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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet "Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"Dont feel bad about hurting feelings hun, you can change your mind at any time. I wouldn't want to engage with anyone who lied to me about any aspect of the meet. A lot of the dynamic of a meet is based on honesty and being straight with people xxx | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"You see this is why sky remotes exist and lynx exist | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end | |||
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"Well tbh I understand yoir convern about not hurting the guy's feeling as it could be detrimental for him, yet at the same time, unless he is HIGHLY delusional the guy knew what he was doing. If you clearly stated that you want a certain size and the guy lied about it then you have the right to tell him It reminds me that movie where the guy knew he had a small one but lied about his cock size to watch the disapointment on their faces when they discovered that they have been lied to but still fuck because they don't want to hurt his feelings "I have still 
Exactly for that reason, I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, and wasn’t sure how to extricate myself from the situation. They’ve been ‘nice gentlemanly’ guys (my type).
But, you made a really good point there! He probably does know and is counting on the fact that I’ll be nice.  | |||
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"Well tbh I understand yoir convern about not hurting the guy's feeling as it could be detrimental for him, yet at the same time, unless he is HIGHLY delusional the guy knew what he was doing. If you clearly stated that you want a certain size and the guy lied about it then you have the right to tell him It reminds me that movie where the guy knew he had a small one but lied about his cock size to watch the disapointment on their faces when they discovered that they have been lied to but still fuck because they don't want to hurt his feelings
I have still
Exactly for that reason, I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, and wasn’t sure how to extricate myself from the situation. They’ve been ‘nice gentlemanly’ guys (my type).
But, you made a really good point there! He probably does know and is counting on the fact that I’ll be nice. "He did you after all ! #myhero hahaha | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"I'd sponge yourself dry put knickers back on wait until his 2" short penis subsides then ask him to leave your smart car  | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?I'd sponge yourself dry put knickers back on wait until his 2" short penis subsides then ask him to leave your smart car "
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"Well tbh I understand yoir convern about not hurting the guy's feeling as it could be detrimental for him, yet at the same time, unless he is HIGHLY delusional the guy knew what he was doing. If you clearly stated that you want a certain size and the guy lied about it then you have the right to tell him It reminds me that movie where the guy knew he had a small one but lied about his cock size to watch the disapointment on their faces when they discovered that they have been lied to but still fuck because they don't want to hurt his feelings
I have still
Exactly for that reason, I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, and wasn’t sure how to extricate myself from the situation. They’ve been ‘nice gentlemanly’ guys (my type).
But, you made a really good point there! He probably does know and is counting on the fact that I’ll be nice. "You’ve answered your own question there OP, they lie because they’re counting on you just carrying on irrespective of what the reality is. It’s the same reason as to why people post fake pictures or old ones, they hope that face to face you will just go ‘oh well’ and continue. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end ".  | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time. "If he had good skills then even 5 inches should satisfy. | |||
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"Why fuck them when they have DELIBERATELY mislead. That’s them being shady. Yes i know i’m not what she’s looking for so i’ll mislead her to get what i want. It’s like in the vanilla dating world, guys have lied about height/weight etc. And I do feel angry/disappointed. Keep promising myself I’ll just turn around and walk away immediately. But I’ve never been able to do it. It has always felt so mean. Especially as we probably got along over phone/mail etc. I stay for 1 drink and make my excuses, try to let him down gently. It’s worse in this situation, because I don’t know till we’re at home, and things have started.. " | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"If they lied tell them not gonna happen. Or measure it | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message "Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic! | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic! "Please don’t encourage any more!! | |||
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"Why fuck them when they have DELIBERATELY mislead. That’s them being shady. Yes i know i’m not what she’s looking for so i’ll mislead her to get what i want. " All things considered it's pretty calculated, so best show them the door I say  | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!" | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
If they lied tell them not gonna happen.
Or measure it "Haha maybe I should
Either way, I think I’m going to have to be rougher with these guys! | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"Ask to see it on cam first? | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!"Oh god! Please... just stop! | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!
