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How many people in the forums go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I go to clubs regularly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
I go to squash, tennis and occasionally art clubs

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

Never been to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go clubs frequently.

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

I'd love to just don't have the confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

Never been to a club."
why not?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It has been known yes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

I don't go to clubs, but I'm not just here for chat either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been. Would like to one day

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Regularly as once or twice a month

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
lots do only chat on here and never meet or have fun or go to clubs but I'm not bothered about what other people do I just wondered how many go to clubs in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope still waiting popping my cherry not rushing it tho

Will only consider it if im meeting someone there and wont go local so call me an awkward cunt but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

I'd love to just don't have the confidence "
maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not my thing at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

I'd love to just don't have the confidence "
maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes, fairly regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever been. There’s only two in Scotland, they’re ages away from me, I wouldn’t want to go alone but have no one to go too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

That’s all I use Fab for and I’m very happy

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I prefer visiting clubs to private meets. These days I tend to use fab as a means of keeping in touch with people I've met at clubs rather than giving my phone number out.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

Each to their own..

Try not being so judgemental of why others use fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

I'd love to just don't have the confidence

maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence "

That's true

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I prefer private meets to going to clubs. Unless I have arranged to meet someone at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs. Great for socialising aswell as other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

We must have such a sad life then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the nearest club to me but I would love to travel to visit others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

Lol!!! Maybe the ones who just like to chat think yours is the sad life. Just saying. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep VA mostly, don’t always play but it’s still always a great evening!

Highly recommend clubs for getting to know people in a like minded environment.

MrsK

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I go ... mainly Townhouse but also like Cupid’s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go as often as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.

Each to their own..

Try not being so judgemental of why others use fab "

Agreed.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Ive been to clubs. I don’t like the one that’s nearest to me though so I need a bit of planning to go out of town if I want to go to one. Usually well worth the effort though. I’ve been introduced to some lovely people in clubs and had a right laugh and a lot of fun.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I will, some day

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Used to. As a single man from near your area OP we are well positioned for clubs and meets lots to do.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We go to clubs and have been a fair few over the years

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm a bit shy of going to clubs as I work in the public sector and have this fear of bumping into someone that I've had dealings with in the course of my work. It might make things awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go to clubs with my ex fwb. Haven't been for ages, new fwb isn't keen.

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We go to clubs and have bumped into people we know irl over the years but hopefully no one you met would be judging you and vice versa, fab isn't something we use much for actually meeting new people anymore, we couldn't imagine fab being our only toe on this world we would have left long ago if that was the case.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I do clubs and am occasionally in the forum. I've always liked clubs for the no pressure social aspects and opportunities to play when things are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I go to a club several times a month. I love the fact that you don't know what the night will hold. This year I've been trying a few new ones.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just the once.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd love to go to more clubs but none local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We regularly go to clubf and have been once to the attic. I read the forums a lot too (female)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs are great fun, meeting likeminded people in a sexually charged atmosphere, what’s not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to a club in about 10 years just getting back to the swing of it

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

No local clubs in my area whatsoever

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

You live your life and let others live theirs. Why come across so judgemental?

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We never used to until recently, but since visiting Le Boudoir in London last month, we're now hooked! Cant wait to head back there!

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

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Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"

Orange ones . And uniteds and trios!

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"

And why did the Milk ones have a playing card as a logo on the wrapper? It made no sense, lol

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"And uniteds and trios!"

Both! Uniteds were brill. Scoffed them in huge quantities asa teenager and miss them dearly. Trios are back, yay!

What about Montegos, remember them? Not the failed project by British Leyland

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I go to clubs and when I can be bothered I will meet others outside of clubs.

At the moment though I'm feeling the need for something more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, great socially and always willing to take newbies in our little group

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By *esus H ChristMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"

I like the orange ones and the raisin ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to try a club soon. Been told it’s worth a visit.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on

Orange ones . And uniteds and trios!"

My grandad taught me how to make paper aeroplanes out of Trio wrappers.

"Trio, Triiiio, I want a Trio and I want one now"

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I have been known to go to a club, didn't play with anyone other than my fwb though.

I also meet privately.

I'm also here to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And uniteds and trios!

Both! Uniteds were brill. Scoffed them in huge quantities asa teenager and miss them dearly. Trios are back, yay!

