FabSwingers.com forum: Bullied

By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Was this via pm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not, I bully people all the time but only people I like

How has she bullied you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??"

You mean someone replied?

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

She's called me dull and said I needed luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullying is a very strong word to use. What exactly has she done? If she was saying things to you via private messages, why didn't you just block her?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Online bullying has been happening since, well since people have been online, Its easy to ignore messages and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

I wish someone would wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??"
How did she bully you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

Not sure that's bullying. That's pretty tame compared to some of the abuse I've had over the years but if you feel it needs reporting then report the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

You think that constitutes bullying ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Block her .. that'll teach her

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You could report her if you feel strongly enough about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Foot ho

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting "

That’s not called bullying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting "

Make your mind up

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting "

Yeah, I agree. I think she's gagging for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Foot ho

And proud

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Yes this would help me lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??"

If you feel that someone has bullied you either on the forum or by private message report the message or the forum post.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting "

Make your mind up

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Foot ho

Hey nothing wrong with that

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting

Make your mind up"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullying is when something happens continuously, not a one off incident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Foot ho

And proud

Get yer feet out, get yer feet out, get yer feet out for the lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a strongly worded letter to fab

I’ve had some strange chats on here.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting

Make your mind up

Its hard to make your mind up when its your arse that you're talking out of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White female privilage.

Suck it up dude, this is why we're supposed to fuck and leave.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You got a reply you should be grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s being a bitch.

Delete - block - move on

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If it's a one off remark that's not bullying,it's her being a tit. Tell her to sod off.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"White female privilage.

Suck it up dude, this is why we're supposed to fuck and leave."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??"

Block and report and keep messages.

Move on as there's much much nicer ladies on here that show respect but can have good banter too.

Think of it that you've something she wants but can't have and smile about it each day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe"

I haven't presumed anything but don't think that constitutes bullying. Might be a bit rude but its not that bad compared to what some people get on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe"

Not here... not on fab mate. Never seen it if it has happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe"

Errrrr.....wrong - i said she’s being a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe

I haven't presumed anything but don't think that constitutes bullying. Might be a bit rude but its not that bad compared to what some people get on here."

I agree with you but what one sees as bullying another thicker skinned sees it as just rude. No level.of bullying should be accepted excused or tolerated as it only feeds it to become worse.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe

Errrrr.....wrong - i said she’s being a bitch."

How is she being a bitch if that’s what she thinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe

I haven't presumed anything but don't think that constitutes bullying. Might be a bit rude but its not that bad compared to what some people get on here.

I agree with you but what one sees as bullying another thicker skinned sees it as just rude. No level.of bullying should be accepted excused or tolerated as it only feeds it to become worse."

Indeed not. He should just report it and block her as clearly they aren't going to meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bullying might be a bit strong a personally think she's flirting "

Eh wich is it is this like school where the girl sticks nut on ya cos she wants a kiss

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Lol just to be clear I'm not being bullied but thanks for the support

Clearly that kind of joke doesn't come across on a message

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"White female privilage.

Suck it up dude, this is why we're supposed to fuck and leave."

You'll do great on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe

Errrrr.....wrong - i said she’s being a bitch.

How is she being a bitch if that’s what she thinks? "

It’s not the thinking it’s the saying.

Why not just reply with a “thanks but no thanks you’re not for me”.

However, if he pressed for a critique of his messaging style - then fair do’s...

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

OP, people on here can be obnoxious and rude. That's what the block button is for, make sure to use it. And you'll need reasonably thick skin for this as well, don't ever take it personally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck

Then she’s a fool, your awesome to chat too, I’ll flash you my feet to cheer you up

Foot ho

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omg will you bully me please

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"OP, people on here can be obnoxious and rude. That's what the block button is for, make sure to use it. And you'll need reasonably thick skin for this as well, don't ever take it personally x"

Easier said than done mind, I know that first hand

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Some of the abuse the women get on hear is shocking mate I wouldn't worry about it I was told to lurn to spell by one woman so just told her my spelling does not affect how I youse my toung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me too but too proud to admit it even if I just did

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Also notice how all the women presume she's innocent

Hehe"

Wrong, I said to report her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

It's your reading/hearing.

She said you've pulled, I need a fuck.

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Lol just to be clear I'm not being bullied but thanks for the support

Clearly that kind of joke doesn't come across on a message "

Pffttt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now "

So you were just attention seeking then ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now "

You should've just done a "you know who you are" status

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh! I had a monologue prepared.

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now

So you were just attention seeking then ?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like when hot women bully me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??"

Who is she? I'll sort her out for you

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I like when hot women bully me "

You do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??

Who is she? I'll sort her out for you

Can I watch nothing like a couple of ladies wrestling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol just to be clear I'm not being bullied but thanks for the support

Clearly that kind of joke doesn't come across on a message "

Not the best subject to joke about on here or anywhere IMO. It has some dire consequences and causes a lot if heart ache for many

Might suggest a more light hearted subject and maybe add a green laughing face next time. Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when hot women bully me

You do?

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yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol just to be clear I'm not being bullied but thanks for the support

Clearly that kind of joke doesn't come across on a message

Not the best subject to joke about on here or anywhere IMO. It has some dire consequences and causes a lot if heart ache for many

Might suggest a more light hearted subject and maybe add a green laughing face next time. Happy fabbing."

Agree. Make use of those pesky emoji things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now "

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Nobody was hurt and yes I will use emojis

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"This evening I have been bullied by a lady on here.

Fair enough she's gorgeous but surely that's no reason to pick on me!!!

Am I the only one this has happened too??

If you feel that someone has bullied you either on the forum or by private message report the message or the forum post.

Or go to the police

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Just to do clear I was joking we are still chatting right now

So you were just attention seeking then ?"

To be fair, he doesn't have to attention seek with that peach arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody was hurt and yes I will use emojis

True, but that was 5 mins of my life I ain’t getting back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"White female privilage.

Suck it up dude, this is why we're supposed to fuck and leave.

You'll do great on here

That's fine. The truth means more to mean that vag

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"Nobody was hurt and yes I will use emojis

True, but that was 5 mins of my life I ain’t getting back..

That's true sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was bullied by a hot lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's called me dull and said I needed luck "

that's not bullying...

that's constructive critisism....

take it and use it

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Tell the teacher.

Sorry that wont work. I keep forgetting this isnt school.

Anyhow tell us who the bitch is and we will all gang up on her and call her names.

I want to call her a dirty slag and a whore.

That will learn her not to be on here bullying.

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By *lbert_shlossedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Start your own protest group, find something in common with others who also might feel disappointed in life, say like single men.

Group identity is paramount, to bond you'll need an enemy, in this case we'll say women of fab, make sure you show how your victim group is implicitly held back by your protagonists via some bullshit ism,Archy or privilege!.

If anybody questions your truth just call them bigots or Nazis and make sure to emphasize that being questioned makes you offended, very very offended.

Then round it off by demanding society change to be inclusive of your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start your own protest group, find something in common with others who also might feel disappointed in life, say like single men.

If anybody questions your truth just call them bigots or Nazis and make sure to emphasize that being questioned makes you offended, very very offended.

Then round it off by demanding society change to be inclusive of your needs."

Was searching for the emoji... But you're not joking

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