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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the forums I see men profess their love for larger ladies...... The majority being white men...

But in NYC the white guys I know all married or date skinny/athletic women....

So are the men in the UK more honest with their preferences? Or just the guys on Fab trying to get a shag....

This isn’t a post to question anyone’s preferences.... shag who you want...

This just came to mind because I have a co workers cell phone and I’m looking through his pics and videos... he has a few videos with women... I have never seen him in public with...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may just be a Forum thing - there is a small percentage of Fab users here so you can’t necessarily extrapolate out to the whole of Fab let alone the whole of the UK

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well all my proper relationships have been with white guys

Yet in the club far more interest from black guys

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

With me it's an honest thing, curves are far sexier than straight up n down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s the guys on Fab playing to the gallery and trying to get a shag.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again "
pmsl theres definetly something in the air

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air"

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office....."

As do you, it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

As do you, it would seem "

Your profile is so alluring !

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"With me it's an honest thing, curves are far sexier than straight up n down."

Damn my straightness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

As do you, it would seem "

I work with staunch Trump supporters.... I don’t think they would be keen to me if they knew of my sexual proclivities....

Let’s just say fucking married white women is a niche Fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

As do you, it would seem

Your profile is so alluring ! "

I like your shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

As do you, it would seem

Your profile is so alluring !

I like your shoes "

Thank you, it is the best extension of one of my best physical features

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the forums I see men profess their love for larger ladies...... The majority being white men...

But in NYC the white guys I know all married or date skinny/athletic women....

So are the men in the UK more honest with their preferences? Or just the guys on Fab trying to get a shag....

This isn’t a post to question anyone’s preferences.... shag who you want...

This just came to mind because I have a co workers cell phone and I’m looking through his pics and videos... he has a few videos with women... I have never seen him in public with...

"

To be fair we look more for a connection rather than physical attraction when we are looking for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers "
i didnt see it as a troll post and im a fattie and noone has been ashamed of being seen with me in public

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I prefer athletic women but certainly not averse to a curvy women either if she's pretty and the chemistry is there! Not fat though, just my preference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers "

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"With me it's an honest thing, curves are far sexier than straight up n down.

Damn my straightness."

Damn your blocked profile, I can't check

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With me it's an honest thing, curves are far sexier than straight up n down."

Do all your friends know this?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"With me it's an honest thing, curves are far sexier than straight up n down.

Do all your friends know this? "

Yep,

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

From our experience it isn't just FAB or UK (or both) thing

Many German swinger clubs have "Molly" parties. Before anyone gets offended "Molly" is German term (although not a translation) that pretty much equates to BBW.

These are for larger ladies and the guys that like them and are some of the best attended events of all. Many are sold out and without pre-booking you wouldn't get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you as a fatty there are plenty of white guys that like us fat girls and it's actually their preference. I am on a single account but I'm not single (he's knows) and my other half loves showing me off. I have never been short of offers when single and I only meet guys that want to social with me as well as fuck me.

I also know some real hotties on here I mean drop deaf gorgeous guys that could get any meet they want but choose big girls so whether that's something that's UK based I don't know. This one guy I know literally fights girls off in chams because he's so handsome but he only goes for the fatties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men have told me they prefer larger women but only date slimmer women because their mates would take the piss out of them.

They weren't trying to flirt with me, they were being very honest. These are real life men friends, not Fab men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a lot larger and found so many guys either loved my flab or didnt care. Yet they would never admit it to their friends and would date skinny woman. They are called trophy wives

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't think it's specific to fab.

One thing I have noticed is that the numbers of guys who prefer a larger lady are pretty much the same regardless of ethnicity. The black guys do seem less concerned about what their mates may think so are less likely to hide their preferences.

Society and the media says that fat people can't be sexy and attractive so many will ignore their preferences to fit in with what's expected of them. On fab we have our own little community where people aren't judged for preferring something a little different to the expected norm so they feel more free to be true to themselves.

Of course there are plenty of guys who just want to get their dick wet and will try it on with us larger ladies because they think we will be easier. It's easy for us to filter those guys out though - insisting on a social in a public place does it every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing..."

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

"

Here is my deal.... I’m looking in my friends phone and he has videos of girls giving him blow jobs .... these are very voluptuous women that are not skinny... but all I have ever seen him out with are those skinny girls in those cut off shorts or summer dresses....

So I’m looking at him as someone who likes bigger/voluptuous women... but I never heard him mention this or seen him with these kind of women....

