FabSwingers.com forum: Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm a gentleman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there? "

Men get ratarsed and perve over women they can only dream of fucking

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there? "

If I told you, I'd have to shag you

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I have gentlemanly traits I believe.

Until I'm encouraged to be otherwise

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To me gentlemanly behaviour is someone who takes a womans arm when she rises from a chair. Stands up when she enters a room. Stands if she leaves the table and stands when she returns. Asks before removing his jacket. Takes his pace when eating and always finishes his meal at the same time never before.

Thats exactly what i would expect from the guys that repeatdly tell me they are a gentleman

however as ive got one of those at home all im looking for on here is decent respectful guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was brought up recently, different people have different ideas of what the term means.

Some of it is rooted in rather archaic concepts which don’t really apply in modern society so it’s difficult to say yes or no.

I do think that there are kind and respectful men out there that treat others with a degree of chivalry though.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

The romantic version portrayed in literature ..putting their cape over puddles for ladies etc ..I doubt.

However guys with good manners, self respect ,polite and know right from wrong definitely.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there?

Men get ratarsed and perve over women they can only dream of fucking"

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah loads but they probably get ignored because they don't look like Greek gods.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

No gentleman is ever going to tell..

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

I'd like to think I'm a gentleman, but then who doesn't. The only real proof comes from walking the walk in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consideration.

There's lots of traditional ways to show it but it's really just about anticipating a person's needs and showing respect imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait until I'm alone until I pick my nose, if that counts?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found a true gent in every sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are. Ive been lucky enough to meet quite a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a gentleman I will have you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different things to different people.

Hard to quantify, but I know it when I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's different things to different people.

Hard to quantify, but I know it when I see it

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Can I show you it

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I open doors for women.

I open the windows too if she's dropped a really whiffy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending cock pics is a very brave move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there definitely are quite a few on here.

A 'perfect gentleman' in my book is a man who dresses smartly, treats me with the upmost respect when in public, talks to me nicely, happy to buy me a drink (though I do always buy one in return) but then who can be very naughty, kinky and adventurous behind closed doors.

I know it's a cliche, but treat me like a princess, fuck me like a porn star springs to mind.

I'm lucky that I have a few gents as good friends/FB/FWB's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there?

Men get ratarsed and perve over women they can only dream of fucking"

Ah so it is basicallt Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always a gentlemen doing whatever pleases a lady

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By *tatMan
over a year ago

Horrabridge

"Yes there definitely are quite a few on here.

I know it's a cliche, but treat me like a princess, fuck me like a porn star springs to mind.

this, unfortunately we tend to be missed in the jungle of subhumans that populate this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure I could not verify it impartially myself, so I leave it for others to quantify; takes all kinds thankfully. Enough for all; Happy Fabbing x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to say I’m a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to say I’m a gentleman

I've noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been to a "Gentleman's Club" if that's any good

Pray tell what happens there?

Men get ratarsed and perve over women they can only dream of fucking

Ah so it is basicallt Fab"

Yeah, this is a gentleman's club, but without the need to fork out for Hendricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im a cunt

A very gentlemanly thing to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im a cunt

Hahaha no comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think I am but it is not for me decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's different things to different people.

Hard to quantify, but I know it when I see it

Took the (insert own preference here) out of my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im a cunt

Are you also Australian per chance?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Always have a cape on hand so the lady doesn't get dirty puddle water on her silk shoes.

Have been known to get on all fours so the lady has no ungainly step from her carriage when the doorman doesn't turn up. I will thrash that blaggart later. Probably stealing from the wine cellar again.

I have definitely given some lowlife scallywags a good beating for getting close to my lady escorts finest dress.

I once got grandmama to pay off the scullery maid after I accidentally fell over and buggered her.

I also have a batman to let desirable young fillies know of my base intentions towards her personage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met plenty from here x

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Always have a cape on hand so the lady doesn't get dirty puddle water on her silk shoes.

