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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How old where you when you realized exactly what you wanted sexually. Ive been through many phases in my life but this is the first time ever ive been truelly contented sexually and no longer seek anthing more. Its a strange feeling after seeking all your life to actually find what you want. Ive been doing a lot of thinking lately.

It took me till i got to 53

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say at 51, a couple of years ago. took me a long time same as you to get here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age 45.

I knew younger but never really had the opportunity or the nerve to ask.

I think you get to a point in life where if you don't try, you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 I think.. I became less conscious and more focussed on what I actually wanted rather than what I thought I should want.. now I wouldn’t look back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was my mid 30s I think ..that's when I experimented more and saw sex completely differently than just purely physical attraction

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd say around about 42-43

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

23 for me - Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now. I'm finally doing something I'd repressed for so long. It's liberating and so exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't reached that point yet. I'm still open to suggestion and experimenting and being guided in finding that place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old where you when you realized exactly what you wanted sexually. Ive been through many phases in my life but this is the first time ever ive been truelly contented sexually and no longer seek anthing more. Its a strange feeling after seeking all your life to actually find what you want. Ive been doing a lot of thinking lately.

It took me till i got to 53"

Is it something 'new' you hadn't realised or more that you've ticked off everything on your bucket list?

Hope it's a nice feeling, not just strange.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"How old where you when you realized exactly what you wanted sexually. Ive been through many phases in my life but this is the first time ever ive been truelly contented sexually and no longer seek anthing more. Its a strange feeling after seeking all your life to actually find what you want. Ive been doing a lot of thinking lately.

It took me till i got to 53

Is it something 'new' you hadn't realised or more that you've ticked off everything on your bucket list?

Hope it's a nice feeling, not just strange. "
When i was ill last year and took my long break i spent a lot of time thinking. Im multi dimensional and many different things in my life satisfy me. My wild days are over. The guys i have in my life satisfy betweem them all my wants.

Its a nice feeling

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

At 14 I wanted Pamela Anderson and Jet from Gladiators sexually. So 14.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old where you when you realized exactly what you wanted sexually. Ive been through many phases in my life but this is the first time ever ive been truelly contented sexually and no longer seek anthing more. Its a strange feeling after seeking all your life to actually find what you want. Ive been doing a lot of thinking lately.

It took me till i got to 53

Is it something 'new' you hadn't realised or more that you've ticked off everything on your bucket list?

Hope it's a nice feeling, not just strange. When i was ill last year and took my long break i spent a lot of time thinking. Im multi dimensional and many different things in my life satisfy me. My wild days are over. The guys i have in my life satisfy betweem them all my wants.

Its a nice feeling"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think joining the site, and of course, meeting the people I have met, made me more mature sexually speaking, more aware of my sexuality.

I certainly knew before joining what I didn't want to and that hasn't changed but I have a clearer idea of what sex is and you can quickly become or treat other as a sexually comodity.

Some of my principles can easily get overrided by my lust and make me feel somehow uncomfortable.

So now, at 32 years old, I try to avoid those situations and now exactly what I want and what I am looking for.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I settled on what I liked at the age of 37 or 38.

I look back on my life now and think that period when I was 40-44 was the optimal time of my life.

When the paths of physical fitness and wisdom crossed. Now they are growing apart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I know now what I really want and what I’m ready for next, it’s been an epic journey over the last 7 years or so. I’ve learned a lot about myself and my body in that time.

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