Check my green arrow... I don’t bash anyone and I have you on my hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your going through your mates phone. Fuck me not again pmsl theres definetly something in the air

He left his phone in the Uber.... when he called it , I answered and it unlocked...

Me being the pervert I am.... I looked at his pics and videos......

Let’s say he portrays a different person in the office.....

As do you, it would seem

Your profile is so alluring !

I like your shoes

Thank you, it is the best extension of one of my best physical features"

I do like a man in nice shoes - one of the things I check out after his eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

Here is my deal.... I’m looking in my friends phone and he has videos of girls giving him blow jobs .... these are very voluptuous women that are not skinny... but all I have ever seen him out with are those skinny girls in those cut off shorts or summer dresses....

So I’m looking at him as someone who likes bigger/voluptuous women... but I never heard him mention this or seen him with these kind of women....

Check my green arrow... I don’t bash anyone and I have you on my hotlist. "

Maybe bigger women are his fantasy. Bit like thee white women married to a white guy but wants BBC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

"

Youre taking this all too personally. Im not offended. Its a valid question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers "

Yeah I think you’re reading into something that’s not there. it’s not a troll post. The OP was asking if there’s a difference between tastes in women, might be a cultural thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely every guy likes a woman with boobs , and a curvy ass .. I’m not a bbw but I imagine in America I would be classed as such , here I’m just curvy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the forums I see men profess their love for larger ladies...... The majority being white men...

But in NYC the white guys I know all married or date skinny/athletic women....

So are the men in the UK more honest with their preferences? Or just the guys on Fab trying to get a shag....

This isn’t a post to question anyone’s preferences.... shag who you want...

This just came to mind because I have a co workers cell phone and I’m looking through his pics and videos... he has a few videos with women... I have never seen him in public with...

"

I male/we don't go for the body look but the whole person, they're has to be a connection for us no matter what the body looks like.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I popped this on another post the other week.

Many moons ago I worked in a brothel. I was one of the busiest girls there, always booked up (and then some). Some of the typical blonde, slim, big boobed girls hated how busy I was... The madame always told them it was because of how nice I was to the punters but the sheer amount of men that would tell me they loved my size but couldn't date a woman like me because of their peers is astounding.

When groups of lads came in I'd never get picked (or I would and I he lads would all rib the one who did, for picking the 'fat bird' and i would hear things like 'would he even be able to find my pussy') but over half of them would sneak back in over the next week and book in with me.

God the world would be better if we just all accepted we have differing tastes and let people get on with it.

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By *ollypoplionbarCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Judging from my friends group I would say it's 50/50 some will say "she's too thin for me" others will like that look. Some are happy with A-cup girls where as others prefer a fuller bust. Think it's all down to personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have always found curvier women more attractive i tend to go for woman size 16 and above as thats what is attractive to me and if u look at my verifications u will see its true, and i would never be embarassed of who i was with if i like them i dont care what anyone else says xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers "

From your reasoning, couldn't it also be seen as a troll post against slim women? As they are being referred to as "trophy wifes"?

I don't think it's a troll post btw.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers "

I don't think this is a bashing thread and your point about the top of the hot pics I disagree with, I wouldn't judge anything on what is the top of the hot pics on fab! Way too varied.

Op I think curvaceous women are more openly appreciated here, I don't believe that it's an "any hole is a goal" attitude by most. I have several friends who will only meet with curvaceous women and have had some in-depth conversations about it with them. I find people's likes, preferences and kinks fascinating.

As for the beautiful lady above who posted about being a brothel worker and was busier due to her curves... I totally believe it, your curves are gorgeous.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I can assure you as a fatty there are plenty of white guys that like us fat girls and it's actually their preference. I am on a single account but I'm not single (he's knows) and my other half loves showing me off. I have never been short of offers when single and I only meet guys that want to social with me as well as fuck me.

I also know some real hotties on here I mean drop deaf gorgeous guys that could get any meet they want but choose big girls so whether that's something that's UK based I don't know. This one guy I know literally fights girls off in chams because he's so handsome but he only goes for the fatties

"

Christ on a bike, your hot!!! And you know how to show yourself off. Run away with me. Please. I'd be ever so grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you can come to a conclusion of the preferences of the whole of the U.K. from a few posts on Fab.

There are plenty men who like bigger women AND slim women at the same time.

Some men don’t have a preference, some do have a preference, some like to try new things.

I’ve dated plenty of white guys & I’m a big girl, some of them had slim exes too, ones who I knew of through social circles, those guys didn’t have race or size preferences and no doubt went for the person as a whole rather than just their appearance.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

"

I agree that most of these types of threads are thinly veiled means at bashing.

