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Stalker....it’s hard to tell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever found someone becoming clingy after you’ve met them for ‘just sex’?

There’s so many here stating that it’s just sex nothing more, (as opposed to those that like the social side and making friends) so it gets me wondering, has anyone had a ‘one off’ and then they start to stalk a little when you’ve said you don’t want any more than what it was?

Have you ever become slightly clingy or needy with a meet from here? Or do you think friendliness can be miss understood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy from here a few times, seemed a nice guy. He then started making subtle threats about another guy i was sleeping with (telling his mrs).

When i called it all off amd blocked him, the utter loon found my MUM on facebook and chose to message her. The message included that i meet guys for sex, he said he had met my son (which he hadnt!) And all sorts of rubbish.

Really scared me tbh and im now very careful not to get too close to guys and cut them off at the first hint of loony behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking about this on here the other week , my thread got closed so don’t want to talk in detail. But yes it’s happened.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was talking about this on here the other week , my thread got closed so don’t want to talk in detail. But yes it’s happened. "

Yes, best stick within the rules if posting thanks.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I met a guy from here a few times, seemed a nice guy. He then started making subtle threats about another guy i was sleeping with (telling his mrs).

When i called it all off amd blocked him, the utter loon found my MUM on facebook and chose to message her. The message included that i meet guys for sex, he said he had met my son (which he hadnt!) And all sorts of rubbish.

Really scared me tbh and im now very careful not to get too close to guys and cut them off at the first hint of loony behaviour!"

What an idiot he needs his penis squishing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy from here a few times, seemed a nice guy. He then started making subtle threats about another guy i was sleeping with (telling his mrs).

When i called it all off amd blocked him, the utter loon found my MUM on facebook and chose to message her. The message included that i meet guys for sex, he said he had met my son (which he hadnt!) And all sorts of rubbish.

Really scared me tbh and im now very careful not to get too close to guys and cut them off at the first hint of loony behaviour!

What an idiot he needs his penis squishing."

Wtf ! Ppl need to get a life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I had someone who no longer wanted to be my Fwb, but who then went nuts when I met someone and he saw the veri. I can’t go into it all on here, but he completely over reacted and I found it scary how he behaved.

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By *ancavillMan
over a year ago

st agnes

(quote)What an idiot he needs his penis squishing

no its the brain that needs squishing, maybe your vagina needs squishing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone I met for just a social who then tried to add me to LinkedIn! Like that's going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone I met for just a social who then tried to add me to LinkedIn! Like that's going to happen "

I dont know what that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone I met for just a social who then tried to add me to LinkedIn! Like that's going to happen "

How the hell did he find you there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned out we worked in similar industries and guess wasn't that difficult to find me

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I met a guy from here a few times, seemed a nice guy. He then started making subtle threats about another guy i was sleeping with (telling his mrs).

When i called it all off amd blocked him, the utter loon found my MUM on facebook and chose to message her. The message included that i meet guys for sex, he said he had met my son (which he hadnt!) And all sorts of rubbish.

Really scared me tbh and im now very careful not to get too close to guys and cut them off at the first hint of loony behaviour!"

Thanks actually terrifying some absolute moon fruits on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb got a bit weird towards the end. Didn't like me being on here even though he was. He thought that because I was female, I'd stand a better chance of getting meets than he would.

It all got a bit silly and spiteful.

I think sometimes people aren't honest and clear about what they are really looking for on here and that leads to misinterpretation of someone else's actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s happened to me.

I met a guy off Craigslist for fun a couple of years ago, he ended up becoming a full fledged stalker after I told him I won’t meet anymore because of his pestering me.

It was quite scary actually, he sent threats, managed to find out what college I went to no doubt from my Facebook & he would sit outside there in his car at finish time and text me saying he could see me & what I’m wearing, I ended up going to the police.

We only met twice but he got really attached and when it wasn’t reciprocated it got nasty.

He actually contacted me again last year via his real Facebook account trying to apologise and ask to meet again. The guy was delusional!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"(quote)What an idiot he needs his penis squishing

no its the brain that needs squishing, maybe your vagina needs squishing. "

Erm yeah ok...

Here's one to avoid ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this before meeting. Like loads of messages a day either here or kik or whatever. I end up blocking these people. I get some nastys as well that think it's ok to be abusive if I can't meet them at the time and place they say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Had this happen once but hubby sorted it very quickly!

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