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By *oshker71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I must admit I’ve done this twice one

1) I went to see a t girl who when I turned up didn’t really look like her pics but wasn’t to bad so I thought Id still go along with the meet, she said go upstairs to the bedroom I will be up now..I go up & there is a dog on the bed & it’s covered in dogs hair...I mean covered really bad..I thought jez I’m not getting in there...I said very sorry I’m allergic to dogs hair & left.

2) I went to meet another t girl went upstairs was & getting undressed when she said I have to go for quick wee a minute ok I said...she left the door open & I could hear her splashing on the side of the pan..but then she let out an almighty fart...well that was a passion killer..so I said I think I’ve left my lights on in the car & made a hasty exit.

I’m not proud of my actions but theses two meets were just passion killers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

On one occasion I turned up at a guys house. As I went in the smell hit you and the place was covered in old newspapers, big bags etc.

I told him sorry but I’m not staying. He then recommended we got a hotel. I declined. If his house was a shit pit I guessed his level of cleanliness might not be to a standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m lucky enough not to have had to bow out but then again I haven’t met that many people. I’m not a big fan of dirty houses though so check pictures. Nothing worse that seeing a sexy lady surrounded by a complete shit hole of a house.

The fart one made me chuckle. Passion killer for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes when was on site before went to one house was filthy and pics were obviously yrs old.

Used that old fake phone call button on phone and made sharp exit

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By *oshker71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I’m lucky enough not to have had to bow out but then again I haven’t met that many people. I’m not a big fan of dirty houses though so check pictures. Nothing worse that seeing a sexy lady surrounded by a complete shit hole of a house.

The fart one made me chuckle. Passion killer for sure "

It’s funny now when I think of it but at the time it was rank

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

Yes, once... we just didn't click... I remember feeling very bad and awkward as I was leaving, although in my defence nothing had been promised or expected on either side at that stage.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can't say I have but all my first meets have been socials and I've been lucky to get on with all that I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, once... we just didn't click... I remember feeling very bad and awkward as I was leaving, although in my defence nothing had been promised or expected on either side at that stage. "

Exactly why a social is important

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

No haven’t been in that situation but I do tend to judge people by their pics .

If the background is a mess and stuff all

Over the floor etc just won’t engage.

Sorry but I’m very clean so I expect who I meet would be the same

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire


"Yes, once... we just didn't click... I remember feeling very bad and awkward as I was leaving, although in my defence nothing had been promised or expected on either side at that stage.

Exactly why a social is important "

Indeed, and if the social goes well it can be the start of foreplay in itself, which is always exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, deceive me and I will turn round and walk out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"? "

Haha, that's funny. Anyone ever watch League of Gentleman, was it like Babs from Babs cabs??!

The OP's fart one had me belly laughing!!

I've never been in that situation fortunately. I chat alot to people or meet socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a social first......... it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

"

This, lots of communication, not just about sex. Ok, mostly about sex but we felt we knew each other quite well before we met. Both first socials turned into play to some degree..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

This, lots of communication, not just about sex. Ok, mostly about sex but we felt we knew each other quite well before we met. Both first socials turned into play to some degree.. "

That's no guarantee. I talked to someone off POF for 2 years before we finally met, and I realised he had deceived me. I walked out.

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"? "
nearly wet myself at this sorry lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Down the fart echo?

I'd have probably pissed myself laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I heard a noise upstairs and she said it’s my son. He’s woke up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

This, lots of communication, not just about sex. Ok, mostly about sex but we felt we knew each other quite well before we met. Both first socials turned into play to some degree..

That's no guarantee. I talked to someone off POF for 2 years before we finally met, and I realised he had deceived me. I walked out."

Of course not. That's just how it turned out, but both turned out as fwb relationship s for some time and parted amicably. Tumble ever since though..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

This, lots of communication, not just about sex. Ok, mostly about sex but we felt we knew each other quite well before we met. Both first socials turned into play to some degree..