What about Montegos, remember them? Not the failed project by British Leyland "

They are back but don’t taste the same . Bit like mars bars. Don’t remember them no. I must be too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on

I like the orange ones and the raisin ones.... "

Nooooo raisins are the devils food!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

We are regular club goers, and aim to visit as many of them as possible.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I've never been to one. Much prefer the intimacy of a one-to-one meet.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

Each to their own. Maybe they have a regular group of friends. I do, and I use fab to keep in touch with them. Nobody else's business about how others run their profiles. Not for anyone else to judge is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don’t go to clubs but I also do more than chat.

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By *esus H ChristMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I used to eat Clubs as a child.

"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."

Who remembers that?

Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on

I like the orange ones and the raisin ones....

Nooooo raisins are the devils food!"

I love oatmeal raisin cookies too, much prefer them to the chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, gave it up a while ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "

Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.

I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.

The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.

So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky. "
what do you mean by too risky it's actually safer for ladies to meet at the club

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.

Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.

I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.

The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.

So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely? "

That's incredibly sad.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Regularly.

And different ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use quest a bit, problem is we have to arrange a babysitter to go out, hence why we don’t do drop of the hat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i went once ,,,,

so now i can safely say its not my thing... i prefer to pick my victims on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been able to get to a club for ages .hoping to get to the new one nearish me when it opens but nit hikding my breath lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.

Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.

I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.

The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.

So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely?

That's incredibly sad."

Yes, but it also opened my eyes to the power and release that online chat for provide to those who can't physically participate for whatever reason. I felt quite privileged when I found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.

Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.

I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.

The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.

So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely? "

That’s so sad but also so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky. what do you mean by too risky it's actually safer for ladies to meet at the club "

Meeting someone I know. STI's. Safety reasons - both inside and outside the club. People with cameras posting pics from clubs online. Aggressive people.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Regularly as once or twice a month "

Tbh if there was a club in London whose opening times were better I would go more regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't been able to get to a club for ages .hoping to get to the new one nearish me when it opens but not holding my breath lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Every week

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve been to several, and as my forum ‘green arrow’ will show, it’s been an interesting journey for me. Private meets from Fab (including via the forum) have been far more successful for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun"

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other. I know more people that go to Le Boudoir and always have a good time. I have yet to use my membership. Rios was a little seedy for me. I didn’t stay longer than 1 hour both times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure"

Hahaha you proper crack me up

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We do clubs, private parties and organise parties our selves.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m a regular at Libs when I’m not working away and try to go to others. I go as a single woman.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

No other way to meet for us. Too many wasters. Mrs used to go alone as a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go."

I much preferred going with a partner.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Joined one, went in had the tour and one drink. Decided it wasn't for us,I suppose different clubs will have varying atmosphere but not sure we will try another just yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go.

I much preferred going with a partner. "

It’s more fun. I find sex one on one with strangers quite empty but with a partner in tow it makes it more exciting. I like watching him with others and him watching me. It’s nice to have fun with your partner and being watched. That’s the ultimate turn on for me.

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

Yes I go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s one about 20 mins away from me. Heard it’s supposed to be good. A friend has been. Not my thing though so I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we go to our local club a lot. Last time we went a member of staff said you might as well fetch your beds lol. We don't always play it's the atmosphere and the facilities that make a place as well as the people. Nothing better than having a Jacuzzi or steam naked is there

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other."

OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.

OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went."

Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...

We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time....

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Visit the New Paradise club in Zouch from time to time.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I go clubs frequently. "

I find it's the best way to ACTUALLY meet people rather then dry humping my phone on the off chance you may bond over a txt messages.

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By *forfuntimesCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...

We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time...."

This is pretty much the same for us... been going to clubs for over 10 years now and prefer a club night over anything else... must have been to over 25 different clubs in the Uk alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs as often as time allows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go as often as possible "
how come you can comment on

My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.

OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.

Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later."
. I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go as often as possible how come you can comment on

My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum "

Forums is different blocked people can still see your posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs as often as time and finances permit. A much more reliable way of meeting people in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.

OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.

Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later.. I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live."

I’ve only been on Saturday nights. It was a good starting place for me but think Le Boudoir would be more my thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go as often as possible how come you can comment on

My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum

Forums is different blocked people can still see your posts "
thankyoi I wondered why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go.

I much preferred going with a partner.

It’s more fun. I find sex one on one with strangers quite empty but with a partner in tow it makes it more exciting. I like watching him with others and him watching me. It’s nice to have fun with your partner and being watched. That’s the ultimate turn on for me."

I think that what you describe is the 'soul' of swinging. It's the ultimate trust and sharing experience.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun

I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.

OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.

Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later.. I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live.

I’ve only been on Saturday nights. It was a good starting place for me but think Le Boudoir would be more my thing. "
. Well I like I said the reviews of Le Boudoir are fabulous and I will be applying for membership we are rather limited in London for clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...

