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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a guy I’m interested in know what women take from this site ?

Of course ither than the sex, does this type of website help a women’s confidence for instance ?

Be great to hear from anyone, feel free to post in this group or privately.

Thanks for you time

Jake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m no lady but I’m sure it must be good for some people’s confidence, lots of men wanting to fuck them! Others might get cynical with it all though - I guess it’ll vary by person!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

All the attention you get on fab can be a big massage to the ego OP.

I'm not here to boost my ego and confidence but do admit it has had a positive effect on me. As a larger lady I've never been body confident and knowing that others find you sexy and attractive does make you believe it yourself.

I'm fully aware that many will pay you compliments just because they want to get their dick wet but I try not to dwell on that part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a guy I’m interested in know what women take from this site ?

Of course ither than the sex, does this type of website help a women’s confidence for instance ?

Be great to hear from anyone, feel free to post in this group or privately.

Thanks for you time

Jake "

for me i like nsa sex. and some get clingy sure but most* know its non commitment and not looking fora relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm fully aware that many will pay you compliments just because they want to get their dick wet but I try not to dwell on that part "

i prefer to have compliments of people who know me personally and then i know its genuine and not off a random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume it's great for a Woman's confidence, but it is in a specific context.

Spoke with a woman at a swinging party once. I'll be honest and shoot me if you want - she was late forties, short, very average looking and quite a bit overweight. She had tried the 'conventional' internet dating sites and had virtually no interest at all. Heard about fab from a friend and gave it a go. Created a single fem profile and boosh, loads of mail.

She was looking for love and a partner. Didn't really expect it on fab but her mantra was 'you never know'. But better to get attention and interest, albeit just for sex, than none at all. They'd never admit it, but I suspect they are many women on here that fall into that category. Not all, but quite a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a cynic

I know 99% of the messages I get are just fluff in order to ‘impress’

I don’t need my ego inflated by those who just go on looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a cynic

I know 99% of the messages I get are just fluff in order to ‘impress’

I don’t need my ego inflated by those who just go on looks "

Then you're quite rightly seeing it for what it is.

Men are messaging to get laid, simple as that. Sure it might be a nice 'fluff' message but it's also going out to hundreds of other women depending on how much time the sender has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t need my ego inflated by those who just go on looks."

Sorry, but men pretty much do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first few weeks were an ego boost - wow, all these guys want to meet me! They think I’m gorgeous.

You quickly learn that the majority of those messages are sent to you purely because you have a vagina

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I think it can work both ways on here to be honest. When you're not feeling so great it can knock your confidence too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first few weeks were an ego boost - wow, all these guys want to meet me! They think I’m gorgeous.

You quickly learn that the majority of those messages are sent to you purely because you have a vagina "

Yes, correct

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"The first few weeks were an ego boost - wow, all these guys want to meet me! They think I’m gorgeous.

You quickly learn that the majority of those messages are sent to you purely because you have a vagina "

I don't think that applies to me as I don't have a vagina but I do receive loads of messages.

I sometimes think that the guys don't notice the word TV' in my profile or they are just desperate for a blow job.

I don't think I'm that convincing but it does boost my ego and I enjoy it.

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