Oh god! Please... just stop! "Too late....my eyes, my eyes!! | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message "Does the job? Do can it really change channels?  | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
If they lied tell them not gonna happen.
Or measure it
Haha maybe I should
Either way, I think I’m going to have to be rougher with these guys! "Ya rougher always gets an extra inch outta my fella
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!
Too late "Bitch | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time. "You measure the guys... before or after your disappointment | |||
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"Are you asking for advice on a past tense event, I don't understand or are you posting from the meet now? " I explained you sooner | |||
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"Or ..... and here's a novelty. When a guy is honest and tells you it's 6inches and fat. Trust that he knows how to use it and meet him because he is a nice guy who is honest." Indeed..no one ever lies on the internet so we should believe everyone. Or is it just you we should believe? | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!
Oh god! Please... just stop!
Too late....my eyes, my eyes!! "It’s too early... I feel like I need sun glasses | |||
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"Now I can definitely understand why some ppl would lie about some of their physical attributes on here. I do not agree woth it but can understand it. If you look at some physical requirements need in order to get laid on some profiles (all genders) it sort of makes you realise that you are unfit to join in...so some ppl still try to fit in through denial and lying as it would cause less stress and anxiety than to accept that they aren't what most ppl are looking for. Not saying that it is healthy but can understand the dynamic behind. " Many women also lie about their size to get meets. I hear it all the time from guys. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
Yeah I have lied , said I was 4 inch’s , they was shocked when they got 7
How would you handle it?" | |||
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"Mines the same size as a sky remote never lied about it and it does the job, anyone want me to prove it drop me a message
Prove it!! Put it as your profile pic!
Please don’t encourage any more!!
Oh god! Please... just stop!
Too late....my eyes, my eyes!!
It’s too early... I feel like I need sun glasses "Mine were already on. | |||
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"Or ..... and here's a novelty. When a guy is honest and tells you it's 6inches and fat. Trust that he knows how to use it and meet him because he is a nice guy who is honest. Indeed..no one ever lies on the internet so we should believe everyone. Or is it just you we should believe?"
Those who protest how honest and genuine they are usually never are.
I got a barrage of abuse yesterday from a guy who says in his profile he’s an “honest, reliable, genuine gentlemen” all because I stated very politely that I wouldn’t travel so far for a meet, wished him well and said I hope he enjoys his Sunday. | |||
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"Now I can definitely understand why some ppl would lie about some of their physical attributes on here. I do not agree woth it but can understand it. If you look at some physical requirements need in order to get laid on some profiles (all genders) it sort of makes you realise that you are unfit to join in...so some ppl still try to fit in through denial and lying as it would cause less stress and anxiety than to accept that they aren't what most ppl are looking for. Not saying that it is healthy but can understand the dynamic behind. Many women also lie about their size to get meets. I hear it all the time from guys." Oh I know, that' why I said all genders. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end "That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?! How the heck did she lie? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?"I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
If they lied tell them not gonna happen.
Or measure it
Haha maybe I should
Either way, I think I’m going to have to be rougher with these guys! "Ouch | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow. "It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever.... | |||
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"Or ..... and here's a novelty. When a guy is honest and tells you it's 6inches and fat. Trust that he knows how to use it and meet him because he is a nice guy who is honest. Indeed..no one ever lies on the internet so we should believe everyone. Or is it just you we should believe?
Those who protest how honest and genuine they are usually never are.
