FabSwingers.com forum: Actually reading profiles thoroughly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I bet this has been put on a forum somewhere, but who reads a profile thoroughly as I get messages from people asking to meet when it says on my tag line and the 1st line of my profile that I am NOT meeting and when you tell them no they want to know why which really frustrates me as I don't need to explain myself to someone I don't know. What's everyone take on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many people who don’t bother with reading a profile

Sadly, it’s one of those things you just have to roll with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are many people who don’t bother with reading a profile

Sadly, it’s one of those things you just have to roll with "

I know, it just frustrates me cause it's even in my tagline. I always read profiles cause it's nice to get a feel of what an individual is into or like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete everyone off your Looking For list- it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My figures are a mere guesstimate but I'd say 75% of the folk who contact me don't read my profile. 60% of them have only looked at the (frankly rubbish) pics and the remaining 15% are blanket bombing copy and paste messages to anything with a pulse.

Not worth getting irritated by (unless it's an unsolicited knob pic then it's straight in the dusty bin)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my hates not reading profiles properly , had a few comments saying I have to many Verifications I always ask have you read them and mostly haven't read them , there not all meets mostly socials or friends when we have met up just drives me mad .

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

It is annoying I always read the profile and I sometimes have to ask if they have read mine especially if theirs state straight or looking for women of course I'm neither.

Teanna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people that want to meet in the first message are no doubt guys who are horny and are are sending a blanket message to everyone. They won’t have read your profile.

You do ask for horny chats...by doing that you leading people down the route of potentially meeting.

If your dream person you stalk in the forums got in touch and offered to meet, would you be starting a thread moaning about people not reading your profile?

If I had no intentions of meeting someone, I’d hide my profile and just use the forums.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I get the same.

Men see it as a challenge and the chase hoping to get one to change their mind about meeting.

We all use the site for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My figures are a mere guesstimate but I'd say 75% of the folk who contact me don't read my profile. 60% of them have only looked at the (frankly rubbish) pics and the remaining 15% are blanket bombing copy and paste messages to anything with a pulse.

Not worth getting irritated by (unless it's an unsolicited knob pic then it's straight in the dusty bin)"

I'm the same if i get a message off some random guy and a picture of his extremities is attatched then dusty bin will be saying 3 2 1 and in it goes lol. I don't send knob pics unless requested cause it's not the be all and end all yes it's a sex site but everyone that use this site is a person at the end of the day sometimes a nice conversation is all it takes to make a new friend or a fun friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get the same.

Men see it as a challenge and the chase hoping to get one to change their mind about meeting.

We all use the site for different reasons.

I used to use it for sex but now I use it for the forums and chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The people that want to meet in the first message are no doubt guys who are horny and are are sending a blanket message to everyone. They won’t have read your profile.

You do ask for horny chats...by doing that you leading people down the route of potentially meeting.

If your dream person you stalk in the forums got in touch and offered to meet, would you be starting a thread moaning about people not reading your profile?

If I had no intentions of meeting someone, I’d hide my profile and just use the forums. "

If my dream person messaged then no lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I always have a full read. Unless it's longer than was and peace, then it's an instant, shut down and don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always have a full read. Unless it's longer than was and peace, then it's an instant, shut down and don't bother.

I love reading long profiles it really s out those that are not the person's preference.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If they haven't read it, or worse, just ignored it, you aren't obliged to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I bet this has been put on a forum somewhere, but who reads a profile thoroughly as I get messages from people asking to meet when it says on my tag line and the 1st line of my profile that I am NOT meeting and when you tell them no they want to know why which really frustrates me as I don't need to explain myself to someone I don't know. What's everyone take on this?"
why aren't you meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth getting irritated by (unless it's an unsolicited knob pic then it's straight in the dusty bin)"

Is Dusty Bin a euphemism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha "

Accept my friend invite you knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end ! "

It's cheesy as I fuck large bags of wotsits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarelly read it unless i already aranged to meet but i always did things backwards but i generally only message off the back of forum posts anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end !

It's cheesy as I fuck large bags of wotsits"

Don't know the meaning of that last word but I got hard reading it! Thank you as I haven't been hard for years

Except with you yesterday #youknowwhoyouare

Btw you forgot your knickers at home so I have put it in the fridge to keep it fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end !

Wotsits are cheesy corn puffs. Very tasty and cheesy.

Can I suggest you remove my knickers from the fridge to allow the cheese smell on them to mature?

It's cheesy as I fuck large bags of wotsits

Don't know the meaning of that last word but I got hard reading it! Thank you as I haven't been hard for years

Except with you yesterday #youknowwhoyouare

Btw you forgot your knickers at home so I have put it in the fridge to keep it fresh. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If it's as long as mine I don't bother unless we are already chatting. They can delete my message if I've contravened their profile rules. I don't get mad if people don't read mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end !

