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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of lurkers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct - which is why some will say ‘ignore the advice here and do what works for you’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"
I havnt asked you yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I havnt asked you yet "

Asked me what?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Correct, most don’t use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I havnt asked you yet

Asked me what?"
too late you said yes I can ask anything now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I havnt asked you yet

Asked me what?

too late you said yes I can ask anything now "

Not how it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I havnt asked you yet

Asked me what?

too late you said yes I can ask anything now

Not how it works "
damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first forum post. Must try harder x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep majority got sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first forum post. Must try harder x"

Your cock is huge

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"My first forum post. Must try harder x"

Congratulations, you’ve popped your cherry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums. "

What's the punchline?

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

What's the punchline? "

I thought I’d just make an observation and leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored! "

Yep! Happens a lot ... It used to bother me now I don't give a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't know what they're missing, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

What's the punchline?

I thought I’d just make an observation and leave it there. "

I was kidding, hence the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though"

I love a bit of Lurpak butter

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd like fab to shove a few more in to the forum, perhaps automatically guiding them to it.

I think their inability to post, until having met certain criteria is an issue for many, as they probably look after joining, finding they can't post.

There are many happy to communicate as little as possible here, such as the FAF crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know "

Best lube innit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?"

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms"

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums. "

30000 people?? I reckon there’s few who have at least 5 profiles going at anyone time! Perverts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like fab to shove a few more in to the forum, perhaps automatically guiding them to it.

I think their inability to post, until having met certain criteria is an issue for many, as they probably look after joining, finding they can't post.

There are many happy to communicate as little as possible here, such as the FAF crowd."

I’ve never understood the seven day thing. From day one you can spray cock pics around and send FAF messages to your hearts content but can’t hear for the forum and ask whether it is a good idea or not.

I know it isn’t a ridiculous amount of time but in an always on society, patience isn’t something people have as much of these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?"

FaB you are SUCH a naughty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

FaB you are SUCH a naughty boy "

Moi naughty ? I am not the one who use butter as lube. I prefer sea salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms"

Funny as fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

Funny as fuck lol "

She was youngggggg, I don’t think she even knew it was mayo that was being used until the guy told everyone at school...she was too busy on the phone to her friend to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms"

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

FaB you are SUCH a naughty boy

Moi naughty ? I am not the one who use butter as lube. I prefer sea salt "

At least it's butter and not margarine

Do you like the real rocky sea salt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

Funny as fuck lol

She was youngggggg, I don’t think she even knew it was mayo that was being used until the guy told everyone at school...she was too busy on the phone to her friend to notice "
hahahahaha

Hogwarts sounds stranger every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that! "

Why would you be aroused?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?! "

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

FaB you are SUCH a naughty boy

Moi naughty ? I am not the one who use butter as lube. I prefer sea salt

At least it's butter and not margarine

Do you like the real rocky sea salt? "

Magarine is the product of the Devil !

Nope, I prefer the pink one

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I lurked for a long while before posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il never forget my first thread so ashamed

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

"

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement. "

Oh ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a select and bizzar lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit you guys are on form today i can barly function enough for a mornin piss

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement.

Oh ffs "

But it’s the girth of the maggot that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement.

Oh ffs

But it’s the girth of the maggot that counts. "

Ever so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

Someone in my year at school used mayo as lube and ended up with maggots...she realised she had maggots because she kept having random orgasms

I don’t know whether to be aroused or disgusted by that!

Why would you be aroused?!

It’s when you said orgasm, I love it when you talk dirty!

A girl that can orgasm from a maggot you say!

There’s a few men that will take that as encouragement.

Oh ffs

But it’s the girth of the maggot that counts. "

Depends how much its eaten

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

It’s funny how when you start a thread you never know where it will go.

I certainly didn’t imagine this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how when you start a thread you never know where it will go.

I certainly didn’t imagine this. "

I’m sorry for spoiling things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a girl called Elsa she was into Alka Seltzer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how when you start a thread you never know where it will go.

I certainly didn’t imagine this.

I’m sorry for spoiling things "

The rotten mayo did that not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

I’m beginning to see why it’s such a small percentage of Fab that come into the forums now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how when you start a thread you never know where it will go.

