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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I don’t see the point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

I don’t see the point? "

I’m hoping they will come on this honest forum and tell us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few who either take a really bad photo or have knocked a few years off their age.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Age lie about it surely not. I’m 32 and if never lie about my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind a year or two either way, anymore and it’s really annoying because contrary to belief, it’s usually noticeable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

I don’t see the point?

I’m hoping they will come on this honest forum and tell us "

I’ve seen people do it to get around age filters. But if you can’t be honest about a simple thing like that, what else are you hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you? "

People always think I look good for my age and better in person, so yes. I am happy and flattered with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shock horror. Someone on fabs has lied about something!

Imagine turning up to a meet and seeing wedding photos around the place, when they’re single? Sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

I don’t see the point?

I’m hoping they will come on this honest forum and tell us

I’ve seen people do it to get around age filters. But if you can’t be honest about a simple thing like that, what else are you hiding? "

HIV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the point....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you?

People always think I look good for my age and better in person, so yes. I am happy and flattered with that. "

Ermmm is it because you lie about your age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shock horror. Someone on fabs has lied about something!

Imagine turning up to a meet and seeing wedding photos around the place, when they’re single? Sure. "

Maybe their partner died and they still love him/her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't see the point.... "

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted. "

True.. I’m 21.. will you have a drink with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am actually 72. But looking good for my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted. "

I met a lady once who upon meeting in the pub told me she’d lied about her age, I accepted it only to later find out she’d lied about a lot more.

“Fool me once” and all that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted.

I met a lady once who upon meeting in the pub told me she’d lied about her age, I accepted it only to later find out she’d lied about a lot more.

“Fool me once” and all that "

Maybe twice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you? "
of course every two minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been caught out by that. He didn't just lie about a few years either. When i told him i had to go, he had the nerve to message me later and think that i was in the wrong for walking off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

38 but that will change in a couple days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted.

I met a lady once who upon meeting in the pub told me she’d lied about her age, I accepted it only to later find out she’d lied about a lot more.

“Fool me once” and all that

Maybe twice lol "

Well, she was pretty so maybe 3 or 4 times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"38 but that will change in a couple days"

Happy B’Day Boy! Have a smashing one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted.

I met a lady once who upon meeting in the pub told me she’d lied about her age, I accepted it only to later find out she’d lied about a lot more.

“Fool me once” and all that

Maybe twice lol

Well, she was pretty so maybe 3 or 4 times "

It’s ok if they are good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s happened to me before.

Thankfully we only met for a drink and he confessed.

I explained I wasn’t interested anymore since he felt the need to deceive me, he apologised and tried to convince me to meet again but it was a straight no.

I don’t like liars, especially those who lie about something so small as age, it just makes me think if they can lie about something as small as that they can lie about anything and aren’t to be trusted.

I met a lady once who upon meeting in the pub told me she’d lied about her age, I accepted it only to later find out she’d lied about a lot more.

“Fool me once” and all that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you?

People always think I look good for my age and better in person, so yes. I am happy and flattered with that.

Ermmm is it because you lie about your age? "

Nope, rocking my age and having a great time. I am fit, flexible and fun. My age is an added bonus and desirable to a lot of guys on here. Buyer's market for me and I am having a great time.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

A well known forumite had their age at 40 ever since I joined. She would just change a capital in her user name and keep on.

It was pointed out and she’s now 41 for the next couple of years or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mind a year or two either way, anymore and it’s really annoying because contrary to belief, it’s usually noticeable. "

Or there's a lot of men not wearing well for their young years

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah it's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie about everything on my profile* so I expect everyone else to do the same.

*apart from my age, height, interests, location and my photo's are me too. The rest is a tissue of lies.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I really am 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I'm actually only 28 but I had a REALLY hard paper round.

I just of course, my age is correct and my birthday set on here is my actual birthday. Why? Well, because there's no point lying

A woman I met on here lied about her age and tripped herself over really badly. I don't think she even realised what she'd said but I picked up on it instantly. If she's lied about that, was else has she/is she/Will she lie about? No ta.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

That should say jest*, not just, damn you phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you change your age on here? I know a guy who’s been 51 on here for at least 4 years. The fact that he’s in his late 50’s or early 60’s just adds to the comedy. He definitely looks his age - no need to lie about it though. I quite like older gentlemen but if they lie about something small like this, there’s bound to be more lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I actually find it quite hard to guess ages of folk past 40 so i’m easily duped

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes.