I have definitely given some lowlife scallywags a good beating for getting close to my lady escorts finest dress.

I once got grandmama to pay off the scullery maid after I accidentally fell over and buggered her.

I also have a batman to let desirable young fillies know of my base intentions towards her personage."

YOU are my kind of gentleman

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The amount of men I have had to block in the last few weeks has been unbelievable, their first messages were just utterly disrespectful or disgusting.

I keep hoping there is but it is dwindling unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always have a cape on hand so the lady doesn't get dirty puddle water on her silk shoes.

I have definitely given some lowlife scallywags a good beating for getting close to my lady escorts finest dress.

I once got grandmama to pay off the scullery maid after I accidentally fell over and buggered her.

I also have a batman to let desirable young fillies know of my base intentions towards her personage.

YOU are my kind of gentleman

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What about me, I'd even do your ironing

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"The amount of men I have had to block in the last few weeks has been unbelievable, their first messages were just utterly disrespectful or disgusting.

I keep hoping there is but it is dwindling unfortunately

Honestly we are not all the same on here, don't tar us all with the same brush....unless that's your thing, and the tars not too hot

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Always have a cape on hand so the lady doesn't get dirty puddle water on her silk shoes.

I have definitely given some lowlife scallywags a good beating for getting close to my lady escorts finest dress.

I once got grandmama to pay off the scullery maid after I accidentally fell over and buggered her.

I also have a batman to let desirable young fillies know of my base intentions towards her personage.

YOU are my kind of gentleman

Madam, you do me too much honour. I will have my man drop around your inv_tation to the gala this very evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I’m a gentleman today as said to a lady in shop ladies first respect for others cost nothing

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

A True gentleman ALWATS lets the lady cum first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll open the door so I can stare at your arse

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

A True gentleman ALWATS lets the lady cum first

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"The amount of men I have had to block in the last few weeks has been unbelievable, their first messages were just utterly disrespectful or disgusting.

I keep hoping there is but it is dwindling unfortunately

Honestly we are not all the same on here, don't tar us all with the same brush....unless that's your thing, and the tars not too hot

I’m well aware of that and it used to take a lot for me to hit the block button,

I just don’t understand how some people just have no idea how to speak to others in real life. I do wonder how they manage out in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to think I am but it is not for me decide

You are totally the perfect gent. I'm very lucky

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

I consider myself a gentleman. In terms of gentlemanly behaviour, many things count but understanding that no means no is probably the most important on this site. Sadly it is something some dont understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

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My one and only verification says she thought I was " a perfect gentleman". When describing a sexual partner I am never quite sure whether this is actually meant as a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am often told I am the perfect gentleman,but don't ask me to define it!

...I'm always respectful,never crude!..and no one I know in my "normal life" would ever guess I would be on this site!...but the ladies I've met know this gentleman leaves his hat outside the bedroom door,but still the lady cums first!..... always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the type of gent that will gladly hold the door open for you but will smack your bum on the way through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. A gentleman never tells

No gossiping, spreading rumours or running others down – a real gent always protects the integrity of both himself and people around him.

2. A gentleman knows that anything worth having is worth working hard for

Shortcuts and free rides have no place in a gentleman’s world. You only get what you give, and rightly so.

3. A gentleman knows how to dance

Two left feet is never, ever a good look, and a real gentleman knows it. Learning to dance well is also not that hard.

4. If a woman comes with baggage, a gentleman helps her to unpack it

Being genuinely helpful and non-judgemental is a trait that gets a man far.

5. A gentleman always RSVPs

It’s more than simple courtesy. If there are pending inv_tations, being thoughtful and responding is only the fair thing to do.

6. A gentleman knows the difference between confidence and arrogance

No one likes to deal with egotists and show-offs. A bit of self-confidence, on the other hand, makes a man come across as strong and admirable. Keep it respectful – 77% of females find ‘laddish’ behaviour to be the most unattractive trait of a gentleman.