In this case though I feel the OP is genuinely curious and is not trying to be helpful. He never posts hurtful things and even though we do not always agree on the forums, he is never disrespectful.

Mrs

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Hurtful not helpful. Autocorrect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a white man so I'm probably not qualified to answer the question ...

But if you look at the top fabbed pictures - this represents what the majority think is attractive.

Not many fatties there

Most men on here will say anything to get a shag and I'm not delusional about what I look like.

Troll posts like these pointing out that us fatties are only getting any because the men on here are desperate and wouldn't be seen with us in public are nasty.

Cheers

I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings.... but I was just curious....

Most of the married men I know have trophy wives and single guys that I go out with usually introduce me to young skinny girls and guys with man buns....

I have not heard any white guys say I like big bums , big boobs and curvys on a woman...

A matter a fact they all think I’m crazy because I like Kim Kardashian’s body....

It’s usually black guys that are stereotyped to liking larger ladies in the USA....

So I wanted clarification if it was a Fab thing or a UK thing...

I doubt you are curious - it was just another fat women bashing thread.

I agree that most of these types of threads are thinly veiled means at bashing.

In this case though I feel the OP is genuinely curious and is not trying to be hurtful. He never posts hurtful things and even though we do not always agree on the forums, he is never disrespectful.

Mrs"

I agree. OP is a respectful guy.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Isn’t 90% of America obese anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think you can come to a conclusion of the preferences of the whole of the U.K. from a few posts on Fab.

There are plenty men who like bigger women AND slim women at the same time.

Some men don’t have a preference, some do have a preference, some like to try new things.

I’ve dated plenty of white guys & I’m a big girl, some of them had slim exes too, ones who I knew of through social circles, those guys didn’t have race or size preferences and no doubt went for the person as a whole rather than just their appearance. "

That’s the thing ..... I don’t see white guys profess their love for curvy women.....

I’m sure they exist I have just never heard it in my personal life.....

I gave my friend his phone back.... He really should join Fab. He would do well here.

I just don’t want to bring it up without exposing myself

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I would say it is a Fab forum thing. I go to events like Curvy Club and Bootylicious, and white men who attend them can be counted on one hand - maybe on both hands occasionally. Add to that the widespread misconception that larger women are desperate and therefore an easy lay, and that leaves us with a house full of men, only a small minority of whom are white and actually like larger women. And add to that that even fewer find a big bum on a small body attractive... Makes a girl grateful for her preferences.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"On the forums I see men profess their love for larger ladies...... The majority being white men...

But in NYC the white guys I know all married or date skinny/athletic women....

So are the men in the UK more honest with their preferences? Or just the guys on Fab trying to get a shag....

This isn’t a post to question anyone’s preferences.... shag who you want...

This just came to mind because I have a co workers cell phone and I’m looking through his pics and videos... he has a few videos with women... I have never seen him in public with...

"

It's funny you see that I see the opposite. At chameleons they regularly have bbw events and the black guys there seem to really love the larger white ladies.

On Sunday this week there was a really large woman turned up with an extremely fit black guy, who looked like he could have done the decathlon on the way over and he was proud as hell to be with her and they seemed to have an awesome night.

So maybe it's a location thing. Bit certainly there are a fairly large number of black and white guys that do. The bbw events are always absolutely heaving too, never poorly attended.

Personally not my thing, but certainly nothing against it

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it is a Fab forum thing. I go to events like Curvy Club and Bootylicious, and white men who attend them can be counted on one hand - maybe on both hands occasionally. Add to that the widespread misconception that larger women are desperate and therefore an easy lay, and that leaves us with a house full of men, only a small minority of whom are white and actually like larger women. And add to that that even fewer find a big bum on a small body attractive... Makes a girl grateful for her preferences. "

Really? I would have thought most men like big bums.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I would say it is a Fab forum thing. I go to events like Curvy Club and Bootylicious, and white men who attend them can be counted on one hand - maybe on both hands occasionally. Add to that the widespread misconception that larger women are desperate and therefore an easy lay, and that leaves us with a house full of men, only a small minority of whom are white and actually like larger women. And add to that that even fewer find a big bum on a small body attractive... Makes a girl grateful for her preferences.

Really? I would have thought most men like big bums."

Why? I think it's like everything, some do, some don't, not my thing, but there are always exceptions, like one of our very sexy friends. That's why it's so hard to give a definite yes or no to anything.

