-swapping' so was about couples exchanging sex.

But times have moved on and society is much more diverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

Beth"

Sid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say many on here are true swingers.. im not, im here for the forums and social side, ill go to clubs... as a social. And agree sex without a connection is empty for me no matter how gorgeous she is and this is somthing ive come to realise after a fair few meets on here. I have a fwb (not met on here) and sex just gets better and better, we are soul mates.

names/badges/ labels.... f#ck them its all about everyone having fun right? Regardless of lables.

one life live it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel like a swinger as a single, it’s very different to playing as a swinging couple. It’s just casual one on one sex.

But not all singles on the site just have one to one sex."

But before I got into swinging I was having 3somes, I didn’t consider that swinging. I only really see it as swapping partners etc as a couple, the traditional swinging. I just see myself the same as my non swinging friends as just having casual sex with other singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Agreed, I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t feel like a swinger as a single, it’s very different to playing as a swinging couple. It’s just casual one on one sex.

But not all singles on the site just have one to one sex.

Fair point, but singles on fab also have moresomes, orgies, attend and play at sex parties and sex clubs etc. I think of those things as swinging activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no Sinatra or Dean Martin , I'm here to meet the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the traditional definition of a swinger has been considerably expanded..

It used to be all about couples swapping with each other now its 3somes, and moresomes as well as one to one meets

But there are still the old school couples who are only here to meet couples which i think is a bit outdated...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the traditional definition of a swinger has been considerably expanded..

It used to be all about couples swapping with each other now its 3somes, and moresomes as well as one to one meets

But there are still the old school couples who are only here to meet couples which i think is a bit outdated...

But if they're happy and it works for them it's good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer"

Swinging sadly isn't about fucking any fucking thing that says oi want to fuck me. I get many single guys who think it's a fuck and go.

Swinging was created in the 17th century when two married couples agreed to wife swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you how your fucking life is and fucking being what we all are here for... I would not want to fuck a gigolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it doesn't matter what you call yourself. As long as it's fun for all involved and everyone is happy, that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just looking for fun does that make me a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you took all the things that people moan about on here and those people left there’d be about 6 miserable couples left wondering what the fuck happened.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like jazz "

Mmmm niiceeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you took all the things that people moan about on here and those people left there’d be about 6 miserable couples left wondering what the fuck happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the traditional definition of a swinger has been considerably expanded..

It used to be all about couples swapping with each other now its 3somes, and moresomes as well as one to one meets

But there are still the old school couples who are only here to meet couples which i think is a bit outdated...

But if they're happy and it works for them it's good?

Yes its good for them but they are often the ones looking down on us single folk and declaring that we shouldn't be on a swinger site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the traditional definition of a swinger has been considerably expanded..

It used to be all about couples swapping with each other now its 3somes, and moresomes as well as one to one meets

But there are still the old school couples who are only here to meet couples which i think is a bit outdated...

But if they're happy and it works for them it's good?

Yes its good for them but they are often the ones looking down on us single folk and declaring that we shouldn't be on a swinger site

I see what you mean now. I agree! x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

We all have our own scenarios so don't let anyone else tell you what you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone who is single tried sites like c-date which are designed for singles who want to meet for casual sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sites called fab why does that mean swinging as I suppose it's whatever people want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it doesn't matter what you call yourself. As long as it's fun for all involved and everyone is happy, that's all that matters."

I’d agree, but I do object to being told I don’t belong on a site to which, frankly, I think me and my kind make a big contribution (see all the unicorn threads).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will have different defitions of what makes someone a swinger. Some will stick with the old age tradition of the meaning, though the term has now expanded to include those who are promiscuous in general. Be it one to one or moresomes. There is no right or wrong answer. Just do what you enjoy and don't worry about what others think. This is your journey and one that you should do in the way that you are most comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most will have different defitions of what makes someone a swinger. Some will stick with the old age tradition of the meaning, though the term has now expanded to include those who are promiscuous in general. Be it one to one or moresomes. There is no right or wrong answer. Just do what you enjoy and don't worry about what others think. This is your journey and one that you should do in the way that you are most comfortable with

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See, I always knew that you spoke sense ...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer"

I really don’t like it when men say they are just here ‘to fuck different women’ but I suppose we are all here for our own reasons. I think ‘swinging’ is couples meeting couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer

I really don’t like it when men say they are just here ‘to fuck different women’ but I suppose we are all here for our own reasons. I think ‘swinging’ is couples meeting couples. "

Textbook definition “sexually liberated or promiscuous.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, I don't label myself as anything. I just know what I like and go with it.

Although I get loads of nasty comments from guys I won't drop pants for after 2/3 messages. I like to feel a bit of something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not read any of the posts above (sorry, tired eyes), but don't get bogged down in the detail of what you are and what you aren't, OP.

Focus on finding people who are looking for the same as you. What you are, in terms of a tag or label, swinger or not, it doesn't really matter, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer"

Are you saying swingers don't need a "spark"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1st i wouldnt know iv only tried the tradition sence once

But is that a bad thing i like sex best if i have some kind of spark with the woman or is it just sex and matters not. I dont want a relationship been there done that and like fucking different women

But is not being a swinger a bad thing even what is a swinger

Does anyone have the answer

Are you saying swingers don't need a "spark"?"

No i dont know what a swinger is just saying i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Ditto

Men or couples for a threesome for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m a swinger, but I’m frequently told I can’t be unless I’m one half of a couple."

But you quickly become a swinger when a couple want you to join them

I’ve meet couples swinging whereby one of them doesn’t play... what are they?!

I’m a swingle and I’m here to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion know you aren't, but doesn't matter does it? As long as you aren't telling swingers how to swing there's nothing wrong with not being one. In my opinion the majority of forum posters aren't swingers based on their responses to various opinions and posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a swinger either....

Im only here to find men to have sex with

Same here, only with women. If I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be sharing so I’m not a swinger either.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm part of a couple with a singles profile.

Also seen my other half play with other women so I'd count myself as a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re single, but having casual relationships with various people, os that not a similar thing?

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