7. A gentleman is open-minded but firm in his beliefs

Principles are always held onto and respected, whether they’re his own or others’. In fact more men than women think a gentleman should be supportive of feminism.

8. A gentleman constantly proves that chivalry is not dead

Rather than something that can be turned on and off on a whim, a gentleman accepts that chivalry is more of a way of life. 2 in 3 people have told Gentleman’s Journal that chivalry is still a very important trait of a gentleman.

9. A gentleman ruins his lover’s lipstick, not her mascara

The only tears he should make her cry are those of joy.

10. A gentleman never lies to a woman (unless it’s to surprise her)

A true gent makes it a point to always stay loyal, faithful and honest to his significant other.

11. A gentleman always makes the first move

And his pick-up lines tend to stand out from the rest. If lucky enough to get a first date, dress appropriately. 70% of women prefer men to dress smart-casual on a first date.

12. A gentleman means what he says and says what he means

No doublespeak, no having to read between the lines – a gentleman is open about his thoughts and feelings all the time.

13. For a lady, a gentleman always offers his seat and opens the door

It’s not a sign that she’s in any way weak; rather, it’s a time-honoured gentlemanly gesture of care and affection.

14. A gentleman never judges

He knows that judging a person does not define who they are, it defines who he is.

15. A gentleman is always well-presented

No matter what company, occasion or top-secret mission.

16. A gentleman has a firm handshake and always makes eye contact

Weak grips and averting gazes are huge no-no’s when one gentleman meets another.

17. A gentleman always offers his coat to a lady

One of the oldest moves in the gentleman’s playbook, sacrificing one’s comfort for that of a lady projects both attentiveness and selflessness.

18. A gentleman knows how to cook

Being able to prepare one good, full meal should be the bare minimum.

19. A gentleman always walks a woman home

Few things show her that you care more than making sure she’s always home safe and sound.

20. A gentleman always offers to pay

I’ve got this” – one of the most important phrases in the gentleman lexicon. A gentleman should not worry about the price too much either, 1 in 2 women do not care about how much a gentleman spends on a first days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember

Manners, maketh the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt."

Too true.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I like a traditional gent. The type that’s walks on the outside of you next to roads, opens doors, carries your bags, lends you is jacket, is presentable but he also has excellent manners and is respectful, attentive, interested. It might sound old fashioned to some but that’s what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt."

Yep, see how they are towards someone they're not trying to get into bed with.

The difficult part is being a gentleman and not a fool, knowing how to handle unladylike behaviour in a dignified way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across a few gentleman on this site. I think I have been rather fortunate.

I'm rather lucky lady to have found my prefect gent.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt."

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He respects women.

Someone I used to know wore a hat and when he saw me he tipped his hat in sign of politeness.

He offers his seat

He opens the door

He gets your coat

He picks you up from work.

He cooks dinner

He makes the bed

Without asking and expects nothing in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married my perfect gentleman, and I have been lucky enough to chat with some on here, they really do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life"

Sometimes it’s kind of difficult to reach the doors and keep it open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a good one

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

I put the toilet seat down after I use it, does that count.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have been told that I am.

But don’t take their word for it!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

There are yes. But they are few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He respects women.

Someone I used to know wore a hat and when he saw me he tipped his hat in sign of politeness.

He offers his seat

He opens the door

He gets your coat

He picks you up from work.

He cooks dinner

He makes the bed

Without asking and expects nothing in return "

That’s your butler !

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I've met plenty from here x"

Want to meet another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

You tell em!!!!

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I consider my self a gentleman don't swear or use bad words to describe women.

Just some people don't make it easy when blokes are BAD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on here, I’ve been very lucky to talk to and meet a few of them. Also mr is very much a gent x

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By *hitevanMan
over a year ago

sheffield ( S17 )

I think the outcome to this is question is pretty well established

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

Yeah, don't be a dick

"A gentleman always walks a woman home"

What if she doesn't want you to walk her home?