A bum on one girl could be a turn off, on our friend its hot as hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it is a Fab forum thing. I go to events like Curvy Club and Bootylicious, and white men who attend them can be counted on one hand - maybe on both hands occasionally. Add to that the widespread misconception that larger women are desperate and therefore an easy lay, and that leaves us with a house full of men, only a small minority of whom are white and actually like larger women. And add to that that even fewer find a big bum on a small body attractive... Makes a girl grateful for her preferences.

Really? I would have thought most men like big bums.

Why? I think it's like everything, some do, some don't, not my thing, but there are always exceptions, like one of our very sexy friends. That's why it's so hard to give a definite yes or no to anything.

A bum on one girl could be a turn off, on our friend its hot as hell! "

Maybe because I haven't heard many state otherwise.

In fairness I haven't really given it a lot of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% honest OP and I will say that fat women do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 100% honest OP and I will say that fat women do nothing for me"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 100% honest OP and I will say that fat women do nothing for me"

The guys I know wouldn’t say this in public because we have a very PC culture in our office and when we all go out drinking on the company’s card.....

But they were giving me Hell because I liked Kim Kardashian’s body and they all like the two younger sisters.....

Myself I’m into curvy ass’s. I’m don’t care about boobs at all... A big butt and a smile is my weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not heard any one profess love on here

I don't come here to judge

I don't judge sizes

I here to chat with like minded people for mutual pleasures.

Kind regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone has a type, I have dated men who have previously dated women who were smaller size wise than me. They liked me, it wasn’t all about body size.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would say it is a Fab forum thing. I go to events like Curvy Club and Bootylicious, and white men who attend them can be counted on one hand - maybe on both hands occasionally. Add to that the widespread misconception that larger women are desperate and therefore an easy lay, and that leaves us with a house full of men, only a small minority of whom are white and actually like larger women. And add to that that even fewer find a big bum on a small body attractive... Makes a girl grateful for her preferences.

Really? I would have thought most men like big bums."

I would as well, but reality does jump at you in some unexpected places.

I have only been complimented on my proportions (specifically) once or twice by white guys. Black and mixed ones... A different story altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I think a lot of men just say what they think you want to hear so they can get in your knickers until the lady they are actually interested in becomes available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmmmm

Bugger

I thought it was my great personality and humour that attracted them to me even though I'm a bbw.

Sooooo I'm a pity shag????

Ffs

Cries into menopause haze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I think a lot of men just say what they think you want to hear so they can get in your knickers until the lady they are actually interested in becomes available."

That’s very cynical lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I think a lot of men just say what they think you want to hear so they can get in your knickers until the lady they are actually interested in becomes available.

That’s very cynical lol "

That’s what happens when you get lied to repeatedly. It makes you distrustful of sincerity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not bothered either way seze is irrelevent to me always has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb is a gorgeous, fit, white man and he loves a chubby girl with big thighs n a big bum! And as I am also a fat bird n he is seen out with me quite often, I would say he has no problem with what others think about his preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not an athletic guy by any stretch of the imagination but I am a Brit and I love the curvier ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think some people are misconstruing my sentiments in this thread........

I do not care if hot guys like bigger women.....

I’m just asking why they are not vocal about it?

For instance I went out last night to a popular nightclub......

All the tables that had bottle service had young girls all playing with their phones.....

When I come on Fab to read the forums.... I see many men say they love bigger women....

I’m just want to know is this popular in the UK/Fab.....

You have to realize..... I can’t ask this question in my real life because that will open the door to the comments of ....... black guys love big ass.... black guys have big cocks .... blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure why exactly they need to be vocal about liking bigger women.

Many men and women like many different things but it doesn’t mean we all have to be vocal and let the world know about it.

They probably are vocal about it, you just haven’t noticed. Or maybe they think their preferences are not anyone else’s business.

You can’t really make a judgement on such a small amount of experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not sure why exactly they need to be vocal about liking bigger women.

Many men and women like many different things but it doesn’t mean we all have to be vocal and let the world know about it.

They probably are vocal about it, you just haven’t noticed. Or maybe they think their preferences are not anyone else’s business.

You can’t really make a judgement on such a small amount of experiences. "

I have a serious question for you.....

If you asked me ......... Why do men in Wolverhampton give me a lot of attention but when I go to Manchester... they tend to not approach me?

Would this be a appropriate answer to your question?

I’m not sure why exactly men in Manchester need to be vocal about liking bigger women.

Many men and women like many different things but it doesn’t mean we all have to be vocal and let the world know about it.

