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By *eavensScent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

I think I did once after being spanked for a good half hour during a threesome (4 hands on me at once!) and very bruised the next day!

But I'd like to know how it felt if you have ever been there so I know for sure...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not something I’ve ever experienced (it’s not really my scene) but there are some good articles on t’interweb about it that I read when someone mentioned it before.

It sounds like an almost trance like state and there are dangers too as well the upsides - as safewords can be ‘lost’ sub can submit to more damage than they can take under normal circumstances. Enjoy, but go careful!!

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Thank you so much, that's great!

I've heard the same and I was quite light headed and 'spaced out' but in a good way...

Don't think my boyfriend would ever push too far as he knows my limits but it's worth noting!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I would probably not trust articles on the internet. Best speaking to other people. You may want to repost this on the bdsm thread.

But my understanding of 'subspace by talking to people is that it is different for everyone. It can also depend on the circumstances. It can vary from light headedness to disappearing in a world of their own. Unless pre negotiated the dom/me/top should stop the moment the sub/ bottom bbecomes unresponsive. It is the duty of a responsible dom/me/top to provide aftercare as required. Sweets and energy drinks are standard to help restore balance.

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"I would probably not trust articles on the internet. Best speaking to other people. You may want to repost this on the bdsm thread.

But my understanding of 'subspace by talking to people is that it is different for everyone. It can also depend on the circumstances. It can vary from light headedness to disappearing in a world of their own. Unless pre negotiated the dom/me/top should stop the moment the sub/ bottom bbecomes unresponsive. It is the duty of a responsible dom/me/top to provide aftercare as required. Sweets and energy drinks are standard to help restore balance."

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens with me if we manage a really good session! It really is the most amazing feeling! Fuzz is very aware of how I'm feeling during a bondage session and always recognises when I'm drifting too far so will cuddle, stroke, feed me sweet things! Good aftercare is essential xx

Peach x

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Happens with me if we manage a really good session! It really is the most amazing feeling! Fuzz is very aware of how I'm feeling during a bondage session and always recognises when I'm drifting too far so will cuddle, stroke, feed me sweet things! Good aftercare is essential xx

Peach x"

Sounds blissful! X

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