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9 weeks and still nothing need help

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By *ornyshyguy2022 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

How on earth did you find over 200 profiles you were interested in? I can't even find one!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Curious to know what your friend said.

9 weeks is chuff all.

It ain't dial-a-gash.

Get yourself out to social events and clubs.

Do you think your profile is enticing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP... Is this a serious question?

If so, please do a forum search for advice on this matter. There's plenty of it.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what your friend said.

9 weeks is chuff all.

It ain't dial-a-gash.

Get yourself out to social events and clubs.

Do you think your profile is enticing?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think perhaps lose the “horny twat” bit then see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance"

So close.... trick is to be here 10 weeks without posting the nobody replies message...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck"

I refer to myself as a twat in mine. Honesty is the best policy after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key..

9 weeks is nothing!!

Hang in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance"
Hey your profile although a bit short on info is ok how do you approach women what kind of message do you send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile needs a little bit of work... search forums for all threads on same subjects... and have the 200+ messages you've sent been interesting/original? If they are "fancy a fuck" messages... computer will most likely say noooo!

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By *unchy2016Man
over a year ago

Castle Donnington

Ive been here a few years but only had 2 meets in that time so ya got time yet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think perhaps lose the “horny twat” bit then see how it goes "
love your legs, great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

So close.... trick is to be here 10 weeks without posting the nobody replies message... "

His hand was on the doorknob to the room full of naked ladies too, so close to turning it. To the back of the queue with you

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok OP I'm feeling helpful...

Your profile is your shop window.

You are one of hundreds of single men all looking for the, far fewer, single ladies.

This means you need to stand out.

For most that means a good profile showcasing your personality, good pics and selective personalised messages.

If you are successful with the ladies in real life, you may have more success in a club. If you go this route check dress codes, read the club site info and do go expecting to get laid.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ok OP I'm feeling helpful...

Your profile is your shop window.

You are one of hundreds of single men all looking for the, far fewer, single ladies.

This means you need to stand out.

For most that means a good profile showcasing your personality, good pics and selective personalised messages.

If you are successful with the ladies in real life, you may have more success in a club. If you go this route check dress codes, read the club site info and do go expecting to get laid.

Nita"

Oops. Should say DON'T go expecting to get laid

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck

I refer to myself as a twat in mine. Honesty is the best policy after all "

Me too....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck

I refer to myself as a twat in mine. Honesty is the best policy after all "

You forgot to tell him to send "Up ya bum" messages to all the lovely ladies of his desire

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck

I refer to myself as a twat in mine. Honesty is the best policy after all

You forgot to tell him to send "Up ya bum" messages to all the lovely ladies of his desire "

Up ya peachy bum Alice

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No profile. Sent over 200 messages and complaining after 9 weeks.makes me think you thought it was dial.a shag

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Your write up could do with a bit of work.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance"

Profiles should inform the reader if what you offer your desires and what they can expect.. I think pictures attract folk and it's the words that generate the ongoing interest.

Look at your profile from the readers perspective does it inform attract and would it generate interest..if yes do nothing if no change something.

What were your expectations,?

MWhat did your friend say about the site.?

You may need to revisit what the answer to the expectation question was.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"its difficult for single men.

Don't refer to yourself as a twat though.

Chat on the forums, try a social or a club, they're the most popular suggestions.

Good luck

I refer to myself as a twat in mine. Honesty is the best policy after all

You forgot to tell him to send "Up ya bum" messages to all the lovely ladies of his desire

Up ya peachy bum Alice "

Only for you m'dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth did you find over 200 profiles you were interested in? I can't even find one! "

Quite true. And how the hell do you find time to right that many people. What if they all replied?

It’s all a mystery in here, each person will know what works for them to attract people they want to attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain mate

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP your post here probably tells people more about you than your profile - all good advice above - 9 weeks is nothing for most single blokes on here - some go months even years without so much as a sniff of a meet.

I always used to roll out the three P's for people who posted they couldn't get a meet, is about time it got another airing:

Patience - you need lots of this - just because you have a profile here doesn't automatically mean you have the keys to the magic kingdom - it takes time and patience to get a meet.

Profile - write one that reflects your personality and tells people not only about you and what you're hoping to find here but also what you think you can offer.

Pictures - get a decent set that show off your body and not just your cock.

Do that, along with things like getting involved in the forums and going to clubs and socials, and it won't guarantee a thing but may improve your experience of the site

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"OP your post here probably tells people more about you than your profile - all good advice above - 9 weeks is nothing for most single blokes on here - some go months even years without so much as a sniff of a meet.

I always used to roll out the three P's for people who posted they couldn't get a meet, is about time it got another airing:

Patience - you need lots of this - just because you have a profile here doesn't automatically mean you have the keys to the magic kingdom - it takes time and patience to get a meet.

Profile - write one that reflects your personality and tells people not only about you and what you're hoping to find here but also what you think you can offer.

Pictures - get a decent set that show off your body and not just your cock.

Do that, along with things like getting involved in the forums and going to clubs and socials, and it won't guarantee a thing but may improve your experience of the site "

Yeah!!!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

So close.... trick is to be here 10 weeks without posting the nobody replies message... "

I never got round to posting one as a single male. Feel like i've missed out now

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance"

Update please OP. Did any of the advice you received help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been playing the lottery for a while now and not yet won a penny. I might complain after reading g this thread. You inspired me op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

Update please OP. Did any of the advice you received help?"

Bloody hell sproutypants, you trying to resurrect a graveyard

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

Update please OP. Did any of the advice you received help?

Bloody hell sproutypants, you trying to resurrect a graveyard "

I was just curious

I’m hoping the OP had a happy ending

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Was recommended by a friend thought I'd give it ago been on here 9 week now and still no meet or chat I've sent out over a good 200+ messages and all I get is read messages or delete can some one help please thank you in advance

Update please OP. Did any of the advice you received help?

Bloody hell sproutypants, you trying to resurrect a graveyard

I was just curious

I’m hoping the OP had a happy ending "

Well there's no verifications... so that might answer the question

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