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The Wheat from the Chaff

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey

So this site is at time brilliant and other times frustrating - often when you meet someone and finally think - "Yes this is legit, real and going to be fun" - it inevitablly it transpires to not be the case.

So two questions:

1) What tips does anyone have from sorting out the really legit people from the dreamers

2) If you are looking for someone quite naughty (but on surface what lots of people seek)- ie ejnoying a wife with t the husband's full consent - how do you quickly find out if it is a real opportunity - rather than a fantasist husband

All comments welcome (hat attached for inevitable trolls)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real people chat then meet...... Dreamers just chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times"

Now that's not a bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times"

Ditto

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times"

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though.

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though."

True - but maybe that is the 5% that are here to really engage.

How do you sort the messers outs?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though.

True - but maybe that is the 5% that are here to really engage.

How do you sort the messers outs?"

I think differently. Selecting people from the forum severely limits your shag pool. The fact that they use the forum to chat doesn't mean they will meet or are even the type of people you want to meet or that they want to meet you.

Develop a system. Mine goes

1. contact

2. phone chat

3. pic exchange

4. meet

5. sex.

MOST don't get past point 1. Be discerning and don't waste your time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. ........

point 2...... is NOT a chit chat. It's where you suss someone out. I can tell how earnest they are from that talk.

Number 3 sorry is camming for me not a pic exchange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though."

I have to agree. I have never met anyone who is regular on the forums and very much doubt I ever would.

It's a very small percentage of people who are from all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Now that's not a bad idea"

I don't meet men from the forums, so it's not a good idea for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though."

Thats up to them i want to get a feel for someone before i meet them its how im build if i lose out so be it but it works well for me had none forum meets just feel mechanical

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey

Seems like a good system - how many times out of ten would you say you get to point 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had none forum meets just feel mechanical"

My meets have all been repeated and not from the forums and I'm yet to have one that wasn't good, very good or chuffing amazingly brilliant

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Seems like a good system - how many times out of ten would you say you get to point 2?"

I just 'wrote' most don't make it past point 1. That's not down to me but down to shit messages that don't get a response.

Those that do - 100% get to point 2. Maths n all that.

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey

My bad....I definately would not have made it past point 1

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By *ustard_keen_uk OP   Man
over a year ago

Bermondsey


"Seems like a good system - how many times out of ten would you say you get to point 2?

I just 'wrote' most don't make it past point 1. That's not down to me but down to shit messages that don't get a response.

Those that do - 100% get to point 2. Maths n all that."

I did mean point 1...how many make it past point 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab golden rule. Take everything with a pinch of salt

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

There’s an incredible percentage of people on the forums claiming they ‘aren’t currently meeting’ or ‘just here for the chat’.

I think that puts a question mark on their validity (or at least the validity of their profiles/posts) at the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real people chat then meet...... Dreamers just chat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and suss them out through messages and then arrange a chat or social...if they aren’t willing to do this then that’s a red flag.

Look at verifications to see if they’ve met...ignore cam veris, that just shows they are real, not that they want/can meet.

Listen to your instincts...they are usually right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this site is at time brilliant and other times frustrating - often when you meet someone and finally think - "Yes this is legit, real and going to be fun" - it inevitablly it transpires to not be the case.

So two questions:

1) What tips does anyone have from sorting out the really legit people from the dreamers

2) If you are looking for someone quite naughty (but on surface what lots of people seek)- ie ejnoying a wife with t the husband's full consent - how do you quickly find out if it is a real opportunity - rather than a fantasist husband

All comments welcome (hat attached for inevitable trolls)

"

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Search lola-lily. Filthiest, hottest, nicest woman I've ever fucked.

Sometimes I struggle to spaff with penetration but with her, I was having to hold off.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’re still new to this and as a couple looking for a couple it’s even more difficult. You may be getting on really well chat wise, get to the nitty gritty of arranging a meet only to find that only one half of the couple at the other end was ever interested and the other half will unceremoniously pull the plug.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Seems like a good system - how many times out of ten would you say you get to point 2?

I just 'wrote' most don't make it past point 1. That's not down to me but down to shit messages that don't get a response.

Those that do - 100% get to point 2. Maths n all that.

I did mean point 1...how many make it past point 1

"

Just a simple point.....

getting TO point 2

getting PAST point 1

same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way to really know is to arrange to meet if all parties are agreeable. If they turn up they're not a dreamer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way to really know is to arrange to meet if all parties are agreeable. If they turn up they're not a dreamer.

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Too simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though.

I have to agree. I have never met anyone who is regular on the forums and very much doubt I ever would.

It's a very small percentage of people who are from all over the place. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just use the forum to work people out worked most times

Only about 5% of the members use the forums though.

I have to agree. I have never met anyone who is regular on the forums and very much doubt I ever would.

It's a very small percentage of people who are from all over the place. "

Like Wiltshire. Maybe we don’t meet because nobody knows where these locations are.

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