I don’t see the point?

I’m hoping they will come on this honest forum and tell us

I’ve seen people do it to get around age filters. But if you can’t be honest about a simple thing like that, what else are you hiding?

HIV "

If you are practising safer sex it should make no difference and let's get real some people will do anything to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you change your age on here? I know a guy who’s been 51 on here for at least 4 years. The fact that he’s in his late 50’s or early 60’s just adds to the comedy. He definitely looks his age - no need to lie about it though. I quite like older gentlemen but if they lie about something small like this, there’s bound to be more lies "

Exactly.

I like older gents too but you’re right, if they lie about age there is usually another lie waiting around the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!"

Where do you draw the line though? One year, two, five? There has to be a cut off at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!

Where do you draw the line though? One year, two, five? There has to be a cut off at some point "

Exactly.

This is why I won’t tolerate it at all.

It starts off as one year with “I put the wrong year in” you know that old excuse, then you get someone messaging you who’s actually 12 years older than their profile states and they look it.

Someone who lies about their age in my opinion is not comfortable with themselves. I think it’s wrong to do it to bypass age filters, you are deceiving people, people should be entitled to have any preference they like without people lying to get into it.

I had one guy who was actually 25 change his age on here to fit in my filters then send me a doctored photo of his passport when I said he doesn’t look 37 one bit, the fake number he edited stood out a mile off, but he was adamant he was 37.

He didn’t hide his full name so I did a quick birth record search online to catch him out which showed his real DOB and he was like “fair enough just wanted to meet”.

It baffles me that someone would go through all that effort to lie & it goes to show they no doubt lie about far worse things too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!

Where do you draw the line though? One year, two, five? There has to be a cut off at some point "

Of course! And it's entirely up to each of to set our age limits. I was just saying why it might be a temptation to some ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!

Where do you draw the line though? One year, two, five? There has to be a cut off at some point

Exactly.

This is why I won’t tolerate it at all.

It starts off as one year with “I put the wrong year in” you know that old excuse, then you get someone messaging you who’s actually 12 years older than their profile states and they look it.

Someone who lies about their age in my opinion is not comfortable with themselves. I think it’s wrong to do it to bypass age filters, you are deceiving people, people should be entitled to have any preference they like without people lying to get into it.

I had one guy who was actually 25 change his age on here to fit in my filters then send me a doctored photo of his passport when I said he doesn’t look 37 one bit, the fake number he edited stood out a mile off, but he was adamant he was 37.

He didn’t hide his full name so I did a quick birth record search online to catch him out which showed his real DOB and he was like “fair enough just wanted to meet”.

It baffles me that someone would go through all that effort to lie & it goes to show they no doubt lie about far worse things too. "

That’s a lot of effort to try get a meet I’m exhausted just thinking about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My birthday 14/06/1070.

1970

Autocarrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see that the age filters might encourage this when someone reaches a typical age threshold.

My age is what it is but it can be frustrating not to be able to message someone for the sake of a one year difference!

Where do you draw the line though? One year, two, five? There has to be a cut off at some point

Exactly.

This is why I won’t tolerate it at all.

It starts off as one year with “I put the wrong year in” you know that old excuse, then you get someone messaging you who’s actually 12 years older than their profile states and they look it.

Someone who lies about their age in my opinion is not comfortable with themselves. I think it’s wrong to do it to bypass age filters, you are deceiving people, people should be entitled to have any preference they like without people lying to get into it.

I had one guy who was actually 25 change his age on here to fit in my filters then send me a doctored photo of his passport when I said he doesn’t look 37 one bit, the fake number he edited stood out a mile off, but he was adamant he was 37.

He didn’t hide his full name so I did a quick birth record search online to catch him out which showed his real DOB and he was like “fair enough just wanted to meet”.

It baffles me that someone would go through all that effort to lie & it goes to show they no doubt lie about far worse things too.