A gentleman always offers to walk a woman home, and respects her answer?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word. "

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy... I get SOOO sick of threads like this because women can be dicks too. Of course there are gentlemen about, I am one (pissed off) because certain WOMEN are unreliable, selfish, egocentric and juvenile. To say there are no gentlemen is like saying there are no nurses or apples or anything. Women who let players use them are the ones who never look past the sparkly exterior and see the substance below. Rant over....

um.. yes... that should do it!

Can open... Worms everywhere....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best to be a gent, I’m always polite and respectful when in conversation or in a girls company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,

Gentleman behaviour is no longer acceptable... It is now unaceptable to send women through doorways ahead of you in case there is danger inside. And carrying women over muddy puddles is sexual assault.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Oh boy... I get SOOO sick of threads like this because women can be dicks too. Of course there are gentlemen about, I am one (pissed off) because certain WOMEN are unreliable, selfish, egocentric and juvenile. To say there are no gentlemen is like saying there are no nurses or apples or anything. Women who let players use them are the ones who never look past the sparkly exterior and see the substance below. Rant over....

um.. yes... that should do it!

Can open... Worms everywhere...."

If these type of threads p**s you off then you don’t need to contribute, pass them by dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

um.. yes... that should do it!

Can open... Worms everywhere...."

You sound cross.

I don’t believe anyone said there wasn’t any gentleman left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Wasnt it about the lack of gentlemen and gentlemanly acts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with being an OK guy - it's a minimal standard, but when people trip over themselves confessing to be gentlemen you bet you arse there is something more sinister at foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Next question?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word. "

I don’t swear, my parents didn’t swear, my family don’t swear. It’s not unusual for people not to swear. Why are you suspicious of us?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

Mr Impala when did I mention ‘blokes together talking to each other’ using that word? You seem to be attention seeking on my ‘Are there any gentlemen on Fab’ thread, so let’s stick to the original topic please.....

no offence dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Next question?"

Wrong answer... Never let them know gentlemen may still exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He respects women.

Someone I used to know wore a hat and when he saw me he tipped his hat in sign of politeness.

He offers his seat

He opens the door

He gets your coat

He picks you up from work.

He cooks dinner

He makes the bed

Without asking and expects nothing in return

That’s your butler !"

No... Never assume

Its called respect

Lots of men do it

I don't need a butler

I don't have to because I know lots of men who respect women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best to be a gent, I’m always polite and respectful when in conversation or in a girls company. "

Haha.... What you were rude to me and never even said sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best to be a gent, I’m always polite and respectful when in conversation or in a girls company.

Haha.... What you were rude to me and never even said sorry "

Dirty laundry alert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

no offence dear. "

In the real world I treat everyone with respect, the way I’d like to be treated myself, regardless of sex. Unless they do something where they don’t deserve any. I dont think that makes me a gentlemen, it’s what everyone should do anyway. This gentlemen bollocks makes me cringe, I find it smug and self satisfied. It’s like there is an ulterior motive, something a bit slimy about it. But hey, that just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He respects women.

Someone I used to know wore a hat and when he saw me he tipped his hat in sign of politeness.

He offers his seat

He opens the door

He gets your coat

He picks you up from work.

He cooks dinner

He makes the bed

Without asking and expects nothing in return

That’s your butler !

No... Never assume

Its called respect

Lots of men do it

I don't need a butler

I don't have to because I know lots of men who respect women "

Yeah, it was a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

Unfortunately some have taken offence

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

no offence dear. "

You did ask for their definition of gentlemanly behaviour though..it might be polar opposites to your definition ..in this instance it's his definition.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

Unfortunately some have taken offence "

Yes It seems that way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say there are gentleman on here, some people have different kinks, and things they’re into. But decency, manners, and politeness cost nothing.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

no offence dear.

You did ask for their definition of gentlemanly behaviour though..it might be polar opposites to your definition ..in this instance it's his definition.

