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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who use other people’s pictures and get away with it for ages

People who don’t read your profile lol, always bugs me but what can you do?

People like me who moan all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who dont read my "long" profile before messaging me !

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


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L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

"

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think they are "exactly what I'm looking for" but I just don't feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?"

Also - even if you’re ‘exactly what they’re looking for’ they might not be looking for it at the moment, or they’d had a look at your profile and decided otherwise. Nobody has to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close up cum on cock pics

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Biggest pet is someone not taking the time to read a profile....hence why most of my messages get deleted.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ego's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that mail or wink me. Why on earth would they do that??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bugs me that you cant reply to people status'.

Would be a good addition if any admin are looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that mail or wink me. Why on earth would they do that??! "

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

To many men

Not enougth women..

Women who message me asking too fuck in there 1st message..(or was that a dream)

Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People who don't read profiles, or read them and do stuff I explicitly say I don't want anyway.

Whiners and people who won't take no for an answer.

Abuse.

Fakes.

Awful (often hypocritical) attitudes towards women, LGBTI people (and those in the too broad TV/TS category), and other groups.

People who resent that people have standards or a life away from here.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


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Women who message me asking too fuck in there 1st message..(or was that a dream)

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No, it was a bloke pretending to be a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it or lump it Im afraid

No point hating anything here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Close up cum on cock pics "

Oh god, some pictures here legitimately make me gag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who dont read my "long" profile before messaging me !"

Yep this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any “hates” for this site, if I did I’d leave. I have a few “pet mild irks”, but that’s about as far as it goes.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

All the damn cats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who use other people’s pictures and get away with it for ages

People who don’t read your profile lol, always bugs me but what can you do?

People like me who moan all the time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To many men

Not enougth women..

Women who message me asking too fuck in there 1st message..(or was that a dream)

Xx

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of disgustingly vile messages the men send. Definitely half the messages are gross! And I mean gross.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"People that mail or wink me. Why on earth would they do that??! "
i have no idea. But i have managed to get it down to friends and forum people which is what i wanted

Did notice a wink yesterday though

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"

Women who message me asking too fuck in there 1st message..(or was that a dream)

No, it was a bloke pretending to be a woman"

.. proper laughing at that it's so bloody true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 31/08/18 18:44:39]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to go back four pages to go forward two pages then back again to go forward.

When a name is mentioned especially as a party attendee. Would be so much better if it created a hyperlink to their profile.

User experience is so dull. Could be so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of women that never message me...

The inconsistency of some of the moderating - giving prompt bans for some minor misdemeanours but letting major ones (fake pics / catfishing etc) continue unchecked for days ..

Whingey whiney profiles that are long lost of reasons why you’ll be blocked (usually in CAPITALS with lots of exclamation marks!!!!!!!!) but not what they are like or what they ARE looking for..

but in the main the site is great so these are just minor little gripes really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never get fed

Their aren't enough women to go round

Not enough people agree with me

No quiz

I've never been page 1 of most fabbed pics

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By *uthless!Woman
over a year ago

somewhere close to you

Personally, I love profiles with content - they do not have to be War and Peace but can be, especially when the guy has something interesting to say or a good sense of humour.

I dislike one liner profiles intensely and have stopped replying to people with those.

Hey, each to their own.

Pet hates? Being asked (in the first message) how I am, how I am finding the site etc or simply would I like to meet in a few hours because he happens to be in a hotel near me.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"The amount of disgustingly vile messages the men send. Definitely half the messages are gross! And I mean gross. "

I will try and cut back in future, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Males that use couple profile only to find out there males what a waste of t8me

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Threads whinging about having no "luck" or not "getting meets"

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"People who think they are "exactly what I'm looking for" but I just don't feel the same. "

100% this!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

People who demand to meet straight away, asking what time my kids are in bed

Not reading my profile,

Guys on here being rude when you politely decline them

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Entitlement

Abusive messages

Not reading profiles

People who ask for advice and give attitude back or ask again next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think close up pics of cocks jizzing are a turn on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If I was particularly bothered by a site problem, I'd suggest improvements in the forum thread area, so they could be discussed and reviewed by admin. Most things are site misuse and misunderstanding of how to use fab Imo.

Assuming that messages shouldn't be ignored or deletes, when the recipients aren't interested is just ignoring fab site advice.

