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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once upon a time a woman on fab met a young guy for fun. He was friendly and fun and over the next 4 months she laughed and laughed and felt alive. He then suggested they make things official.. it took her 6 weeks to agonise over the decision as she was very independent. The dreams he painted she decided she was just being stubbornly independent.

The dreams began to shatter as the extreme jealousy crept in, the violence, the control. 21 months later she called the police as she didnt know what to do as she was so scared and trapped. 2 years and 2 months of making statements, court hearings and uncertainty, he finally stood in court today and pleaded guilty to harassment with fear of violence and controlling and coercive behaviour. She now feels she can finally move on, she lost everything, but she wont be a victim, she will use her experiences for good.

Sentencing is on 19th oct and she will go to face him, show him she is no longer scared, she is strong and she won.

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done , congratulations and enjoy life ........

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Strength and perseverance pays off in the end. You are now free to breath, smile and most importantly be you again..enjoy and take care xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well done op. Always great to here of another surviver. Onwards and upwards

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By *ix-foot-two-stuMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Bloody hell. What a nightmare. Sorry you had to endure it, but well done for coming out the other side strong and able to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 31/08/18 14:58:10]"

Oops accidentally deleted! Sorry!

As I was saying .. I love a happy ending, even if the journey to it was horrific! Well done her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant news! Good for you OP xxx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

What an inspirational lady you are .... well done !!..... sending you a group hug .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Amazing show of strength OP. Well done for seeing it through. Hope he gets banged up and suffers for what he did. Xx

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over a year ago

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Once upon a time a woman on fab met a young guy for fun. He was friendly and fun and over the next 4 months she laughed and laughed and felt alive. He then suggested they make things official.. it took her 6 weeks to agonise over the decision as she was very independent. The dreams he painted she decided she was just being stubbornly independent.

The dreams began to shatter as the extreme jealousy crept in, the violence, the control. 21 months later she called the police as she didnt know what to do as she was so scared and trapped. 2 years and 2 months of making statements, court hearings and uncertainty, he finally stood in court today and pleaded guilty to harassment with fear of violence and controlling and coercive behaviour. She now feels she can finally move on, she lost everything, but she wont be a victim, she will use her experiences for good.

Sentencing is on 19th oct and she will go to face him, show him she is no longer scared, she is strong and she won.

True story "
wow well good for you girl we live learn and don’t make the same mistake glad to hear it’s not holding you back though x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Great news my lovely.

From someone who's been there, you have my upmost admiration xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once upon a time a woman on fab met a young guy for fun. He was friendly and fun and over the next 4 months she laughed and laughed and felt alive. He then suggested they make things official.. it took her 6 weeks to agonise over the decision as she was very independent. The dreams he painted she decided she was just being stubbornly independent.

The dreams began to shatter as the extreme jealousy crept in, the violence, the control. 21 months later she called the police as she didnt know what to do as she was so scared and trapped. 2 years and 2 months of making statements, court hearings and uncertainty, he finally stood in court today and pleaded guilty to harassment with fear of violence and controlling and coercive behaviour. She now feels she can finally move on, she lost everything, but she wont be a victim, she will use her experiences for good.

Sentencing is on 19th oct and she will go to face him, show him she is no longer scared, she is strong and she won.

True story "

Wow that's both scary and amazing ... Well done you, and sorry you had to deal with this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you people

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Fabulous. Well done for being strong and seeing it through. Hope you've been supported well throughout this process. He may not get just deserts at court but that's another story. You can hold your head up high.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im n9t worried about the sentence, the main thing is he is now recognised as a perpetrator of dv. What i have done will help future victims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow such an amazing lady for doing what you knew needed to be done. I'm super chuffed for you.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Im n9t worried about the sentence, the main thing is he is now recognised as a perpetrator of dv. What i have done will help future victims "

Well done on being strong.

I hope you get all the support you need.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Wow! That’s a cautionary tale.

Glad to hear that justice is being done. Sorry that you had to go through it OP but thanks for sharing.

A new story begins, hopefully with happy beginning, middle and end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll done for being so strong, Crazy.

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Such a shame you had to go through that, but well done for coming through it standing tall.

Go enjoy yourself again, you've definitely earned it

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Sorry to read what you had to go

through OP and wish you good luck and more happy times in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love happy endings.

And now for the next chapter. Go have fun, OP. You deserve it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You should be very proud of yourself OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you, it takes real guts to do that! I truly hope this gives you the closure you need for your new beginning. Your inner strength has been victorious.

I’ll raise a glass or two to you tonight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sad but true.

Too many people have alterior motives.

Best wishes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats OP

I’m glad you had the courage.

Go and let your hair down and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once upon a time a woman on fab met a young guy for fun. He was friendly and fun and over the next 4 months she laughed and laughed and felt alive. He then suggested they make things official.. it took her 6 weeks to agonise over the decision as she was very independent. The dreams he painted she decided she was just being stubbornly independent.

The dreams began to shatter as the extreme jealousy crept in, the violence, the control. 21 months later she called the police as she didnt know what to do as she was so scared and trapped. 2 years and 2 months of making statements, court hearings and uncertainty, he finally stood in court today and pleaded guilty to harassment with fear of violence and controlling and coercive behaviour. She now feels she can finally move on, she lost everything, but she wont be a victim, she will use her experiences for good.

Sentencing is on 19th oct and she will go to face him, show him she is no longer scared, she is strong and she won.

True story "

Well done, and great news on the verdict. Always great to hear good news from another survivor. And now no longer a victim but a winner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone else who is a survivor of such an ordeal. She is a wonderful woman and has moved on passed it with it all behind her now. Chin up and get on with being you and happy. I hope he gets the punishment that’s deserved.

Well done for standing tall.

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