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Can I Freshen Up At Yours?

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Chatting to this guy for a while.

Our paths never crossed.

Until today.

Out for a while this PM and home thinking, yes, i'll invite you round.

30 mins notice, he said earlier, to freshen up and come round.

So I invite him round.

And he asks:

"Can I Freshen Up At Yours?"

And I'm thinking, this ain't a hotel.

Anyone else ever get anything like that?

What did you think?

I've kinda gone off him now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he’s hoping you join him in the shower?

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

I've been to meets from work and showered at their's, I would not have a problem with it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Guys often have a shower when they get to mine either after a long journey or they have come from work . Ive always said they are welcome to have a shower. Thought that was normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can’t see the problem with this.

Most people complain about lack of hygiene, not someone wanting to freshen up a bit once arriving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has travelled a distance,or come from a day at the office,not a problem! ...I'd even offer to help!

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By *hrewsgirl0Woman
over a year ago

shrewsbury

It’s obviously so his mrs doesn’t know what he’s up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be quite pleased if they said they wanted to shower. I’d know they were clean and also that they wanted to be clean...

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.


"It’s obviously so his mrs doesn’t know what he’s up too"
. How is it obvious??

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

means i will get to see him naked before, um, er, you know what

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

changed my mind

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I’ll offer to undress him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think that's there's anything wrong with him asking could he freshen up at yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"changed my mind"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather someone want to freshen up at mine than come to me stinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can’t see the problem with this.

Most people complain about lack of hygiene, not someone wanting to freshen up a bit once arriving.

"

To be fair. I would insist that they showered at mine first. For hygiene reasons.. That way I would be absolutely sure they would be clean and I would be able to check all parts before they came anywhere near me..

Mistress Amelia x

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Wow, I am so glad I posted this. I changed my mind after reading your replies.

He went into shower, came out and . . . well, I am warmed up now for the rest of Saturday evening!

Enjoy, Fab friends!

slàinte mhath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, I am so glad I posted this. I changed my mind after reading your replies.

He went into shower, came out and . . . well, I am warmed up now for the rest of Saturday evening!

Enjoy, Fab friends!

slàinte mhath "

Woop! Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a man ask to freshen up before we shagged. He dangled his cock under the bathroom sink tap.

I'm so fucking worth it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Wow, I am so glad I posted this. I changed my mind after reading your replies.

He went into shower, came out and . . . well, I am warmed up now for the rest of Saturday evening!

Enjoy, Fab friends!

slàinte mhath "
has he gone already or are you posting with him still there?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Is he working all day before or travelling a long way?

If not id say freshen up at your own house lol.

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

No, he's gone.

I've even changed the towels.

In case the next one needs a wash to.

Wow!

Clean as a daisy, he was.

I don't mind the extra washing lolol

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

i understand what happened now.

He was messaging from his work.

I asked how much notice he needed.

30 mins to freshen up and travel

I assumed he meant before he came

He was thinking here

Communication breakdown.

Lolololol

I'll not make that mistake again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a man ask to freshen up before we shagged. He dangled his cock under the bathroom sink tap.

I'm so fucking worth it. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I once had a man ask to freshen up before we shagged. He dangled his cock under the bathroom sink tap.

I'm so fucking worth it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet wipes in the car

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

He just needed a wee.

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I think typing your posts OP have taken more time than your meet was

Think you should call him

Dandruff

Wash and Go

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

Please tell me that’s true!

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"I think typing your posts OP have taken more time than your meet was

Think you should call him

Dandruff

Wash and Go

"

He had this thing about calling me Miss.

That makes me cringe, honestly.

But I used it to my advantage.

He told me he was about to come.

So I told him to control himself.

He did.

And then I went again.

He gave up calling me Miss after that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You mention your place not being a hotel. We get quite a few people suggesting they could visit us on a little holiday. One couple in particular said they'd like to stay a week but generously offered to get a hotel if we didn't get on .

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"You mention your place not being a hotel. We get quite a few people suggesting they could visit us on a little holiday. One couple in particular said they'd like to stay a week but generously offered to get a hotel if we didn't get on . "

lololol

I get complete strangers asking if they can stay the night

And I'm thinking to myself, wow, seriously?

I could be Rose West.

He could be Fred West.

No, just come shag me. Shag me again, yes. If it takes you all night, over and over again, well that's fabulous!

We might like each other.

And I might feel comfortable sleeping with you.

But you're asking a lot.

Especially, when I've have not met you.

Still, never say never.

Maybe they are travelling and want to have a drink.

That's cool.

But it's a bit pushy.

I sleep with people I know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You mention your place not being a hotel. We get quite a few people suggesting they could visit us on a little holiday. One couple in particular said they'd like to stay a week but generously offered to get a hotel if we didn't get on .

lololol

I get complete strangers asking if they can stay the night

And I'm thinking to myself, wow, seriously?

I could be Rose West.

He could be Fred West.

No, just come shag me. Shag me again, yes. If it takes you all night, over and over again, well that's fabulous!

We might like each other.

And I might feel comfortable sleeping with you.

But you're asking a lot.

Especially, when I've have not met you.

Still, never say never.

Maybe they are travelling and want to have a drink.

That's cool.

But it's a bit pushy.

I sleep with people I know.

"

People often used to try and persuade us to stay at theirs overnight. We agreed once, never again. I won't go in to details but we'd both had a couple of glasses of wine so couldn't drive and ended up sitting up, fully clothed in their spare room while they bashed out the zeds in their room.

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By *ara J OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"

People often used to try and persuade us to stay at theirs overnight. We agreed once, never again. I won't go in to details but we'd both had a couple of glasses of wine so couldn't drive and ended up sitting up, fully clothed in their spare room while they bashed out the zeds in their room."

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger

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