I certainly didn’t imagine this.

I’m sorry for spoiling things

The rotten mayo did that not you"

I don’t think they mayo was rotten....but I never asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how when you start a thread you never know where it will go.

I certainly didn’t imagine this.

I’m sorry for spoiling things

The rotten mayo did that not you

I don’t think they mayo was rotten....but I never asked "
only if left there too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of lurkers though

I love and use a bit of Lurpak butter for anal sex so you know

Best lube innit ?

FaB you are SUCH a naughty boy

Moi naughty ? I am not the one who use butter as lube. I prefer sea salt

At least it's butter and not margarine

Do you like the real rocky sea salt?

Magarine is the product of the Devil !

Nope, I prefer the pink one "

Totally agree with you re: margarine

Oh, never seen pink sea salt (Googles Tesco)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m beginning to see why it’s such a small percentage of Fab that come into the forums now! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... this was unexpected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... this was unexpected "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... this was unexpected

Sorry "

Why its not often i laugh this early so il say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well... this was unexpected

Sorry

Why its not often i laugh this early so il say thanks "

I’m glad I’ve made you laugh! I’m giggling away in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is just more evidence more people should be on here its such great interactive entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin...."

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee? "

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is just more evidence more people should be on here its such great interactive entertainment"

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker...."

Go on then, what happened to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker....

Go on then, what happened to it? "

Well...she was having fun with it. Got a bit carried away...and had to phone her friend to come fish it out for her as she couldn’t....

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker....

Go on then, what happened to it?

Well...she was having fun with it. Got a bit carried away...and had to phone her friend to come fish it out for her as she couldn’t.... "

Did he ask if she wanted mayo on that?!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I spoken to quite a few who never use the forums and don't see the point! They don't know what they're missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker....

Go on then, what happened to it?

Well...she was having fun with it. Got a bit carried away...and had to phone her friend to come fish it out for her as she couldn’t....

Did he ask if she wanted mayo on that?! "

He? It was a she!

And haha no. My friend who did the ‘fishing’ I had grown up with and was a few years older than me. I was so young and naive (pretty much as I am now) and it scarred me for life, hearing this over the speakers at a very busy fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the men who message me don’t use the forum.

Some do use the chat rooms but mostly to perve not wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My high school is actually in a posh town, but we’re all common as fuck, I haven’t even told you the story about the girl who lost a gherkin....

I’m guessing she didn’t lose it down the back of the settee?

No, she didn’t...

We all found out about it because the fair was in town, everyone was d*unk and on the dodgems and her friend gave her a shout out on the speaker....

Go on then, what happened to it?

Well...she was having fun with it. Got a bit carried away...and had to phone her friend to come fish it out for her as she couldn’t.... "

It’s what friends are for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me the forums are the best part of fab,I do tend to lurk around them alot,usually get ignored but I'm still here

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Well for me the forums are the best part of fab,I do tend to lurk around them alot,usually get ignored but I'm still here "

Today you’re not being ignored. Hello Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well for me the forums are the best part of fab,I do tend to lurk around them alot,usually get ignored but I'm still here

Today you’re not being ignored. Hello Red "

Hi Vine,I hope that you are well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally love the forums, they’re a great source of entertainment. Though I’ve been struggling for a few weeks in here, so I’ve lurked more. Hopefully it’s brightening up again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like fab to shove a few more in to the forum, perhaps automatically guiding them to it.

I think their inability to post, until having met certain criteria is an issue for many, as they probably look after joining, finding they can't post.

There are many happy to communicate as little as possible here, such as the FAF crowd.

I’ve never understood the seven day thing. From day one you can spray cock pics around and send FAF messages to your hearts content but can’t hear for the forum and ask whether it is a good idea or not.

I know it isn’t a ridiculous amount of time but in an always on society, patience isn’t something people have as much of these days."

I think it's a good idea. It stops banned forum users from getting a new profile and using the forums!

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"I normally love the forums, they’re a great source of entertainment. Though I’ve been struggling for a few weeks in here, so I’ve lurked more. Hopefully it’s brightening up again x "

When I have a lot going on, I rarely venture onto the site. Other times, and especially the last few months I've not felt that I can positively contribute and not been well in myself.

