FabSwingers.com forum: Who or what awakened your 'sexual side'?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you always been very sexual?

Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?

What awakened your 'sexual side'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Fabulous and Bearded behind Lidl one night.

Although it was quick, I feel like something awoke in me.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

Puberty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabulous and Bearded behind Lidl one night.

Although it was quick, I feel like something awoke in me. "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was always there but a medication let it out. Now I can't put it away!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Puberty"

it’s amazing what puberty does! Before puberty girls were ‘ugggghhh’!

After puberty girls were ‘hellllllllooooo’!

Isn’t biology wonderful!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Joined here to help awaken it and Miss Red has helped me do things I never thought I would and enjoy things I didn't think I would like, so she has really made me discover who I am sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out"

I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).

If you can’t feel free to try exploring sex (or other things in life), your never going to feel like your living live. And that’s how I started to feel, like I was being shown how ‘not’ to do things.

...and that’s not my character.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

"It was always there but a medication let it out. Now I can't put it away!! "

mmmmmmmmmm.... insatiable, eh?

Can't have too much of a good thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Joined here to help awaken it and Miss Red has helped me do things I never thought I would and enjoy things I didn't think I would like, so she has really made me discover who I am sexually.

I love that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out

I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).

...and that’s not my character. "

I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hannah Solo in the Ford Focus Ghia, it was a journey of discovery for the both of us. Although I had to replace the shocks and got ripped off at the garage, it was truly worth it. I will never look at that gear stick the same way again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Dexter would say “like a dark passenger” but with less knives.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Always sexual. First sex was a boy second sex was a girl and off i went on my advemtures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out

I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).

...and that’s not my character.

I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree.

Life experiences change us and our views on what we think is morally right. (Eg, I shot a squirrel when I was younger, I’d never do it again, I learned that was wrong). But your character and motivation in life is what makes you, and when people around you (or society) try to drive you to be someone your not (by educating you with their ideals), you need to change direction, and find the real you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.

Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.

Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all. "

Totally understand, and I find that very sad. I know a girl who was inherently very submissive but repressed it for years because of a throwaway comment by an ex which made her feel ashamed and embarrassed. So wrong.

Now she's making up for lost time though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.

Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all. "

That horrible feeling when your longing to try something you feel your not ‘allowed’ to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men.

I’ve only ever looked back to encourage him to go in harder.

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By *im L FuckitMan
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

"Men.

I’ve only ever looked back to encourage him to go in harder.

Oh god, my kind of woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An older woman a long time ago ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A realisation that I am in control and the only opinion that matters is my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.

Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all.

That horrible feeling when your longing to try something you feel your not ‘allowed’ to do. "

Exactly. Still I’ve explored it a lot since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met an assertive man

He made me see its not wrong to be kinky x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I met a woman that enjoyed sex and wasn’t ashamed to show it. It opened up a whole new playful, experimental, safe yet exciting world

Before that it had been very functional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever boyfriend who i was in a long term relationship with from the age of 18 to 27 was a dirty bastard in bed and we fucked like rabbits throughout our relationship.

He showed me the joy and pleasure of sex, and more importantly (to me) he made it fun. He showed me lots of positions, we had sex outdoors (a lot - mostly in the Countryside) and he made me feel like a sex goddess.

Lots of laughs, lots of different positions and lots of sex.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

An epic snogger called Tim!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife, with the special tools given to her by Mother Nature.

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

When I was about 13 and had my first wank probably! Then finding my dads porn stash the same year, I stole a magazine and didn't leave my room for about a week! I'm surprised I wasn't found as a dehydrated empty husk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out

I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).

...and that’s not my character.

I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A realisation that I am in control and the only opinion that matters is my own. "

I like that thought. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x "

I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was about 13 and had my first wank probably! Then finding my dads porn stash the same year, I stole a magazine and didn't leave my room for about a week! I'm surprised I wasn't found as a dehydrated empty husk

Water bottle in your left hand. (((

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

My slutty wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x"

It’s good to break free from things that hold us back, be it a person or a situation. Good for her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my husband at 16 and he corrupted me....still is to this day

(mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you always been very sexual?

Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?

What awakened your 'sexual side'?

I got sick of being used and abused and scared. I think someone just pushed me one step to far. I suddenly found that as a woman I could be in control. And found what I liked. And mostly since then I have explored and found myself to be ever evolving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing 7 stone awakened me

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

My last meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabulous and Bearded behind Lidl one night.

Although it was quick, I feel like something awoke in me. "
chuckle he had me behind Aldi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been horny as long as I can remember.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Turning 40

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Emmanuel channel 5 on a Friday ohh and sexcetera from then I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting my husband...He awakened the monster and then opened the cage door, patted me on the butt and told me to have at it

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By *rban-NitesCouple
over a year ago

LONDON (SE)

"Have you always been very sexual?

Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?

What awakened your 'sexual side'?

I (Ms) have always been very sexual, love sex, passion, connection, exploring and experimenting but due to circumstances before I felt I had to keep that side of me "napping" but now I'm free from previous circumstances that side of me is fully awake and luckily I have someone who is non judgemental and just as like-minded as myself

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By *rban-NitesCouple
over a year ago

LONDON (SE)

I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x"

Can so relate to both of these (Ms)

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.

Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all.

Now she's making up for lost time though!"

My first husband told me I was weird... I left him, found BDSM and never looked back.

I was 18. It's been a fun 20 years

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have you always been very sexual?

Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?

What awakened your 'sexual side'?

It’s still sleeping...!

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By *inamicMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grief

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Losing 7 stone awakened me

Congrats on the loss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you always been very sexual?

Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?

What awakened your 'sexual side'?

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Prince when I was about 13. The man was pure dirt. I saw that a man in little knickers and thigh high boots was crazy hot. He just turned everything I thought about sex, the way I viewed men and women, the things I’d already learned from my dads porn videos and mags that we’d all discovered in the field, upside down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advancing years and a fear of it I dont try it now I never will. A wrenching realisation that even the people we love the most aren't infallible, so sometimes we have to do things, explore fantasies that are just for us.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Think mine has pressed the snooze button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hormones I guess ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been, since at least 15. People have tried to shame me but mostly positive. I’m in a place now where I care a lot less what people think and about the “perfectness” of mine or a partner/s body, and enjoy how we make each other feel.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nothing particularly - I've always had an inquisitive and relatively uninhibited sexual mind for as long as I can remember and not wanting to veer into matters that can't be discussed on the forums I can't expand any further than that.

I haven't always been able to act on much of it but this life has certainly allowed me to explore and embrace sides of my sexuality that remained suppressed for many years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaclyn Smith, once a week.

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