I got a barrage of abuse yesterday from a guy who says in his profile he’s an “honest, reliable, genuine gentlemen” all because I stated very politely that I wouldn’t travel so far for a meet, wished him well and said I hope he enjoys his Sunday. "You’re spot on there, those that protest their honesty are usually the ones that wouldn’t know honest if it jumped up and slapped them in the face (both genders). It’s comical reading some ppl’s posts on the forum when you know every word they’ve just written is complete fiction | |||
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"Now I can definitely understand why some ppl would lie about some of their physical attributes on here. I do not agree woth it but can understand it. If you look at some physical requirements need in order to get laid on some profiles (all genders) it sort of makes you realise that you are unfit to join in...so some ppl still try to fit in through denial and lying as it would cause less stress and anxiety than to accept that they aren't what most ppl are looking for. Not saying that it is healthy but can understand the dynamic behind. " What have you done with F&B?! | |||
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"Now I can definitely understand why some ppl would lie about some of their physical attributes on here. I do not agree woth it but can understand it. If you look at some physical requirements need in order to get laid on some profiles (all genders) it sort of makes you realise that you are unfit to join in...so some ppl still try to fit in through denial and lying as it would cause less stress and anxiety than to accept that they aren't what most ppl are looking for. Not saying that it is healthy but can understand the dynamic behind. What have you done with F&B?!" Nice tits on you woman  | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever...."Wait ! What????? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever...."It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them. | |||
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"I was chatting to a guy who stated in his profile that he's got a 9-incher.. When we met and he took his pants off, suddenly a few inches were missing lol and he did nothing as he fantasised to do with me.. All he could manage was use his fingers on me.. Not even a kiss.. I showed him the door. Year later he contacted me again - he forgot we met - so I reminded him and advised not to lie about his cock size "Karma !!! | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them. "Hmmmm how far off is October | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever...."I think if we did a top 10 of biggest porkies on Fab, pics would be number 1. Very difficult for the site to police unfortunately. Using anyone else’s pics is unforgivable but your daughter’s? What kind of person does something like that? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?"If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team | |||
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" Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet." | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow. "Indeed. OP, did you specify to him a 'minimum requirement' and did he supply 'accurate measurements'. As it doesn't state on your profile. I personally avoid people with such exacting requirements, for me it's like they want their sex life to be like their Instagram profile. I have sent one pic of my gentleman parts on here. For me sex is an all round experience not just a dimension or measurement. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
Wait ! What????? "Wind your beard in it wasn't a young daughter but a damn site younger than mum | |||
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"Well tbh I understand yoir convern about not hurting the guy's feeling as it could be detrimental for him, yet at the same time, unless he is HIGHLY delusional the guy knew what he was doing. If you clearly stated that you want a certain size and the guy lied about it then you have the right to tell him It reminds me that movie where the guy knew he had a small one but lied about his cock size to watch the disapointment on their faces when they discovered that they have been lied to but still fuck because they don't want to hurt his feelings "Dont remember this being at my local cinema!!! | |||
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"The guy shouldn’t have lied. If he wasn’t as big as he said he should have been honest from the start. Plus A big penis isn’t the only thing that could satisfy a lady. if he could use it right, has a decent amount of stamina, good kisser, could lick for a while/long then these things could compansate for him too x" | |||
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"Why fuck them when they have DELIBERATELY mislead. That’s them being shady. Yes i know i’m not what she’s looking for so i’ll mislead her to get what i want. " Exactly. For those who think it's shallow or the op should stop asking about cock size, why should she? We all have different things we like and dislike, if this is what she's looking for what's wrong with that? Don't match what she wants, don't lie and say you do. It's the liar who's at fault here, not the op for having preferences. | |||
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"The thing is I've had the odd couple lie whether it's been about their height or the size of their tidler and yeah it can be initally disappointing but I've carried on,as by that stage I've gotten more of a connection with them and those thing's don't matter as much. But yeah think I'll take my saggy boobs and middle aged spread out of this sex thing for good. " You’re beautiful inside and out lovely lady xxx | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team "So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place. Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them.
Hmmmm how far off is October "Steady on, December at least...I’m fully booked up until then with FaceTime dates. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway."I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy. "Disagree strongly !!! | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them.
Hmmmm how far off is October
Steady on, December at least...I’m fully booked up until then with FaceTime dates. "God damn it. But what if I say I've got a 10 incher. Surely that's worth a birthday snog | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy.