They probably are vocal about it, you just haven’t noticed. Or maybe they think their preferences are not anyone else’s business.

You can’t really make a judgement on such a small amount of experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?"

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

"

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread "

That's like saying murder isn't a crime if nobody doesn't find out ? I had heard that people had been prosecuted for checking their partners phone when they suspect infidelity ? Perhaps I heard wrong ?

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread

That's like saying murder isn't a crime if nobody doesn't find out ? I had heard that people had been prosecuted for checking their partners phone when they suspect infidelity ? Perhaps I heard wrong ?"

You did indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread

That's like saying murder isn't a crime if nobody doesn't find out ? I had heard that people had been prosecuted for checking their partners phone when they suspect infidelity ? Perhaps I heard wrong ?"

No, it really isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread

That's like saying murder isn't a crime if nobody doesn't find out ? I had heard that people had been prosecuted for checking their partners phone when they suspect infidelity ? Perhaps I heard wrong ?"

Plus what if there was pics or videos of your said friend with a work colleagues girlfriend or similar? Yet them videos are private and you violated that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the forums I see men profess their love for larger ladies...... The majority being white men...

But in NYC the white guys I know all married or date skinny/athletic women....

So are the men in the UK more honest with their preferences? Or just the guys on Fab trying to get a shag....

This isn’t a post to question anyone’s preferences.... shag who you want...

This just came to mind because I have a co workers cell phone and I’m looking through his pics and videos... he has a few videos with women... I have never seen him in public with...

"

There are lot of men on here! Far far far more men than women! Now you could come to many conclusions over this but I liken it to 1960's USSR when there was fuck all in the shops and lots of shoppers and the people would fight to buy stuff often it was just so they got something never mind if they wanted it or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!"

What does your comment have to do with this thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you work for the CIA?

How would you like it him prying into your phone?

I thought it was illegal to open somebody elses phone and read contents ? I would be mortified if someone viewed private photo's and video's without good reason.

I think if you use the information on the phone to harm someone.....

But looking at pics and videos is not a crime, if the person doesn’t find out.... which he won’t because I will not mention what I saw....

This being the genesis of me starting this thread

That's like saying murder isn't a crime if nobody doesn't find out ? I had heard that people had been prosecuted for checking their partners phone when they suspect infidelity ? Perhaps I heard wrong ?"

Forgive me if I’m being rude......

But please explain why my thread interest you so much....

I’m not looking for a legal debate.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You question why my interest in your post and that you are not interested in a legal debate. You posted a comment which included that you accessessed someone's phone to be nosy. You can't post and expect people to only comment on what you feel is appropriate to what you want to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!

What does your comment have to do with this thread?"

Because they question the morality of accessing someone's phone too.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!

What does your comment have to do with this thread?

Because they question the morality of accessing someone's phone too."

Who does, thread completely derailed now, lol.

So OP you are a, big girl lover or at least admirer. You should get yourself over to Birmingham for a chameleons bbw event. Any size you like from, are you kidding you need to eat some more burgers, to can't fit up the staircase all very glamorous and admired by dozens and dozens of men.

I get the feeling you'd like it a lot, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!

What does your comment have to do with this thread?

Because they question the morality of accessing someone's phone too.

Who does, thread completely derailed now, lol.

So OP you are a, big girl lover or at least admirer. You should get yourself over to Birmingham for a chameleons bbw event. Any size you like from, are you kidding you need to eat some more burgers, to can't fit up the staircase all very glamorous and admired by dozens and dozens of men.

I get the feeling you'd like it a lot, lol. "

I somehow don’t think he’d agree,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone."

Will you put up the link?

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"So is it just a NYC thing that you look through other peoples phones?

Maybe someone should tell you about M.Y.O.F.B

Mind your own fukin business!

What does your comment have to do with this thread?

Because they question the morality of accessing someone's phone too.

Who does, thread completely derailed now, lol.

So OP you are a, big girl lover or at least admirer. You should get yourself over to Birmingham for a chameleons bbw event. Any size you like from, are you kidding you need to eat some more burgers, to can't fit up the staircase all very glamorous and admired by dozens and dozens of men.

I get the feeling you'd like it a lot, lol.

I somehow don’t think he’d agree, "

Really, have I completley missed his point? I started losing tea k when it went all judge Judy on us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure why exactly they need to be vocal about liking bigger women.

Many men and women like many different things but it doesn’t mean we all have to be vocal and let the world know about it.

They probably are vocal about it, you just haven’t noticed. Or maybe they think their preferences are not anyone else’s business.

