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Is taking Viagra a turn off

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester

Recently blown out by a lady I was getting on really well with when I suggested that I took viagra sometimes to help out. She thought was totally alien and unnatural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re you trying to put it in your ear OP ?

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"We’re you trying to put it in your ear OP ?"

I didn’t get to put it anywhere in the end ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In future, take it before hand and don’t say anything. You might have to tuck your cock under your belt all evening though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op would you be taking it for medical reasons or recreational reasons

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By *eoff2000Man
over a year ago

Ferndown

Those of us of a certain age need all the help we can get to maintain an erection. In fact, you should take viagra, or cialis or kamagra at least half an hour before you expect to have sex and it normally only reacts when you have been physically aroused. So what was the point of telling the woman in the first place. Simply move on to a guy or woman that appreciates you for what you can provide and who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently blown out by a lady I was getting on really well with when I suggested that I took viagra sometimes to help out. She thought was totally alien and unnatural "

Perhaps she wished to believe she was enough for you and you wouldn't need anything to 'help out'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra."

Good point. I think some people think it's to create an erection when there's no desire.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra."
how strange what your describing sounds like syalis. The one and only time i met a guy who had taken viagra had a bone on before he even got to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Met a guy once who had to give himself an injection in the penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra."

Shows what I know. I thought it just got you hard for a while.

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"Op would you be taking it for medical reasons or recreational reasons"

Medical reasons

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op would you be taking it for medical reasons or recreational reasons

Medical reasons

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well then you had a lucky escape. But no need to really tell people on here

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"Met a guy once who had to give himself an injection in the penis"

That’s normally for people with type 1 diabetes

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future! "

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Met a guy once who had to give himself an injection in the penis

That’s normally for people with type 1 diabetes"
ahh right. I didnt know the reasons just that he went of to the bathroom to do it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of it"
biggest load of bollocks ive ever heard

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of itbiggest load of bollocks ive ever heard"

Oh really !!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of itbiggest load of bollocks ive ever heard

Oh really !!"
you dont need to tell anyone you take viagra its none of there business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of itbiggest load of bollocks ive ever heard

Oh really !!you dont need to tell anyone you take viagra its none of there business"

Little late for that now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra.how strange what your describing sounds like syalis. The one and only time i met a guy who had taken viagra had a bone on before he even got to mine"

That and the active ingredient in viagra are from the same family and do the same things. They affect blood flow so when arousal happens, erections are more likely to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the guys needing Viagra for medical reasons. But I'm totally blown by those who think it's ok to use it for recreational reasons, just to 'try and see how it feels'. It is a drug, if you don't need it, steer clear, in my opinion. What if you develop dependency and wouldn't be able to get hard/maintain it without popping pills?

Also, in my opinion, too many guys are hang up on their cocks as the main way of pleasuring a woman. As long as your tongue and fingers are still working, I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand the guys needing Viagra for medical reasons. But I'm totally blown by those who think it's ok to use it for recreational reasons, just to 'try and see how it feels'. It is a drug, if you don't need it, steer clear, in my opinion. What if you develop dependency and wouldn't be able to get hard/maintain it without popping pills?

Also, in my opinion, too many guys are hang up on their cocks as the main way of pleasuring a woman. As long as your tongue and fingers are still working, I'm happy"
Agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either can’t get hard or I blow my beans after a few pumps, your call ladies.

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By *apeye OP   Man
over a year ago

worcester


"I can understand the guys needing Viagra for medical reasons. But I'm totally blown by those who think it's ok to use it for recreational reasons, just to 'try and see how it feels'. It is a drug, if you don't need it, steer clear, in my opinion. What if you develop dependency and wouldn't be able to get hard/maintain it without popping pills?

Also, in my opinion, too many guys are hang up on their cocks as the main way of pleasuring a woman. As long as your tongue and fingers are still working, I'm happy Agree with that."

I’ve become an expert with my tongue, believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be overly bothered.

If it's needed for medical reasons then I definitely wouldn't have a problem.

If it's taken to heighten both of our experience, that's okay too.

I think maybe you should take it without saying in future!

The lady in question told me I should have put it on my profile that I sometimes needed it.

The cheek of it"

That's just ridiculous of her to suggest such a thing.

Just take it and don't mention it in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra.

Shows what I know. I thought it just got you hard for a while. "

Me too

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra.how strange what your describing sounds like syalis. The one and only time i met a guy who had taken viagra had a bone on before he even got to mine"

They both work in a similar manner you still need sexual stimulation I've forgotten what receptor they work on .

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Viagra does not cause a man to be sexually aroused. Viagra is only effective if you are sexually aroused. To understand how it works you need to understand the mechanics of how a man gets an erection. When you get sexually stimulated, the nervous system in the erectile tissue of your penis releases nitric oxide (NO).

The nitric oxide stimulates an enzyme that produces something called a messenger cyclic guanosine monophosphate (cGMP). The cGMP relaxes the smooth muscle cells. One result of this is that the arteries in your penis dilate and the blood can flow into your penis more easily. Another result is that the erectile tissue itself fills with blood. Both of these process result in an erection. Viagra works by maintaining the level of cGMP in the smooth muscle cells.

If you are not turned on, your brain will not stimulate the release of any nitric oxide and you will not produce any cGMP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One lasts longer in system than other. Sialisis is longer duration .

Injections caverject / Trimix (USA uses Trimix lots in Porn ) are used if people absolutely can’t get anywhere with tablets. It’s like the last resort. It’s prescribed in people that react badly to viagra or see no improvement from taking them.

I

n Sex work we see lots of guys juicing their cocks with injections. It gives guaranteed erection no matter what once the right dosage is used .about 15 min kick in. In USA we had one guy we had to take hospital as his cock was over engorged for 5 hours lol poor sod

You can spot the juiced up dicks In porn as they are like iron bars rigid and veiny to look at . Not quite natural looking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a guy once who had to give himself an injection in the penis"

What a prick !!@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viagra, still along way off, experts warn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we have to respect a woman's views but I wonder whether sometimes women misunderstand how Viagra works. It doesn't create an erection . Desire has to be there first and then it facilitates and helps maintain a hard on. In other words it isn't a question of needing it to increase your desire for her which will be just as strong with or without Viagra."

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Met a guy once who had to give himself an injection in the penis

That’s normally for people with type 1 diabetes"

It’s for all sorts of reasons uncontrolled T1 is just one of them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some people don't understand erectile dysfunction and others have had bad experiences with guys taking it

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I've been with some chaps who I've wondered if they had taken viagra.

Lots of guys, wham bam, and that's it.

And then you meet some guys who are just, well, ready to go again, and again, and again.

I love guys like that.

Is that the viagra effect? Who cares!

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By *om and BarbaraCouple
over a year ago

Moreton in Marsh

Maybe she just didn't understand, either you didn't explain it well enough or she had no experience of it and she wasn't ready to deal with it. Why tell her?

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