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I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future? | |||
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"Firstly everyone has the right to seek exactly what they want, I sympathise and agree that lies are awful and honesty is the best policy. However, in this thread it feels like some are looking for people similar to how someone would go hunting for something from Ikea. Pick up a pencil and tape measure, go to Aisle B15 ahh.. there is "Sven". Signing out, averagely endowed fat git ", and that’s why ‘Billy’ stands in the corner of most people’s living room eh? Big, but average. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy. "34HH! Holly Huge-uns! I so want to fly on your plane - be constantly pressing the stewardess/steward button | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them.
Hmmmm how far off is October
Steady on, December at least...I’m fully booked up until then with FaceTime dates.
God damn it. But what if I say I've got a 10 incher. Surely that's worth a birthday snog "Way too big for me....fold it in half and now we’re talking, fat and short is best for me. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy.
Disagree strongly !!!
You’ve seen pics of them and you’re a man."Yes true and I love boobs but still you do have nice boobs. I actually never come across ugly boobs. Boobs can't be ugly for sure ? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy.
34HH! Holly Huge-uns! I so want to fly on your plane - be constantly pressing the stewardess/steward button "Looks frumpy in a high neck blouse. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I don’t have fake boobs so my 34hh is never going to look the same as they do in a bra. Guys love them, I don’t. I always hate when they want a pic of them hanging, it’s not a pic I find sexy.
Disagree strongly !!!
You’ve seen pics of them and you’re a man.
Yes true and I love boobs but still you do have nice boobs.
I actually never come across ugly boobs. Boobs can't be ugly for sure ?"Ask me in 5 years. | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
It is but in some case's understandable. In my years here biggest whopper I've had was some woman sending me pics of her daughter. That 1 was my longest drive for a 5 min social ever....
It’s why I take ages to get to know someone and usually on whatsapp etc. We then FaceTime before and I will have known much more about them.
Hmmmm how far off is October
Steady on, December at least...I’m fully booked up until then with FaceTime dates.
God damn it. But what if I say I've got a 10 incher. Surely that's worth a birthday snog
Way too big for me....fold it in half and now we’re talking, fat and short is best for me. "Typo that should have said cm not inches. My bad | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway."I’ve had to show my drivers licence to a few women on here as they didn’t believe me about my age. I do think if someone turns up and their not what they said they are then you should say something. Doesn’t matter if you hurt their feelings because they haven’t been trustworthy with you in the first place. | |||
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"The thing is I've had the odd couple lie whether it's been about their height or the size of their tidler and yeah it can be initally disappointing but I've carried on,as by that stage I've gotten more of a connection with them and those thing's don't matter as much. But yeah think I'll take my saggy boobs and middle aged spread out of this sex thing for good. You’re beautiful inside and out lovely lady xxx" I'm not,but thankyou for saying that. I'm just on a slump on the mo and this place doesn't always inspire confidence in you does it. I'm not meeting people for sex anymore so it doesn't really matter x | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?"Man or woman? | |||
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"The thing is I've had the odd couple lie whether it's been about their height or the size of their tidler and yeah it can be initally disappointing but I've carried on,as by that stage I've gotten more of a connection with them and those thing's don't matter as much. But yeah think I'll take my saggy boobs and middle aged spread out of this sex thing for good. You’re beautiful inside and out lovely lady xxx I'm not,but thankyou for saying that. I'm just on a slump on the mo and this place doesn't always inspire confidence in you does it. I'm not meeting people for sex anymore so it doesn't really matter x" Let's meet for a kinder bueno milkshake then | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?"I knew you will be on a cock size thread.. #typical | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I’ve had to show my drivers licence to a few women on here as they didn’t believe me about my age.
I do think if someone turns up and their not what they said they are then you should say something.