Assumptions were made of what I apparently think of every man in the country! I haven’t the time or inclination to do that kind of research but the men I know don’t use that word....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doffs cap and leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always suspicious of a man who says he’s a gentlemen. Just treat everyone with equal respect and don’t be a cunt.

A man who uses the word c**t is not a gentleman. Gentlemen or men with so called respect do NOT swear or use words that are derogative towards females....

I’m suspicious of people who don’t swear. I know a lot of women who love that word, in fact there’s quite a few on here who have said it’s their Favorite word.

I’m suspicious of men who use the word c**t. The thread wasn’t about what Fab woman think of the word c**t so if we can get back to my original topic I would really appreciate that Mr Impala.....

Get off your high horse lady, so your suspicious of pretty much every man in the country, because I don’t know a man who doesn’t use it when blokes are together talking to each other.

no offence dear.

You did ask for their definition of gentlemanly behaviour though..it might be polar opposites to your definition ..in this instance it's his definition.

Assumptions were made of what I apparently think of every man in the country! I haven’t the time or inclination to do that kind of research but the men I know don’t use that word....! "

Yeah, they do. You’re just not about when they do.

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By *0deedeeWoman
over a year ago

Newtownards

respect is the biggest thing in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The romantic version portrayed in literature ..putting their cape over puddles for ladies etc ..I doubt.

However guys with good manners, self respect ,polite and know right from wrong definitely."

caped crusader

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

opens doors and carries bags and spanks bums what more do you want and the odd romantic gesture

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I think good manners are very important and treating others how you'd like to be but not sure if I'd like to call myself a gentleman as i spend a lot of time perving at boob pics!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think good manners are very important and treating others how you'd like to be but not sure if I'd like to call myself a gentleman as i spend a lot of time perving at boob pics!"

I agree perving at boobs is ungentlemanly behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a gent before now

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I've been called a gent before now

You’re a real gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been called a gent before now

You’re a real gent "
as gosh thank you dear chap , and you are very much a gentleman too

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've been called a gent before now

You’re a real gent as gosh thank you dear chap , and you are very much a gentleman too

You two - get a room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been called a gent before now

You’re a real gent as gosh thank you dear chap , and you are very much a gentleman too

You two - get a room lol

They cant

They are both to gentlemanly to admit they want to get it on

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

There are many I'm sure. However before that is established then there must be some interaction of course.

This is possibly where the problems in finding them lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been called a gent before now

You’re a real gent as gosh thank you dear chap , and you are very much a gentleman too

You two - get a room lol

They cant

They are both to gentlemanly to admit they want to get it on"
a bromance or should I say gentleman's agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been called a gent before now

Taff, you are certainly one of the true gents on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Everyone wants something. Everyone has an agenda.

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By *nglishgent0069Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I believe that I am. I try to use good manners when ever possible and I ignore rudeness as it should happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il never pretend to be a gent i only try to be a man sometime i succeed sometimes i fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think good manners are very important and treating others how you'd like to be but not sure if I'd like to call myself a gentleman as i spend a lot of time perving at boob pics!

I agree perving at boobs is ungentlemanly behaviour

"
How rude!! it’s perfectly appropriate admiring a woman’s body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I know some guys who still say thank you after sex

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I have asked this before but re-visiting it after a conversation with a friend today.

Are there any Gentlemen on Fab?

If there are, what in your book is gentlemanly behaviour?

This thread is by no means meant to offend anyone

I’d like to think I am a gentleman

I show a great level of respect but also manners and politeness you may think I’m blowing my own trumpet but my vari’s pretty much day it

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

not sure what planet the OP lives on, gentlemen and fab should not be used in the same sentence. For that matter gentlewomen and fab shouldn't be used either.

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Someone who looks at your eyes while you're talking and listens to what you're actually saying, turns his phone off during a social, isn't pushy and makes sure you cum first....before fucking you bandy legged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not giving the real answer to any female contentious questions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Next question?

Wrong answer... Never let them know gentlemen may still exist

They still have to find them, which is not easy.