That's no guarantee. I talked to someone off POF for 2 years before we finally met, and I realised he had deceived me. I walked out.

Of course not. That's just how it turned out, but both turned out as fwb relationship s for some time and parted amicably. Tumble ever since though.."

Yes, all or nothing is a common pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tumble. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs tumble. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club with a guy and he wanted to play with this couple, they weren’t really my type but I thought it’d be fine. Got a private room and things began to hotten up. Anyway, he was with the woman and me with the guy, she was making the most off putting, fake, disgusting moans and he was kissing me like a fish, I was so repulsed I had to get up and make my excuses and leave!! I felt awful and so rude but I just couldn’t take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can't we say w**d?.....ah..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...."

W E E D! We all knew what you meant!! Bloody filters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, once... we just didn't click... I remember feeling very bad and awkward as I was leaving, although in my defence nothing had been promised or expected on either side at that stage.

Exactly why a social is important

Indeed, and if the social goes well it can be the start of foreplay in itself, which is always exciting"

Could still get to their house and it be disgustingly dirty!!

Went to one guys house after him telling me how clean and ocd he was about cleaning. It wasn’t disgusting but let’s just say it was not up to my standards, I thought it was minging! People have different ideas of what’s clean! One guy I know is extremely clean but I still criticise and start cleaning when I get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"?

Haha, that's funny. Anyone ever watch League of Gentleman, was it like Babs from Babs cabs??!

The OP's fart one had me belly laughing!!

I've never been in that situation fortunately. I chat alot to people or meet socially first. "

Chat all you want people might still let one rip when you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"?

Haha, that's funny. Anyone ever watch League of Gentleman, was it like Babs from Babs cabs??!

The OP's fart one had me belly laughing!!

I've never been in that situation fortunately. I chat alot to people or meet socially first.

Chat all you want people might still let one rip when you meet "

Its normally me to be fair, I blame my high protein diet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit I’ve done this twice one

1) I went to see a t girl who when I turned up didn’t really look like her pics but wasn’t to bad so I thought Id still go along with the meet, she said go upstairs to the bedroom I will be up now..I go up & there is a dog on the bed & it’s covered in dogs hair...I mean covered really bad..I thought jez I’m not getting in there...I said very sorry I’m allergic to dogs hair & left.

2) I went to meet another t girl went upstairs was & getting undressed when she said I have to go for quick wee a minute ok I said...she left the door open & I could hear her splashing on the side of the pan..but then she let out an almighty fart...well that was a passion killer..so I said I think I’ve left my lights on in the car & made a hasty exit.

I’m not proud of my actions but theses two meets were just passion killers "

You probably weren't her type either and she deliberately left the door open so you would fuck off lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"? "

Aww ffs I'm actually greetin at this hahaha x

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By *oshker71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Hahaha your post was an entertaining read lol

My confession is yes i have and i too went to meet a post-op Tg for the 1st time ever, something i would never have done but she looked like one super fine hot woman where i just thought Fuck it, she/he looks like a woman so i will treat her like one.... so i drove to her all got butterflies in my tummy like, thinking to myself if my mates ever find out im going to see a tg, what you doing ? Anyway i think you know what im talking about, so i get to the flat and the doors open, candle light all over the floor and im thinking yhhh liking this, so i call out hello.... and i hear a blokes deep voice saying "In the bedroom" im thinking WTF but i thought, I'm here now go on... go to the bedroom. Well i go and open the door..... its fucking amazing what you can do on Snapchat photography... i told him/her sorry but your not my cup of tea... i had to fucking luff to myself in the car when she said in her deep voice "is it the outfit"? "

Ha ha I can feel your pain

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By *oshker71 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I must admit I’ve done this twice one

1) I went to see a t girl who when I turned up didn’t really look like her pics but wasn’t to bad so I thought Id still go along with the meet, she said go upstairs to the bedroom I will be up now..I go up & there is a dog on the bed & it’s covered in dogs hair...I mean covered really bad..I thought jez I’m not getting in there...I said very sorry I’m allergic to dogs hair & left.