Now I'm feeling the love again, I have returned, so can understand this totally. I lurked a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored! "

This. There's a LOT more people that just read, than people realise.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Just in case there are any. Hello lurkers!

*waves into the ether.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

It's hardly the friendliest of places. If your face doesnt fit, you say something even slightly contraversial or aren't part of the clique (oh god I said the C word!) then it's sure to put you off. 30,000 members and maybe approx 1% actively using the forums is pretty poor. So how do you all plan on welcoming new people to the forum and making it more inclusive? It's boring listening to the same people over and over. New blood keeps things fresh.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"It's hardly the friendliest of places. If your face doesnt fit, you say something even slightly contraversial or aren't part of the clique (oh god I said the C word!) then it's sure to put you off. 30,000 members and maybe approx 1% actively using the forums is pretty poor. So how do you all plan on welcoming new people to the forum and making it more inclusive? It's boring listening to the same people over and over. New blood keeps things fresh."

Good morning

I think it's good to read some alternate views and to be honest anything I either don't like, that offends me, or I have no interest in then I won't respond.

I don't consider myself part of a clique and like that fresh communication, you do find it from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mayo and gherkins. This is why I can't leave!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just in case there are any. Hello lurkers!

*waves into the ether. "

Hi. ( waves back)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YesI havnt asked you yet "

She’s very keen to join the debate but not debate the topic. One of her many characteristics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums. "

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums "

Failed posts and threads are how you grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums

Failed posts and threads are how you grow

"

Do you speak from personal experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums

Failed posts and threads are how you grow

Do you speak from personal experience? "

Yes as explained earlier my first thread still haunts my mind

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored! "

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored! "

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums

Failed posts and threads are how you grow

Do you speak from personal experience?

Yes as explained earlier my first thread still haunts my mind"

What was your first post about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored!

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something! "

Who said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums.

Yes, because newbies and single guys get gunned down by forum police.. Bananaman is a perfect victim example of the theoretical violence on forums

Failed posts and threads are how you grow

Do you speak from personal experience?

Yes as explained earlier my first thread still haunts my mind

What was your first post about?"
typical new to fab think everyones a pervert who wants to fuck like rabbits 24 7 type thing il say no more on the subject it pains me still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hardly the friendliest of places. If your face doesnt fit, you say something even slightly contraversial or aren't part of the clique (oh god I said the C word!) then it's sure to put you off. 30,000 members and maybe approx 1% actively using the forums is pretty poor. So how do you all plan on welcoming new people to the forum and making it more inclusive? It's boring listening to the same people over and over. New blood keeps things fresh."

A lot of people complain about perceived cliques and feeling left out on here. But to me that is not really true. If you are new to the Forums, you have to remember that you are joining a group of people who already know each other and will likely seek to chat and flirt with one another. That does not make them bad people nor mean they are a clique and don't want to chat to you or include you.

You say you find the same people talking boring! What are the already existing Forumites who already know each other supposed to do, take a vow of silence and not acknowledge or talk to each other if a new person enters a thread?

The Forums can be fun, you just have to accept people won't always acknowledge you every time you post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hardly the friendliest of places. If your face doesnt fit, you say something even slightly contraversial or aren't part of the clique (oh god I said the C word!) then it's sure to put you off. 30,000 members and maybe approx 1% actively using the forums is pretty poor. So how do you all plan on welcoming new people to the forum and making it more inclusive? It's boring listening to the same people over and over. New blood keeps things fresh.

A lot of people complain about perceived cliques and feeling left out on here. But to me that is not really true. If you are new to the Forums, you have to remember that you are joining a group of people who already know each other and will likely seek to chat and flirt with one another. That does not make them bad people nor mean they are a clique and don't want to chat to you or include you.

You say you find the same people talking boring! What are the already existing Forumites who already know each other supposed to do, take a vow of silence and not acknowledge or talk to each other if a new person enters a thread?

The Forums can be fun, you just have to accept people won't always acknowledge you every time you post. "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's hardly the friendliest of places. If your face doesnt fit, you say something even slightly contraversial or aren't part of the clique (oh god I said the C word!) then it's sure to put you off. 30,000 members and maybe approx 1% actively using the forums is pretty poor. So how do you all plan on welcoming new people to the forum and making it more inclusive? It's boring listening to the same people over and over. New blood keeps things fresh.