That’s a lot of effort to try get a meet I’m exhausted just thinking about it lol"

I know!

It still amazes me that anyone in their right mind would go through all that effort only to be caught out in the end.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. Its never happened to me and if someone has lied about their age theyve obviously been able to get away with it as i havent sussed it

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yup one couple said 56 more like 65 in real life . And I’m just newly 46 as in birthday only 2 wks ago... whatever about a few years of a difference but that was nuts ....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I must be a right easy lay as noone has felt the need to decieve me to get me into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't hit the age yet where I need to lie about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 in a few weeks

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you? "

Two women I have met for socials, turned out to be 'misleading' about their ages. This is when I discovered that 'old' pics can appear to be much newer in here, as you can upload more than once, and the date on the pic, is the date the pic was uploaded, if you see what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't hit the age yet where I need to lie about it "

I have, I still don't though, totally pointless!

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes.

I actually find it quite hard to guess ages of folk past 40 so i’m easily duped "
a wrinkly cock is usually a sign

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A man I used to meet gets younger every year, quite funny really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't hit the age yet where I need to lie about it

I have, I still don't though, totally pointless! "

I've never would anyway, what u see is what you get, like it or lump it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"39 in a few weeks "

I'll be 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you?

Two women I have met for socials, turned out to be 'misleading' about their ages. This is when I discovered that 'old' pics can appear to be much newer in here, as you can upload more than once, and the date on the pic, is the date the pic was uploaded, if you see what I mean? "

Something admin and the owner should change. After all they make millions from our subs.

I would like photos to be a year old or two year max. I've seen some guys who are 7 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man I used to meet gets younger every year, quite funny really! "

BenButton69, I know that guy.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"39 in a few weeks

I'll be 40. "

Shut the stuff up the pair of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"39 in a few weeks

I'll be 40.

Shut the stuff up the pair of you!"

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By *una3Woman
over a year ago

Chester

I told the truth on mine .

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A man I used to meet gets younger every year, quite funny really! "

Does he make a new profile every time then? I thought you could only change it once if you made a mistake the first time, although I find it hard to believe that someone can fail to notice such a glaring error before pressing submit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see the point....

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen "

No, it hasn't.

I don't understand why people lie generally, and especially over something so silly as their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

I actually find it quite hard to guess ages of folk past 40 so i’m easily duped a wrinkly cock is usually a sign "

Count the number of wrinkles on the penis and ballbag to reveal the true age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked one guy for a current picture... he looked ok on it. When we met on social... well I did not recognise him cos he was more like 15 more years older than his photo. I didn't like it. Game over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you?

Two women I have met for socials, turned out to be 'misleading' about their ages. This is when I discovered that 'old' pics can appear to be much newer in here, as you can upload more than once, and the date on the pic, is the date the pic was uploaded, if you see what I mean?

Something admin and the owner should change. After all they make millions from our subs.

I would like photos to be a year old or two year max. I've seen some guys who are 7 years old. "

Make MILLIONS?? Really

I actually very much doubt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked one guy for a current picture... he looked ok on it. When we met on social... well I did not recognise him cos he was more like 15 more years older than his photo. I didn't like it. Game over "

That is ridiculous, did he think you wouldn't notice that? FFS, ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see the point....

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen

No, it hasn't.

I don't understand why people lie generally, and especially over something so silly as their age "

Lying about age a few years either way could be a way of some people protecting their identity.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

In all my 27 years on this earth never once have I lied about my age

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I've been talking to one guy on a dating site and he's lobbed five years of his age for here.

Naughty bugger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you change your age on here? I know a guy who’s been 51 on here for at least 4 years. The fact that he’s in his late 50’s or early 60’s just adds to the comedy. He definitely looks his age - no need to lie about it though. I quite like older gentlemen but if they lie about something small like this, there’s bound to be more lies "

I think you get one chance to change it and keep the same profile.