2) I went to meet another t girl went upstairs was & getting undressed when she said I have to go for quick wee a minute ok I said...she left the door open & I could hear her splashing on the side of the pan..but then she let out an almighty fart...well that was a passion killer..so I said I think I’ve left my lights on in the car & made a hasty exit.

I’m not proud of my actions but theses two meets were just passion killers

You probably weren't her type either and she deliberately left the door open so you would fuck off lol x"

I didn’t think of that you could be right lol......but then again they didn’t have to let me I’m lol

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I've never had reason to leave another's place but a couple of times at mine I've called a halt to things.

On one occasion, as the chap undressed, it became apparent his body had was infected with something - blemishes, blisters, sores everywhere.

Now, it may well have been harmless, I don't know, but I just could not carry on and told him so. He took it well (probably not the first time).

The other time was a guy with an enormous prince albert. Well, it made me squirm just looking at it and thinking how painful that must been.

I did try to get on top of him (yes, with a condom wrapped over it, too) but I gave up - I could not get the thought out of my mind. He was very understanding in the circumstances.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We left a party once. We didn't make excuses. We just told the truth which was we were very uncomfortable. The hosts were very understanding and the other guests didn't seem bothered

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Not long after I joined Fab I started chatting to a guy, only briefly because I wasn’t sure how the site worked. He seemed ok. On his way to the meet he started sending really crude messages which put me off but he was on his way so I thought I’d give him a chance. Some people like that sort of thing after all. When he turned up I could have almost forgiven the scruffy tennis shoes, the shapeless awful jeans and the huge baggy jumper but his conversation was so dull and it became clear that we did not have the same sense of humour at all. Also he kept making a really odd half cough half squeak noise which was most bizarre. I complete panicked, I just said I had horrible period pains and I would have to cancel. He said it was fine but grabbed my breast as he said goodbye. Thank heavens the next guy I was talking to was completely different and told me about the forums and showed me what a good meet and fab friend can be like otherwise I would have left the site. My own fault for not being more switched on about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I had a very good reason though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Many years ago i used to use the chatrooms and met a guy blindly for a social. I literally went into shock and just said i cant do this and just started running. I ran all through leicester and up to the train statiom and didnt stop till id got there

I was like forest gump

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Yes but I had a very good reason though "

Did the wagon come to empty the bins behind Waitrose?

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but I had a very good reason though

Did the wagon come to empty the bins behind Waitrose?"

not on that day but it did happen to one of my mate named Patrick

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also was at a tv gangbang meet once and told a woman to fuck off as she was a disgrace to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh hem, I just need the loo.......

It must feel horrible to have to do that.m, and how do you avoid hurting someone’s feelings when you do something like that? Excuses are obvious rejections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when I heard a noise upstairs and she said it’s my son. He’s woke up "

OMG not nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Eh hem, I just need the loo.......

It must feel horrible to have to do that.m, and how do you avoid hurting someone’s feelings when you do something like that? Excuses are obvious rejections. "

I don't think you can avoid hurting someone's feelings. Its best to be tactful but as truthful as possible.

When its because someone has blatantly misrepresented themselves I think its fair to tell them thats why you're not going ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but I had a very good reason though

Did the wagon come to empty the bins behind Waitrose?

not on that day but it did happen to one of my mate named Patrick "

Funnily enough it happened to me to when they collected the wheelie bin behind b and q just before 1 today.....

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I always squeeze out a fart or two before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should have pulled the plug on two particular meets but didn't have the heart to as the guys were nice.

Let's just say both of these guys were completely oblivious to the fact I wasn't enjoying the meet.

Thought Laying like a sack of potatoes and looking at the time was a give away but no,they didn't get it.

I also didn't have the heart to tell them they kissed like fish.

They probably thought i was terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should have pulled the plug on two particular meets but didn't have the heart to as the guys were nice.

Let's just say both of these guys were completely oblivious to the fact I wasn't enjoying the meet.

