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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever meet someone the same day you start talking?

I'm feeling horny and would like to share that with a man but the ones I've been chatting to and/or met aren't free today.

I'm a bit scared of jumping straight in, does anyone have good or bad experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if she’s hot

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've never done and wouldn't do a same day quick meet,i need a certain level of trust etc to meet someone.

All I can advise is to go with your instinct and meet if it feels right.you could always have a little social 1st.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was horny yes.

But, a phone call and social meet first.

Wouldn’t take a risk of going to someone’s home or him coming to mine without at least that.

And he’d better have some verifications too... so I know someone has lived to tell the tale

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me as I prefer to get to know someone plus if I’m feeling that way I have guys I already know I could contact. I just rarely feel like that randomly unless stimulated by someone in person. It’s more the company I would crave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking this yesterday. When im horny my brain stops being sensible. I never get meets really on the first day unless they are in the meets section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was horny yes.

But, a phone call and social meet first.

Wouldn’t take a risk of going to someone’s home or him coming to mine without at least that.

And he’d better have some verifications too... so I know someone has lived to tell the tale

Good luck OP"

Are you on Vodafone?

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

You’re only 240 miles away can be there in ....5 hours?!

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre

If you’re free and they’re free- why not? As long as you feel comfortable with it- get in there. I often find the spontaneous meets are the best.

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

I have but there still has to be a social on neutral ground first to see if there's an attraction, and he must have recent veris and pics.

It can lead to some incredibly hot sex

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth


"You’re only 240 miles away can be there in ....5 hours?! "

Ypu could talk on the phone for the whole journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever meet someone the same day you start talking?

I'm feeling horny and would like to share that with a man but the ones I've been chatting to and/or met aren't free today.

I'm a bit scared of jumping straight in, does anyone have good or bad experiences? "

yes i have and no regrets

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


"You’re only 240 miles away can be there in ....5 hours?!

Ypu could talk on the phone for the whole journey "

Yes- to get to know each other a little better.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've done it with the right people and 90% of people who message want it and push for it - when almost invariably I won't.

You can meet nearby to where you would have sex, to check them over and be more relaxed. Or coffee in the afternoon and shag in the evening. I hate people who pressure me, so picking someone who is chilled is important.

Add an extra level of security when you know them less - back up call etc from a friend. Ensure you know how much time they have for a meet, as someone who is clock watching doesn't match you taking the time you need to relax and fully enjoy yourself.

Consider handcuff use on them for added control

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No couldn't do it, would rather be safe and get Roger out instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was first on here, I had quite a few meets with guys I had just started talking to. They were all exactly what I needed with some very sexy, lovely guys

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


"No couldn't do it, would rather be safe and get Roger out instead. "

Surely you don’t mean it’s unsafe purely because you may meet on the same day? Btw- is Roger what I think it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with talking, meeting at a club and fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No couldn't do it, would rather be safe and get Roger out instead. "

if your happy with Roger than it not be able to kiss, touch, caress you and fuck you how you want it

safety is why spontaneous is at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I? No.

Would I? Probably.

Do what you feel comfortable with.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"No couldn't do it, would rather be safe and get Roger out instead.

Surely you don’t mean it’s unsafe purely because you may meet on the same day? Btw- is Roger what I think it is? "

Not that it's unsafe as such (wrong choice of word) I just like to have a social meet first and if any of the guys I've previously met weren't available then Roger would do..... and yes he is what you think.

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


"No couldn't do it, would rather be safe and get Roger out instead.

Surely you don’t mean it’s unsafe purely because you may meet on the same day? Btw- is Roger what I think it is?

Not that it's unsafe as such (wrong choice of word) I just like to have a social meet first and if any of the guys I've previously met weren't available then Roger would do..... and yes he is what you think."

That’s understandable. Socials are good too. Get the juices flowing for all concerned.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Even if circumstances meant I could I'm not sure that I would personally - not unless a connection and chemistry were built incredibly quickly and it involved an element of social time first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done and wouldn't do a same day quick meet,i need a certain level of trust etc to meet someone.

All I can advise is to go with your instinct and meet if it feels right.you could always have a little social 1st.

Good luck"

Same here

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Do you ever meet someone the same day you start talking?

I'm feeling horny and would like to share that with a man but the ones I've been chatting to and/or met aren't free today.

I'm a bit scared of jumping straight in, does anyone have good or bad experiences? "

No as the organisation required is too great. People who contact us looking for an instant meet seem to get put off by our insistence that we have a social as a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, yes. It was just a drink and a bit of flirting but we just decided as we were both free, why not just converse in person instead of via some app?

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


"I have done, yes. It was just a drink and a bit of flirting but we just decided as we were both free, why not just converse in person instead of via some app?

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Go for it if it feels good meet in a bar or cafe first then if the vibe is wrong you can leave it at that

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you ever meet someone the same day you start talking?

I'm feeling horny and would like to share that with a man but the ones I've been chatting to and/or met aren't free today.

I'm a bit scared of jumping straight in, does anyone have good or bad experiences? "

I don’t but there are loads of men on here that do.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I think a social meet with potential for more is probably the way to go.

I don't think I can get the right feel for someone by messaging alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP, I’ve done it once before. Made me realise that getting to know someone a little better before is much preferable for me.

So anyway, hi

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I did it once on my first ever meet. I was pretty naive and even went to his house! Luckily for me it all worked out ok

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem you have OP, is when you are horny, all logic goes out of the window. I would advise caution and be safe!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's unlikely I would - apart from anything else it takes the best part of a day to deal with my gorilla legs!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I did once but I was lucky she was nice and met her again subsequently.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done and had a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've done it before and it was a great meet.

Started chatting and met a couple of hours later.

Don't tend to do that these days mind.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Do you ever meet someone the same day you start talking?

I'm feeling horny and would like to share that with a man but the ones I've been chatting to and/or met aren't free today.

I'm a bit scared of jumping straight in, does anyone have good or bad experiences? "

Maybe tomorrow or Wednesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Easier to have a wank.

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