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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

On here how do you approach the others for sex ?

Do you display pictures you think you look fooking amazing in or do you show poses or parts that you think interest the people you want to make contact with.

Did you spend hours thinking of a seductive , sensual nickname and profile?

Women - this is only for men to answer as you only have to have the word woman on your profile. So no need to justify your lack of effort

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"On here how do you approach the others for sex ?

Do you display pictures you think you look fooking amazing in or do you show poses or parts that you think interest the people you want to make contact with.

Did you spend hours thinking of a seductive , sensual nickname and profile?

Women - this is only for men to answer as you only have to have the word woman on your profile. So no need to justify your lack of effort "

No, no and no. It is emotionally far easier to think I've made no effort with a crap, unattractive profile than make the effort and get sytematically ignored/rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to make all the effort because I don’t have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take pictures than I find first tasteful in the hope that other will do to validate my need to be accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take the woman’s approach then...I’m lazy like that.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I put up a few pics, I flirt in the forums and I put up meet notifications when I’m free.

I occasionally search in certain areas too.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I take pictures that are slightly homoerotic so the gays fab me lots and I get up the hot pics then the ladies see me lots and want to fuck me.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

The simple answer would be quite simply, I don't.

I used to message women when I first joined Fab. That went down about as well as a fart in a spacesuit. Quickly realised that was never really ever going to work for me in any sort of satisfactory way. It's just not my forte that sort of thing. I find it incredibly hard connecting with people. Things worked 100% better when I stopped all that. Stopped sweating any of it. Stopped worrying about any of it. Decided to just stick some pics up and hang around the forums and if someone liked the look of me then maybe, just maybe they'd come and say hello. All that in conjunction with my highly seductive username worked much better for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mating dance I do on cam, then I can't keep 'em away with a shitty stick.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"The simple answer would be quite simply, I don't.

I used to message women when I first joined Fab. That went down about as well as a fart in a spacesuit. Quickly realised that was never really ever going to work for me in any sort of satisfactory way. It's just not my forte that sort of thing. I find it incredibly hard connecting with people. Things worked 100% better when I stopped all that. Stopped sweating any of it. Stopped worrying about any of it. Decided to just stick some pics up and hang around the forums and if someone liked the look of me then maybe, just maybe they'd come and say hello. All that in conjunction with my highly seductive username worked much better for me personally."

This makes a lot of sense....I probably wouldn't know what to do in the online world but in the real world I have always just been me and, for whatever reason, women approach me so I haven't actually made any effort in my eyes. So I guess it's about just being yourself and the right women will come to you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I take pics that I think look good to enhance my profile but not necessarily with the direct thought of "this'll wow them and lure them to want to meet me" - they're just a part of the whole that includes my profile text and forum posts and messages that allows people to form a view of who I am - if that all then leads to potentially meeting someone then great.

We all post pics and profiles to attract of course but not everyone does so to get meets directly - I've actually found I enjoy finding pics to take and posting them purely for the creativity angle.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have a mating dance I do on cam, then I can't keep 'em away with a shitty stick."

I'd pay to see that.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I take pictures that are slightly homoerotic so the gays fab me lots and I get up the hot pics then the ladies see me lots and want to fuck me."

Very devious.....

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The simple answer would be quite simply, I don't.

I used to message women when I first joined Fab. That went down about as well as a fart in a spacesuit. Quickly realised that was never really ever going to work for me in any sort of satisfactory way. It's just not my forte that sort of thing. I find it incredibly hard connecting with people. Things worked 100% better when I stopped all that. Stopped sweating any of it. Stopped worrying about any of it. Decided to just stick some pics up and hang around the forums and if someone liked the look of me then maybe, just maybe they'd come and say hello. All that in conjunction with my highly seductive username worked much better for me personally."

Very big messages/ food for thought for some x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"On here how do you approach the others for sex ?

Do you display pictures you think you look fooking amazing in or do you show poses or parts that you think interest the people you want to make contact with.

Did you spend hours thinking of a seductive , sensual nickname and profile?

Women - this is only for men to answer as you only have to have the word woman on your profile. So no need to justify your lack of effort "

I had to change my profile name to Stingly Byron as my original one was getting me too much action and I couldn't keep up.

I have thankfully, had a lot less meets as Stingly Byron than I did as Sting Keycock, so it seems to have done the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a mating dance I do on cam, then I can't keep 'em away with a shitty stick.

I'd pay to see that."

I'd show you but it's a pain in the arse getting all the feathers off after. That and you'd never leave me alone and I just can't be dealing with neediness rigjt now.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"On here how do you approach the others for sex ?

Do you display pictures you think you look fooking amazing in or do you show poses or parts that you think interest the people you want to make contact with.

Did you spend hours thinking of a seductive , sensual nickname and profile?

Women - this is only for men to answer as you only have to have the word woman on your profile. So no need to justify your lack of effort "

I gave up putting the effort in, you can be a male Adonis or a complete simpleton and still not get the ladies attention,at the end of the day it her choice, her loss.

So what will be will be

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