Then people do what was mentioned earlier, they tweak their username each time to keep rolling back the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked one guy for a current picture... he looked ok on it. When we met on social... well I did not recognise him cos he was more like 15 more years older than his photo. I didn't like it. Game over

That is ridiculous, did he think you wouldn't notice that? FFS, ridiculous "

I think he was hoping... I'm tolerant but even I have my limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked one guy for a current picture... he looked ok on it. When we met on social... well I did not recognise him cos he was more like 15 more years older than his photo. I didn't like it. Game over

That is ridiculous, did he think you wouldn't notice that? FFS, ridiculous

I think he was hoping... I'm tolerant but even I have my limits "

Absolutely right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see the point....

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen

No, it hasn't.

I don't understand why people lie generally, and especially over something so silly as their age

Lying about age a few years either way could be a way of some people protecting their identity."

I guess you could have a point Jim, I still think there is more to someone's Identity than their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you change your age on here? I know a guy who’s been 51 on here for at least 4 years. The fact that he’s in his late 50’s or early 60’s just adds to the comedy. He definitely looks his age - no need to lie about it though. I quite like older gentlemen but if they lie about something small like this, there’s bound to be more lies "

I've wondered if the free version of the site doesn't accelerate the age automatically?

We've seen some photos on here where folk look a good ten years older than us but say they are younger than us. Apart from genetics and self-care, there is the sense of a person's experience being carved on their face - if they've had a lot of bereavement or illness say. We try not to judge until we've at least chatted and maybe been privileged with their narrative, but it is extremely hard not to judge,as our societal norms are visually constructed in many ways. Wonder how we'd choose meets if we only heard each other rather than see? Sorry!! - That's for another thread maybe.

Mrs

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Count the number of wrinkles on the penis and ballbag to reveal the true age."

Is that a challenge Jim?

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I always lie about my age thesedays cos I hate being this age whether I look it or not

Xxxx

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

There are several reasons why people might want to alter their age on here, including avoiding recognition, getting into their 'target age range' for prospective meets. It is a fact that once you hit markers like 35,40,50 etc that even if you are in great shape you will be out of the range of those in your preferences.

I know there are many on the forums who play as singletons but will admit to being married privately. So which is worse? Does it matter if you like someone enough to have sex with them?

As long as any reality is admitted before meeting it is up to the moral compass of the person meeting them to carry on. However the person telling the lie cannot complain if/when found out and is cancelled on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see the point....

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen

No, it hasn't.

I don't understand why people lie generally, and especially over something so silly as their age

Lying about age a few years either way could be a way of some people protecting their identity."

My friend did that, but I don't see any need to make it much more than a year off. Plus my photos, I mean my friend's photos, are all from the last few weeks.

I've seen people that I like on here that I've been both too old and too young for, so in that respect, no there isn't much point.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I am genuinely 37 and will be 38 this Saturday. No point lying about ur age cuz truth always comes out in the end xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are several reasons why people might want to alter their age on here, including avoiding recognition, getting into their 'target age range' for prospective meets. It is a fact that once you hit markers like 35,40,50 etc that even if you are in great shape you will be out of the range of those in your preferences.

I know there are many on the forums who play as singletons but will admit to being married privately. So which is worse? Does it matter if you like someone enough to have sex with them?

As long as any reality is admitted before meeting it is up to the moral compass of the person meeting them to carry on. However the person telling the lie cannot complain if/when found out and is cancelled on."

I seem to have had more success since I turned 50, and I could meet many more than I do (cept I am very picky) so not lying about my age hasn't done me too much harm.

I was absolutely dreading turning 50, but so far, apart from a few shitty real life things, it's been nothing but good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't see the point....

Maybe this thread can help you see the unseen

No, it hasn't.

I don't understand why people lie generally, and especially over something so silly as their age

Lying about age a few years either way could be a way of some people protecting their identity.

My friend did that, but I don't see any need to make it much more than a year off. Plus my photos, I mean my friend's photos, are all from the last few weeks.

I've seen people that I like on here that I've been both too old and too young for, so in that respect, no there isn't much point."

You look pretty good for 57

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A man I used to meet gets younger every year, quite funny really! "

There's a guy local to me, has left and rejoined with a new profile 3 times that I know of, to ensure he still slides under that age 45 barrier. He is 54

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of 98 year olds message me. That's them fooked now (or not) as they cannot change it back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lasses on my local updates feed that are either lying about their age to the tune of 10 to 15 years, or if they’re not then they’ve had an incredibly stressful life! Honestly, love, if you’re 40 I’m a Dutchman!