You can’t really make a judgement on such a small amount of experiences.

I have a serious question for you.....

If you asked me ......... Why do men in Wolverhampton give me a lot of attention but when I go to Manchester... they tend to not approach me?

Would this be a appropriate answer to your question?

I’m not sure why exactly men in Manchester need to be vocal about liking bigger women.

Many men and women like many different things but it doesn’t mean we all have to be vocal and let the world know about it.

They probably are vocal about it, you just haven’t noticed. Or maybe they think their preferences are not anyone else’s business.

You can’t really make a judgement on such a small amount of experiences.

"

Unless I’d been in Manchester 24 hours a day 365 days a year, a few or dozen of men not paying me attention isn’t a reflection on a whole city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You question why my interest in your post and that you are not interested in a legal debate. You posted a comment which included that you accessessed someone's phone to be nosy. You can't post and expect people to only comment on what you feel is appropriate to what you want to hear."

Although I didn’t comment on that part I’d have to agree.

It’s a pretty shitty thing to do, go through someone’s phone especially soemthing as private as photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone.

Will you put up the link?"

I just typed that sentence into google.

Is it illegal.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone.

Will you put up the link?

I just typed that sentence into google.

Is it illegal......."

Ya, I understand that. I was hoping to read it in the same site you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone.

Will you put up the link?

I just typed that sentence into google.

Is it illegal.......

Ya, I understand that. I was hoping to read it in the same site you did."

There were a few listed that said similar. I have no idea how to post a link. Tech retard I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 100% honest OP and I will say that fat women do nothing for me"

Where as I on the other hand, I love them!!

I dated a skiing mature woman when I was younger, the relationship lasted 3 yrs. We split amicably, the next relationship lasted 7 years, she was my own age and a size 14, until after the children arrived and she went up to an 18. (this was not the cause of separation!!) My partner I have now is between a 16 and a 20 depending if she wants to diet (her option not mine), but said that after 3 children (1 single and then twins) and we've been together 14 years. I'm white and I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 100% honest OP and I will say that fat women do nothing for me

Where as I on the other hand, I love them!!

I dated a skiing mature woman when I was younger, the relationship lasted 3 yrs. We split amicably, the next relationship lasted 7 years, she was my own age and a size 14, until after the children arrived and she went up to an 18. (this was not the cause of separation!!) My partner I have now is between a 16 and a 20 depending if she wants to diet (her option not mine), but said that after 3 children (1 single and then twins) and we've been together 14 years. I'm white and I love them"

Skinny not skiing!! Damn predictatext!!!

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Seems to me it's a reflection of the superficial nature of American culture, compared to the creative eccentricity of British culture where the individual taste isn't frowned upon. Perhaps a little broad stroke but I feel it makes the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just google 'is it illegal to read messages on someone else's phone'. It said it breaches privacy and is illegal, though often hard to prove someone has accessed your phone.

Will you put up the link?

I just typed that sentence into google.

Is it illegal.......

Ya, I understand that. I was hoping to read it in the same site you did.

There were a few listed that said similar. I have no idea how to post a link. Tech retard I'm afraid."

No problem

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I still think 90% of Americans are obese.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I still think 90% of Americans are obese. "

You don’t think 90 percent is high?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I've just come out of a relationship with a size 14/16, generally nicely curvy.

I think I'd like my next intimate partner to be different. However, if it's someone I find attractive, I wouldn't mind similar again.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Some men have told me they prefer larger women but only date slimmer women because their mates would take the piss out of them.

They weren't trying to flirt with me, they were being very honest. These are real life men friends, not Fab men. "

Then they sound weak pathetic men if that is seriously the case,are we talking about grown men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men have told me they prefer larger women but only date slimmer women because their mates would take the piss out of them.

They weren't trying to flirt with me, they were being very honest. These are real life men friends, not Fab men.

Then they sound weak pathetic men if that is seriously the case,are we talking about grown men?"

Yes real grown up men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting read

I suppose the answer would be a little clearer OP if you knew whether the men you see on the forums professing their luvre for the larger would actually date / have a relationship with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting read

I suppose the answer would be a little clearer OP if you knew whether the men you see on the forums professing their luvre for the larger would actually date / have a relationship with them."

That’s the million dollar question......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to me it's a reflection of the superficial nature of American culture, compared to the creative eccentricity of British culture where the individual taste isn't frowned upon. Perhaps a little broad stroke but I feel it makes the point."

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

As the old saying says. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder xx

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