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I'm a modern gentleman with traditional values. Example 1; I willingly stick my head in the infra red beam to open and automatic door for other people. Example 2; I'm quick to extend the handle on fellow travellers wheeled luggage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking in the left side nearest road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

They’re all gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah.

They’re all gone.

Too the pub? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think you are a gentleman, you aren't. If you try to be a gentleman, you aren't.

If others think you are a gentleman, you got it nailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah.

They’re all gone.

Too the pub? Lol "

Yeah!

They’re having a weekend off from the gentleman duties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah.

They’re all gone.

Too the pub? Lol

Yeah!

They’re having a weekend off from the gentleman duties.

Sounds about right

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Many on this site struggle to make minimum requirements for human being. Let alone gentleman or lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many on this site struggle to make minimum requirements for human being. Let alone gentleman or lady

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

**Waves hand** over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a gentleman ask anyone who knows me

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life"

What was said here is so on the mark... good manners and respectfulness is key to being a gentleman, not finishing your food at the same time as your parner hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was taught to believe that, both ladies and gentlemen are polite,well mannered,calm and brave when faced with adversity, and aren't too quick to judge a person.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes, loads - we've never received any rude or nasty messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect goes a long way

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes, loads - we've never received any rude or nasty messages

You have been very lucky then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, loads - we've never received any rude or nasty messages

You have been very lucky then....

Their profile though (as should be a given for all; granted) just oozes politeness in play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nicest guy I met off Fab was part of a couple.

There are quite a few who make a good show of it. But aren’t really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold doors open if that helps my case.

*Incidentally, I’d say I was a woman if it got me into somewhere half price.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes, loads - we've never received any rude or nasty messages

You have been very lucky then....

Their profile though (as should be a given for all; granted) just oozes politeness in play x"

A profile should not decide whether to receive a rude or nasty message though, each profile is the members own decision...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Plenty - and they stand out very quickly from the ones who aren't.

Definition for me is a man who is happy to hold a conversation without being impatient to bring it round to sex and who thinks about what you want instead of making it all about his wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty - and they stand out very quickly from the ones who aren't.

Definition for me is a man who is happy to hold a conversation without being impatient to bring it round to sex and who thinks about what you want instead of making it all about his wants. "
totally agree there

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

*waves from the corner*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*waves from the corner*

Your definitely one Geeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a gent with a cheeky side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of guys on here that I would defiantly put in the "gentleman box"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty - and they stand out very quickly from the ones who aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are Gentlema on here but due to being more men on here than women...WE get overlooked;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are Gentlema on here but due to being more men on here than women...WE get overlooked;)"
totally agree there

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By *annedandtallMan
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

A couple of my veris say I'm a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think one of my verification says perfect gentleman so we are about

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am allegedly, no idea how I gave off that impression

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I am. Treat women nicely, am not pushy, rude or obnoxious.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes I am. Treat women nicely, am not pushy, rude or obnoxious. "

My kind of man....

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Yes I am. Treat women nicely, am not pushy, rude or obnoxious.

My kind of man...."

Thank you ma'am

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I wish I was a Gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life"
that's my perception of a gentleman totally, I fit this description I hope

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life that's my perception of a gentleman totally, I fit this description I hope

You think so do you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope they've all left now to have a nap

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"*waves from the corner*

Your definitely one Geeky

Thank you miss kat *kisses your hand*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a gentleman is someone who is respectful and considerate. They don't necessarily have to open doors or stand up etc to be a gentleman in my book.

So yes there are gentlemen on fab as there is in all walks of life that's my perception of a gentleman totally, I fit this description I hope

You think so do you??

"
I most certainly do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had time to read all thread and I appreciate it’s a bit of thread divergence and going off at 45 degrees, but similarly has anyone asked yet if there are any “Ladies” (capital L) on Fab too?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Been called gentlemanly on one of our veri’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doffs cap and enters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep"
who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep"
nice legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep"
nice legs

I'm a gent yes

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