A lot of people complain about perceived cliques and feeling left out on here. But to me that is not really true. If you are new to the Forums, you have to remember that you are joining a group of people who already know each other and will likely seek to chat and flirt with one another. That does not make them bad people nor mean they are a clique and don't want to chat to you or include you.

You say you find the same people talking boring! What are the already existing Forumites who already know each other supposed to do, take a vow of silence and not acknowledge or talk to each other if a new person enters a thread?

The Forums can be fun, you just have to accept people won't always acknowledge you every time you post. "

You've hit the nail on the head. I've had some really good laughs on the forums and made some new friends through them. If I start a thread I like to engage with the people who join it.....though some people seems to take offence at that. If people don't like what I post, skip it as it's no skin off my nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been off and on the forums for years. It's great fun on the while. There are a few negatives when people can be disrespectful to others, bring their dramas into here, and show lack of respect to other forum users.

It can be hard for newbies but interaction is the key, but I have seen them ignored. It would be good if more Fab users got involved. I always try to include everyone and bring fun to the forums, and I've made some great friends along the way.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Well I think that you’re a lovely bunch of fuckers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mayo and gherkins. This is why I can't leave!!!!! "

I’m glad I’m making you stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of people who like to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a great education on here sometimes

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Yep majority got sense "

some.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Its a great education on here sometimes "

sure is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in all

We’re just another brick in the wall

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Well I'm certainly a regular. A Twat . But a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All in all

We’re just another brick in the wall"

Well if you ever need a good plastering theres plenty volunteers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All in all

We’re just another brick in the wall

Well if you ever need a good plastering theres plenty volunteers "

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are the main thing that keeps me logging into this site. They are so much fun. Sometimes sexy, sometimes thought provoking, and sometimes just hilariously strange. Like a word box of chocolates, you never quite know what's coming next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a great education on here sometimes "

And Bananaman is a dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums. "

Its quality not quantity all the time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the chat rooms

Some days can't get in.

Five directing rooms

One chat room.

You can't tell me over 2oo chat at once

Lurkers

Prevail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love forumites there tho only people i put real effort in to meet as i feel i know them better

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lots of people lurk on the forums. 95% of my friends dont even know they are here or if they do they dont post. Ive never actually mentioned the forums to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Teeny tiny bit of fab uses the forum. Lots of folk on here forget that.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"On a good day there are over 30,000 people logged onto fab. There must be several hundred regular forum users. That’s a pretty small percentage of the user base.

The vast majority of Fab users must rarely use the forums. "

A prett fair assessment I’d say OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love forumites there tho only people i put real effort in to meet as i feel i know them better"

Thank you brother #respect

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored!

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something!

Who said that "

Me! Shut up or I’ll insult your suit! Men hate that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people lurk on the forums. 95% of my friends dont even know they are here or if they do they dont post. Ive never actually mentioned the forums to them"

I was on here for 8 months before I even bothered to look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored!

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something!

Who said that

Me! Shut up or I’ll insult your suit! Men hate that! "

I’ve noticed that I get ignored or overlooked far more since I’ve hidden and gone all silhouettey.

A great deal of interaction is based on others recognising you and trusting what you’re saying. I think for any newbie there’s a bedding in period where others ‘sus them out’

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I’ve noticed that I get ignored or overlooked far more since I’ve hidden and gone all silhouettey.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed that I get ignored or overlooked far more since I’ve hidden and gone all silhouettey.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think an awful lot just read the forums but are too scared to join in!..They may think they'll get shot down for saying something, or worse still ignored!

I get ignored all the bloody time! I think most of us do at least occasionally!

I only ‘mind’ if I’ve spent time penning what I think is an intelligent and salient point - only for it to be totally overlooked or - worse still - for someone to ignore the point and comment on my arse or something!

Who said that

Me! Shut up or I’ll insult your suit! Men hate that! "

Please noooooooooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed that I get ignored or overlooked far more since I’ve hidden and gone all silhouettey.

"

Step back into the light my child

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