Doesn’t matter if you hurt their feelings because they haven’t been trustworthy with you in the first place. "I understand that,my issue was the 'she must have been trussed up like a chicken' comment. Isn't that what bras and stuff are mainly for to keep thing's in place or what's the point in wearing them. They must have been aware of that surely. Shall we all walk around without bras so not to deceive and swing low and free... | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
I knew you will be on a cock size thread.. #typical "Are you still being 'cock' of the week? | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?"Woman | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
I knew you will be on a cock size thread.. #typical
Are you still being 'cock' of the week? "I didn’t qualify but good luck to you | |||
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"this reminds me of a meet i had a few years ago and all through the build up chat she was saying things like "cant wait to get your big cock in my tight pussy" but when i got there it was like a wizards sleeve..didnt even touch the sides..after about 2 hours of banging away i gave up trying to shot my load..just wasnt happening so the next time a guy is lasting longer than normal its prob because your fanny is foot wide "You do realise that it expands when really aroused. I’ve been quite tight apparently the last year or so, I put it down to average sex as I wasn’t really into them as much as I though I was. | |||
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"Whatever we might think about the shallow aspect - or not - of other people's preferences the fact remains everyone here is entitled to ask for exactly what they want. It doesn't bother me what others ask for because it doesn't affect me and is none of my business though I do sometimes ponder how often they actually find the right sort of person when they have extremely specific requirements. Nonetheless, that's up to them and where they've clearly outlined what they're looking for there's no excuse for lies just to get your foot in the door. At best it wastes your time and at worst places you in a very awkward and possibly unpleasant situation when you reject someone in person - especially if they get angry at the rejection, regardless of the situation being their fault. It's also really arrogant to assume you know someone else's mind better than they do - this attitude of 'I can win them round if they see me for real' as well as being manipulative if they're banking on someone going through with things to avoid hurting feelings or making a scene, or because they feel a misguided obligation. And what I don't understand is that even if, after lying (about whatever) things go ahead, can the sex ever be as satisfying as an encounter where there was absolute honesty from the start? Are some people really so desperate to get their leg over that they'd feel comfortable about achieving that by misleading their meet and getting what probably amounts by then to a sympathy shag?" Woo easy there tiger! That’s looooooong | |||
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"this reminds me of a meet i had a few years ago and all through the build up chat she was saying things like "cant wait to get your big cock in my tight pussy" but when i got there it was like a wizards sleeve..didnt even touch the sides..after about 2 hours of banging away i gave up trying to shot my load..just wasnt happening so the next time a guy is lasting longer than normal its prob because your fanny is foot wide
You do realise that it expands when really aroused. I’ve been quite tight apparently the last year or so, I put it down to average sex as I wasn’t really into them as much as I though I was. "I knew you will be on a cock size thread.. #typical | |||
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"I've had a boob job and will tell potential meets if they haven't already realised, the only thing I don't send before a meet is a picture of my fanny, I know it's tit for tat as I used to have to see a penis picture but my fanny is personal, I just tell them it looks like a beak. " Sparrows have beaks. So do pelicans... | |||
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"any one who lies go no further and are called out no matter what it is cock size age body size ..i wont and dont put up with it..so i say no thanks ..but then i get the aww go on everybody else does and there lies the problem too many people are just going with it rather than saying no. its ok some women saying oh 5 inches is good and there plenty of other thing the guy can do but its not what the op wanted ?? the guy was chancing it and until hes called out he will carry on with the deception ..so no if you lie then the meet should go no further no matter who you are "So true did, she say he actually lied though, or did he take pics from more flattering angles? | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"What is the measuring procedure on fab? I've never had this answered.. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time. "And women wonder why us guy's have got such hangups about the size of our cocks with comments like this and why he would lie in first place. I wonder what the backlash would be if a guy posted a similar thread about a woman's body? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I’ve had to show my drivers licence to a few women on here as they didn’t believe me about my age.
I do think if someone turns up and their not what they said they are then you should say something.
Doesn’t matter if you hurt their feelings because they haven’t been trustworthy with you in the first place.
I understand that,my issue was the 'she must have been trussed up like a chicken' comment. Isn't that what bras and stuff are mainly for to keep thing's in place or what's the point in wearing them. They must have been aware of that surely.
Shall we all walk around without bras so not to deceive and swing low and free..."Could do. Might get distracting though;-) | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
Woman "Under 40 or over? | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I’ve had to show my drivers licence to a few women on here as they didn’t believe me about my age.