Don't know the meaning of that last word but I got hard reading it! Thank you as I haven't been hard for years

Except with you yesterday #youknowwhoyouare

Btw you forgot your knickers at home so I have put it in the fridge to keep it fresh.

Wotsits are cheesy corn puffs. Very tasty and cheesy.

Can I suggest you remove my knickers from the fridge to allow the cheese smell on them to mature?

It's cheesy as I fuck large bags of wotsits

Considered it done Stallion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's as long as mine I don't bother unless we are already chatting. They can delete my message if I've contravened their profile rules. I don't get mad if people don't read mine. "
I've read it ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, some ppl even send friend request without ever talking to you and when you put a status about not accepting friend request without talking first,

they usually send you 'Hi, accept my friend request, please!' Haha

Accept my friend invite you knob

I did but only because I love your cheesy bell end !

Don't know the meaning of that last word but I got hard reading it! Thank you as I haven't been hard for years

Except with you yesterday #youknowwhoyouare

Btw you forgot your knickers at home so I have put it in the fridge to keep it fresh.

Wotsits are cheesy corn puffs. Very tasty and cheesy.

Can I suggest you remove my knickers from the fridge to allow the cheese smell on them to mature?

It's cheesy as I fuck large bags of wotsits

Considered it done Stallion "

Ps: if any lurkers read this, do not send me messages because I am heterosexual who fucks men during long quickie. Many thanks.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s life.

It’s this place man it’s just a bunch of dicks and cunts. Ignore them, don’t sweat it, you get use to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s life.

It’s this place man it’s just a bunch of dicks and cunts. Ignore them, don’t sweat it, you get use to it."
Dan put some money in the swear box

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"It’s life.

It’s this place man it’s just a bunch of dicks and cunts. Ignore them, don’t sweat it, you get use to it.Dan put some money in the swear box

You should know better, when is Dan ever here

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"If it's as long as mine I don't bother unless we are already chatting. They can delete my message if I've contravened their profile rules. I don't get mad if people don't read mine. "

I mostly look at your lovely pictures

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If it's as long as mine I don't bother unless we are already chatting. They can delete my message if I've contravened their profile rules. I don't get mad if people don't read mine.

I mostly look at your lovely pictures "

You’ve never looked at mine

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"If it's as long as mine I don't bother unless we are already chatting. They can delete my message if I've contravened their profile rules. I don't get mad if people don't read mine.

I mostly look at your lovely pictures

You’ve never looked at mine

Oh, yes I have (ninja)

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Spain

We live in hope here of finding the right fem or couple with bi fem... what is the point of not reading a profile, it should describe what you are looking for...if it doesn’t then why bother wasting your time writing a message !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quote Oreo.. a picture tells a thousand words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We live in hope here of finding the right fem or couple with bi fem... what is the point of not reading a profile, it should describe what you are looking for...if it doesn’t then why bother wasting your time writing a message ! "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only read if they are straight... can accomodate and will meet smokers. The rest I don't really care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quote Oreo.. a picture tells a thousand words

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is oreo from the matrix?

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I always read profiles first to see if i might meet their requirements and would never msg if they said not meeting at moment out of respect for their wishes.

Its frustrating sometimes when you see a beautiful lady you like but cant msg them as you are a couple of years over age limit!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Op for those who are not meeting and don’t want to receive random messages asking to meet the site provides tools to stop it, it’s called filters

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I had a classic the other day

Says in my tagline i'm in a couple and then a bit further down mentions jack.

Someone said who's jack? When i mentioned him ,when i said "my partner its on my profile" he then said "oh are you naughty behind his back?" ...block.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

All these years and I never got past the pictures

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By *issyme555TV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

I read profiles. Single chaps don't seem to or maybe it's a try your luck with everyone and you might hook one

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

A lot don’t read profiles which makes it nice when you know someone has.

What gets me is when they say the have read it but think what is in the profile doesn’t apply to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always appreciate when somebody messages and refers to something we wrote in our profile. They are far more likely to get a positive and friendly response, unlike the message we got this morning that said. "Can I Fuck ur missus in the ass until she bleeds". The got told to go Fuck their own ass lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve started reading them. Honestly, I’m on chapter 4, it’s not as good as Harry Potter, but light and shade n all that.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Op for those who are not meeting and don’t want to receive random messages asking to meet the site provides tools to stop it, it’s called filters

Yup, if I'm not meeting I just block everyone from messaging then I don't need to hide my profile.

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