Hoewel ze misschien 40 zijn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a couple of 98 year olds message me. That's them fooked now (or not) as they cannot change it back!!"

Did they have good bodies/cocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes I've had a few men message saying they were x age and turned out they were 10-20 years older.

I love my age.

Not gonna lie about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a couple of 98 year olds message me. That's them fooked now (or not) as they cannot change it back!!

Did they have good bodies/cocks? "

Not bad but then they were at least half that age!

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I haven't hit the age yet where I need to lie about it

I have, I still don't though, totally pointless!

I've never would anyway, what u see is what you get, like it or lump it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a couple of 98 year olds message me. That's them fooked now (or not) as they cannot change it back!!

Did they have good bodies/cocks?

Not bad but then they were at least half that age!"

Ahhh that's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a couple of 98 year olds message me. That's them fooked now (or not) as they cannot change it back!!

Did they have good bodies/cocks?

Not bad but then they were at least half that age!

Ahhh that's cheating "

Indeed it is. I bet they wished they hadn't done it when they tried to change it back and found they couldn't!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’ve met a few people who tell you their real age when you are in bed or they just don’t look like what they state on their profiles.. has this happened to you? "

About 4 years ago, I was invited for a social with a woman who purported to be 51 at the time. Her pics looked great, so I was happy to meet up. When she answered the door to me, I genuinely almost asked if her daughter was in Quickest cup of coffee I ever drank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are several reasons why people might want to alter their age on here, including avoiding recognition, getting into their 'target age range' for prospective meets. It is a fact that once you hit markers like 35,40,50 etc that even if you are in great shape you will be out of the range of those in your preferences.

I know there are many on the forums who play as singletons but will admit to being married privately. So which is worse? Does it matter if you like someone enough to have sex with them?

As long as any reality is admitted before meeting it is up to the moral compass of the person meeting them to carry on. However the person telling the lie cannot complain if/when found out and is cancelled on."

I’m not too sure the two are comparative, however I get the point you’re making about lying.

Age to me isn’t just a number as so many brush it off to be, if anyone should be doing that it’s me now I’ve hit the big 50.

The whole thing about reaching those so called age markers are people have them in place because that is their preferences. I’m talking pretending your older as well as more usual knocking a few years off to come in the upper age marker.

Like I said one of two years either way isnt an issue, start doing 5 years and you’re half a decade out..!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"There are some lasses on my local updates feed that are either lying about their age to the tune of 10 to 15 years, or if they’re not then they’ve had an incredibly stressful life! Honestly, love, if you’re 40 I’m a Dutchman!

Hoewel ze misschien 40 zijn?"

I'm the opposite, I actually am 41, but look a good 10 to 15 years younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some lasses on my local updates feed that are either lying about their age to the tune of 10 to 15 years, or if they’re not then they’ve had an incredibly stressful life! Honestly, love, if you’re 40 I’m a Dutchman!

Hoewel ze misschien 40 zijn?

I'm the opposite, I actually am 41, but look a good 10 to 15 years younger."

Pics or it didn’t happen!!! (DMs are open! )

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Met a guy once who had either knocked 10 years off or had a very hard paper round, and on the other hand have been messaged by a guy who admits to having added 10 yrs so he falls within the age range of more people. I don't see the point, you get found out and as others have said if you start with a lie what else is untrue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way some people act on here you would think they were 7...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have actually made myself older so to avoid slim mum's and attract only fat grannies

Oh shit I used to F word!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve experienced this quite a few times. Most noticibly 3 men who knocked 10 years off their age. One of them actually really believe he looked that much younger (he really didn’t)

Several have admitted knocking a few years off

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"There are several reasons why people might want to alter their age on here, including avoiding recognition, getting into their 'target age range' for prospective meets. It is a fact that once you hit markers like 35,40,50 etc that even if you are in great shape you will be out of the range of those in your preferences.

I know there are many on the forums who play as singletons but will admit to being married privately. So which is worse? Does it matter if you like someone enough to have sex with them?