I do think if someone turns up and their not what they said they are then you should say something.
Doesn’t matter if you hurt their feelings because they haven’t been trustworthy with you in the first place.
I understand that,my issue was the 'she must have been trussed up like a chicken' comment. Isn't that what bras and stuff are mainly for to keep thing's in place or what's the point in wearing them. They must have been aware of that surely.
Shall we all walk around without bras so not to deceive and swing low and free...
Could do. Might get distracting though;-)
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow. "I agree. Everybody has pics that are more (and less) flattering than reality! | |||
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" Many women also lie about their size to get meets. I hear it all the time from guys." It's true. I quite clearly state on my profile that I'm looking for women with vaginas that are 3"/0.5"/4" and yet when they turn up and I measure them they never are! | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"A man telling fibs about the size of his cock when that's the criteria for meeting a hottie...who'd have thunk it!! | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"With your hand and not your mouth | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
I agree. Everybody has pics that are more (and less) flattering than reality!
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"this reminds me of a meet i had a few years ago and all through the build up chat she was saying things like "cant wait to get your big cock in my tight pussy" but when i got there it was like a wizards sleeve..didnt even touch the sides..after about 2 hours of banging away i gave up trying to shot my load..just wasnt happening so the next time a guy is lasting longer than normal its prob because your fanny is foot wide
You do realise that it expands when really aroused. I’ve been quite tight apparently the last year or so, I put it down to average sex as I wasn’t really into them as much as I though I was.
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
If people bulls@it us we don’t follow through not shallow on our part we like honesty , she must have been trussed up like a chicken before heading out of the bathroom , same as smokers some people don’t like it if lied saying non smoker & they smell of tobacco it instantly turn some people off end of play we just don’t take one for the team
So again what did you say to her,I'm just interested incase I ever have sex again for the brutality of some people? How old was she,do you not take that into consideration when a woman takes her clothes off that thing's don't always stay in place.
Maybe someone has thought that about you,but just been polite and had sex with you anyway.
I’ve had to show my drivers licence to a few women on here as they didn’t believe me about my age.
I do think if someone turns up and their not what they said they are then you should say something.
Doesn’t matter if you hurt their feelings because they haven’t been trustworthy with you in the first place.
I understand that,my issue was the 'she must have been trussed up like a chicken' comment. Isn't that what bras and stuff are mainly for to keep thing's in place or what's the point in wearing them. They must have been aware of that surely.
Shall we all walk around without bras so not to deceive and swing low and free...
Could do. Might get distracting though;-)
and difficult to walk with them flapping between my knees."Oh yeah. If you rode a man in the cowgirl position he might get smacked in the face by them. If I was him I wouldn’t complain | |||
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"this reminds me of a meet i had a few years ago and all through the build up chat she was saying things like "cant wait to get your big cock in my tight pussy" but when i got there it was like a wizards sleeve..didnt even touch the sides..after about 2 hours of banging away i gave up trying to shot my load..just wasnt happening so the next time a guy is lasting longer than normal its prob because your fanny is foot wide
You do realise that it expands when really aroused. I’ve been quite tight apparently the last year or so, I put it down to average sex as I wasn’t really into them as much as I though I was.
I knew you will be on a cock size thread.. #typical
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time. "Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot. | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot. "Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough. | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot.
Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough. "What a odd reply | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot.
Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough.
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot.
Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough.
What a odd reply "It wouldn't be odd tm, if you actually new where the g spot was on almost all women, lol. You are demonstrating the opposite, lol. | |||
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Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?"Is it really that important. Would you rather have a slightly smaller cock than expected but attached to a guy you get on well with or a huge cock attached to a total prick. I don’t lie about my cock size by the way although I’ve never actually been asked. | |||
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot.
Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough.
What a odd reply
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
Well it must be bent as fuck then!
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
Stop asking them how big it is and have the surprise element when you meet
Because a 5” dick has never satisfied me, and I don’t want to waste my time.