Most people won't find most others attractive and most fab users wont have sex with those who aren't attractive - to them. You may have the right physical and personality attributes as well as interests that a person wants but you are of no interest if others are more appealing.

I'd add a meeting arrangements feature, used privately between users, so that arrangements are clear and trackable by admin - so that no shows could be - I'd hope - reduced for the people who seem to have them.

But the site is great for a free to use site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who take pictures in the or on the toilet. I mean c'mon peeps. A messy backdrop to a picture that otherwise would be sexy. I'll think of more I'm sure

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the very graphic cum pics. Not my cup of tea at all hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x"

Alaskan pipeline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x"

Educate yourself then . Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't read my long profile

One word messages

Someone messaging with 50 cock pics and nothing else

.......

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x"

Haha definitely this!!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x"

Slovakian traffic cone

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?"

I don't have any pet hates about the site, I love it here. I'm having a ball.......

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe "

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone "

Jesus. Thanks for that! Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics "

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi"

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

those that start off with

Not new here, so know how it works (when they have a profile under 6 months old and have no verifications)

Those that think just because you are on a Swinging site, you have to meet with them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You never get fed

Their aren't enough women to go round

Not enough people agree with me

No quiz

I've never been page 1 of most fabbed pics "
oh and abbreviations omg

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages. If I didn't answer the first one I'm not gonna answer exactly the same message a week later. Duh!

No pics on profile at all. This site is all about physical attraction.

People who talk the talk but don't walk the walk.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x "

I don’t get the cock comparison photos does my head in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x "

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No pet hates as such but there is definetly something very odd going off lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle "
I chuckle anyway

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By *appy headCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Ladies misunderstand what you’re trying to say and block you without having chance to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with fake photos being allowed to continue with impunity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles with fake photos being allowed to continue with impunity! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance "

Is it public?

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.

A lot of people read long profiles. As much information as possible is quite beneficial when your looking to meet a complete stranger/strangers for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men . If they all fucked off I'd be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ladies misunderstand what you’re trying to say and block you without having chance to explain "
omg that old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance

Is it public? "
No pay per view

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance

Is it public? "

Some are yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle "

What about the pint glass one's,are they safe? Lol

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

I want to comment on pics so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people read long profiles. As much information as possible is quite beneficial when your looking to meet a complete stranger/strangers for sex. "

Well if you don't read all of it,how do you know you're compatable. By looking at the photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men . If they all fucked off I'd be ok "

Haha. You wish luv. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who say everyone literally everyone is ' entitled ' I'm the only one who actually is oh and people who constantly say ' it acts as a filter ' oh no it doesn't the tea strainer is indispensable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men . If they all fucked off I'd be ok

Haha. You wish luv. Lexi"
its not gonna happen is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance

Is it public?

Some are yes "

Erm.... I'm just gonna to check the food that's not cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men . If they all fucked off I'd be ok

Haha. You wish luv. Lexi its not gonna happen is it ? "

Well...you never know. If you hold your breath long enough. It might? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "i think its fab" thing under meets and events , if it dosen't why not remove it

meet requests that say looking for men then after reading a really long profile it says site supporters only or not looking for your sex.......hence a lot of people wink first to check that goes through.

cud and wud sentences , missing one letter dosent even save one billionth of a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "i think its fab" thing under meets and events , if it dosen't why not remove it

meet requests that say looking for men then after reading a really long profile it says site supporters only or not looking for your sex.......hence a lot of people wink first to check that goes through.

cud and wud sentences , missing one letter dosent even save one billionth of a second "
its actually 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle

What about the pint glass one's,are they safe? Lol"

Lol. I’m thinking about holding a couple of fried eggs next to my tits to show how big they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle

What about the pint glass one's,are they safe? Lol

Lol. I’m thinking about holding a couple of fried eggs next to my tits to show how big they are. "
pics or its not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the bloody moaners whingers and complainers on the forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People taking it way too seriously .The ones who message you asking why you don’t have a sky remote or can of lynx in your cock picture and the ones who say they are fun and entertaining but have no sense of humour x

The remotes, cans and toblerones do make me chuckle

What about the pint glass one's,are they safe? Lol

Lol. I’m thinking about holding a couple of fried eggs next to my tits to show how big they are. "
are they 10 minute ostrich eggs?

