FabSwingers.com forum: Just leaving a Wink

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"

I don't know. What's the answer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?

I don't know. What's the answer? "

My guess is as good as anyones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got winked at earlier.

Her profile said “if i wink I’m interested”

Now we’re chatting. And she’s not a million miles away, and she’s bloody gorgeous! So, it’s not always a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?

Exactly "

Night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the thing at the tip

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I got winked at earlier.

Her profile said “if i wink I’m interested”

Now we’re chatting. And she’s not a million miles away, and she’s bloody gorgeous! So, it’s not always a bad thing "

This is a good explaination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why is wveryone who winks like 200miles away... like thats gonna work lol x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And why is wveryone who winks like 200miles away... like thats gonna work lol x"

Right? I get some as far as Northern Ireland

like ummm okay!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged "

Yeah it is disheartening. Single guys get it most of the time. But i actually responded, they read my messege and ghosted

thats what makes me scratch my head. Its just odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand what the ops saying. I've had ladies wink me . I've messaged and they ignore . Why bother winking ? What did they hope to get out of it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get winks I'll usually respond with a thank you ... Or if they a worthy of a message I'll write some more .. I don't like the one liner messages, they are just as menial as winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I get winks I'll usually respond with a thank you ... Or if they a worthy of a message I'll write some more .. I don't like the one liner messages, they are just as menial as winks "

Tries his luck with a wink...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I get winks I'll usually respond with a thank you ... Or if they a worthy of a message I'll write some more .. I don't like the one liner messages, they are just as menial as winks

Tries his luck with a wink...

Nope it's a no go

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

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"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"

It's to show a little appreciation for one's profile and hopefully if they think the same too,then a wink will be received. Works well for me. Don't knock it because it doesn't work for you

. I've had plenty meets because of little wink..even from a fabbed picture. Who would've thought ay

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged

Yeah it is disheartening. Single guys get it most of the time. But i actually responded, they read my messege and ghosted

thats what makes me scratch my head. Its just odd"

So if you winked at a person in the street. That means you have to talk to them,and you can't just walk on by? Haha. They mean nothing,but can lead to something.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I got winked at earlier.

Her profile said “if i wink I’m interested”

Now we’re chatting. And she’s not a million miles away, and she’s bloody gorgeous! So, it’s not always a bad thing "

Hope it works out and see. ^^^^^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged

Yeah it is disheartening. Single guys get it most of the time. But i actually responded, they read my messege and ghosted

thats what makes me scratch my head. Its just odd

So if you winked at a person in the street. That means you have to talk to them,and you can't just walk on by? Haha. They mean nothing,but can lead to something.

Well the context differs on a swingers site. It doesn't bother me,I just find it pointless to show interest in a wink and not follow up after they know you have responded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do understand what the ops saying. I've had ladies wink me . I've messaged and they ignore . Why bother winking ? What did they hope to get out of it ? "

I’ve had this a few times.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I got winked at earlier.

Her profile said “if i wink I’m interested”

Now we’re chatting. And she’s not a million miles away, and she’s bloody gorgeous! So, it’s not always a bad thing "

As a man, I wouldn’t mind a wink and say so on my profile. If I was out and about and a woman winked at me, I’d be right over there. Although, I can see the woman’s point,of it being lazy and wanting more effort. (If he can’t make the effort in a message, what’s he gonna be like on a date)

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

I guess a wink is just like giving a 'like' to a profile. They may be too far away for a meet but you liked their profile, so winked to show your appreciation. Clearly message then if they wink vack though.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had winks that went on to conversations and then meets. Don’t dismiss the power of the humble wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are cool, let’s you say ‘hey you, I think your fit’ fancy a chat sometime?’ ...without typing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do understand what the ops saying. I've had ladies wink me . I've messaged and they ignore . Why bother winking ? What did they hope to get out of it ? "

Yes exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"
time is so demanding here for women and couples so they wink at someone they might be interested in, you reply with a message and pics then if you're not what they want they block you......... No time wasted....... Ingenious don't you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks are cool, let’s you say ‘hey you, I think your fit’ fancy a chat sometime?’ ...without typing it.

I agree with this as hopefully a return wink would then initiate messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

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I explained it above and I'm spot on right

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

I explained it above and I'm spot on right "

I think you hit the nail on the head.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged

Yeah it is disheartening. Single guys get it most of the time. But i actually responded, they read my messege and ghosted

thats what makes me scratch my head. Its just odd

So if you winked at a person in the street. That means you have to talk to them,and you can't just walk on by? Haha. They mean nothing,but can lead to something.