We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time....

This is pretty much the same for us... been going to clubs for over 10 years now and prefer a club night over anything else... must have been to over 25 different clubs in the Uk alone..."

Lol we need to visit more!!! glad we are not the only ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was fortunate enough to have my first club visit earlier this year. It was a brilliant experience, in no small part to having an awesome fab friend to hold my hand for my first time there. And I'm very much looking forward to the next occasion

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We do

its the only way to fly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've been to VA, Jaydees , Eurekas , Arousals , Op4

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I have never been to a club but am

Thinking about paying a visit to Ourplace4fun as its not far from me in London but only if membership application is successful. Has got very good reviews and should go at least once to see if like it.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes we go to Clubs, we were at one on Friday night. We also meet people for socials and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not interested in the club scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always.

Wouldn’t waste my time arranging meets of Fab. Just go to the club and meet lots of people instead. Social side is pretty good too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We go to clubs

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Went on NYE, it wasn't really for me but plenty of others had fun.

I'm too vanilla

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another club attendee here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I go with my fwb. Wouldn't have the confidence to go on my own but have had some great fun in clubs. Think you have to find one that works for you as they can all be very different

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have been a couple of times but I'm a wallflower being a little shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure

Hahaha you proper crack me up "

Thats because your too far away for me to put you back together again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go."

Can definitely understand that.

We go at least weekly.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We’ve been but not recently due to illness

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet but maybe something for the future x

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

Love going to clubs, I feel like I can let loose and let out my kinker and naughtier side there!! I don't play with women just men and to see them line up, oh I'd be in my element!! Jez kinda horny now after thinking about it

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’ve been once, loved it and looking forward to having the time to go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been a few times, I enjoyed the social side as much as anything. I went with my last partner,enjoyed going with a group of girlfriends too. It’s cheap and to me, felt safer than a normal nightclub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love clubs

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I love going to clubs it's where I meet my private meets

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I do and the best one I went to was fun times in london few years ago. I give jenny the owner 10/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to when we can, but because we prefer to travel south of the border it’s not as often as we would like

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Always.

Wouldn’t waste my time arranging meets of Fab. Just go to the club and meet lots of people instead. Social side is pretty good too. "

Hahaha! You and I are polar opposites! I’m still waiting to get wet btw

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We get to a club whenever we can

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Guilty as charged!

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Probably too often...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im gonna try next monday i think

If i can book it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

We do clubs, Rios etc as the mood takes us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been a few times, I enjoyed the social side as much as anything. I went with my last partner,enjoyed going with a group of girlfriends too. It’s cheap and to me, felt safer than a normal nightclub. "
Well you're more relaxed because you basically already know everyone wants to get in your knickers that you're probably not wearing

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"

Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.

I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.

I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time."
What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy clubs on the right night with the right people. Not often, maybe once every couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy clubs on the right night with the right people. Not often, maybe once every couple of months. "
do you wear flats?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.

I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time.

What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question? "

Just PMd you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat

Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.

I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time.

What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question?

Just PMd you. "
got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go to clubs but I am only around in the daytime

Does anyone know of any regular daytime events in the Essex area

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We do, but generally our meets are from here, rather someone in a club. We have very little success in clubs, but are happy enough just being there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do, but generally our meets are from here, rather someone in a club. We have very little success in clubs, but are happy enough just being there. "
why little success?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I also go to the rugby club most weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to go to clubs frequently, at kwasr once a month. Still do occasionally but now it's every few months at most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends "
do you scrum

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum"

I’m not that forward!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!"

Do you “prop” up the bar

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Broke our club cherry the other week - both absolutely loved it, now planning a tour of the countries clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!"
It's an up and under

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!

Do you “prop” up the bar "

That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We go to Clubs as many weekends as we can, love it xx

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!

Do you “prop” up the bar

That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers. "

At least your balls are the right shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go to Clubs as many weekends as we can, love it xx"
why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!

Do you “prop” up the bar

That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.

At least your balls are the right shape "
have you seen em?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!

Do you “prop” up the bar

That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.

At least your balls are the right shape "
have you seen em?they could be oval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs. I don't meet often but I love clubs, I mainly go do socialise if I'm honest. I'm a soft play only person in clubs if I do play and I'm mainly there to meet the ladies - which is much easier to do in clubs than on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum

I’m not that forward!

Do you “prop” up the bar

That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.

At least your balls are the right shape "
I to like to meet ladies in clubs oh my

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