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Women who think close up pics of their pum pum is any less a turn off as close up pics of a cock. Some look like they've been attacked with an axe

I’ve seen some that look like a punched lasagne! Some of them aren’t that attractive

I am guilty of close up pics

At least you're honest love. I'm sure yours looks nice though . Lexi

I hope so lol or I’m buggered, I think I only have one close up one & others are at a slight distance

Is it public?

Some are yes

Erm.... I'm just gonna to check the food that's not cooking "

Try not to burn the non cooking food lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 41!!! And the 2 on my hotlist limited to 40

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford


"Men . If they all fucked off I'd be ok "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!"

Or put some effort in and look harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The keyboard warriors who believe that bullying in the forums (and privately) is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!

Or put some effort in and look harder "
on some of my pics I look hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

I don't have any pet hates about the site, I love it here. I'm having a gangbang, I'm having a ball....... "

Against the wall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!

Or put some effort in and look harder on some of my pics I look hard "

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

People with no photos at all, and when asked for one, they say oh cant as my job is affected, what Bollocks

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over a year ago


"People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!

Or put some effort in and look harder "
If I look any harder I'll go blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moaning that they can't find what they're looking for on fab.

Seriously, just leave and try your luck elsewhere!

Or put some effort in and look harder "

That's the thing though, people who complain, generally sit back and wait for what they want to come to them. Putting effort in would be an alien concept

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

I can’t see any problems with it myself. If I don’t get a reply or don’t want to reply I move on, if I don’t want to send a photo I don’t and if I don’t agree with anything I read I scroll past it. Maybe I’m a bit thicker skinned than some but there’s a blocking option if you really don’t like something and plenty of decent genuine people on here

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I will never understand people's complete arrogant ignorance, when after you take the time to write to them, they then don't even open it to read it. Open it and delete it if not interested = fine. But to not even open it - pathetic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand people's complete arrogant ignorance, when after you take the time to write to them, they then don't even open it to read it. Open it and delete it if not interested = fine. But to not even open it - pathetic ! "

To be fair I sometimes do this but I think women get a lot more messages. I’ve had over 200 today and if they are nowhere near me or the opening line puts me off then I am guilty of this I’ll admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand people's complete arrogant ignorance, when after you take the time to write to them, they then don't even open it to read it. Open it and delete it if not interested = fine. But to not even open it - pathetic !

To be fair I sometimes do this but I think women get a lot more messages. I’ve had over 200 today and if they are nowhere near me or the opening line puts me off then I am guilty of this I’ll admit it. "

But I’m certainly not ignorant or arrogant

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I will never understand people's complete arrogant ignorance, when after you take the time to write to them, they then don't even open it to read it. Open it and delete it if not interested = fine. But to not even open it - pathetic !

To be fair I sometimes do this but I think women get a lot more messages. I’ve had over 200 today and if they are nowhere near me or the opening line puts me off then I am guilty of this I’ll admit it. "

I do the same plus I’m neither arrogant or ignorant and also fab automatically deletes messages after a certain period as well so one shouldn’t assume

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Not so much a hate but just a little frustrating annoyance - when someone winks you so you view their profile and construct a nice message for them to delete it and block you

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

What about the ones who have a cock guide chart on the wall next to the bed ( bit like the minimum maximum height guide you get at the fun fare ) and if you don’t measure up your not allowed to join in x

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Alaskan pipeline"

I googled this after it was mentioned yesterday...I am hard to shock but that got me

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x"

Dutch Rudder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think that I have no stamina !

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone "

I hope that isn't a real thing

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing "

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Men with cocks with sky remote/linx cans

Entitled men

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

"

If only!!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

That fake profiles which are reported numerous times still exist!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that????? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

"

I had to google blumpkin the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People whos first message is 'How are you?', 'what are you up to?' or variations on this. It DRIVES ME INSANE

Who the hell asks a total stranger how they are, and why would you care how they are? It's just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who take pictures in the or on the toilet. I mean c'mon peeps. A messy backdrop to a picture that otherwise would be sexy. I'll think of more I'm sure "

What’s that About! I’ve seen too many limp dicks hanging over a toilet bowl to last me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

I had to google blumpkin the other day "

Try Manhattan Clamkin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who think that I have no stamina ! "
I thought it was legendary! Your reputation proceeds you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with cocks with sky remote/linx cans

Entitled men

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

"

Mute buttons on swinger forum threads still a long way off, experts warn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

"

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing? "

Don’t confuse her with logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand people's complete arrogant ignorance, when after you take the time to write to them, they then don't even open it to read it. Open it and delete it if not interested = fine. But to not even open it - pathetic !