Luckily mine is 6inch and can find the g spot.
Well it must be bent as fuck then,, wanking must be tough.
What a odd reply
It wouldn't be odd tm, if you actually new where the g spot was on almost all women, lol. You are demonstrating the opposite, lol.
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
Woman
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"What to do when on a meet you’ve gotten along with a guy. Very excited to take things further... He gets undressed and is 2” shy of what you expected!
Some guys are very clever with photography.. and I’m not sure where he’s measuring from.
I feel disappointed, and lied to, annoyed.
But, then I feel really bad about hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it’s not something he can do anything about.
It’s happened twice already :/
Why do some men do this?
How would you handle it?
yes has happened in the past & ive actually said “sorry but doesn’t match with what pictures you’ve sent through you’ve lied so we’ll call it a day “. Same has happened with a lady once ,she looked very fit but once stripped off everything hit south , blatantly lied & that’s a big no no with us really don’t see the point in trying to hide or lie one gets found out in the end
That's brutal what the heck did you say to the woman,I'd be feckin mortified if that was me. I'm 51 tomorrow so yeah thing's have gone south,so you let her take her clothes off then told her to do one?!
How the heck did she lie?
I find this whole thread subject very brutal and shallow.
I agree. Everybody has pics that are more (and less) flattering than reality! "I still can't get over the lied part... I'm fit, I run several times a week and am at the gym at least 2 times a week for pt sessions. I have how ever lost almost 7 stone, so things are not right and firm and are decidedly more wobbly then I would like. When I've lost around another 4 I'm having a tummy tuck and probably a boob job, but that won't change my fitness level! It's like asking me my dress size... Which clothes shop and then which cut would you like cause it's anything from a 14 to a 20... | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
Woman
Under 40 or over?
Suffice to say it's been reported (several times) and now waiting (patiently) for action to be taken "Damn I was hoping to narrow it down. | |||
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"Sadly people lie on here all the time for various reasons, to get a meet, to get attention, for an ego boost etc. and not just men either - there's a prominent forumite all of whom's pics are "borrowed" from the internet for example, some of which have even gone fairly high in Hot Pics
I find it quite sad really especially as there's no guaranteed way of knowing until you meet face to face - the ONLY thing you can do to mitigate against it is, as Poochie said, take your time getting to know someone, building a level of trust and honesty and getting a "feel" for them before you meet - it's not let me down yet.
But I digress slightly, back to the OP - if someone had lied about anything else (e.g. they smoke, or are married or their pics are borrowed) you wouldn't have any hesitation about backing out - so why should it be any different if they have obviously lied about their cock size?
The only other thing to remember is that some people measure from different places which can add an inch or two - so perhaps be specific when asking potential meets in future?
Man or woman?
Woman
Under 40 or over?
Suffice to say it's been reported (several times) and now waiting (patiently) for action to be taken "Don't hold your breath, I reported it months ago. Still here | |||
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"All about what you do with it. Some women are so shallow on here." People are allowed to be shallow when it comes to dating and sex. You wouldn’t fuck someone who doesn’t satisfy you or who you don’t fancy. So why should anyone else? | |||
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"I feel the OP is trolling. Especially when they mentioned the 2 inch thing, how can you be so accurate when they lopped it out? Did you bring a ruler or something? Definately a post to evoke a response. " It was a genuine real life situation. And be real... of course you can tell the difference?! | |||
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"I feel like there are a lot of offended men in this post. The OP has a preference, someone decieved her into meeting them she’s well within her rights to be pissed off. Why is it not okay for a woman to have a cock size preference but okay for a man to have a cup size preference for example? People are on here to have sex with people they fancy, if someone wants a man with 7 inches that’s their choice, if someone wants a size 8 woman with red hair, that’s their choice too. " From what I read on the thread the op went through with having sex with the guy(as it's happened twice(guys) .. if that's the case .. strange behavior she's got a preference but I'll shag ya anyway.. we can all say no thanks at any point | |||
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