Thought Laying like a sack of potatoes and looking at the time was a give away but no,they didn't get it.

I also didn't have the heart to tell them they kissed like fish.

They probably thought i was terrible. "

In the early days I too had a few I should have pulled the plug on, but now I try to be a lot more careful x

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By *gnes Loves AnalWoman
over a year ago

Kingstanding


"I must admit I’ve done this twice one

1) I went to see a t girl who when I turned up didn’t really look like her pics but wasn’t to bad so I thought Id still go along with the meet, she said go upstairs to the bedroom I will be up now..I go up & there is a dog on the bed & it’s covered in dogs hair...I mean covered really bad..I thought jez I’m not getting in there...I said very sorry I’m allergic to dogs hair & left.

2) I went to meet another t girl went upstairs was & getting undressed when she said I have to go for quick wee a minute ok I said...she left the door open & I could hear her splashing on the side of the pan..but then she let out an almighty fart...well that was a passion killer..so I said I think I’ve left my lights on in the car & made a hasty exit.

I’m not proud of my actions but theses two meets were just passion killers "

Hmmm its interesting you can ditch someone OP but then not be happy when you do it. What goes around comes around.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"No never, always chatted loads beforehand and mainly had socials first..

This, lots of communication, not just about sex. Ok, mostly about sex but we felt we knew each other quite well before we met. Both first socials turned into play to some degree..

That's no guarantee. I talked to someone off POF for 2 years before we finally met, and I realised he had deceived me. I walked out."

What did he do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago when I was on here as a couple. We went to a couples house. They were nothing like their pics and there was a real pressure from them to play. I had to excuse myself and say I was feeling unwell.

Now I always strictly do socials first and chat a bit prior to that. I have had socials where the person is different to expected or there has been no spark so I don’t see them again. I don’t feel guilty about that. I wouldn’t want to be a pity shag and I’m sure they wouldn’t want that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a man who had all day to get ready and he opened his door in pj bottoms and scruffy top plus he was stoned. I had quick coffee and Appologised saying i couldn't go through with it. I cried all the way home as was upset plus i felt a really bad person.

Its why its a coffee meet first now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Well not actually an excuse. I just said " I have to go". He was at least 10 years older than his age and around 6 stone heavier. He didn't deserve an excuse

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"I met a man who had all day to get ready and he opened his door in pj bottoms and scruffy top plus he was stoned. I had quick coffee and Appologised saying i couldn't go through with it. I cried all the way home as was upset plus i felt a really bad person.

Its why its a coffee meet first now x"

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes we have on a few occasions usually when we have gone to parties and we have not fancied any of the other guest.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

A few years ago I went to meet some chap I had spoken to for about 3 weeks, I got to his house and was let in by the entry system, but when he opened his own front door the smell of garlic was just overpowering, almost knocked me down, carried on and he made me a drink and the closer he got the smell of garlic was stronger and he was chewing bits of it, I did say to him the garlic is so strong its to much and I will not be able to stay and I'm sorry, I was then told by him he gets of on having sex while eating garlic.... Some very odd people about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the site a few years now, under various guises.

When I was fairly new to fab, went to a guys flat, stank of fag smoke, dirty ashtrays, he lay on the sofa (Jeremy Kyle was on the telly) started undoing his trousers and said "where we starting?" Um we're not, gotta go. Was gone.

Insisted on social meets only after that...

Next one, nice enough had exchanged messages and calls, decided a coffee can't hurt, turned up at his place, he told me he had a false leg causing his very apparent limp, fair enough, we don't judge, only coffee afterall. Only thing his leg was creaking as he walked

Anyway moving on, he proceeded to sit down, got himself a drink, wasn't offered, fine... after a few minutes of chat he said "shall we go in the summerhouse" um lets not, I was honest and just said to keep it to a social meet, he kept bringing the conversation back to the summerhouse, made my excuses, he

Discovered the other week he is friends on fb with my fwb! He commented on a status I had also commented on hopefully he didn't see me on fb lol

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