To be fair I sometimes do this but I think women get a lot more messages. I’ve had over 200 today and if they are nowhere near me or the opening line puts me off then I am guilty of this I’ll admit it. "

200? Shit, I feel elated when I see that solitary 1message shining like a beacon of light on my profile, then only to realise it’s a fella who wants to know how I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing?

Don’t confuse her with logic."

My apologies

Yeah! Mute buttons are the answer!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who dont read my "long" profile before messaging me !"

That bugs us too

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

I had to google blumpkin the other day

Try Manhattan Clamkin "

oh I wish there was a vomit emoji on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who won’t* send a face pic "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

I had to google blumpkin the other day

Try Manhattan Clamkin

oh I wish there was a vomit emoji on here "

There is

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

I hope that isn't a real thing

WTAF!!!! Why oh why oh why would anyone want to do that?????

I had to google blumpkin the other day

Try Manhattan Clamkin

oh I wish there was a vomit emoji on here

There is "
ah I didn’t know. Thought it was just the few that show up under the text box lol

Need teaching them all now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing?

Don’t confuse her with logic."

Oi cheeky! What I mean is a system that if we have blocked someone then the blocker doesn’t see any activity of that individual on the site, it wouldn’t be that difficult to set up with the right software.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone "

Eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing?

Don’t confuse her with logic.

Oi cheeky! What I mean is a system that if we have blocked someone then the blocker doesn’t see any activity of that individual on the site, it wouldn’t be that difficult to set up with the right software. "

Who said that ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a newbie no one wants to trust u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think they should get a reply because in their opinion they match what that person or couple is looking for.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Profiles with no public pics at all. Friend requests from people that haven't even sent a message. Messages from people who clearly haven't read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with cocks with sky remote/linx cans

Entitled men

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

"

Nah, I like seeing what sort of shite they'll post next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?"

Who are you to decide if you're what someone is looking for or not?

If they delete your message they're not interested, simple as that!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Men with cocks with sky remote/linx cans

Entitled men

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Nah, I like seeing what sort of shite they'll post next "
ha ha. I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having to keep going to urban dictionary To find out what the hell people are talking about...x

Slovakian traffic cone

Eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww

"

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The constant moaning about men and their shortcomings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The constant moaning about men and their shortcomings "

Short Cummins is a bloody nice bloke.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Why? What would that achieve? Surely threads would just look odd as some posts would be missing?

Don’t confuse her with logic.

Oi cheeky! What I mean is a system that if we have blocked someone then the blocker doesn’t see any activity of that individual on the site, it wouldn’t be that difficult to set up with the right software.

Who said that ?! "

Moi....I said it....

You’re pushing it tonight you cheeky monkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages from others outside your sexual orientation.

Good thing the message filter blocks that.

Stolen on pictures on someone’s profile.

Profiles with no photos and no photo verification.

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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago

Stornoway

People who send a face pic with first message and expect one back so soon.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Negativity....life's too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men with cocks with sky remote/linx cans

Entitled men

Seeing someone on a forum thread I have blocked. Can we have a mute button for that please?

Mute buttons on swinger forum threads still a long way off, experts warn. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your a newbie no one wants to trust u "

But your username look, are you real ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end i think people over do it by over judge or being over serious about what they what here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sycophants

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Like it or lump it Im afraid

No point hating anything here. "

Never a truer word said

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In the end i think people over do it by over judge or being over serious about what they what here. "

People are here for different reasons honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?"
Judgemental people.

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By *c5th XXXMan
over a year ago

boston

When you message people and they don’t have the decency to reply even if it’s just to say not intressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bullshit passive aggressive or ‘hinting’ status updates. Nobody fucking cares!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being 41!!! And the 2 on my hotlist limited to 40 "

Oh my dear boy....wait until you get to 51 and the cut off is 50....anyone would think it’s pipe and slippers time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short to waste it on hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really just copy and paste messages? Wow that’s cheap! I like long profiles that give you something to base a first message on but I too wish people would update their profiles and preferences more frequently so their interests or lack of could give you a clue as to whether to contact them or not! Not moaning here just commenting.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Never getting a meet!

