FabSwingers.com forum: Why so serious?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Views on whether or not some profiles and personalities on here are a tad serious and maybe lost sight of the fun that is to be had? Lots of factors of course, just curious as to the views?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some its a serious business trying to get laid

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid"

Oh definitely for some it is I’d love to get to play with you tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean the LONG LIST OF DONT’S IN CAPITAL LETTERS!!!! type profiles. I just avoid ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very intense sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like. If you find a profile boring or serious move on,

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im seriously never serious until the moments when i am serious then i come accross an laid back its all a mind fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid"

The question I have to ask is,why?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

For me it's a serious business being taken seriously

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some pics are serious looking. Don’t people smile or do selfies take that much concentration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you holding your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "

What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Serious ? About what ?

My view is that if you consider yourself to be the life and soul of frivolity and fun ..... great.

Now let the serious folk be serious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im seriously never serious until the moments when i am serious then i come accross an laid back its all a mind fuck "

Sound logic tbf

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "

I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.

I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.

Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.

I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.

Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile."

Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x."

Inability to read profiles and work out if they're the kind of person you're looking for, and even if they do and they're clearly the opposite of what you're looking for still send messages just in case, ya know, coz they reckon they can change your mind.

Those who pressurise.

Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.

Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.

Liars.

I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x.

Those who pressurise.

Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.

Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.

Liars.

I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?

Well honesty is the best policy and agree that liars on here are normally under the same heading as cheats! Which I can’t stand. But maybe with the messages with what your looking for some maybe exactly that but don’t know how to put it into words? I know I’m a lot better in person than I am online.... hands down x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely a large mix of people. For me this is supposed to be fun and escapism so I treat it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is definitely a large mix of people. For me this is supposed to be fun and escapism so I treat it that way. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?"

I've no idea... its not my problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?

I've no idea... its not my problem

So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Some pics are serious looking. Don’t people smile or do selfies take that much concentration? "

I've noticed this too. Some of my fab friends have let me see the type of messages they get and the face pics that are sent....mug shot central!

Smile...a genuine looking smile can sometimes go a long way

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Don't take this or ourselves seriously so..... lifes good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So raise your glass if you are wrong,

In all the right ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?

I've no idea... its not my problem

So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha "

I don't take fab seriously at all..

Never have, never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?

I've no idea... its not my problem

So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha

I don't take fab seriously at all..

Never have, never will "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?

I've no idea... its not my problem

So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha

I don't take fab seriously at all..

Never have, never will "

Agreed x

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

I think alot of people hear have a good right to get pissed as there are alot of shitheads here and i get the demands but when its turned into a 3 part novel i get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some its a serious business trying to get laid

The question I have to ask is,why?

I've no idea... its not my problem

So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha

I don't take fab seriously at all..

Never have, never will "

It is what it is

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By *reudian_slipMan
over a year ago

Northern

I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Was it a man?

Did they turn up?

Was it any good after all that?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

" You mean the LONG LIST OF DONT’S IN CAPITAL LETTERS!!!! type profiles. I just avoid .. "

Some profiles have lots of cans.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Was it a man?

Did they turn up?

Was it any good after all that?"

Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many serious people!

I’m a sarcastic little shit who jokes a lot and sometimes you try that in a message and you’ll get an offended message back!

Chill!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Was it a man?

Did they turn up?

Was it any good after all that?

Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?"

I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the serious business of trying to come across as a total twat and seeing how many people block me.

Those with patience will see past the facade.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm very sarcastic and I love the posts that stir the shit pot with sarcasm. Especially when people don't realise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Was it a man?

Did they turn up?

Was it any good after all that?

Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?

I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.

Wouldn’t your first thought be female? As he is straight in his profile?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Was it a man?

Did they turn up?

Was it any good after all that?

Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?

I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.

Wouldn’t your first thought be female? As he is straight in his profile?"

Yes, but I'm heading down the route that he may have been tricked by a tricky trickster who wasn't a female at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to take it serious when everyone is parading round naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...

I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.

Well I hope you will never do that again - there are some serious nutters on here. Lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.

I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.

Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile.

Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally?"

I don't think so, it hasn't worked out that way so far at least. I don't list a play by play of how I want or expect a meet to go but I'm very clear on the type of man I want.

There is still plenty of opportunity to get to know one another. I kind of see it as an explained extension of the interests.

It's definitely not a serious profile though & honestly if someone can't take 2mins to read it, then they're not going to be the type of man I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..

I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..

I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it

Bloody thief!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x."

Not a serious debate, surely?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..

I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it

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the cheek of some people. One of my friends had his profile right down to age and name and then sent him a wink

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Missed out the word stolen

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By *ima66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "

Lmfao

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"It's hard to take it serious when everyone is parading round naked.

I'm neither naked nor serious.

How very dare you!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "
Gordon is a moron

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

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cmon is that possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x.

Those who pressurise.

Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.

Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.

Liars.

I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?

Did you really say, honesty is the best policy???

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

cmon is that possible "

Uh huh.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

cmon is that possible

Uh huh.......

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cmon we're townies

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

cmon is that possible

Uh huh.......

cmon we're townies

*Shoulder punch....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

cmon is that possible

Uh huh.......

cmon we're townies

*Shoulder punch...."
see solidarity

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons

Gordon is a moron

Just cos he's better looking than you'oo.

cmon is that possible

Uh huh.......

cmon we're townies

*Shoulder punch....

see solidarity "

True dat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For every Fuddy Duffy, there’s a clown.

It’s like everywhere, there’s a group of people with different personalities, which is a good thing. I love having a laugh, but if it was party time all the time, it would bore the pants off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious ? About what ?

My view is that if you consider yourself to be the life and soul of frivolity and fun ..... great.

Now let the serious folk be serious."

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is good so make it a bit better by add new to people into it who are like minded decent and want the same things it’s simple! It’s just finding them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is good so make it a bit better by adding* new to people into it who are like minded decent and want the same things it’s simple! It’s just finding them...."

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Do people actually read profiles? Seriously!

I like to look at the pretty pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was hoping for a ‘dark knight’ thread....

Kinda disappointed...

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.

I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.

Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile.

Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally?"

Swingers aren't trying to get to know each other, it should be about sexual gratification there and then.

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