As long as any reality is admitted before meeting it is up to the moral compass of the person meeting them to carry on. However the person telling the lie cannot complain if/when found out and is cancelled on.

I’m not too sure the two are comparative, however I get the point you’re making about lying.

Age to me isn’t just a number as so many brush it off to be, if anyone should be doing that it’s me now I’ve hit the big 50.

The whole thing about reaching those so called age markers are people have them in place because that is their preferences. I’m talking pretending your older as well as more usual knocking a few years off to come in the upper age marker.

Like I said one of two years either way isnt an issue, start doing 5 years and you’re half a decade out..!"

I would say they are comparable as many people state they don't meet married or attached people mainly due to not wanting the moral dilemma of possibly breaking up a relationship. Both are lying to improve your chances of having sex with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, I don't assess people against the age on their profile. It just matters if we fancy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are several reasons why people might want to alter their age on here, including avoiding recognition, getting into their 'target age range' for prospective meets. It is a fact that once you hit markers like 35,40,50 etc that even if you are in great shape you will be out of the range of those in your preferences.

I know there are many on the forums who play as singletons but will admit to being married privately. So which is worse? Does it matter if you like someone enough to have sex with them?

As long as any reality is admitted before meeting it is up to the moral compass of the person meeting them to carry on. However the person telling the lie cannot complain if/when found out and is cancelled on.

I’m not too sure the two are comparative, however I get the point you’re making about lying.

Age to me isn’t just a number as so many brush it off to be, if anyone should be doing that it’s me now I’ve hit the big 50.

The whole thing about reaching those so called age markers are people have them in place because that is their preferences. I’m talking pretending your older as well as more usual knocking a few years off to come in the upper age marker.

Like I said one of two years either way isnt an issue, start doing 5 years and you’re half a decade out..!

I would say they are comparable as many people state they don't meet married or attached people mainly due to not wanting the moral dilemma of possibly breaking up a relationship. Both are lying to improve your chances of having sex with someone."

Yeah, fair enough point.

You might as well chuck into the mix lying about height, body type & filtered-the-fuck-up photos ~ all done in order to improve chances.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"There are some lasses on my local updates feed that are either lying about their age to the tune of 10 to 15 years, or if they’re not then they’ve had an incredibly stressful life! Honestly, love, if you’re 40 I’m a Dutchman!

Hoewel ze misschien 40 zijn?

I'm the opposite, I actually am 41, but look a good 10 to 15 years younger."

This is 100% true.

I was certain I was older than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, age down as 38. Actually 42. I kind of guessed anyway as I thought 'there is no way this guy is younger than me' when I met him. I guess it's to get around age filters or to not be recognised?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i lied about my age since i joined.. this year i put my real age.. interest dropped drastically...my advice.. lie about your age..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had someone have their right age but then say their face pic was from 12 years ago. That’s as bad as lying about your age.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams


"Had someone have their right age but then say their face pic was from 12 years ago. That’s as bad as lying about your age. "

this hahaha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup mine's a few out along with a few other relevant profile details like location etc to protect my identity and privacy. No other reason...and I tell someone if I make contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you change your age on here? I know a guy who’s been 51 on here for at least 4 years. The fact that he’s in his late 50’s or early 60’s just adds to the comedy. He definitely looks his age - no need to lie about it though. I quite like older gentlemen but if they lie about something small like this, there’s bound to be more lies

I think you get one chance to change it and keep the same profile.

Then people do what was mentioned earlier, they tweak their username each time to keep rolling back the years.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes.

I don’t see the point?

I’m hoping they will come on this honest forum and tell us "

Changed a few details a little on this profile to avoid a stalker from last one. Hence not real age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Changed a few details a little on this profile to avoid a stalker from last one. Hence not real age. "

I can't lie about it as it's part of a largish tattoo covering my right upper arm. I didn't think that through properly did I ?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yup mine's a few out along with a few other relevant profile details like location etc to protect my identity and privacy. No other reason...and I tell someone if I make contact."

Are you saying that you are older than 42? Has anyone objected to this when they met you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are what we say on the tin. Always nice when people say that in the flesh we look younger

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