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?"

Pic collectors and long boring profiles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting messages from guys via the forums, when their profile says "straight, looking for women".

I find it flattering to be fancied by a straight guy, but if they try to engage privately instead of publicly in the forum, I just assume that they are closeted, hedging their bets, ashamed etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting messages from guys via the forums, when their profile says "straight, looking for women".

I find it flattering to be fancied by a straight guy, but if they try to engage privately instead of publicly in the forum, I just assume that they are closeted, hedging their bets, ashamed etc. "
awwww that's a lot of assumption they is just horny and well you know what that does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually hate anything, that's a very strong way to put it but I am not fond of all the racism threads they offend and create bad feeling

Also threads about size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life's too short to waste it on hate"

Life's too short to waste it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life's too short to waste it on hate

Life's too short to waste it on here. "
make life longer watch TV instead!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

Who are you to decide if you're what someone is looking for or not?

If they delete your message they're not interested, simple as that!"

And how do they know if they’re interested or not if they don’t read the message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have the brass balls to turn me down

Do u know who i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you message people and they don’t have the decency to reply even if it’s just to say not intressed "

Do you answer every piece of junk mail that pops through your letterbox at home?

Email the local pizza company who sent you a leaflet of offers? Reply with a no thank you to the double glazing firm?

No?

Thought not.

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By *c5th XXXMan
over a year ago

boston


"When you message people and they don’t have the decency to reply even if it’s just to say not intressed

Do you answer every piece of junk mail that pops through your letterbox at home?

Email the local pizza company who sent you a leaflet of offers? Reply with a no thank you to the double glazing firm?

No?

Thought not."

Oh I seam to forget that this is a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless threads ..

By which i mean threads posted by morons who seem to just post any old shite without thinking it through first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That a lot of people who I fancy live at the other end of the country

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

Also - even if you’re ‘exactly what they’re looking for’ they might not be looking for it at the moment, or they’d had a look at your profile and decided otherwise. Nobody has to reply"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life's too short to waste it on hate

Life's too short to waste it on here. make life longer watch TV instead!! "
Watching David Dickinson on Bargain Hunt is scientifically proven to increase life expectancy by ten years.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When you message people and they don’t have the decency to reply even if it’s just to say not intressed

Do you answer every piece of junk mail that pops through your letterbox at home?

Email the local pizza company who sent you a leaflet of offers? Reply with a no thank you to the double glazing firm?

No?

Thought not."

Maybe people with this attitude should try replying to all their junk mail for a week before moaning about it as they've clearly ignored the faq section that states no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

Who are you to decide if you're what someone is looking for or not?

If they delete your message they're not interested, simple as that!

And how do they know if they’re interested or not if they don’t read the message? "

They've looked at the profile and decided they aren't interested, why get into message ping pong with someone you have no interest in? This often leads to people trying to change your mind, why not messages and/or outright abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

Who are you to decide if you're what someone is looking for or not?

If they delete your message they're not interested, simple as that!

And how do they know if they’re interested or not if they don’t read the message?

They've looked at the profile and decided they aren't interested, why get into message ping pong with someone you have no interest in? This often leads to people trying to change your mind, why not messages and/or outright abuse. "

Well said

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It’s not a ‘hate’ but it does make me tut and shake my head .... I don’t like it when people are nasty, hurtful, spiteful to others on the forums. I just don’t see a need for it.

Other than that .. all good

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'll start cos I've got a few!

People with NO pictures whose first message asks for a face pic!!!

L O N G profiles - no one reads them!!

People for whom you are exactly what they are looking for so you send them a polite message and they instantly delete it without reading it!

Who else has pet hates about this site?

Who are you to decide if you're what someone is looking for or not?

If they delete your message they're not interested, simple as that!

And how do they know if they’re interested or not if they don’t read the message?

They've looked at the profile and decided they aren't interested, why get into message ping pong with someone you have no interest in? This often leads to people trying to change your mind, why not messages and/or outright abuse.

Well said "

Thankyou.

My gripe would be too bloody many entitled people on this site posting introduce my partner, why no meets or messages threads.

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