FabSwingers.com forum: Can men and women be friends?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

Definitely!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

Of course they can, it's a ridiculous notion to think otherwise. Any other answer from this point on is moot

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, I've had one particular male friend in my life since I was 16. 28 years we have been friends with nothing sexual ever happening between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

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yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends are female, longstanding good friends and nothing sexual has ever gone on, or will do....... so I’d say most definitely yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my sexual appite the line somtimes gets a bit blurry.

But i imagin with restraint or maybe restraints lol. its possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes. Most of my friends are women. My best friend is a woman whom I’ve know since I was 17 and we’ve never once done the nasty. Should have married her really now that I think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?

I have female friends but they’re not my besties or anything like that, so not really tight-knit friendships. And I don’t feel sexually drawn to them all (hey, I’m not going to deny there’s one or two I wouldn’t mind get tiddly or handsy over a bottle of wine with ..

) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. Some ive had sex with some i havent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most of my friends are women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?

) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet! "

Haha you make me laugh! Bet you’re a good friend to have Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have had a female friend for the last 7 years and we have never had any inclination to have sex. In fact I think if we did it might damage what is very valuable in the relationship. We can give each other mutual support as friends rather than lovers when we go through the inevitable difficult times.

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

Yes, it is definitely possible. I have some lovely friends who are just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex only gets in the way of a friendship (same sex too) if people aren’t being upfront and honest about feelings they either have or develop along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get on pretty well with men. Over time some friendships have developed, not besties or real close but friends nevertheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, not if there is an attraction.

However, I fully appreciate that others have different experiences x

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?

) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet! "

I have experienced a male friend trying to step over the line of friendship with me yes but that’s not what my thread was about. It was inspiration from a different thread.

I see sex could get in the way for you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my best friend is a woman,we met when I was 7 and she was 6!

....she moved in two doors down,she's like a sister to me,we've laughed together cried together, and we've always been there for each other, we live in different countries now but still stay in touch regularly!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One guy i met for sex we only had sex once as we had become such good friends we never have slept together since

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

One of my best friends is a woman, we've known each other for about 15 years now and never once has there been anything even approaching a sexual nature to our friendship.

To that end, I'd never want there to be either, I'd absolutely hate for it to all go wonky

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years "

You’ve had sex with all but 1 of your female friends?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I suspect only a man could ask a question like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course! Most of my closest friends are male, though since joining fab I've formed the closest friendships that I've ever had with a group of amazing women who I would now class as family

I get how difficult some people find it to accept friends of opposite sex, it's hard to see past the social conditioning, but openness and trust plays a major part.

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope they can't (mrs) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

Of course you can be friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope they can't (mrs) x"

At last the right answer!

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Yes. Most of my friends are male and I haven't been physical with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't feel the need to fuck every woman I know. Just some of them...

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

I grew up around women so most of my friends are women.

They are like sisters to me and I do not think of them in any other way.

So it is possible. All depends on how the friendships developed.

I've got 3 very close female friends and I've known them since they were 5 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different when you have grown up with someone they become family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to only make friends with people I want sex with

Ive done friendship all wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years

You’ve had sex with all but 1 of your female friends?

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yes but we don't have sex anymore and have remained friends is that so hard to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, pretty much 95% of my friends are female!

I prefer female friends to male friends actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to only make friends with people I want sex with

Ive done friendship all wrong

Have you been friend zoning yourself without trying

Yes OP it's possible to have female friends without any issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're my friend and you're a girl it means I want to/will try to fuck you at some point depending on your hotness and how much alcohol I've had. I'm a great friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless if I've been friend zoned already haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a female friend been friends for year's we sometimes go out not very often once I a while she wants sex but i never try it on with her she just needs me in different ways sometimes that's all

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

I think it possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

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is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years? "

Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends

I don’t think they can be friends

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It depends on the people involved I think but I can be friends without sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?

Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends

I don’t think they can be friends

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Ha........ But they are

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?

Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends

I don’t think they can be friends

Ha........ But they are

Do you mean you or the other thread you think this is about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my question Fabsters

Inspiration drawn from another thread.

Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?

I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.

is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?

Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends

I don’t think they can be friends

Ha........ But they are

Do you mean you or the other thread you think this is about?

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in my case at the end of day, the other thread absolutely no way of knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, I’ve always had male friends.

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