Well the context differs on a swingers site. It doesn't bother me,I just find it pointless to show interest in a wink and not follow up after they know you have responded."

Oh okay cool. For me it's not as i act as i would face to face.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I’ve had winks that went on to conversations and then meets. Don’t dismiss the power of the humble wink. "

With great power,comes great responsibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be annoying. Especially when they're from people who clearly havent read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink means what you want it too mean . I sometimes wink cause i like the profile or i like the pics . It does not always mean. I wanna shag yer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wink means what you want it too mean . I sometimes wink cause i like the profile or i like the pics . It does not always mean. I wanna shag yer "

This guy is a very smart man. That is the best exolanation so far. Thread closed. Erm....moderators if you please. We're done here haha.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"

It no more then a poke on Facebook. It needs to be changed to a tickle or a kiss

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged "
Exactly.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

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Try not to over think things. Relax and enjoy the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got winked at earlier.

Her profile said “if i wink I’m interested”

Now we’re chatting. And she’s not a million miles away, and she’s bloody gorgeous! So, it’s not always a bad thing "

Wot he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wink means what you want it too mean . I sometimes wink cause i like the profile or i like the pics . It does not always mean. I wanna shag yer

This guy is a very smart man. That is the best exolanation so far. Thread closed. Erm....moderators if you please. We're done here haha.

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Haha Thank you. But I must admit most of the time I do wanna shag em

( I've spoilt it now ain't I? ) .. mods . 're open the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A wink means what you want it too mean . I sometimes wink cause i like the profile or i like the pics . It does not always mean. I wanna shag yer

This guy is a very smart man. That is the best exolanation so far. Thread closed. Erm....moderators if you please. We're done here haha.

Haha Thank you. But I must admit most of the time I do wanna shag em

( I've spoilt it now ain't I? ) .. mods . 're open the thread

Pmsl. Oh my stomach is hurting. He's funny too ladies. Gotta be a catch someone. Oh wait he said he wants to shag them. Neeext. Now if you said pound them senseless i'd be in hehe

Mods if you will please. Bloody men haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

I explained it above and I'm spot on right

I think you hit the nail on the head. "
thankyou........ See

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

I explained it above and I'm spot on right

I think you hit the nail on the head. thankyou........ See

You're very welcome. Are you following me by any chanve?. I like being followed haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

I explained it above and I'm spot on right

I think you hit the nail on the head. thankyou........ See

You're very welcome. Are you following me by any chanve?. I like being followed haha"

He follows everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some people are misunderstanding my post.

If the recipient winks ME first(presumably showing interest) ,I messege back then i get ghosted

like to what end? Haha

Or do some people like using the wink for the sake of baiting?

I explained it above and I'm spot on right

I think you hit the nail on the head. thankyou........ See

You're very welcome. Are you following me by any chanve?. I like being followed haha"
Ha hey if I saw you're sexy arse waddling down the street I may do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why is wveryone who winks like 200miles away... like thats gonna work lol x"

I occasionally wink if someone is mikes away and fab a few of their pics. There’s no point writing a message as we will probably never meet, but if they do have a reason to be near Leeds they might be interested enough to wink back or make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point, I don’t even look at winks, only when I’m bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?

I don't know. What's the answer?

My guess is as good as anyones

What is your guess? You havn’t said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll send the odd wink if I see pics I like but there isn’t much on the profile to gauge I’d they'd be for me or vice versa. To me a wink just says, hey, I like what I see. If I receive a wink I’ll check out the profile and start a conversation if I like the look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quiet like the wink function as we are a little shy to start with and it's a way to let people know you like the looks of them and there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We quiet like the wink function as we are a little shy to start with and it's a way to let people know you like the looks of them and there profile "

This

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Oddest thing on here i think is people just leaving winks with no message or response to yours.

whats the point?"

It's an expression of appreciation and interest, it's a soft introduction......

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over a year ago

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

You've just winked at the OP haven't you........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just winked at the OP haven't you........

Was winking at you Stallion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged "

Exactly! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it's saying I'm interested without typing a long arse msg for it to be deleted or unread. Very disheartening making effort without even being acknowledged "

Exactly!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

You've just winked at the OP haven't you........

Was winking at you Stallion "

Oooooft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why is wveryone who winks like 200miles away... like thats gonna work lol x

You’re on my list honey x

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